How Do I Get My Wife Off Drugs?

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My son used to not drink or drug. when he went to college he started doing a litle here and there. It did catch up with him. Now he is not married no kids and lives his mother and I. He has a job. Works very well. He has been on a Meth. program for 2 years. He has stolen some of my drugs. In the last 7 years i have had to fight 3 types of cancer and problems. Many surgeries etc. He may could walk away after a detox i don’t know. His job may have medical benifits in about another month or two. Idon’t know if the benifit would be drug rehab. My wife and I are stable but have been sinking slowley because of dying mother in law and two grandchildren that we help over 70 percent in there finances. Actually i see no reason for him to quit. Her goes to work and when he gets home he lay’s in bed and watches t.v. He is paying off debts etc. for when he was away from home for a few years. He used to be everybody’s buddy but they all grew up and had families. he does have it made.

I know it sounds backwards. Usually it is the guy who is upset that the wife doesn’t want to have sex. We have been through the whole doctor route as well as seeing several psychologists. No change after several years of trying. We tried drugs for him and that didn’t work. I am now looking for a way to deal with this for my sanity. How do I go on and not feel angry and resentful? What is out there for a wife who finds herself in a sexless marriage? There have been a couple episodes on Oprah and Dr. Phil here and there about this topic. Is there anything else available to support these women? Any suggestions other than to take care of my desires and physical needs by myself. I would love to find some sort of blog or even a name of the type of doctor who could help women cope with this.

He still operates but has no formal address or phone number listed. Tried background check but nothing updated for past 3 years.

The house was once used as a meth house and when it went up for auction I purchased it. Now my son and his wife have lived in it for 3 or 4 years now, but keep feeling run down, and sick. Could it be the meth is causing the problem, if so can we fix the problem?