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Ok, I AM 49 YEARS OLD AND IN GREAT SHAPE AND LOVES LIVE. I HAVE A NICE HOME AND A COOL DOG AND 2 BOYS AND ….WELL A WIFE.

WE HAVE HAD OR ISSUES OVER THE YEARS , MOSTLY MONEY AND SEX. MY WIFE HAS NEVER CARE ABOUT MY NEEDS , BUT HAD AN AFFAIR WITH ANOTHER MAN ABOUT 6 YEARS AGO THAT LASTED 1 YEAR. SHE TOLD ME IF SHE COULD CONTINUE SEEING HIM, WE WOULD HAVE GREAT SEX AGAIN. SHE MOVED OUT WITH THE KIDS 5 YEARS AFTER THE AFFAIR BUT ASKED TO MOVE BACK HOME JUST 3 WEEKS AFTER MOVING OUT. I TOLD HER WE COULD JUST LIVE AS A FAMILY AND WORK ON THE HOME AND FAMILY AND SHE WAS HAPPY WITH THAT. BUT NOW SHE IS HOME AND SAYS SHE DOES NOT WANT TO WORK ON THE MARRIAGE AT LEAST FOR 1 YEAR AND JUST THE KIDS AND FAMILY . SO NO SEX. SHE ALSO COMPLAINS ABOUT THE MONEY SO MUCH WHEN WE ARE DOING GOOD WITH THE BILLS AND MORTAGAGE. SHE SAYS SHE DOES NOT WANT ME TO HAVE ANY DRINK OF BEER OR WINE, BUT I NEVER HAVE ABUSED IT EVER. IF WE GO OUT TO DINNER, I CAN NOT EVEN ORDER A GLASS OF WINE. SHE IS VERY CONTROLLING . SHE SAYS SHE DOES NOT LIKE ME SO I ASK WHY DID SHE COME HOME/ SHE SAID BECAUSE I TOLD HER WE COULD WORK JUST ON THE FAMILY FOR AWHILE. I DID NOT THINK SHE WOULD RUN WITH IT…………… I TOLD HER WE NEED TO GO TO COUNCELING AND SHE SAID OK BEFORE SHE MOVED BACK AND NOW SHE SAYS NO.I DO ALOT AT HOHE, CLEAN THE HOUSE, FOOD SHOP, THE YARD, DISHES , TAKE OUT THE TRASH… YOU NAME IT. I TREAT HER VERY GOD, BACK RUBS AND ALL AND AS SOON AS I WANT TO GET SOME LOVE, SHE BACKS OFF AND SAYS SHE DOES NOT LIKE ME BECAUSE OF MY WAYS. I DRANK BEER WHEN SHE MARRIED ME AND SO DID SHE AND I NEVER OVER DO IT. THEYE ARE OTHER THINGS SHE SAYS SHE DOES NOT LIKE ABOUT ME BUT WHEN I TELL HER WHAT I WOUD LIKE TO SEE HER DO, SHE WONT LISTEN AND DOES NOT CARE. NO GIVE AND TAKE.

HOW CAN I HANDLE THIS SITUATION ?? I AM SO UPSET WITH ER AND NOW SHE HAS DRUG THE KIDS INTO IT. ????

My wife never wants to work as we had to leave her home town where she was working for her dads business and has no other skills and a high school dropout.We lately had lot of financial problems because of her wayward ways of spending on drugs and clubs while I am working my ass off. I stopped putting money in joint account as she blows them away in cold cash with no proof of tracking expenses but instead give her weekly dollars for her cigarettes and other personal expenses rest of the bills I pay and She says in marriage everything is half and half. How can this be true if u contribute u can ask for half and half she neither does any work at home sleeping half the tiem nad smoking pot the rest of the time. She says she will divorce me if I don’t start putting the entire pay check in our checking account and subjecting me to a lot of verbal and emotional abuse.She was not like this when we started. My point is I too want to end this and go for divorce what are the chances of she getting alimony and how much ? We have been married for 3 years ..
Thanks for all answers. The sad part is I really want her to change she is good to her friends but really complacent in marriage. But all i get being called selfish as she says I expect things from her by doing things any other man would do for his wife (like paying bills and everything else)

