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i met my wife and for a long time never met her family, she told me that her son’s father was totally out of her life because he was a loser. i married her now i find out that her family is really awful. her mother is nuts, cusses, swears, says things to her like she wishes my wife was never born, her brothers are all power hungry or lie or are drug addicts. her son’s father is now threatening her and trying to ruin her life and take the child. he’s apparently very abusive and now i’m like what the f#ck i feel totally cheated or duped. after we got married she then started complaining to me for hours everyday about her mother, her family of origin, her ex. it has become our life to just talk about her family or her ex and not only that i can’t now even get her to go out on a date with me alone without children because she feels guilty leaving her son alone because he just screams if he doesn’t get exactly what he wants. I finally said i had enough and that i don’t even feel like i have a marriage or with everyone but my wife and left. i told her when she feels like being married then get rid of all the drama. what should i do?

i heard from multiple resources that my girlfriend of two(2) years used to go clubbing, sleep around(sex) and take the money of a 42 year old man. she is 21 now and she was 18 at the time.(42-18=22) i know that she met the same guy when we were going out for 10 days as she told me that he was her friend’s boyfriend(its a lie) and she always called me from the toilet. i heard, that at that specific night out, they made out in his car with my gf sitting on his lap and grinding. he also grabbed her **** and grinded his dick on her crotch and came in his pants. this happened when we were together for 10 days. she has been with me for 2 years and we’ve been living together for 9 months. what disgusts me more was that the guy was a country-styled low cultured guy and she had slept around with him only for money. and yes they had full sex Before me. by the way we had sex in the 3rd day of our relationship. AND REMEMBER: i was with her when they made out and he came in the car, half naked

how can i live with this? how can i look at her vagina and not think of a middle aged penis went trough it? how can i see her as naive as i used to? how can i live with the cramps in my stomach? how can i not be disgusted by her??? how can i not think of the fact that the girl who gave me the best days of my life and gave me love that nobody did was the mistress of a married, rich but low class, moustached, stinky-testicled, mafia-ish man? how do i think of her as my future wife? in 10 years time, how do i live everyday looking at my kids knowing their mother did those… AND FOR GODS SAKES HOW DO I STOP LOVING HER TO DEATH.

i know i must leave her. my brain tells me. but i’d rather write a note and shoot myself…. she was my angel…. now…. FALLEN….. arghhh i want to die… i want to die… i want to torture that guy and then tie a stone to his feet and throw him in the sea…… AAAAAAAAHHHH…….. i just love her…. i cant even talk to her cuz i dont want to harm the status quo…

im not even close to being ready to leave her. if we break up i’ll probably drop out of college, lock myself in and use heroin to prevent myself from committing suicide… i dont know what to do. i’ve stopped seeing my friends. she became my life. she is my daily dose of happiness…. i dont know what the HELL to do

lying all along. He and I have had a rocky 8 year marriage. This was his second marriage and my first. He treated me worse than he treated the first wife.. Well last year after he left every few months for a week are two during 8 years of our marriage. ( the longest we were together without him leaving was 9 months b/c he had a wreck and could not drive due to being disabled now) but as soon as he could get around with a limp he left to party again. Last year I divorced him and about 6 months later he came back crying going to kill himself b/c he realized how much he loved me and what he had done wrong and for a few weeks he treated me so good then here we go again. I mean it never stops.. He is 33 years old and we bacame engaged again in February of this year… I had agreed to trust him and start over and I did exactly that but later found out he was lying all along. While he is home and disabled and collecting a disability check I am working. I never say anything about it.. but he leaves and goes off with friends he promised to stay away from becuase of situations that happened in the past. ( i.e showing them naked pictures of me for beginners) and was again smoking and drinking and taking non RX drugs which he promised to discontinue. I had told him before we started again that I would not start again b/c I did not want to feel that I was taking things from him by laying out what I did and did not want in a relatinship.. He agreed and promised just one more time….. As of March 13 I caught him in so many lies and told him to come and pick me up from where he was or I would pack his things and we would be through. He said he was not coming to get me.. I knew something was up then… He blames me for ending out relationship b/c he was supposedly visiting his mother… That was not true either b/c he was already slurring his words when I chatted with him… Anyway… that was on a Friday… By Monday he had met someone and said he would never cry again and was moving on.. It hurts very bad that I have been there for him through so much… Legal battles, courts, fines, accidents, DWI’s and have always supported him and stood by him then he meets a girl and says in 3 days they have more than he and I ever had…. It hurts so much becuase myself and his children love him… He even went so far as to sign his rights away regarding his 12 year old daughter, his first child from his first marriage becuase he did not want to finish his 3 month jail sentence for failure to pay support. It makes me feel that now becuase this girl is so great he will treat her as he should have been treating me and our children…. Any thoughts on this are so welcomed….

