How Do I Get My Wife Off Drugs?

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My wife was told 5 years ago she had Bipolar.She has post dramatic stress disorder as well as adhd. We have two children. She has been on several medications and nothing has worked. She has recently came clean on many men she has slept with. She was addicted to prescription meds went to rehab.Since then I have discovered she is taking 12 different meds now. Not all are narcotic but she can not seem to cope with day to day life. Me two childeren cant stand to be around her and ask me why i dont divorce her. They are age 9 and 10 and im affraid if i do,she might get the kids half the time. She sleeps until atleast noon each day and im very concerened. Will she ever get better ? Need advice on what to do….

I’ve been married for 2.5 years and we have a 2 year old, last may ’09 my wife had a flare up with her colon (she has ulcerative colitis) I knew she had the disease when we married but never experienced the flare up. She was is tons of pain and I have to work mon-fri, so she moved home with her mother who lives a few blocks away. She was put on steroids and other drugs and we began fighting mostly due to the fact I felt she should be home with me. I mean we married through sickness and health right? But her condition has fluctuated greatly in the past 9 months, we speak everyday 3-4x, but she says that she has no interest in moving home until she is feeling 100% better. I feel I have been very patient throughout and have not always acted the right way or said the right things but I have been here for her. Her sister lives with her mother also and helps with the baby because she doesn’t feel good, and I feel I can’t compete with this, I mean there are 2 extra sets of hands over there and I am only one man. Additionally her father passed the year before our wedding and I feel she likes being over there to make sure they aren’t alone (she’s the oldest) and bring joy to their lives (our son). The doctor said she is on the verge of getting better, but I have been hearing this for a year. So basically I am tired and wore down, we did go to a marriage retreat in October which has improved our relationship, but she still wont move home……should I give her an ultimatum? Move home or lets move on? Oh and also she won’t let me come and pick up my son and hang with him alone, she thinks I won’t watch him close enough, but I do see them both 5-6x a week

When she’s doing lots and lots of heroin and you know she secretly wants to bang all of your friends, would you be okay with that?

It’s a drug infused hippie honeymoon, who wouldn’t want that?

I’m asking for my bestie, Jo Jo

His second wife Cindy, the daughter of a wealthy Budweiser beer distributor, was addicted to prescription narcotics and even stole hard drugs from a medical charity that she ran. McCain acknowledges that she didn’t want him to run, and only agreed once he promised that she doesn’t have to go to New Hampshire or Iowa.
Source:http://www.realchange.org/mccain.htm

Why do I get mad when my new wife spends money on her sons, my stepsons?

There real DAD is a total DEADBEAT, never payes child support, never calls, drugs and alcohol.

I have a daughter from past marriage and pay child support!

My wife was younger when she had her boys, now 30yrs old.

I really get mad when she wants to spend money on her boys why?

Money is not a problem, she gets really pissed if I buy my daughter something and not her boys!

Why am I having these raw emotionals, wife was a hooker, stripper before I married her, what is going on in my mind?

Should I stay married, I seem to be really pissed that I am the provider, I am not saying that I am EVIL, I am just really pissed, how could the real DAD be such a loser!

I am a self made success, Why would this DEADBEAT, drop off and not provide for his kids somewhat?

What should I do this not emotional sound for my wife, my daughter, stepsons.

She usually drinks during the day when I am at work and is visibly intoxicated when I come home.

She swore she wouldn’t get fat after marriage, but here we are, a year later and she’s tankin-up. I think she just trapped me to let herself go on an eatin’ binge.

My wife is currently in rehab for alcohol, bulimia, and depression. She has been having problems for years and I finally told her if she doesn’t get help and stop, that I was going to get a divorce. She has now been there for 4 days and I still have no idea what’s going on? I know she’s in detox, but they haven’t told me how long she will be in there. Does anyone know how long someone should be in rehab with these problems? I think she should stay there for at least 90 days, but she seems to think she can get out in a couple weeks. ??????

He laughed when i yell at for smoking reefer, so I beet him with the walking stick, my grandpa beat with me. My wife say it is wrong to do to child, It cant bee bad he only bleeded out a little bit, and smoking the pot is bad for the soul, I don ot want to him be drunk alcoholic!
why swear at me?

my wife is shooting heroin 2 weeks straight now, just found out. she said she does not need to go away. over the past year she has drank alcoholicly, abused cocaine, out all night over and over again. neglects me, and our 2 small children, i feel her insanity has taken over we are all prisoners to her behavior. now that her arms are covered in needle marks, i just want her to go to detox but she won’t. i am fearful to leave her with our 3 year old and 20 month old, does anyone have any suggestions for me. 800′s ? support, advice?

for 8 months while he was seeing the current Mrs McCain and about the current Mrs. McCain having stolen prescription drugs from a medical clinic when she was addicted to pain killers back in 1994?

Why do I get mad when my new wife spends money on her sons, my stepsons?

There real DAD is a total DEADBEAT, never payes child support, never calls, drugs and alcohol.

