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Usually i respect girls & womens, help to old people,neighbours and poor. Used to pray god….etc. When i saw some sexy thing like bra or some exposing automatically i will get feeling that i should participate in sex. I hate to see BF’s even my friends forced me to see.I didn’t like girls and aunts with bad nature, i want to scold them but i can’t bcos it is their wish to participate in sex with others, then will take revenge on them by thinking that i am participated in sex and will get my sperm out using my hands action, after that i really feel bad. My policy is that all my parts of body should be only for a particular girl who is my wife, i don’t want any other. I don’t like heroin’s also bcos of exposing to get fame.
Finally i want to stop getting my sperm out from my body by think about them and i want to concentrate on my future. So please help me in sending remedy for this issue. I know this is a very big text but pls…..pls reading this and understand the problem.

Ok, I posted about this a couple days ago but I am going to state all the truth from what I know..My wife and I were suppose to go to a tavern halloween party just a couple blocks from our home,I got sic the nite before and did not attend,she asked me if she could go with her brother who is staying with us for now,I told her go have fun and be careful,all was good until her son came over to watch tv with me that nite and told me he seen a biker halloween guest and a other women dressed up like a pirate (thats what she was)in the parking lot of the tavern kissing,I did not think to much about it at first but later I did, they both came home together around closing time they were there roughly 5 hrs.she was not heavily intoxicated and seemed happy.she did win best costume.I was upset that she did not bring her cellphone with her so if anything went wrong I could pick them up etc. We did talk about the couple in the parking lot me and her son,she said she did not go outside and said WHAT! you dont trust me! to be expected I know,but she did not talk about the party much at all either the nite she came home,or the next day. I feel there is things not mentioned that occurred by her or her brother. we have been married 7 yrs, I know i got insecurity issues but something here dont feel 100% ok. I guess will see how the next few days go.

I have two children one by this cops wife and the other by his 19 year old daughter…..He’s aware of this and man he hates my guts he tried get my little brother sent up on a burgarly charge(he delivers newspaper) and he tried to give my dad a dwi when my old man doesnt drink he’s a deacon…..

I had my uncle talk to him because he’s tied into that community…now everytime either the wife or the daughter doesnt get to see me they throw up filing child support on me…..i have tried to ive them money since my son and daughters birth but they wont take it and i hardly ever get to see them……what can i do…?

She has had three therapists tell her that we should get therapy individually instead of together. I think their wrong. I am a dry drunk of over 12 months as they call it. Our marriage was in divorce court and it was called off. She tells me we can’t work on each other until we are fixed individually. She has said she wasn’t sure if she wanted to work on our marriage unless I go and get help first. I feel me going to a therapist is her way of buying time in order to do nothing but lead me to believe there is a chance for us. I feel she won’t go together because she is using me and someone else might see it to. Can a marriage work if we are getting help seperatly telling our therapist what it is we believe to be true about the other or should we be doing it together.
I have gone to 4 different therapists that have all told me she won’t work together in the relationship because she doesn’t want it. I’m not a big fan of therapy so I don’t listen to them and their end it bullshit because thats the simple solution and means the need for more therapy and they need me for the money. I also stopped going when I would tell her what they were saying and it did nothing but cause arguements for us because they weren’t seeing things they way she wanted. I’m told the people I chose to go to are idiots. This is why I’m asking if we should be going together. She says her therapist says no and I feel if her therapist is wrong and our marriage falls apart, what did the therapist loose?