How Do I Get My Wife Off Drugs?

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Since then I am in two programs (suboxone) and one on one therapy and attend NA every sunday. Problem is wife has had 2 months to convince my 2 kids 13 and 11 that I am a bad man who will harm them and I am like my screen name Tony Montana who is a man to be feared.Im am the opposite man,quite and very,very lonley because my kids fear me and wont ans my e-mails or phone calls. I cry myself to sleep every night thinking how my kids hate me. Im about to be divorced soon now because of this and my lunatic wife wants 3/4 of my paycheck and stay away from her and the kids for life. Lawyer says kids have to see me but I hate to force them. I send gifts,notes and they dont reply?? My wife says I made my bed now lie in it…Well Im not going down without a fight.Kids may lose house but if they dont want to see me what can I do???? I will miss them but its the kids who will miss out on a good father. Dont I deserve a second chance???Her 2 sons from a prev marriage abuse my kids.LAZY GFN SLOBS!
Her 2 sons from prev marriage I raised,brought to 1st red sox game,wrest match,circus.Taught them to drive,gave them my old cars.They dont help out around the house,pay rent and have loud sex so my young kids can hear them. Mom does nothing because her babies are like god to her.They can murder me and she wld help them cover it up…

My ex left me after 15 years of marriage for another,the other man is not a very good role model or contributing citizen,so I refused to allow her to have custodial custody of our 3 children to protect them from the environment of drugs and alcohol related issues.I allowed her to not have to pay support,in lieu of retaining custodial custody,and she insisted she would help regardless.
She contacted the kids maybe 4 times over a period of 5 months,although she was only living a mile away.
She recently gave birth to twins and my current wife took the kids to see her and the babies in the hospital,the first time the kids seen her in about 3 mos.
Recently the ex has started picking up the kids,and she did buy them school clothes(she has gotten christmas and b day gifts),but I’m thinking the recent increase in visitation is so she can get a them to babysit.My girls won’t admit that but it seems to happen frequently around the weekend.I asked the ex to take my youngest to the dentist,she made an appointment but I ended up having to take her since the ex couldn’t make it,but she was available to get my daughter on friday but my daughter refused because she is mad at how her mom has done this repeatedly,but my oldest daughter(16) still went.
I’m almost to the point of not allowing them to go.I always told the ex she could get them whenever she wanted,but she seems to now be doing the last minute routine.I’m thinking of only allowing the girls to go over only after the ex talks to me or my wife first.
what do you suggest would be a good procedure.
Thanks for the answers.I don’t want to go to court over it,and as some say my kids are old enough to make their own minds up,but still being kids they don’t make the right choices always.
I’m not upset about the wife leaving in fact the opposite now,I just can’t picture her being like this when she was an exceptional mother before.I am bitter over the fact she didn’t seem to have time for them before but now she seems to.My son who is 18 doesn’t even bother with her,but he isn’t rude to her either,he was old enough to see things as they are,my 16 year old seems to accept things pretty well,but my youngest(13) harbors alot of abandonment issues.

Okay, so my wife loves icecream, as many of us do, but unfortunately she was diagnosed with A LOT of food allergies. While we are trying to detox her system she cannot have icecream due to the many ingeedients that it has that she’s having reactions to. This makes her very sad that she cannot enjoy MANY of the foods that she used to. So I have a challenge for those who want to take it on. Can anyone tell me how to make icecream WITHOUT using the following ingreedients:
Milk(cow), eggs, guar gum, gum acaia, soy (of any kind).

My wife CAN have goat’s milk.
If this is possible that would be great. Or if anyone knows any good substitiutes for any of these ingreedients I could try to figure it out from there.

We think she may be using Meth, but she isnt exibiting any of the signs. We did how ever find some little baggys that we think may be Meth. She isnt the type of person you would think would do this kinda thing, and she isnt exibiting any of the signs. We are thinking that maybe someone she knows tried to get her to try it and she just never did .She did have a brother that died from meth use, and we can not see her doing something like this. What do you all think we should do?

My best friend is 9 weeks pregnant and just found out her husband was using anabolic steroids when he got her pregnant. Can this cause problems and if so what?
She did ask her doc who said that it does not affect the baby, however I remembered reading an article last year that said new studies had showed a potential risk for childhood leukemia. I didn’t tell her that however, not until I researched it more.