i got a letter from immigration, they want more information that me and my wife are married for real, they sent the I-797E letter, if i send proof that we own a car together, she is on my health insurance, and she has used it before, and we have filed are taxes together. will this be anuff information ? i own the house we live in myself, she does not pay anything, i owned it long before we got married, we talked about this before we got married she was ok with it, i no american couples that have the same arrange meant and they are aloud to be married ? i pay all the bills ? i pay for everything. we have separate bank accounts, my wife keeps all the money she makes and can do what she want with it i don’t ask her for a dime, i don’t want to have any credit card together, besides that its to late now, because they are looking for the past 2 years record. i didn’t think are marriage would ever become a issue or i would have done a better job keeping records, we have jumped through all the hoops, and this is how we are treated, my wife is so happy with are arrange ments and so am i. she can make her own money and help her family out, i think its a great arrangement, i don’t think its right how we are being treated, i don’t even feel like a american myself, i have given the immigration people everything that they have asked for and this is how they treat me and my wife, i have a full time job and then some and am tired allot, and now i have to track down all these records its making me sick, and now i might have to hire a layer, me and my wife are happy with the way we are living, and now we are trying to start a family, and i have doctor records of that will this help to prove that we are really married ? enough is enough i no i am a simple man i have never been to collage, but i work hard and try to be a good person and do the right thing, i think i have provided plenty of information and have been very submissive to the immigration people i will send this other information, but if it is not enough what can i do, can i strike back if i hire a layer i want to be able to sue them and at least get my money back for what i pay the layer and lost wages etc… think about it if the immigration department would spend more time sending illegals back to there country and less time harassing working people like me and others it would be allot better, look at the mexicans that come across the border and take jobs illegal, and the ones that come across the border and deal drugs, why don’t they do some thing about them, instead of stressing me out and making me feel sick, if i hire a lawyer i want to make some money, go before a jury of my peers, i think most people would agree we have a problem with illegals, and harassing us citizens that are trying to live a peace full life with there spouses after going through all the hoops is not helping the problem. me and my wife are really married we don’t have credit cards, we live simple lives, maybe if we took out great dept together on a joint credit card with 12 % or greaterinterestt that would be great proof, but idon’tt want to have any more dept than i have now, theimmigrationn people can come live with me any time they want i have a extra bedroom, they will see we do the things married couple do, the big ? is being in great dept together really what being married is ?

So my wife was at a red light and got rearended by someone going 40 mph, and they were intoxicated. I Live in NJ where laws are messed up. We are responsible for the deductible plus 20% of all medical expenses for the first $5,000. My wife did nothing, and she is out of work all messed up and we are getting screwed. Then last week my washer leaked on my neighbor and caused damage and I have to pay that deductible. WTF I understand something that is my fault like the washer but what about the car? Yes I have homeowners and car ins.

My wife and 2 year old child moved in with her mom, 2 miles away, about a year ago. She has colon issues and was having a flare up and needed help, she was put on steroids and other drugs that made her moody, she wouldn’t ever admit it though. Our marriage suffered as a result. Well now she found a drug that is working for her colon, and is feeling better but not 100%. And i also discovered she is on an antidepressant as well, and our relationship has been better the last couple months too. How do I get her to move home? We hang out and talk daily, but every time I mention her moving home it turns into a argument. Should I discuss it with her mother?

For the past year to two years my marriage has been on a steady downhill slide. We have been married for almost eight wonderful years but my wife has seemed to let the verse “bad associations spoil useful habits” take control of her life. The problems started when she started associating with a group of people that have ALL been in trouble with the law for drugs and possession of drugs. I could see the trouble on the horizon and asked, begged and demanded that she pay close attention to where she was headed but to no avail. We have two children, ages 3 and 7 together and for the past 3 months she has quit all of her wifely duties from cleaning to sexual relations. When we (I) discuss it she blows up and refuses to discuss it, only stating over and over that she wants a divorce. I can not leave because I am the only one working but she wont even try and find work. Is there anything I can do legally to get her removed at least until she is ready to be married again or we divorce?? HELP!

