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I was on probation for domestic violence case a year ago, My fiance got scared for me showing up at her college after an argument and the probation officer call me and told me to meet with him 5 days after, I did show up after the five days and i was arrested for suspicious behavior, is weird they never came to my home. I went to see the judge after 6 days in jail, the judge let me go becuase there was no further charges or complaints so far, my fiance never press charges. The problem was that somehow I.N.S got involve on my case and they took me from jail. Prior to completion of proceedings I was granted voluntary departure They gave me 14 days to leave. They question me for 3 previous marriages and one in particular where my ex wife told INS the marriage was fake, we never reopen the case because she dissapear. She sayed that i was giving her money at the interview. Si i did told the judge that her drugs behavior make her say that. I did have a previous domestic violence case back on 2005. both cases of D.V ended up on misdemeanors and i did 30 days com/service with only 3 days real jail. One says that i throw a cell phone 20 feet away from my ex wife an even when my ex say that she wasn’t sure if it was an accident, there was an anger problem. The second one i did pull my ex girlfriend sweater and her friend call the cops. The judge told me that with the V.D my fiance can married me and file for me. One after my departure my fiance and I got married. She returned to California with 7 months and one week pregnant. We are going to submit the I-130 next week on aug, 20. Doctors have told her since april that she is facing a high risk pregnancy due to a problem on the baby kidneys.
They already have choose an specific hospital at Standford for her due to the situation and the baby will have to stay for one week on Intensive Care, There is also issues with the heart, they don’t know if treatment will be enough. My wife is devastated and me depress to the point i am home all the time in Peru. Lawyers didn’t believe i was going to get V.D base on my situation but i got it. My wife will be forced to walk away from her family and carreer by coming back to peru after the baby is better or in treatment, shealready start attending a phicologyst. So do we have to include a hardship already or the baby situation or wait till i can submit the 601?. Should i have it ready to submit the 601 the same day i am at the interview or needs to be submited from the U.S.?….How long are we facing?….Thanks for reading this. I got there as a tourist back on 2000. Should I on the I-130 put removal or juditial proceedings?….On 2005 i got a letter saying that i got to leave and not petition shall be approved but they never came to the house. I was also arrested on 2007 for the second D.V and I went back home ok. I will be a daddy soon.:-) Mi first son after searching for the right partner.
I forgot to explain that she didn’t prove it that the marriage was fake, she just accused me. She is being arrested for drugs before also.
Also the first time i did one year of classes for D.V and the second time i did 27 out of the 52 and i did complete the 27 days of C.Service.
Please …this question needs to be answer by lawyers, I did my researches and I know i got lucky with V.D. If the fake marriage was real then that will be call fraud and that is 3 years in Jail, I will be ask those questions but is ok, two of my ex wifes still friends with me.

ah….train wreck…. here you go:

got married two months ago. it’s the second marriage for both of us. i have a child from a previous relationship who is under 10 (who also comes to see us every other weekend). she has no children. wife’s parents are alcoholic (or recovering for the past 18 years), nice folks, but really hardcore AA folks. they weren’t around all that much during our dating stages, even though they live 20 minutes away (well… we are adults, so that isn’t all that odd). they “approve” of the wedding, even have a big ole party when we got engaged. hosted our reception too. in the two months since, her mother comes over when i’m at work (wife works from home), and disappears before i get home. we’ve gone to eat with them on 5 different occasions. last weekend, her mom calls to “remind” her daughter that her brother and her father are both military veterans
her mother goes on to say “we’ve been giving you all this space, but we don’t ever see you now that you are married”. the guilt gets thick, and my wife is declared bad because she has fallen off the earth in two months. her parents then come over at 1pm that day, first thing in the door… they say “you are more miserable now then you ever were in your first marriage” …the next thing said was “both of you need to sit here at the table, we need to have a word with you”. the list of things that are “wrong” with our marriage “we don’t know (your husband).”, “you don’t talk to anyone”, “having your husband’s son come over is NOT normal – you should stop that”. i’m asked my opinion of “this situation”. i refuse to give my opinion for fear it add to the damage that they’ve just caused.
they leave, my wife is in tears, i’m irate. they never call to apologize. her mother does call her daughter to request to do things…. as though nothing has happened…. we are supposed to go to their house for thanksgiving and have dinner with her parents and a bunch of AA friends of theirs. I am completely against this because I don’t want them to be ugly to my son, or for me to have to be ugly in front of him in order to develop a boundary that her parents don’t realize should be there. So, we have some friends who are stuck here (1500 miles from their families) who want to have thanksgiving. we’ve taken them up on the offer. my wife’s parents have gone ballistic now. they called yesterday morning to explain that they do not like me at all. they do want to keep up with their daughter, but want nothing to do with me. this morning, we’ve found out we are pregnant, which is an obvious tripping point for the “hate your husband” routine. how can this be sorted out?
guess i should have warned at first that i’d have to do this in multiple editions, sorry. *_*

