How Do I Get My Wife Off Drugs?

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I have a problem sometimes with getting upset easy and mood swings so i went to the doctor and they prescribed me lexapro. My wife went with me and was not happy with the doctor because she wanted them to put me on the highest dose of zoloft but the doctor suggested to try only a very small does of the other type first. My wife is very controlling and i fill she wants me all drugged up so she can controll me with no resistance. She did not seem happy after i went and did not even thank me. My wife did this before years ago to try to get me on meds so i would be easy to deal with so i did go on zoloft but than found out she was having and affair with another man. My wife seems to finds things to get between us to keep us distant. I think she may be doing this again. She took the day off work today but did not tell me , i came home early and asked her why she did not tell me she was taking the day off. she go upset. She still turns off the computer screen when i walk in on her. any help?

My brtoher, my only brother and sibling (no sisters), got married at 23 going on 24. so for him, kinda youngish. also he had just got out of college, it wasn’t the right time really. well a year later he developed a bad habit of binge drinking, which got him 3 dui’s in the same year, 4 emergency hospitalizations bc he drank rubbing alcohol after running out of regular alcohol, and several times in rehab. his wife got pregannt about 2 months b4 i did, and about 5 months into her pregnancy, he stopped his binge drinking and seemed to have changed. well 2 months after their daughter was born, he was back to it again. his daughter, now 6 months, has wound up getting hrut from it. the day afetr ym baby who si now 3 months was born, his wife claims that he had tried to kill their daughter by trying to choke her—she told my father this and I found out through the grapevine—in a drunken rage when she was crying. then, just a week ago, in one of his drunken states, he held her and she fell, with him, and had bruises on her body so she had to be examined. that was when his wife made him go to our aprents’ hosue and he stayed for an week. well hes back there again, and he got drunk again, with the baby with him alone. my sil went to work tonight, and she called my parents and said she was frantic that he was doing something to their daughter or neglecting her. I felt bad for her, but couldnt help but wonder why if she was worried about the very life of her daughter, she didn’t just leave work? she claims she would get fired bc she was the only one there 9it’s a store in the mall0 but is anything worth more than your daughter/ I told her this and got her to leave work. But I am still in a state of shock over my brother whom Ive never known to be a ‘bad’ or violent person. I am terribly worried about my niece and something happening to her, and also him, bc of his drinking. I also feel bad for his wife and my parents, bc his wife always calls them almost every time he “acts up” (b4 their daughter was born too), which in a way is not fair to my parents bc they’re older and hes a grown man, 28 years old. anyhow, how can I help my brother?
i have a 3-month-old myself and am afraid to even leave her in the same room alone with him for a min now. (when eh comes over and I’m there with her). I am also wondering if I should offer to watch their daughter for a few days/ (her parents already have their hands full with her siblings)?
also, I know this is babys ection, but I posted this in family as well, but I wanted to psot here bc it does involve some aspects of aprenting. also bc I’m stressed otu for ym brother, and terrified of soemthing happenign to him or my niece, and feeling bad for his wife, and also my parents, bc he is their only son, how can I not let this affect my parenting/ bc also my parents were partly my support system, and now I have almost no support system, bc they are now trying to focus their energy on helping him, which I think si what is necessary, but its also scary for me
is there any1 at all who can give me some advice? also, any1 else who has similar issues with their family that is also a new parent?

someone w exp- dad/mom marry- she already had 4 kids raised them w/ her working very little a few years then i came.all out of the house as far back as i can remember–(15yrs younger)except one. he’s 51 now/ex-con, smoking crack w/ “wife”still at the house. drug addict for 35 yrs., extensive, multiple rehabs- he said he wil do it until the day he dies. irs,ss check fraud, multiple thefts, + drug tests from p.o. leaves the state for weeks-months at a time on a binge. pimps out the wife. mother knows it all and still protects him. in jail 3 times on parole, they WON’T revoke it. daddy inherited a large sum of $. from his bro/sis, then passed away in2006.? is- anything i can do since all the $ made/inherited(&wisely invested) by my dad in his-original, i’ve seen it no copy,WILL left 50% to me/50% them to split, she’s spending it all supporting drug habit-daddy left it to her 1st-she goes we get it-don’t think any be left.plus b/c sit. her/i dont talkx2yr-? can she change it-can i fight it

Last week my wife’s buddy started hearing strange voices that were taunting her and laughing at her and she began to see dark shadows around her and even above her husband. This lasted through out the night while they prayed together and rebuked the images and voices in the name of Jesus. His wife even prayed the sinner’s prayer sincerely because she felt as if she may have never really been saved and also because she and her husband had been away from the Lord for over a decade. She claimed though that she could hear the voices that hovered above him talking to each other and saying that he was stronger than she was even though they both had been away from the Lord. The next morning his wife finally got about three hours sleep and felt a little better but still strange the next couple of days. They thought maybe the entire thing was withdraws from alcohol as she had been drinking allot of booze over the last decade for pain related to various medical issues but she hadn’t drank in 5 days. Now he tells me though it’s been 12 days since the incident she is claiming that “They” got her that morning she finally went to sleep and they have been controlling her to some extent since and that it was never alcohol withdraws. He at least believes it wasn’t withdraws because she has since had some alcohol again as she felt she needed to wean off alcohol if she was going to stop completely. Is his wife under Demonic attack? Is she suffering from some sort of loss of touch with reality from too much alcohol or from a Detox situation?

i recently went to court to retain custody of my 2 yr old son, i went in front of the judge submitted a dna test police reports and such his order was mother is to complete 9 months of intensive impatient drug treatment, there was a no contact order issued he also made it pertantly clear that she can only see him at my approval under supervision after she completes 9 months of rehab

we recently moved to dobbs ferry from florida the order was issued in florida is there a law that protects me fro running into future problems seeing as the judges orders clearly state that i am the custodail parent and that she is to have no contact which means no calling me my wife my mother grandparents etc… weather it be her or anyonbe else doing it for her

my 2 year old son is very happy with the only woman he has ever called mommy he is very happy he is taken to the park he is given nothing but unconditional love and this women who the last time saw him in febuary of 09 he cried as soon as i put him in her arms which was @ a halfway house and she still went out and smoked cracked

i dont get it i know i have to tell my son about her and i cannot wait until he is to old but he cant be to youbg either i do want him to know about her i will not ever tell him about the bad things i want him to choose if he wants a relationship with her assuming at that time she has long term sobreity (meaning 2 plus years)

i do not want him to resent me because he one day finda a birth certificate or sees pictures etc… i am just concerned about my son he has a good life and she (his biological) is only that and he will know her by her first name she has other kids whom she has nothing to do with i am just confused as to how to handle this situtation i knopw i am protected by the law i also know when the biological is sober she is not a bad person but i also know she cant tay clean to save her ass longer then a few months and all i want is for her to get well so my son can decide if he wants her in his life once he is old enough meaning somewhere between 5 & 7 yrs of age if i can find a correct way to tell him without tramatizing him because he has a Mommy and doesnt need a person in his life that wnats him to call her mommy yet is only there once every few months for day or so he was a convenience she used to ask me to keep him awake so she could play with him @ 11 pm @ night when he was only a yr old if he wouldnt eat she would force feed him i one time had to take him out of her hands and tell her to get the f**k away from my kid another time i had to pick her sorry azz up off the floor as she was passed out on drugs (many times)n i just dont know what to do i want the best life for my son and if that means she is a part of it somehow some way ok as long as he knows that she is only the biological , not the mommy

my son has so much love given to him by my wife and her sister and brother in law and all her cusins and her parents and ofcourse my mother and grand parents and aunt and uncles and cousins and so on please anyone who has experienced such things pos on this,thanks,

May GOD as you understand him/her/it bless you and your family

After having multiple negative pregnancy tests, and then missing her period, (now 3.5 weeks late) latest test shows my wife’s pregnant. We identified a few nights (3-5) with multiple drinks 1/2 bottle of wine, etc etc (birthdays, anniv,) as well as going into the jacuzzi 4X. We were careful to test for pregnancy before the outing and thought it was ok.

Could this have an effect on the baby/pregnancy? Hopefully not…