How Do I Get My Wife Off Drugs?

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1. You refine heroin for a living, but you have a moral objection to beer.
2. You own a $3,000 machine gun and $5,000 rocket launcher, but you can’t afford shoes.
3. You have more wives than teeth.
4. You wipe your butt with your bare left hand, but consider bacon “unclean.”
5. You think vests come in two styles: bullet-proof and suicide.
6. You can’t think of anyone you HAVEN’T declared Jihad against.
7. You consider television dangerous, but routinely carry explosives in your clothing.
8. You were amazed to discover that cell phones have uses other than setting off roadside bombs.
9. You’ve often uttered the phrase, “I love what you’ve done with your cave.”
10. You have nothing against women and think every man should own at least one.
11. You bathe at least monthly whether necessary or not.
12. You have a crush on your neighbor’s goat

Ok..here is goes. Im really not sure what kind of answer I seek here, but perhaps someone in internet-land can give me some helpful advice. My wife died 3 1/2 years ago of a heroin od. I came home to discover her body, held her in my arms, and proceeded to attempt to kill myself with her remaining heroin. Until this happened I had never done heroin. Unfortunatly I woke up the next day, with her laying beside me. I quickly discovered heroin’s ability to kill pain, emotional and physical. I am now an addict with a deathwish. Suicide is a thought constantly on my mind…like 1000 times a day. I keep putting off life becuase Im going to kill myself…but I never do. I just keep doing drugs and watching my life pass me by. I need help. I need a friend. Ive been contending with this all alone. In fact I seem to sabotage any healthy relationships I have. I feel worthless. I feel like a burdon. Does anyone have any advice? I feel lame putting my shit on all of you, but Imlost

He is a murderer, he killed both his innocent wife and innocent son. Therefore, he should go to hell. This is how you people regard all murderers, no matter what the motive or cause?

In that case, let’s look at a situation. It’s very different, but by your logic of all murderers should go to hell no matter what, it relates to Benoit’s tragedy.

Your father, who was a great man and took care of you for your whole life, got drunk at a party one time but wanted to get home as fast as he/she could. Judgement lowered, he/she decided to drive. While driving intoxicated he/she noticed another car coming out in front of her. However, his/her judgement lowered, he/she didn’t do anything to swerve out of the way and simply crashed into the side of the car. Now, both a mother and child in the car are dead.

Should your father, who also died, be completely disrespected and spat on at their funeral? Should your father go to hell? I mean, he didn’t have to drive, and he could’ve swerved.
Do not respond by saying “this situation is different.”

Benoit also had limited control of his actions as it’s been confirmed by sources that he was showing signs of insanity for months now in the locker rooms.

Also, Benoit was like a father to me. He inspired me to do what I do. Just because you people don’t know him doesn’t mean you should pass judgement on him more harshly than anyone else.
It WAS NOT steroid rage. It was confirmed it wasn’t. Steroid rage doesn’t last for 2 days. It was brain trauma or mental insanity.

The father in this situation could’ve chosen not to drink. Benoit could not have chosen not to go insane. You can’t let insanity undo all of the great things he has done in the past 20 years.
I AM NOT SAYING HE DIDN’T DO ANYTHING BAD.

What he did was terrible, and everyone was affected by his actions.

However, he did not have full control of them. He had a MENTAL ILLNESS.

I’m eighteen almost nineteen years old and my life is such a mess, all my life i have been raised by my gran due to my mums drug addiction and from a very young child i seen everything to do with drugs and alcoholism and understood all the ins and outs to it ..reality to me has been very clear all my childhood. My dad walked out on me and hasn’t returned as his new wife doesn’t accept me as family and so he didn’t even send me a card for my 18th or a xmas present last year… so i have been living with my gran .. and also in the household lives my uncle who is a binge drinker and gambler .. we had an argument a few days ago and he attacked me .. their was a riot in the house however i didn’t phone the police as my gran didn’t want to go to court against her own son and i respect my gran and didn’t want to put her in an awkward position so i decided to leave .. after a few hours i got so worried leaving her with my uncle that i returned to the house .. however she wouldn’t throw him out as he didn’t have any were to go. Through out all this for the last 2 years i have been seeing this guy and ive been really close to him .. we practically love one another however i have been keeping him a secret from the family as he is 40 ..i know its wrong but u cant help who you fall in love with ..he found out and says i was either to get out the house and stay with him for a while or hes phoning the police . .at a point he even said he was coming to speak with my gran about the situation. I tried explaining to him that i would prefer it if we broke all contact as im too stressed out and our situation isnt helping and he says he has my house number and friends numbers .. he could phone at any time but i need to learn to trust him.. however .. im constantly on edge every day. He bought me xmas presents and says i was to get a train to his house to collect them and he would drive me back with them.. but then i have the stress of explaining to my gran where i will be for 5 hours and how im going to get a sack full of presents from a secret lover into the house! i was so under stress with keeping secrets and trying to keep the peace and make everything ok with the family .. to make matters worse .. my so called ”best friends” havnt phoned or texted me in 4 weeks.. they found out about what my uncle done and didnt even bother to come and see if i was ok.. plus they all drive and one lives downstairs from me .. when i text them i get no reply .. also its my birthday 4 days after xmas and none of them have contacted me when i asked them if they would like to go for a meal for my birthday .. im paying .. im on the verge of having a breakdown .. im in such a mess and so confused .. i feel depressed and betrayed by everyone .. i don’t know what to do or who to turn to.

She has trouble walking up stairs, getting up from a chair, and getting started walking after standing up.
I first noticed her problem 2.5 yrs. ago. She practically had to crawl upstairs. The 18 mos. ago she broke her rt. shoulder requiring metal socket replacement operation. Her strength and balance got worse. She stopped phy. therapy because it hurt. The she was diagnosed with diabetes 2. All of this has piled on 12 prescription pills known by our family doctor. Can a WebMD medical specialist help us, please?
Here’s the drugs she’s taking: Lotrel, Toprol, Farosemide, Aromasin, Starlix, Temazepan, Lexapro, Fosamax, Allopurinol, Levothyroxine, Baby Asprin, Neurotin