How Do I Get My Wife Off Drugs?

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casue of death listed. he was seperated at time of death but still legally married- how can i obtain the autopsy report without going thru wife. we are not on speaking terms. very bad situation… would love any help thanks in advance

He is ex-army and she has severe emotional problems(including concealing the entire pregnancy of their second child, with no medical attention and binge drinking vodka when he was stationed at Ft. Stewart) and a suicide attempt less than two years ago. He told her to study for her test because it would effect her job and she didn’t listen and just took it. He said she doesn’t listen. She isn’t very bright, nor is she attractive, nor is she nice and she is a neglectful mother-total shotgun wedding. For example, she spelled the word “absurd” o-b-s-e-r-e-d, on her Facebook profile, so there you have it. I know there are plenty of intelligent people in the Army but from what I can see time and again, she isn’t going to be one of them. She is also very whiny and physically abused her husband on base. I have known this guy since the early 90s. I have helped out with the kids a lot, I feel bad for them-they have serious(6 and 3 years old) emotional problems, the second one looks like she has ARND. She leaves for Missouri next month-it was a spontaneous decision because she was messing around with a man leaving for Benning recently. She also doesn’t tend to stick to anything.
Actually thanks for the answer.

Um, I have children and we may or may not be blending a family. There is nothing wrong with asking a question, it is not equal to going out of your way to damage somebody’s chances in life.

Child hood abuse and neglect is actually everybody’s buisness-when people don’t get involved children suffer. ARND, a lesser-form of Fetal Alchohol Syndrome is actually everybody’s business because it involves permanent brain damage and costs the tax-payers more money. If you don’t want to answer the question, then don’t answer it, don’t act ugly. Besides this woman has harassed me in the past and I have never done the same to her yet I can’t speculate when the psyche of the children I help take care of is something I deal with? It’s just a question, not a missive.
Vic-Lol-you’re funny.
I had to only use so many characters for the ?, that is why I worded it that way.

and she is going to counseling to.She cheated on him with her boss out of state at a meeting. He is in AA for alcohol due to stress and them both losing a bussiness. He has never cheated in his marriage and she says he is a good husband and father and she forgives him. But today she told him she wants to stay seperated and may want to see other people. She wants him to come home Saturday night to stay overnight with his 2 young children while she stays with her mother and goes out with her girlfriend dancing and drinking. She says she needs time away from the kids and needs a night out. They have been married for 10 years and at the begining of their marriage took in her young sister and brother for 2 years because her mother had issues. In the last year her father had a stroke and now lives in their home with them. What do you guys think about this relationship and is there hope?
Thanks everyone for answering me I am staying out of it as much as possible but she put him on my door step. Things are so hard right now because his step mother whom he loves dearly just died at 4:30 this morning.

The driver had been drinking, and he merged into me on the interstate going 80mph. Luckily, after spinning at least 5 times, I managed to avoid the steel light pole I was heading straight for. my car is most totaled. The police did not take the guy away, as when they got there, the driver lied and said his wife was driving at the time of the accident. We couldn’t prove it so they let him go. Before the police arrived the man’s wife transferred beer from his truck to another woman’s car.

The reason I want a case is because they had babies in the car. I do not want an irresponsible parent driving drunk with their babies in the car, but even if I take him to court and get them away from him, I will still be out of money to the lawyer. Would it be possible to win the case and get enough money to pay a lawyer and maybe help get another car?
I actually have experienced the whiplash symptoms and soreness. Also my friends are urging me to go to the doctor. I seem to have a depth perception issue.. I keep falling while trying to sit down on chairs and sometimes fall when just walking. I do remember a guitar amplifier hitting me in the head during the wreck, but I don’t think I had any swollen areas on my head or anything, could this be a problem from the accident?

I just don’t have the money to go to the doctor, I was moving back to my hometown since I lost my job and all my belongings were in my car when he hit me. Luckily my computer was not damaged.

My wife has recently quit drinking. She is very angry and blames me for many of our troubles. She joined AA on her on but as a result of many train wrecks finally catching up to her. Selfish, angry, in denial, unwilling to talk about all of the problems she created over the past 4 years. She is both untrustworthy and untrusting of me. I am curious what I am in for if our marriage actually survives. Specifially, what are signs that we are on a better path and if there are any what are early warning signs to look for.

we did get back together about a year after the divorce but we were not re-married. She started drink again after receiving help for her alcoholism and I left her after being together for 5 years. Her dad paid for about a couple of months the bills and rent on our house. Her dad reminded her of that today. I believe I left for a good reason. My ex and I have talked and agreed about getting back together and taking it slow and easy. So how should I talk to her dad because I think at the time my ex and I were pretty immature and now since we are older we both agree that we have made mistakes and are mature. Hope this all makes sense and any replies will be helpful. Thank you.

She is serving a 10 year sentence. We have a son in which I am the step-father, he is ten years old, and the biological father is now wanting to get full custody. I reside in NC and he in PA. I have been the true father figure for our son since he was four years old. I love him as much as a biological son but now that his mother is in prison for the next 10 years, will I be able to get full custody?

and had several partners. since then, i have changed my ways and settled down. i think my old ways may have created a sex addiction however. i feel uneasy when I am around pretty girls and I feel like i am constantly craving sex with women. i feel like i am a crack addict. i am scared i am going to do something to destroy my marriage. is there any other way to fix this problem other than professional help? im not sure how my wife would react if i told her this.