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My 17 year old brother in law lives with me and my husband in our rented house during the school week because his parents moved into a different school district and he wanted to stay at his school. As a result I tend to have deal with teen boys all week. Well naturally I have no right to complain about this as he was already living here when me and my husband got married back in November and I am the newcomer. But my husband has a six year old daughter from a previous marriage (his first wife died in a house fire) and I wander about the negative influence teen boys can be on here.

The boys are all respectable for their age and don’t do things like drugs but you boys are boys and talk about things that I fear six year olds shouldn’t hear. My husband says its all reality and if she overhears she will just learn life lessons. He says she always occupied with her toys anyhow and isn’t interested. Tonight, since their is no school tomorrow (Good Friday) my bro in law has eight others staying over and they are staying in our attic. They have been hanging in the living room watching old movies and are loud. My stepdaughter has been in there with them, eating popcorn and soda too, and has since made comments on the film. The film has had women in swimsuits, blood scenes, and screams.

I told my husband I don’t think its a good film for her to see but he says if she didn’t like it she wouldn’t watch it. He said life is in there and we can only play mother hens for too long before she has to learn how life is and not suger coat.

Really my husbands point does make a little sense ot me but still I feel wrong about it in ways the whole thing? What do you all thing about this whole situation, teen boys hanging around with a little girl in the house, watching such a film with her in the room with them, and eating unhealthy snacks they do like pizza rolls and popcorn?
Yes, i asked this yesterday but deleted accidently trying to pick a best answer.

Fox News loose millions after dozens of advertisers pull there adds after Glen Beck called President Obama a racist.
Does Glen Beck have the right to call President Obama a racist?
Take a look at Becks history first!
Glen Beck born in Settle, Wa. 10 Feb 1964 to a Christian family. Raised in Mount Vernon, Washington a small town about six miles north of Seattle. His family were long time members of the Ku Klux Klan Bellingham, Wa. chapter in the 9th district.
He started his first job in radio while attending Sehome High school in Bellinghan, Wa. but was fired when his responsibility’s with the Ku Klux Klan interfered with his job responsibility this causing attendance problems.
After going off to Yale he became dependent on drugs and alcohol before dropping out of college. Drug used were cocaine, marijuana and crack. He doe’s claim to be free of drugs and alcohol at this time.
After two girls and a very violent marriage, his first wife divorced him.
In 2000 he denounced the Catholic Church and converted to Mormonism, around the same time he claimed to no longer be involved with the klan but refused to denounce them. With his second wife he took on two step children one adopted child and had another child of his own 30 April 2006.
After years with CNN he started with Fox News in 2009 where some say he is free to openly attack minorities.
Does Beck with his history as a racist and former or possibly present member of the Ku Klux Klan have the right to call President Obama a racist?

I have been married to a man for 8 years. The rouphest years of my life! He had a terrible drug habbit which lead to other problems, from being verbally and physically abusive to stealing, you name it. On several ocassions I have had to call the police and have him arrested. I have thrown him our of my house and we have also put this man through several drug rehabs. Needless to say nothing had worked. He had tried getting back together with me but I finally had to put my foot down and say when you get a job, and you stay clean and I don’t have to support you then maybe ill think about it. He moved out of town to his parents home, which they have never liked me. They come from a very old fashioned traditional Mexican family who can’t accept me because I have children from a previous marriage. We have plans on getting back together since he has found a job and is going to start a vocational training, Only problem is he doesn’t want to move back into town because he says he will go back to his old ways. The kids and I are willing to move out of town once he is settled. The problem is… His parents dispice me. We went to visit him and we had to stay in a hotel because I wasnt allowed in his parents home and neither were my children. They had something for easter where the whole family was invited and our daughter was welcome as well as my husband. my childrend and I were never invited. My daughter also spent spring vacation with her dad and grandparents, my husband was working and my inlaws were babysitting while my husband was at work, yet when I was up there visiting she did not want to babysit so that we could go out. I don’t understand? My husband asked if he could have my daughter for the summer and when I asked who was going to watch my daughter while he was working and in training he said his parents would. So if they did not want to watch her for that one night that we wanted to go out, (they didnt have plans ) what makes me think they will want to watch her for the summer. I’ve mentioned to him that it bothers me that they exclude us and he just blushes me off. The three days that I was up there visiting his mother was calling him constantly.. He mentioned to his mother that he had plans on us getting back together again and she said that his sisters would not accept this. Im sorry my mom passed when I was very young and I have no siblings. Is this the way it’s supposed to be? Am I overexagerating or is it time for me to walk away? Can Somebody help?