I have a daughter from past marriage and pay child support!

My wife was younger when she had her boys, now 30yrs old.

I really get mad when she wants to spend money on her boys why?

Money is not a problem, she gets really pissed if I buy my daughter something and not her boys!

Why am I having these raw emotionals, wife was a hooker, stripper before I married her, what is going on in my mind?

Should I stay married, I seem to be really pissed that I am the provider, I am not saying that I am EVIL, I am just really pissed, how could the real DAD be such a loser!

I am a self made success, Why would this DEADBEAT, drop off and not provide for his kids somewhat?

What should I do this not emotional sound for my wife, my daughter, stepsons.

she walks in from going out on a drinking binge with her friends ,passes gas and tells me to quit whining…….when will I get to go out!…Doesnt she know Iv e been stuck at home ironing the bath towels??

I believe that my wife has a big problem with her sleeping pill addiction. She has been in with her councilor sense November. In December she had a relapse and abused some painkillers she got from a being in a car accident she admitted to abusing them. Two months ago I found her lying to me about money issues and asked her to move out. I wonted her to get real about her addiction so she joined AA I wonted her to do the 9090 programs. She was to clamed she was too busy to do the so she would go to 3 meeting a week witch she did for a while. She also was going to join a gym to work on her weight problem and did but only went once. Last week she only made to one AA meeting. I feel like she is now using again based on her patterns from privies use. I wont her to go to rehab and get her life back together I don’t feel that she is going to be able to straiten her life up with out devoting a very large amount of time to this. Last time I talked with her doctor she told me that my wife would not qualify for rehab that her addiction was not sever enough and that she has been clean for a while. My wife lies to me about once a week, is going to AA but has not made any relationship with the people their, and I believe that she is using again. What can I do to get her in to a rehab program, will she qualify? Why am I the only one who thinks this problem is a big as it is??
she dose have very good ins

I was reading an article, and I found it really sad. A man marries his wife when she was over weight. They have 3 kids back to back, and she gains even more weight. He says he use to LOVE her at her heaviest and didn’t want her to lose any weight. She’s so heavy that she now has high blood pressure, and becomes diabetic. Well she decides to take matters into her own hands, and loses 200 lbs with a strict diet, exercise, and herbs to detox the body. She then has a tummy tuck and a breast reduction (against her spouses wishes). After the weight loss men notice how attractive his wife is. He becomes jealous and insecure. After a very nasty argument he tells his wife he didn’t love her anymore, because she was no longer “fat enough for him”. He moves out and files for divorce.

My question: Would you risk your health to keep someone like that husband happy?

I know I wouldn’t. What’s your opinion?

My wife takes drugs to replace the hormones her pituitary gland doesnt make. This gland is responsible for all the sex hormones. So basically she has no sex drive and when she tries to please me which is about once every 2-3 weeks she she initiates with a luke warm offer that is at best not sincere and at worst cold. We are married for two years and considering adopting a child but I am really struggling with the no sex thing. Is this normal for married couples in their thrities that are married only two years? I have a pretty healthy sex drive and although I am not considering ever cheating on her I dont see how I can last in this relationship without a healthy sex life and the feelings of love that come with it.

My wife is working on overcoming a sleeping pill addiction need advise. I told her that I wonted a divorce that I could no longer live with the lye and deception. She told me she would do anything to keep me. I told her I wonted her to go to a 30day rehab program she agreed. We set up a meeting with her therapist for later that day. The therapist did not think that she would qualify because she was not currently using and that her problem was not to that level. I said the I would like her to do an out patient program and make some big life changes and relay work on this addiction problem. She said she should start going to 12 steps AA meeting. So my wife stated this she has been going for two weeks 3 meeting a week I wonted her to do 90-90 but after the next therapy session with her therapist she said that in our rural are it is nearly imposable to go to that many meeting that 3 meeting a week would problem b
During this time she has been going to the same concaler, I have had regular conversation with this therapist about what has been going on. In December when she was abusing the pain killer I wonted to send her to a 30 day rehab program but she did not agree for 2 reasons because all the pills were gone, and because she didn’t feel that it was that big of a problem “just a little slip up”. In the process of this recovery my wife has made me a list of thing she would do to improve our life and get it back on track on of witch would be to finish her resume and apply for a few jobs (She is currently work as a privet preschool teacher but with no benefits so I would like her to get a public school job). Well she fished her resume and cover letter and sent it to my sister in-law to correct and it was all stolen off the net. This was the last straw for me I confronted her about it and she showed her who she had copied it from on the internet she still denned that she had copied it.

He then indulges in Alcoholic Drinks

B4 the holidays she as nice and thin like a heroin addict or a cadaver in a prison camp and thats the way I like em. But she started munching like nonstop around Dec 21 and now she is a tower of lard and I cant even see the belly piercing on her anymore. And she just keeps eating. Will this stop after the holidays?

if a judge tells her that she thinks she should stay away from her husband