In late 2006, I had my car breakdown, and the father of one of my friends said that he would pay for it. He told me I just needed to do some lawn work for his wife. A couple months later, after I had been doing lawn work for awhile, I had a girlfriend who lived in Virginia who had become pregnant. So I left my home here to go care for her. In the time that I was gone him and his wife divorced. Then when I came back I was told by her daughter that she was irritated I left so soon, but eventually that passed. I had even been over to the house numerous times and she never said anything about wanting me to do more lawn work or giving her any money. Now that her daughter is trying to jump out of a lease with us, because her mother got hooked onto heroin and other drugs, blew all of her money, then tried to kill herself; and we are no longer friends, her mother is trying to say that I owe her $450. There was never any mention that I would pay any money back for his assistance, and if there was I would have refused it.

In addition, the other night, after she was yelling at my pregnant wife, she brought it up and I told her I would pay it back, just to get her to leave us alone because she was upsetting my wife so much that she was having early contractions and shes only 7 months pregnant. I don’t think that matters at all, but my wife was worried.
Here’s the thing, I make $700 a month and am going to have to find a new home, while I have no money for a security deposit or rent. I was never asked to pay the money back until now, and HE paid for the parts, not HER and they’re DIVORCED now. She has had plenty of time to ask me to do more yard work or pay, seeing as I’ve been back in Florida for 9 months now and over to her house numerous times, including living with her daughter for the past 3 months. If I would have known they would be wanting the money back, I never would have accepted the help. I believe it’s not fair to tell me I dont have to pay, it’s all right, then later, demand the money. When it’s none of her business.

My nephews wife is 5 months pregant. He has been out of town working for the last 2 months. Before he left they both admitted to using heroin. I helped her detox and was sure this was the end of the drug use. My nephew has been clean. However for the last 2 days she has been here at my house and I can tell she is using again. I even told her today that I thought she was high. She tried to tell me that she was just tired.
She just went through some tests with her OB to make sure there was no defects on the baby and I can not believe that she is still using. But I am positive that she is. I don’t know what to do! The family has involved protective services before and they just dropped the case because they knew she detoxed and they think she is clean. I don’t know what to do. All help will be appreciated.
I do not nor will I let this slide..I do not want to have this on my heart when this baby is born with a defect or something else wrong. They currently have a healthy 2 yr old and I know he is a handful as it is. I want to help but I am not sure where to turn.

About 3 months ago my wife talked me into a 3 some with her and her friend ( it didn’t take alot of persuading), after a few drinks at our place we became intimate, due to our intoxicated state we did not use protection, now both my wife and her friend are pregnant, I take full responsability for my actions and want to provide for my children, however my wife is filling for a divorce and wants nothing to do with her friend or her friends baby, I believe that it was all 3 of us who willingly went into this encounter and we should deal with it as a team.
Do you think I should divorce my wife and marry her friend, we are campatable and I think it could work.
Or do you think that I should not grant my wife a divorce and make her face the reality of the situation she helped create.
either way I will do my best to be a father to my yet unborn children

Can some of the alcohol in his system be transfered to the women via his semen?

2 weeks after conception he was arrested for assaulting me
he has dui (dwi) and posession charges
he abused my 6 year old son as well as his ex wife’s older child but there is nothing on record.
will he have to pay child support?
Will I have to fly the baby to HIM or will he have to come to CA for visitation?
Do I have to put his name on the birth cert even though he wont be there?
Whose last name should I give my unborn child?