So I have posted on here many times about my issues with my husband and how we have a 7 month old daughter and he rather be with his mother then with us. I havent seen my husband in 2 weeks because he rather be with his mother. Actually, in this 2 week period, I saw him 3 times but each time was no more then 5 minutes and he only came to see me asking for money and that was all. I wouldnt give it to him, it would cause and argument and then he would tell me Im a bad wife and what kind of wife will let their husband starve. Im sorry, he is 27 years old with no job. I support me, our daughter, our home and our home bills. I cannot and will not support a grown man who is capable of working, just doesnt. We are always fighting because he says that I have given up on him because in our 7 year marriage, he has NEVER worked and he is a drug addict. All he ever did was steal from me, hurt me and take advantage of me but yet I love him so much, that I tried all those years to help him. And all I hear is “You will need me before I need you” “Your leaving me because Im down, I wont be like this forever.” Truth is, if I wanted to leave him because he had nothing, I would have left him along time ago. Im leaving him because of how he treats me. He is disrespectful, he is hurtful, mean, evil, he is a liar, he does nothing. At least if you don’t work, watch the baby during the day, do some laundry, cook something for me when I get home, clean the house. He does NONE of that. The baby is in daycare that I pay for because he wont watch her. The house is always a mess when I come home, nothing is ever cooked for me, he is still in his boxers laying in the bed watching TV when I get home from a hard day at work. I try to sleep, he calls me boring. Well I work all day then take care of a child at night, I don’t sleep all day and do nothing so yes Im tired and if I want to go to bed at 9-10 at night, I don’t consider that boring. So anyways, like said other then those 3 times that I saw him when he asked for money, I havent seen him. He calls me yesterday and begs me to come home because he misses us and wants to spend time with us. Finally I agree and he gets there, asks me to cook him a meal while he takes a shower. I did. He showered, I cooked, he ate, we had sex then he took a 3 hour nap. As he was napping, I did laundry.. He got up, put on clean clothes and said Im leaving. Im going out with my friend named Shawn. Now I never heard of Shawn, and I know all his friends. I snapped on him like you havent seen us in 2 weeks and you come here just to shower, eat, have sex and nap and then your leaving again? He was like I want to go with my friend. I said we are your family and your supposed friend is more important then us? He said that Im making nothing into something and that he is tired of arguing with me about this and that he is going. I told him the least he can do is be a man and tell me he is cheating on me. He swears that he isnt that he just wanted to go out. I said I know you are, I said go be with your whore and leave us alone. So he calls me at 8am this morning from around the corner from my house and tells me that he is coming to my job to get money. I told him to go to hell because I don’t and cant do this anymore. He never came to my job, he went to his mothers and called me and said that he was with his friend and because I told him that he was an ass hole for leaving us the way he did., thats why he didnt call me all night until this morning which I know is bull. Then he said you cant leave me, you love me too much, Im in your head. I told him that I didnt want to do this anymore and I explained to him the reasons. He said that he is ready to be the man that I deserve but I told him that I have heard it before and believed it before and he screwed me so this time, I need him to prove it. He said either your going to be with me or your not cuz I need to know. He said Im not going to sit there and try to prove to you that I want to be with you and wait for you to decide when you think I have proven enough. I said if you loved me enough, you would prove it to me. He said either you are going to stay with or not but you need to let me know because if your not, Im moving on. I said just like that, that quick. He said yes because I don’t kiss no womans ass. So I said fine, do you. I will not stay with you for fear of you being with someone else. I said come get your stuff and that was it. My question to everyone is, did I make the right decision for me and my daughter or should I have fought a little harder for my marriage? Please no smart answers. Serious answers only. Thanks so much.