I’m a wife and mother who has found myself overwhelmed by my alcohol use. What started out as something to relax or calm my nerves over the stresses of marriage, work etc has multiplied into a problem. Now I am drinking every single day, earlier sometimes too. I also smoke cigarettes and run off to the bar because I don’t want to drink or smoke around my daughter.

I need some words of encouragement because it feels like i’m not strong enough to stop this cycle. I am wasting money, like $200 a month on my drinking/cigarette habits. I want to stop but when the stress starts, it seems it’s the only release I have.

HELP!
OK. Those quotes didn’t really help me with my problem but thanks, it is interesting. I’m not only talking about Christianity, but believers of God, in general.

Make the arrest, throw him in a jail cell and forget about him until they raid all over the news that Obama’s missing the next day before telling sgt that you had arrested Obama for DUI the night before or would you stand there kissing ass all the while allowing him to call for someone to come pick him up? In all honesty.

If you would allow him to call for a ride, then whats the difference between Obama, and your family, friends, your wife’s father, your wife’s father’s mother, your wife’s father’s mothers friend, your wife’s father’s mothers friends father, your wife’s father’s mothers friends fathers daughter, your wife’s father’s mothers friends fathers daughters pet rat?

Kansas doctor, wife who ran clinic linked to 68 deaths found guilty of conspiracy, fraud
WICHITA, Kan. – Defense attorneys plan to seek the release of a Kansas doctor and his wife while they appeal their convictions in a case highlighting the medical treatment of chronic pain sufferers and prescription drug abuse.

Read more on Minneapolis-St. Paul Star Tribune

We got married two weeks ago. We went on our honeymoon. She went out of town for work for a week. While there, she got drunk every night and danced “on” the bar at several clubs. The reason I know this is I heard her telling her sister about it on the phone. I was in another room. Her story to me was “same old stuff, boring conference.”

After having multiple negative pregnancy tests, and then missing her period, (now 3.5 weeks late) latest test shows my wife’s pregnant. We identified a few nights (3-5) with multiple drinks 1/2 bottle of wine, etc etc (birthdays, anniv,) as well as going into the jacuzzi 4X. We were careful to test for pregnancy before the outing and thought it was ok.

Could this have an effect on the baby/pregnancy? Hopefully not…

after she stopped puking. then laughing and then called the Center for Disease control. She checked me into rehab for obvious addiction to crack w h o r e s. Got really drunk then slept a football team. then stiil left me cuz my pecker fell off thanks Slippery oh yea the question sry was my wife right to do that ?

First of all.. Please understand that i am not native english speaker. I am learning and I think i am getting better.
I was just outside for lunch break. I found out there was only 5 or 6 left in my percocet case. My wife is suffering with depression. I remember in the past she take 10 pain killer with alcohol. I understand her past is bothering her a lot from abortion that she didn’t even wanted to have. Doctor said to her she will be in risk or baby. She had abortion because of this. It’s been bothering her a lot. She crys almost everyday and looking up in the sky. I am far away from my house now and I am really worried. What is the best way i can do now? I don’t even know if she take 12 percocet.
I am using my friend account. I didn’t have time to make new yahoo account.