How Do I Get My Wife Off Drugs?

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This past weekend, we had a bachelors party for a friend of mine, we got really intoxicated and we ended up passing out in the hotel room [four of us]. Well I was awoken by the groom with one of his hand down my underwear and the other rubbing my chest, at first I thought it was a dream but I opened my eyes after a bit and it was him, I ddint say anything but I did ejaculate. The next day he acted as if nothing happened. They are getting married on Saturday. That was all that happened but I dont know if I should tell the wife he has those sorts of tendencies.

I moved in with her 10 years ago because I loved her and she needed help financially. She had only food stamps at that time and she stopped her house payments through a mortgage program so she didn’t have to pay it until she got on here feet. I paid the electricity and other utilities for about 6 months and cut the grass and fixed thing around the house.She used her food stamps to feed us.She cooked , cleaned, packed my lunch and liked having sex a whole lot and she still does all these things but sometime she goes on drinking binges and starts nagging me to start paying her something to help out with the bills, I have a full time job and make okay money,not lots,but she is now paying all the bills, unless there is a shortage of hers because she bounces a check every once in a while so I give her whatever bill she needed help on. Now she says she is tired of being broke all the time and wants me to pitch in once in awhile. This makes me mad she wants money from me because I cut the grass, fix guy stuff around the house and take her to dinner once in awhile. She is on disability because she has a bad back and has gone through 3 surgeries in the last 2 years yet she can still do everything for me and pay all the house bills(The house is in her name so she should) Why does she say it makes her feel used by me. I don’t think I am using her. Do you and do you think she has the right to be angry when I don’t help out to live with her? I would love some answers tonight because she wants me to move out if I do not help her out. She wants $300 a month and it cost her $1,000 to run the place. She can do it so why is she wanting to kick me out?
In her defence Banana she worked all her life then had a horrible car accident and almost died. They put her spine back together with rods and bolts. It took her 2 years to be able to walk again. Now she is having trouble with the hardware in her back detereating. Don’t speak of her like she’s nothing as a matter of the fact do not speak about anything unless you ask about how she ended up that way
Snoot, good name. Your man seems to be used by you. You’re the kind of women that make other women look bad. So I guess you got a sucker to take care of you. I’m so happy for you. He should run from you!

I went to a concert while on the medication Chantix to quit smoking. I drank two beers and the next eight hours I can not tell you what happened. I got busted eight hours later for DWI. This was just the start of my problems. After I got out I called my work which I have to use a company vechile. I lost the job after 4 years of nothing but high marks on everyone of my performance reviews. I filed for unemployement and am disquailifed for 8 weeks. I talked to the bank and was working out some options to keep my house but now my sewer backed up. To add to all the pressure now my wife’s sales have fell below guidelines and she is getting fired in the next few days because of everything I have done. I have 3 teens at home and my savings have been drained with lawyer fees, court cost and just general expenses. I put in a hundred resumes to jobs I am well suited for all the way to jobs that ask if you want fries with that. I am going to lose everything and possiblly have to file bankrupty on top of it. My question is has this ever happened to anyone and is there any hope of anything in the future. I am having a hard time seeing it.

i recently went to court to retain custody of my 2 yr old son, i went in front of the judge submitted a dna test police reports and such his order was mother is to complete 9 months of intensive impatient drug treatment, there was a no contact order issued he also made it pertantly clear that she can only see him at my approval under supervision after she completes 9 months of rehab

we recently moved to dobbs ferry from florida the order was issued in florida is there a law that protects me fro running into future problems seeing as the judges orders clearly state that i am the custodail parent and that she is to have no contact which means no calling me my wife my mother grandparents etc… weather it be her or anyonbe else doing it for her

my 2 year old son is very happy with the only woman he has ever called mommy he is very happy he is taken to the park he is given nothing but unconditional love and this women who the last time saw him in febuary of 09 he cried as soon as i put him in her arms which was @ a halfway house and she still went out and smoked cracked

i dont get it i know i have to tell my son about her and i cannot wait until he is to old but he cant be to youbg either i do want him to know about her i will not ever tell him about the bad things i want him to choose if he wants a relationship with her assuming at that time she has long term sobreity (meaning 2 plus years)