She claims that since I contribute no income and have a gambling problem that the account is off limits to me.
I think she’s being a control freak but she keeps bringing up my gambling and drug problems. I say isn’t a marriage about sharing? but she throws the whole “spending the rent on booze & prostitutes” incident back in my face, & that was like 8 months ago!
So, is it reasonable for me to steal her credit cards that she keeps in her moms house?

Man Eli I hate U.
And when I think of U.
I think of U as a monster.
And when I do I go eat at Red Lobster.
Trying to keep my mind clean.
Man Eli u were so fuc*** mean.
I’ve had it with all those abuses.
U beat me up so bad and u left me bruces.
Remember that time U asked me to be your wife.
I said no and u threaten to cut my throat with a knife.
Man Eli I was tired living that life.
I was at the mall and I hear my cell phone ring.
I dont answer your call so u can hear my voicemail sing.
Just leave a message after the tone.
I didnt call u back because I didnt like your tone.
When all u cared about is your friends and illegal drugs.
Thats why I didnt like your stupid friends thugs.
When Weed and Heroin made u paranoid.
After that u wanted a steroid.
In our relationship there were emotional and tears.
I was so stressed out I had to drank me 6 beers.
Time goes so fast but I have to let go the past.

I have been married for nearly 6 years now. I am very unhappy! I believe in my heart that my husband has a drinking problem. He lies to me and his mother, sisters, etc about his drinking. I know when he has been drinking because his behavior changes dramatically, yet he denies it. I guess he thinks that he is putting one over on me or something? Naturally he gets very defensive when I try to talk calmly to him about it, it’s just impossible! There have been MANY occasions over the years where he has left our home alone to go out and “cool off” and has been gone all night drinking! He has gotten arrested for public intox once before. I can’t even tell you how many times he has come home from one of his drinking binges only to argue with me and than pass out in bed until noon or one the next day. When he wakes up he either doesn’t remember anything, or refuses to talk about it! His mothers, sisters etc……are getting fed up also and are starting to see exactly what I have been dealing with for nearly 7 years now. Fortunately we do not have any children and in all honesty, I refuse to have kids with someone who drinks! That is NOT the way I would want my kids to have to grow up. I am starting to feel like by constantly accepting his apologies, that I have basically let him think that his drinking is acceptable. I KNOW I don’t make him drink, but he sure does try to blame me sometimes. There have been a couple of incidents where he has really lost his temper and either hit a door or wall or gotten a little physical with me (twice in 7 years). He curses and yells at me when he is drunk and now he is even starting to do it to me in front of my in-laws! I really don’t want to be married to him anymore. I have to get my financial ducks in a row before I can leave. This is not meant to sound shallow, but I put my whole life with him as an Army wife first, and neglected to establish a career or get an education for myself. BIG mistake!!! I really need some solid advice here. This is not an easy situation! Should I stick it out and encourage him to go to AA or get out now? This is really a sad thing, because I know my marriage is on the brink of ending.
By the way, I am 36 years old, and feel like my life is just passing me by and that I am wasting my time!

Think about it…

Ever hear the saying, “guns don’t kill people, people kill people?” Well I have, and it’s certainly true. You can’t blame inanimate objects for the actions of others when the actions themselves are what is really to blame. So banning guns merely because they may facilitate the killing of others doesn’t seem valid on its face…

Now parallel that with drug use. Aren’t people who do harm to themselves or kill themselves via drug use really just a victim of their own actions, and not inanimate objects? Even people who kill others (either intentionally or accidentally) while they’re all doped up, well… Aren’t they themselves to blame (i.e., through their actions), rather than the inanimate object (i.e., the drugs)?