My wife had an affair and is now pregnant. All calendars point to me as the father for timing, but there is a chance it is the other guys. We have decided to work out our problems and are NOT getting a divorce (please don’t even comment on this). This guy she had an affair with is wanting to have a paternity test done and we do not. If the tests show it is his, he wants his “rights”. We want to raise this child as it is ours (which it most likely is) and do not want any contact with him at all. Period. This guy is an alcoholic and has a DWI and multiple PIs (just getting one saturday night). He was on probation and violated that so he was supposed to go see his PO on Monday or Tuesday and failed to show. (he has six months left on probation). He will not leave my wife alone (comes to her work and calls her office). We want rid of this dirtbag! Is there any legal recourse (in Texas) to prevent this guy from getting custody or having a paternity test court ordered (please provide evidence of your explanation if possible)? We have been legally married for more than six years and have two daughters that are undoubtedly ours and want to protect them and the unborn child (6 wks along) at all costs. PLEASE HELP! Please refrain from making negative comments about my wife.
The way I see it is that it is mine and I am the daddy regardless of the sperm donor
Thank all of you for your input! We now understand that she should not have told him but did because she was scared to death. On the other hand we live in rural West Texas and he would have eventually put two and two together. He has no job (hasn’t for 3 years), lives with his mother, and has PTSD from being in Iraq with major anger issues (has not done anything to my wife).

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My wife developed a really bad addiction to prescription pain killers and cleaned us out in August of 2007. I filed for a divorce and took custody of our two children. I soon discovered she had been having an affair with her dealer after I cut her off of our finances.

In December of 2007 she returned home asking me to take her to rehab, which I did. The day after I dropped her off she called me and told me she was pregnant. I had a vasectomy back in 2005.

We stayed apart until July of 2008 when we reconciled and she moved back home. The paramour has been in and out of rehab four times in 2008 for alcoholism and immediately relapsed upon completing his most recent round.

My wife had informed him that he was the father and he told her there was no way in hell he’d ever give her a dime. When the baby was born I signed the birth certificate and we named the baby after me.

He and his mother call occasionally and he leaves voice mails saying we are going to here from his attorney. He has never seen the baby. His parents barged into the hospital the day our son was born, but we have refused to answer their phone calls since. They also call my wife’s family and try to ascertain her location. I don’t believe that he’s interested in taking legal action, but his mother appears to be pushing the issue.

We obviously don’t want this guy anywhere near our family. He has done enough damage. Can anyone offer any insight?

How 2 become pregnant fast and naturally

Have you ever wondered how 2 become pregnant naturally? This handle evokes varying responses from different people. Latin and emotion do endeavor their part in the decision of having a baby. However, it is not surpassing to feel pained and frustrated, especially among the couples who are not able to embellish parents). Ideas of a bizarre nature are bound to embellish to much couples.
Most newborn espouse couples verify competent protection against having a female likewise quickly. However, in a matter of months, modify as the duo is still effort to undergo each other properly, the eagerness to conceptualise a banter increases. This is hardly surprising, given the achromic instinct of relationship in ladies. A wife ever wants to embellish a mother, since that gives her a sense of fulfillment. Thus, modify in a fiercely competitive world, where the cost of routine experience runs into thousands, the craving for a female remains high.
However, the females requirement to undergo how to impart meaningful in a proper, healthy manner. The goodness and healthiness of both the tending and the kid, who would be seeing the light of the world soon, is of preponderant importance. Hence, a destined perusal of the following discussion is necessary:
• Women should start preparing to embellish a mother, at least 3 to 4 months preceding to the actual delivery,
• Holistic measures for the fix of beatific health conditions is necessary for both the tending and child,
• A soon-to-be-mother should completely avoid respiration and drinking habits,
• It is of preponderant grandness that no drugs of intoxication are consumed,
• Healthy, competent nourishment is extremely necessary for women at these times. This is because both the pre-delivery and post-delivery periods are mostly rather stressful for them, and
• For maintaining the delectable health conditions, minerals, proteins (that are easy to digest) and minerals should be consumed in competent amounts.
It is also crucial to clear obey to some other essential factors. Some much factors are:
? Thorough knowledge of one’s possess embody ? The mark of ovulation in a blackamoor is the saint event for her to conceptualise a baby. Thus, she should be alive of the event of ovulation. There are, fortunately, some ways to find discover what the event of ovulating would be. The ‘Post Ovulation Time’ (also termed the Luteal Phase) has to be estimated. This period, i.e., the event between ovulating and the date of commencement of the menstrual cycle, mostly is fixed at 14 life in most women. The mark starts after the length of the Luteal Phase, or 14 life after the occurrence of ovulation. There is an alternative way to find discover the mark of ovulation, which is supported on the Basal Body Temperature method (i.e., the BBT technique). In this method, the temperature of the vagina is recorded by a specially-made BBT thermometer. This is finished routine in the morning. During the mark of ovulation, this temperature rises significantly, and much increases can be easily tracked. For higher chances of conceiving a baby, sexed coition at these nowadays is ideal.
? When does sexed organization helps in conception the most? ? This information is necessary, since it ensures that the sperms of the prizewinning quality start the female embody at the event of ovulation. Sperms should hit quick reaction event when a blackamoor ovulates. Hence, fresh gamete is required to be inform in the embody of the female immediately before ovulating. However, there may occur destined problems in the gamete of the males too. In much cases, men should not be releasing sperms, for a peak of 3 life before the scheduled day of sexed union. These accumulation is extremely important, in case you are wondering how to impart pregnant.
? The saint frequency of lovemaking for higher chances of conceiving ? Among other factors, a fine judge of the ovulation mark in women and the coverall habitus of men determine the saint frequency of sexed union. There is a school of thought that, gamete calculate goes down, with a resultant weakening of the phallic sperm, if coition is held everyday. Conversely, others tend to think that the phallic gamete becomes ineffective, old and bad (with much modify potency) if it remains within the testicles, due to prolonged periods of abstinence. It is mostly advisable that, sexed union, during the mark of female ovulation, should be held most once in every 2 days.
It is ever better to provide holistic solutions to the handle of how to impart pregnant. Such an advise helps to gain an insight most the inner workings of our body, and the reasons for not conceiving earlier. It also comes up with several usable solutions to this problem, including medicines and herbs of Asiatic origin as well as changes in eating habits and coverall lifestyle. Suitable exercise methods and, if required, treatment is also recommended. Unlike the customary methods, the holistic advise has no unpropitious side effects, and has a much higher quantity of providing the delectable results. Hence, in these cases, holistic advise entireness much better than customary ways.