i do not want him to resent me because he one day finda a birth certificate or sees pictures etc… i am just concerned about my son he has a good life and she (his biological) is only that and he will know her by her first name she has other kids whom she has nothing to do with i am just confused as to how to handle this situtation i knopw i am protected by the law i also know when the biological is sober she is not a bad person but i also know she cant tay clean to save her ass longer then a few months and all i want is for her to get well so my son can decide if he wants her in his life once he is old enough meaning somewhere between 5 & 7 yrs of age if i can find a correct way to tell him without tramatizing him because he has a Mommy and doesnt need a person in his life that wnats him to call her mommy yet is only there once every few months for day or so he was a convenience she used to ask me to keep him awake so she could play with him @ 11 pm @ night when he was only a yr old if he wouldnt eat she would force feed him i one time had to take him out of her hands and tell her to get the f**k away from my kid another time i had to pick her sorry azz up off the floor as she was passed out on drugs (many times)n i just dont know what to do i want the best life for my son and if that means she is a part of it somehow some way ok as long as he knows that she is only the biological , not the mommy

my son has so much love given to him by my wife and her sister and brother in law and all her cusins and her parents and ofcourse my mother and grand parents and aunt and uncles and cousins and so on please anyone who has experienced such things pos on this,thanks,

May GOD as you understand him/her/it bless you and your family

Chances are someone close to you such as your friend, mother, wife, sister or even yourself has been touched by breast cancer in one way or another. That’s why it is so important that we never give up fighting for a cure.

Finding a cure is not impossible, but it is definitely a long, hard battle. Raising funds for the technology for early diagnosis, treatments options, and breast cancer research is vital. Education and support to breast cancer patients is also crucial for survival. That’s why the Royal Canadian Mint has produced its second color circulation coin to help support the Canadian Breast Cancer Foundation.

This special 25-cent piece coin entitled “Creating a Future Without Breast Cancer,” displays a colored pink ribbon in its center, with three additional silver ribbons around the border. As the Royal Canadian Mint says, this coin was created as “A tribute to courage [and] a symbol of Hope.” Thirty-million coins began their circulation in Canada on April 1, 2006.

The coins are being circulated across Canada, and Canadian shoppers could receive one as a pleasant surprise in their change at their local Shoppers Drug Mart. They can also be purchased directly from the Royal Canadian Mint’s website.

However, The Breast Site, an information portal on the topic of breast health and breast cancer decided to offer 1000 coins, one to every individual U.S. reader, who didn’t have access to the coins. On June 8, 2006 The Breast Site launched its Pink Ribbon Coin Promotion, offering the breast cancer coin to its U.S. readers for a limited time as a symbol of hope.

Well, I’m happy to announce that The Breast Site has officially sent out its 1000th pink ribbon coin! We’d like to thank every reader who filled out the online form to receive their very own free breast cancer coin. Only 1000 coins were available, so hopefully you were one of the lucky recipients who submitted your form before the 1000th coin was sent today.

Amie Cunningham, a writer for thebreastsite.com who also worked on the team that mailed out the Pink Ribbon coins says, “It was so great to see so many men and women of all ages taking advantage of this special opportunity! It’s too bad that there were only 1000 coins available, because there were many applicants who submitted after the last coin was sent.”

Editors at The Breast Site urge readers to continue to check back for other great promotions that the site plans to introduce in the future. Cunningham notes, “The very first Breast Site newsletter will be launched in the very near future.”

I’m originally from asia but currently live in the US and met the love of my life. I swear this girl and I were made for each other and have so much love for each other. We both want to get married but…I would like to raise my kids to be non drinkers (and she agreed to that but i expect her to not drink, at least at home or in front of them) and would like the possibility of either moving overseas or possibly even to another state, but she is completely refusing to even entertain the ideas. Will I ever move? I don’t really know, i just want to know that she would be ok with it.

All i really want to do is know that my future wife or wife when she is is willing to do whatever it takes and is willing to do anything for her husband and family, is that too much to ask? I must point that she is very close to her family, as i am close to mine but that is a big reason why she would not want to move, naturally.

Any and all thoughts are most welcome, thanks in advance.