I drank alcoholically for along time. Did all the things your not supposed to do. but have never been unfaithful. We have two teenage boys at home in a 14yr. marriage and 19 yr. relationship.I’m 41, she’s 44. My repeated attempts to stop always ended me in rehab programs or detox, till this last time when she dropped me off at yet another detox clinic and said don’t come home. the only chance was to get with a sponser and work the twelve step program of AA. Now I live in a
sober house, work the program. am involved in the fellowship of AA, and get to see my family just not stay with them. Any chance she’ll let me come home any time soon?

she punched me and cut me on my throat the officer took picures and no one got arrested? help
im on non reporting probation

Mother is in a mental institution for a five-day evaluation. According to my mother, my brother informed her of his intention to send the baby home to be taken care of by my father, my husband and I and my mother while he is working (he’s a Coast Guard and has to be on the boat).

It has already been established by my brother and my father upon his arrival that the mother (19 years old, diagnosed with depression with suicidal tendencies and alcoholism, who has been hanging with people affiliated with gang members and my brother thinks she may have joined because is wearing their colors) is unstable and unfit to care for the child.

My brother also caught his wife cheating after coming home a day early from the boat.

She drinks Hennesey straight out the bottle and uses marijuana (we fear she may be on other drugs because she weighs about 85lbs – was always slim but now it’s very gaunt)

Question: Legally, can my brother send the baby to Michigan from Missouri?

Is all upset…How do i put up with her?

Long story short, my wife went out of town (business) so me an a few of my friends got shitfaced at the house. We ran out of beer around 3am so we played rock,paper, scissors…I lost so i drive to the liquor store and get another 24 pack and head home. I think i see a hot chick (which later turned out not to be) on the side of the road, distracted looking at her i go to pull in the driveway (still looking in my rear view mirror at what i thought was a hot chick) an BAM!! i hit the house with the car. I kinda think “put it in reverse an get the hell out of here” for a minute…then i realize its my house…My buddy’s come out an we decide to tape the side of the house up with 3 rolls of duct tape and paint the tape white to match the house. My wife will be home in 3 hours an i cant think of any good lies…..Any ideas?
I was thinking about telling her the car was stolen, then returned by a drunk who hit the house pulling in the driveway.

I cheated on my wife during a business trip. I have ben married for 13 years. That woman called my home and now my wife has filed for divorce and has kicked me out the home. I want to save my marriage and my 2 kids. What do I do?

She has filed for divorce and I am in a hotel. I want to save my marriage but I feel I have nowhere to go. She told me to get an apartment and maybe in time, thigns could work out. She is allowing me to see my kids but I cannot understand why I cannot just stay at home to save my family, my job and keep the financials going?

I have had a history of bad beainvor like DWI’s and such and she always stuck by my side. I cheated becuase I was drunk. I did not hvae a drink for 1.5 years until the adultery.

I need help on how to help save my marriage.

Home remedies for migraines are generally old wifes tales but certain things can help relieve the pain. Migraines are repeated headaches that often affect only one side of the head. The discomfort , however , is gigantic and folk suffering from migraines are known to show symptoms like bad temper and exhaustion. Pain killers only become worse matters and aren’t suggested. Home remedies for migaines are not a but a good substitute to taking masses of tablets.

As discussed before, an excessively hectic daily schedule is right at the top when it comes to causing migraines. In a number of cases, migraines are also caused due to the consumption of particular sorts of substances. Consult a medical consultant to absolutely understand the drugs you take. While home remedies for migraines are mildly effective you must always keep some medication close at hand to act as a back up.

Keep changing the leaves with fresh ones. Grind it into a fine paste, apply on the forehead and leave it on for an hour. Carrot juice too is a brilliant cure. Mix it with spinach, beet and cucumber juices to maximize results. These kinds of home remedies for migraines are proven to be excellent.

Migraines can be treated effectively by cleansing the body of toxins. Fasting on juices like OJ, carrot and cucumber juice will rid your body of poisons and bring sustained relief. On days of fasting drink a lot of warm water to clean your bowels. Additionally, don’t consuming too much of wheat flour products, sugar and tinned food. Confectionary, rich cakes and pastries, oily foods, pickles, condiments and sauces are better evaded. Also eat often and drink a lot of water. Caffeine is another product to be exactly kept away from.