So if you agree with the first proposition (guns), you must agree with the second (drugs), right? They’re both freedoms (or ought to be freedoms) that can be exercised insofar as they don’t do harm to others, correct? We jail the man who murdered his wife with a handgun as well as the man who killed a pedestrian while intoxicated just the same…
EDIT: I agree with the notion that the right to bear arms doesn’t imply owning war machines or bazookas, just the same as people should be allowed to use crystal meth (even under the scheme I’m suggesting). Those are sensible limitations… But isn’t my basic proposition still true?
jeeper_peeper321: My argument has nothing to do with the Constitution. It’s about the logical REASONS as to why one may or may not support this position. But yes, the Constitution does specifically grant the right to bear arms, and you’re right, it does not specifically grant the right to take drugs. However, does it specifically grant the right to get a tattoo? Drink alcohol? Own a pet? Get a weird haircut? etc., etc… No, the Constitution does not specifically enumerate these rights, but we are still allowed to do them. Take alcohol for example. Whats so different between that and marijuana? And so forth…

my heart is breaking.i can’t get out of bed and have turned to binge eating for my depression.after 6 yrs together my fella is taking breaks.he is unhappy.grown bored etc.when i call him he turns distant…when i back off he calls me saying he wants to meet again as friends but not go back in the relationship.then day we are supposed to meet he goes distant again.i know he is not cheating, although he told me i am not marriage material and he wants to find a wife.i am in tears today again,so i tld him i was making a clean break and no more contact as he can’t make up his mind.i changed my sim card.this is sooo hard is it the right thing??

TRUE/FALSE Augustus drives to Willy’s factory, intending to steal a barrel of chocolate syrup from the loading docks. When he arrives, he climbs up to the loading dock and tips over a barrel of syrup. Before he can roll it towards his vehicle, he is apprehended by the factory’s security guard, Oompa. Augustus has committed larceny

TRUE/FALSE Jimmie agrees to let members of a local drug gang use his trailer for one day to make drugs in return for payment of $1000. Payment is to be made after the drugs have been manufactured. Jimmie is guilty of conspiracy

TRUE/FALSE Sipowicz, an undercover officer, approaches Kurt and asks him if he can buy some heroin. Kurt turns to his wife Courtney, and says, “I don’t know this guy” Courtney replies, “He looks fine to me” Kurt sells the heroin to Sipowicz and Sipowicz arrests Kurt, and Courtney. Courtney is guilty of conspiracy

What is the only inchoate crime for which both the inchoate crime and the target crime can be charged?
First person to get them ALL right and tell me how you know the answers gets the 10 points(this is h.w……..and yes…Ima lazy)
“who’s being a nuaghty boy..go do your own homework!!!!…lol”

A boy??!! I’m no boy *cry*
an lern yuor spelin! -tisk tisk-

my wife and i have been together for about a year and a half. she told me she cheated on me a while back while i was out of town. i’ve always told her that cheating on me was the one thing i wouldnt stand for but, i forgave her. she’s an alcoholic which lead to her cheating, basically she got drunk and well, you can figure it out. i told her she needed some kind of therapy/detox.rehab whatever, but she never tried to make an effort to get help. recently she’s been hanging around drinking with friends of hers from work which i told her if she wants to do that i’m cool with it as long as she calls and tells me what she’s doing and where. i’m not a prison warden and i dont want to have to make her check in with me but i figured if she’s gonna go out drinking with a bunch of people i dont know i’m entitled to know whats up. the other night i got mad at her because she’s been hanging around this guy from work an awful lot. i’ve met him and he seems ok but c’mon, i dont know this guy and what he’s like. so we fought and she left. when i got home last night all her stuff was gone. was i wrong to confront her about it? i forgave her for cheating but was still pretty upset about it. and resentful. thanks!

Long story short, I moved to Germany to marry a girl I had met when she was a trade student at my school. Since foreigners must be married within 90 days of entry, we did not have enough time to save up for a big fancy wedding. Thus, we got legally married in a courthouse and planned the big wedding for next year.

The marriage ceremony at the court, however, was a bit disastrous: My interpreter showed up intoxicated with his clothes covered in grime and cement, my girlfriend showed up 45 mins late because she was fussy over her hair, and the court official was cold and unfriendly–skipping over the vows and just directly pronouncing us married then giving us papers to sign like it was all a contract (he didn’t even tell us to kiss!). If it wasn’t bad enough, when we stood outside for a picture, her dog decided to take that opportunity to walk up and start humping my leg. NOT what someone would want to remember as a “wedding.”

Well this Christmas, I went with my wife to her sibling’s house where her entire family was gathered, and as we were celebrating, her sister got up and put in a dvd. The screen lit up with the caption “Max and Rachel’s Wedding” and I said in horror “PLEASE tell me you didn’t tape that!!!” (My sister had accompanied us to the ceremony). She smiled and said she did, and as it all began playing, I asked her TWICE politely to please take it out, that it was horrible and unfit to be labeled a “wedding.” She was like “Nooo, I thought it was cute!”

Well, she played the whole embarrassing, hideous thing (including the leg humping) for the entire family of 15 plus, and they all laughed and giggled about it and said “Hey, don’t feel bad–there’s been worse weddings” and whatever. I, however, didn’t find any sense of humor with it whatsoever. I was so angry, I left without saying anything to anyone.

My wife is now angry and upset with me, saying I ruined Christmas for her and that her family is mad at me for walking out, and that I could have just laughed along with everyone else. Honestly–I couldn’t laugh it off. I felt like that whole horrible thing was being paraded as the actual wedding when in actuality I planned to have a REAL wedding the next year–I just needed to save money. A wedding is the most important thing in a person’s life, and I did NOT want that to be called my “wedding”!

Worst off–I felt that when I asked the sister to take the thing out, she was being disrespectful by leaving it in and humiliating me in front of everyone.

Who is right to be upset?
jagrpie: Um…good question. I think it was because I did not want to aggravate the situation by walking up and operating someone else’s property against their will, cause some sort of conflict.

Hi,to cut a long story very short i married a guy,thought i,d finally met the one after my first husband had an affair .Everything was great,we had fallen totally for each other got married and had three beautiful kids together.Downside,he got depression and anxiety,hasnt worked for 3 years because of this and i financially supported him even working two jobs when i was pregnant,wanting to do anything to help him get better.He would when on a bad day go out alone buy a bottle of vodka from local shop and get very drunk.probably in the end at least one to two times a month.We tryed AA, but both thought he is not an alcoholic just misuses it when low.Antidepressants didnt help either.He tried training for a new job that hasnt been able to get work,i guess people are wary of his history.We have beeen separated for six months after he became impossible to live with,being needy,saying i didnt show him enough love and attention,totally draining me .i was walking on eggshells in the end,he takes things the wrong way often,I am very loving and affectionate but it has never been enough.My family and friends say i could not have done anymore to help him,that most would have left him years ago.But i cant break away. i wish i didnt love him so much but i do,he has been the only man to smother me with love and affection and beautiful words and is also very loving with our kids. The truth is i feel as his wife responsible for helping him,he has no friends to speak of as he stopped making the effort,his family only ring once every two months,i,m all he,s got.He has said himself that i probably should have left him.He was in a relationship years ago with an alcoholic and spent 3 years trying to help her and people told him to leave the same way they are telling me,he says he cant believe he has turned into what she was with me,and understands why people say you cant help him.So what do i do? i feel stuck in a hole,a no win situation,miserable with him or without.He is trying to get a job and going to college again ,everyone says i,ve heard all this before.He goes on about dreading the day i find someone else and that he still feels i,m his wife and he still loves me madley. An old male friend has contacted me through facebook and has split from his longterm wife and wants to meet up,he says we could help each other through,.I would never have cheated on my husband,if i met this man even though we are separated i would feel a cheat and i know the wasy my husband thinks,he would say i,ve cheated.Help me please,how do you finally tear away from someone you love so strongly when they seem to have this hold over you.This other guy is a real gent,i have known him since we were kids,would we be wrong to meet up?guess i,m scared of being alone with four kids too…thank you so mch for reading my crapxxxxx
This has been going on for four years now ,how much do you give and for how long?We have split 3 times and always end up here.i am feeling resentful now.
i feel i have given him more than a fair break and that loving him is ruining me.the other guy has been separated a long time from his wife as i have ,we are both good honest people who have given everything.i am confused,i am not about to sleep with this man its just a shoulder to cry on if i need it.

I really need to know what to do here because I can’t seem to get the proper help from the state or from other places I’ve called. Main problem is money as well as the mothers ability to lie and deny.

The problem is me and my wife were married for 3 years, together for 5. We were on oxycontin for a year and I got off of it because I didn’t want to stay on them and continue being sick. I just got medicine and quit, and she was going to do the same. She did not, but she also had legitimate back pain and had a prescription. She did say she was weening her self down.

A year later she is still doing them and even more than before. she had resorted to shooting them up for a while. She then supposedly went into the ER twice, once in each county near here, for drugs because she ran out and then spent 3 days in a rehab type place because she was going through bad withdrawals before her prescription was filled. She was then removed from the pain meds in march she told me and had to go cold turkey and one month after that she is now back to shooting them up, but says she’s not addicted and is doing them recreationally. She has physically shown me the track marks on her wrist, not her bicep. They are on her wrist and totally visible if you look at them. Her own mother even seen and felt them.

Now I’ve called DCF twice on her about this because she will leave the child at home with her grandma and not say anything, or leave notes before the child wakes up. She spanks her with a 5 gallon paint mixing stick because she said last time she used her hand that she broke a blood vessel in her pinky. She lives in a bad neighborhood now and has told me that she knows the 2 people across the street deal drugs (surprise! she knows and I wonder why) and that she has heard 2 times of the back door handle being jiggled like someone trying to break in. She loans her car out to drug dealers because it’s about to be repossessed and she figures that if they get arrested in it and it’s taken who cares, she scored pills or money. I could go on for a while but this is the more severe stuff. Her grandmother is upset that she leaves the child with her and that she will loan her car out.

Now the problem is that she is a great liar and good at deception. I’m really starting to think she’s a sociopath for her behavior over the last year. I dunno if she was always this way but she has gotten worse over the year. She had me and her mother arrested for battery. With me she thought I was cheating on her because of her own cheaters paranoia and attacked me. The arrest is gone, never went to court because my lawyer dealt with the state attorney. She lies about stuff she has shown and told me because she’s so paranoid I’m recording everything in person or on the phone. She swore I had our house bugged before we moved out of it and wouldn’t speak of anything unless we went out in the yard that she could get in trouble in court for like lying in court or her drug use.

She told my best friends gf she was still doing the drugs and that if we broke up again she’d tell the state I molested my daughter. She did try it but it didn’t work. She lies and lies and lies some more and always seems to get away with it.

When she was on drugs and dealt with dcf, she had a prescription but did way more so she always had a reason for having it in her system. Now she’s clean and I know she’s shooting up and she still shows up clean but she also isn’t getting it as much but craves for it like when she first got hooked and said the other day to her mom she almost sold some GI pills that looked the same because she was desperate. However now that she isn’t addicted where she will get sick, she still has visible track marks on her but nothing seems to be done by the state about it and the state always seems to rush things and doesn’t let you tell them the whole story in detail as I can do here.

My 4 year old daughter never wants to go back to her mother when I bring her back. She immediately gets depressed looking and says I don’t want to see mommy, I don’t love mommy, mommies mean, mommy hits me, etc. She will not really talk about it with me much because she just gets really quiet when I ask or starts saying what she sees trying to change the subject. The most I ever got her to say was “Mommy is mean and she hurts me when she hits me and I don’t want to see Mommy” It’s a struggle to give her back to the mother and always results in me staying for hours to calm her down because she doesn’t want me to leave. My wife has admitted to hitting her at least every 3 days because she acts up.
She has even called her own mother and said that she doesn’t know what to do with the baby and I would only do things like go get groceries or take a trip to best buy.

Really the list goes on and on but this is a good summary of the situation. I’ve tried to
What can I do? nothing seems to work. DCF doesn’t ever do Sphit and the courts don’t seem to care without video proof. But I have about 50 pictures of her passed out all over from her drugs. She refuses to admit she has a problem still and says she’s a good mother. She has moved 3 times in under 3 months because of her drugs and being kicked out. No one can see this but me and her close family and I was told a march-man act won’t work because she can’t be proven a danger to herself or others. I’ve tried once with a baker act for her behavior since she admits to me she was bi polar. I really am clueless on how to stop her and get her help. I don’t want to take my daughter from her, she did it to me for a few months and it wasn’t a happy time. I just want to have at least 50% custody like now but have her a normal mother who isn’t running around for smack.
I am not with her, we got back for 2 months and that ended with the arrest because she was STILL on drugs and I confronted her about it.

The only reason the divorce isn’t active is because of how she lied to get more custody so I stopped that dead in it’s tracks and proceeded to get more evidence, which the judge didn’t care about. Pictures to a judge I was told don’t seem to work because it shows a small moment of what is going on. But the pictures of her passed out over months time span I guess don’t show she’s an addict passing out sitting up all the time and sprawled across the bed funny.

As I said the biggest part right this moment is the money. I’m so broke I can barely get by because of saturation in my market. I want to get a PI and find out. I would love to tell the cops about the drug dealings but I dunno if they’d stake her out for that. friend of hers called once and told them where she was once and they couldn’t pull her over cuz she drove perfect.
I am also not letting my daughter go back because I have to be tough and tell her to get help. I know at this point if I gave her back that she wouldn’t let me see her for a while.

It’s funny she can tell me no but I can’t say no.

She uses my daughter as a pawn claiming she’s all she has left. The truth is she has nothing because what I didn’t take in the split she sold and spent the money and then wants me to pay her more. Most of the stuff she sold was mine anyway while I wasn’t there.

My wife and i had a fight earlier today because she thinks i am over protective of my son like possessively protective but i disagree. My wife is my 2nd wife because my 1st wife became an alcoholic shortly after our son was born so i divorced her and got custody of my son well when she had our son over for one of her visitation she got drunk and sent our three year old son to the hospital for a week. So yes needless to say i am very protective of my son and my wife is pregnant with a baby boy and today she just i guess noticed or decided to bring it up and it caused a fight. She thinks i need to let her adopt my son and she thinks i need to be less protective of him but i do not agree. Advice? I wont let her punish him i wont let her take hi places i wont let him play around a lot

A couple of times a week I like to have some beers after work. I never sit down & drink a ton of beer . . usually between one & five of them. I enjoy getting the ‘buzz’ & watching tv on stressfull days. She complains about it like I am a heroin addict or something.. Is she right?? I thought alcoholics went to meetings.. (bad joke)

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* Grow up in Alaska eating mooseburgers, a quintessential American story.
* If your name is Barack you’re a radical, unpatriotic Muslim.
* Name your kids Willow , Trig and Track, you’re a maverick.
* Graduate from Harvard law School and you are unstable.
* Attend 5 different small colleges before graduating, you’re well grounded.
* If you spend 3 years as a brilliant community organizer, become the first black President of the Harvard Law Review, create a voter registration drive that registers 150,000 new voters, spend 12 years as a Constitutional Law professor, spend 8 years as a State Senator representing a district with over 750,000 people, become chairman of the state Senate’s Health and Human Services committee, spend 4 years in the United States Senate representing of 13 million people while sponsoring 131 bills and serving on the Foreign Affairs, Environment and Public Works and Veteran’s Affairs committees, you don’t have any real leadership experience.
* If your total resume is: local weather girl, 4 years on the city council and 6 years as the mayor of a town with less than 7,000 people, 20 months as the governor of a state with only 650,000 people and attempted to sell a plane on ebay at a loss as a political stunt then you’re qualified to become the country’s second highest ranking executive.
* If you have been married to the same woman for 19 years while raising 2 beautiful daughters, all within Protestant churches, you’re not a real Christian.
* If you cheated on your first wife with a rich heiress, and left your disfigured wife and married the heiress the next month, you’re a Christian.
* If you teach responsible, age appropriate sex education, including the proper use of birth control, you are eroding the fiber of society.
* If , while governor, you staunchly advocate abstinence only, with no other option in sex education in your state’s school system while– you only rushed and eloped with your husband because you got pregnant and your unwed teen daughter ends up pregnant just like you did, you’re very responsible.
* If your wife is a Harvard graduate laywer who gave up a position in a prestigious law firm to work for the betterment of her inner city community, then gave that up to20raise a family, your family’s values don’t represent America ‘s.
* If you’re husband is nicknamed “First Dude”, with at least one DWI conviction and no college education, who didn’t register to vote until age 25 and once was a member of a group that advocated the secession of Alaska from the USA, your family is extremely admirable.
BIG shout to #175!

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Bonkers – it doesn;t matter what Mccain says – he is one vote. Public opinion is quite another thing. None of the points made say anything about what has been verbalize by McCain – is what is implied that matters more. To me anyway.

Has Bush helped collectively lower the IQ of EVERYONE in this nation?? Please SAY IT AIN’T SO!

Put in your two cents!

My ex husband took me to court two years ago and lied his way into getting custodial and I get summer visits. I never once asked him for child support while the children lived with me. Times have changed and he is now remarried to a woman with three kids who does not work and he has now gone after me for child support. He knows I have been in two serious car accidents and one accident on the job and am waiting to hear on my disabilty benefits due to severe back injuries. Also he is drinking again and sat in jail for two weeks due to a DWI. He works a job that pays ok. Can he really get child support from me when I never wanted the children to live with him in the first place? We are going through mediation and I am taking him to court on my own to get them back. No, I was never proven unfit. I have my teenagers living with me. My question? If I plead hardship how much will I have to pay? I am unemployed, but my husband works. I do not want to support his new wife and her baggage!
KITTY
You are correct in what the Bible says. Unfortunatly I was not saved back then and did not know the Bible as I do now, as I got saved a year and a half ago. I now can only know that I am forgiven and go on from here. By the way I left him for cheating on me which also is against the Bible.
HOLAP
I live in the state of Montana and he lives in Washington state. We are both from Montana and this is also where the children are from. He just decided he wanted to live in Washington. Our divorce took place in 2000, in Montana where the first parenting plan was done and I got residential custody. He didn’t want them until they were school age because he claimed he couldn’t take care of them and work although I handled it well. Also I hear in Washington there is no legal age that the kids can choose who they want to live with. They do want to come home to Montana though. They are twins, almost 11 years old.
WINTERGIRL
In the state of Washinton there are lawyers that help men to get custody instead of being a weekend dad. This is what he did. Yes, he did lie and yes he did get away with it. He used church pastors and anyone he could to help him. Right now he is on the verge of getting caught in all the lies because he lied again. He told the child support division that I lived in Washington for several years and he gave only the parenting plan from Washington to the worker and said it was part of the divorce decree. Was the worker ever suprised when I faxed him the original decree from Montana and told him I have proof of being a Montana resident since May, 1999. Now they are investigating it further. I just wonder what they do in these situations.
My ex also has an outstanding warrent for his arrest in the state of Montana for failure to appear on a harrassment charge from several years ago. The warrent is still in effect because he ignored it. He didn’t get it until after he won residential in court. That is the harrassment charge.

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