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We are having friends over tonight and we’ll be drinking. Neither of us condone pregnant women drinking so what kind of virgin drink can I make just for her that would make her feel apart of the party?

We are drinking jello shots, beer, and colorado bulldogs. None of which see likes unless it had alcohol, so no virgin versions of those. And she doesn’t like pina colodas either. I just need an alcoholic type beverage, save the alcohol part.

After having multiple negative pregnancy tests, and then missing her period, (now 3.5 weeks late) latest test shows my wife’s pregnant. We identified a few nights (3-5) with multiple drinks 1/2 bottle of wine, etc etc (birthdays, anniv,) as well as going into the jacuzzi 4X. We were careful to test for pregnancy before the outing and thought it was ok.

Could this have an effect on the baby/pregnancy? Hopefully not…

my wife’s pregnant but shes lactose intolerant is there another type of milk she can drink?

I am taking trazodone and strattera (spelling?), the first one is for depression and the second one is for ADHD, but my wife and I are thinking of having a child. Could it cause any kinds of birth defects with the baby if I were to get my wife pregnant while I am on these drugs or should I see about not taking them for awhile?

was a drunk, with dry heaves and I asked her to marry me from the urine soaked floor of a barroom toilet to keep her from leaving with my best friend Bobby Joe Maxwell. Looking back, I should have just let her go. She wants to go back to that bar tonight. I’m thinking Mcdonalds might be more pleasant.

was a drunk, with dry heaves and I asked her to marry me from the urine soaked floor of a barroom toilet to keep her from leaving with my best friend Bobby Joe Maxwell. Looking back, I should have just let her go. She wants to go back to that bar tonight. I’m thinking Mcdonalds might be more pleasant.

was a drunk, with dry heaves and I asked her to marry me from the urine soaked floor of a barroom toilet to keep her from leaving with my best friend Bobby Joe Maxwell. Looking back, I should have just let her go. She wants to go back to that bar tonight. I’m thinking Mcdonalds might be more pleasant.

my wife was injured this past weekend when she was struck head-on by a drunk driver.She is 8 mths. pregnant and suffered a broke collar-bone and messed her feet up,along w/numerous bruises.Sadly,the other driver died as a result of this.We are not out to gain tons of money because of this,but feel she should get her vehicle replaced,along w/ all of her medical bills taken care of.Is that asking to much?We have not been in contact w/ his insurance company yet.What should our first step be?Also what if there is something wrong w/ our baby when he is born as a result of this,should he be responsible for this?