Niacin is a vitamin that actually combats migraines. It is sumptuously found in yeast, green leafy plants, nuts, tomatoes, sunflower seeds and fish. Include these foods in your diet to expedite relief. A hot bath 2 times a day will also lessen the discomfort considerably. Follow up the bath with a cold compress to the head and a hot compress on the back of the neck. Fresh air bimbles in the mornings and evenings are best. These types of home remedies for migraines can really help to stop much of the pain casued.

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So, if you have tried home remedies for migraines and would like to look at something else then .

She didn’t feel like walking 3 blocks to the car, but felt I was too drunk to drive once she was in the car.

Is this typical female logic?

and the husband who is drunk can also say wrong thngs to the child that can disturb the child?
and the woman must endure…and feel bad and unable to concentrate to her life?

And you are sober as can be, but she is a drunk skunk that is acting seductive. Is it wrong to have sex with her if she is really drunk and you are not?

She is 40 I’m 44

We been happily married for 18 glorious years in her mind.

For the afflicted ones and their caregivers, an Alzheimer’s diagnosis is something like a death sentence. At first, the effects are almost unnoticeable: you cannot find keys or forget friends or relatives names. The losses often occur over many years. As Alzheimer’s disease continues to destroy nerve cells in the brain, the incidents become more frequent. Along with progressive memory loss, you may become moody and agitated, and begin wandering often in the middle of the night. Eventually, the severity of the problem becomes manifest, for example as you get lost walking on the street where you have lived for 30 years!

Why Alzheimer’s disease leads to a battle for both patient and caregiver? What kind of help a person with Alzheimer’s can receive at home?

Someone who is listening attentively his doctor giving the Alzheimer’s diagnosis has all the reasons in the world to believe that the end of the world has started. Why? The terror is acute in this early stage of the disease, because the person still has enough self-awareness to know that something is terribly wrong. Then, the battle is on. What kind of battle? Against bad feelings! This person may start thinking: If I cannot remember who I am and recognize my wife or my husband, I’m going to become just an empty shell of my person. Depression phase can start or increase quickly.

In the middle stage of Alzheimer’s, they no longer possess that awareness. Sufferers recognize fewer loved ones, have hallucinations, and regress into a childlike dependence. They may get lost in their own homes. They need help dressing, bathing, and toileting. Conversations with middle-stage sufferers are difficult, because they may no longer remember thoughts long enough to express them or recall questions long enough to answer them.

The late stage of Alzheimer’s is probably the worst for caregivers and loved ones. In this stage, sufferers lose continence and the ability to walk by themselves. At the end, they may forget how to swallow, even how to breathe.

Caring for a person with Alzheimer’s disease at home is a challenging task. It is another kind of battle for the caregiver: how to be able to help the Alzheimer’s victim without being overwhelmed? Here are a few helpful tips that can help both patient and caregiver:

-  Adjust your communication approach to the patient’s changing needs as the disease progresses.

-  Schedule wisely. Determine the time of day when the patient is most calm and agreeable. Schedule the most difficult tasks, such as bathing or medical appointments, for that time period.

-  Establish routines in activities of daily living.

-  Let him or her help. Involve the person in tasks as much as possible.

-  Set up a safe home environment.

-  Maintaining social contacts and fun. Schedule visitors. Even if the person with Alzheimer’s does not recognize those who visit, the contact is important and valuable for him or for her.

-  Limit choices. Having fewer options makes deciding easier.

There are currently two drug classes that have been approved by the U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA) to treat the cognitive symptoms of Alzheimer’s disease:

1) Cholinesterase inhibitors (Aricept, Exelon, Razadyne, cognex)  

2) N-methyl-D-aspartate (NMDA) receptor antagonists (Namenda)

 In the other hand, alternative treatment is another medicine field that has demonstrated interesting results. Scientific agree with the idea that Alzheimer’s is not the ‘disease’ at all but it is a “symptom” of a damaged inner terrain that simply is too polluted, toxic, and acidic. It has been proved that when you “cleanse” the body from the overflow of acids, it starts to heal and rebuild itself. It starts to recover and gradually it starts to reverse your Alzheimer’s and restore your body to a state of vibrant health and energy!

To learn more about how to overcome Alzheimer’s safely and naturally click the  link below: