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Is it too late for me to get married? Where can I find a wife?

admin — Fri, 20 May 2011 05:02:19 +0000

Basically, Ive always been average at everything, and rather ugly and shy around women, Ive been rejected all my life and ave neevr had a date or kissed girl. I turned 40 in january, 5 years ago approxmatley i got sick of not knowing and had sex with a hooker. I feel even worse, I mean I have to pay a woman to sleep with me….how can anyone be so undesirable that the only way they can get female contact is by funding some poor womans drug habit? I visited my mum yesterday, and I dont mean this in a sexual way, but t as the closest thing to marriage I have ever felt, a cooked meal, a woman who cared about me, leaving was the hardest thing I ever had to do and I nearly downed a bottle of pill when I got back to my empty cold flat. Im a doctor btw, I make a lo of money but what good are material possesions. My mum always thought I didnt get married because I was too busy wih my job, but thats not true, I try so hardt find love. i broke down in front of her and crie and blabbed about how lonely I was.
What can I do? Is it worth me spending my money on stuff like eharmony and match? Or should I just pay for some female company and acceptits the closest thing I’ll ever have

What do you do if you’re starting to find out you and your wife aren’t compatable?

admin — Mon, 28 Mar 2011 23:01:11 +0000

I’ve known her for 7 years, we were best friends for 3 years and have been in a relationship for over a year and a half, 2 years in October. Now we aren’t actually married, we’re engaged. I proposed to her after like two months of dating because I had been best friends with her and had known her for long enough and WELL enough to make the decision to head on the path to marriage with her. We have been engaged the whole time and are planning to get married in December and move in sometime shortly before that. We both haven’t had any other relationships outside of this, I mean I’ve known her for 7 years And I guarentee about 5 and a half of those years I couldn’t do much else because I had to be pretty devoted to her. I mean my Fiancee’s a full time job one of the main problems is I’ve dropped all my friends, family, career EVERYTHING for her we will lose our virginity together, get married, have children, we planned our whole lives (And I’m most worried about mine) around our marriage.

I don’t know if she just wasn’t herself ’till now or what, I’ve been the same person the whole time I NEVER change. And I still have the next 2-3 planned around us moving in together, getting married, maybe fueling my dream career or her college I think it’s literally impossible to do anything else.

But I’m noticing little things, like today she sent me an email saying she’s going vegetarian. (no offence to vegetarians) But I HATE shit like that. I just started screaming at her saying that I’m not going to pay for her crazyness, we are college students we cannot AFFORD her wanting to become a vegetarian and as I knew her email is clogged with stuff from PETA and her house is probably filled with her new obsessive vegetarian stuff she already made some pledge not to eat meat for 30 days. Well then I guess she’s not going to be able to eat, because she needs nutrition and I’m going by money here and as always she acts like she has no brain.

It’s stuff like how she keeps dying her hair. She’s dying it so much it’s thin and ugly and probably falling out and she’s not telling me. I HATE shit like that too. It drives me beyond crazy.

It’s stuff like how one day she seems determined to have two jobs (like how I do) and take care of me and she’s doing everything and making all these plans so we can leave and be together sooner but what she plans usually make no sense (to me) because they don’t involve me, or she doesn’t do them AT ALL there’s some reason.

She promises me all these things and I say where are they and they don’t exist, what do they only exist in her head?

And another thing that she does is she acts REALLY naive, and innocent, and ignorant and helpless so I’ll do everything (I have no problem doing that) She can be the housewife and I can be the provider but THEN she gets cold and says she’s independant and doesn’t need me and it just happened and she has to go away and fix it now and has no explanation of why she’s completely changed.

She seems helpless, as to why she does so many stupid things but then she does whorish stuff (She almost wasn’t a virgin, I am a virgin and I will only marry a virgin) She’s only a virgin because I scared all her boyfriends to death so they wouldn’t touch her. Not like she wouldn’t've jumped in. We wern’t “together” together then she says. She seems so ignorant and lovely but then she wants to go to college (AND LEAVE ME she WOULD HAVE TO LEAVE ME TO GO) or have sex with people other than me! Or get piercings and tattoos or do drugs and drink or stay with her abusive mother, her mother is bipolar and used to beat her yet she says it’s her mother.

I would never love a mother that beat me.

She seems naive, but her actions make me want to leave her and never come back. I cannot treat her as naive when she becomes “independant” from me 3 times and able to “live completely without me” and has other people. Jesus Christ. I’m her Fiancee why would she do that? Why the hell would she tell me how unhappy she is and now she can live without me and that’s probably why she’s unhappy.

If you plan on hanging out with abusive people that do drugs and drink and ruin their lives you obviously aren’t so naive my love.

That’s how I feel.

You can’t be innocent and be with people like that, reguardless of friends, family, classmates.

Someone so sheltered and lovely wouldn’t be anywhere NEAR people like that. Someone so helpless wouldn’t be around people that use them for sex or take drugs because their friends do and they want to fit in. Or they hate themself. Someone so dark isn’t so innocent.

but she acts really, really stupid. Like innocent, ignornant, stupid. If you say you’re into BDSM you are NOT innocent by any means! Nor will I treat
Nor will I treat you as such!

I feel like you made your bed now lie in it.

I don’t know what to do. I’m on a crash course for marriage with this girl. I’m getting married in 5 and a half months.

I am seeing things, that yes, I can atleast say for the first 6 years wern’t there. I don’t know what to do. She just keeps getting more unattractive and more crazy by the day.

But she’s also the sucidal type. I love my Fiancee to death but there are these little ticks. I don’t know if there’s something wrong or what.

And I couldn’t even break up with her if I wanted to. Or make our relationship less intense, call off the wedding. She’d have a fit.

And she says she’d kill herself if I broke up with her.
I don’t doubt it for a moment.

I’m scared to even ask to get away from her because of that.

I just don’t understand.

I feel like there’s something wrong and I wish I had someone to talk to about it.
I most definately cannot marry her.

And she won’t change.

And
she won’t change.

And if I even wanted to call our wedding off, call everything off. Even for time, I fear the consequences. I’m sorry for how long this is but please read it thank you for the answers. I need them!

By the way, I am a girl and my Fiancee is a girl so please don’t tell me to be a man or something or say anything about her having me whipped. It will fall on deaf ears I’m not a man.
thank you

And we call each other our wives. Well I call her my wife, my spouse so I thought the title didn’t matter. :\

I find this offensive. Do you?

admin — Fri, 04 Mar 2011 05:07:51 +0000

Jeff Foxworthy on Muslims:

1. You refine heroin for a living, but you have a moral objection to liquor.
You may be a Muslim

2. You own a $3,000 machine gun and $5,000 rocket launcher, but you can’t afford shoes..
You may be a Muslim

3. You have more wives than teeth.
You may be a Muslim

4. You wipe your butt with your bare hand, but consider bacon unclean.
You may be a Muslim

5. You think vests come in two styles: bullet-proof and suicide.
You may be a Muslim

6. You can’t think of anyone you haven’t declared Jihad against.
You may be a Muslim

7. You consider television dangerous, but routinely carry explosives in your clothing.
You may be a Muslim

8. You were amazed to discover that cell phones have uses other than setting off roadside bombs.
You may be a Muslim

9. You have nothing against women and think every man should own at least four.
You may be a Muslim

10. Your cousin is president of the United States ..
You may be a Muslim

11. You find this offensive or racist and don’t forward it.
You may be a Muslim [or an out of office liberal]

please help me to find out mistakes in the writting?

admin — Thu, 04 Nov 2010 03:09:33 +0000

ignore the logic.
just help me to check it pelase,
thanks advance
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thanks advance:D

How do I find out the culprit?

admin — Wed, 08 Sep 2010 04:14:14 +0000

Few months ago 3 of my friends visited our home and stayed with us for 2 days. After they left my wife had complained that her upper inner wear (bra) was missing, and we took that the same might have been lost casually. During their subsequent visit too, another of her inner garments (bra) went missing and my wife was sure that it was one among them who would have taken it. Last week they had come back for another visit and this time my wife wontedly hung and spread them around in all rooms hoping to catch a glimpse of the person who was taking it. During our dinner at the weekend, we all drank well and were asleep in our chairs highly intoxicated. My wife was wearing a cotton shirt with a bra inside. Next day morning she wokeup and informed me that the bra which she was wearing inside was missing.it was shocking but we found it embrassing to ask them about it (I had a doubt that she might have removed it without her remembering it, but she was sure that she was wearing) . The visited us this weekend too for dinner, and my wife did not wear any upperwear ( she was topless) throughout their visit for dinner as protest against me not finding out the culprit. How do I find out the culprit?

I need to find the actual cause of my erectile disfunction?

admin — Sat, 21 Aug 2010 13:02:08 +0000

I’m a 36 years old male and married since November 2006. Since 4 years to now I’ve been experienced erectile disfunctions more often. I have no hormones problems nor physical nor anatomical conditions and one day it just came up. I work well with sildenafil (viagra) but without it I can’t perform in bed with my wife and when I masturbate (I don’t take drugs, I’m not alcoholic, I love and desire my wife, I’m not gay, and this happens even when I’m not stressed nor depressed). My urologyst said I’m prone to retain urine because of emotional causes and my doctor said I have metabolic syndrome

I want to find drug rehabs in North Salt lake, Utah. How do I go about this?

admin — Wed, 04 Aug 2010 11:11:32 +0000

My brother, as well as his wife, are both addicted to heroin. They really need to get themselves treated. I feel sorry for their kids. I have already offered to take care of their daughters if they go through inpatient rehabilitation. I think that would be better for them. They already agreed to getting themselves treated. I just want to help them find the right drug rehab. How will I do this?

how can i find out if my wife is on drugs!!!?

admin — Wed, 04 Aug 2010 11:00:45 +0000

we are in our 7th year of marriage, 3years ago i spotted a pill bottle with pills in there that she had taken the label off of….now she is up all night hardly sleeps,itches all the time etc,etc,,all the signs of some kind of abuse…she must be still taking them or something else….we have a 5 year old boy and i will be damned if she is on something with him in the car.. is there anything i can do with out getting caught to find my anwser…

Should I lie about being a recovering alcoholic. Women never want to date me when they find out?

admin — Mon, 05 Jul 2010 15:42:59 +0000

I”m a recovering alcoholic and and have no social life anymore. I can’t seem to make any friends at all in AA, and I don’t think I will ever get over my ex-girlfriend unless I start dating someone else.

I’ve tried MATCH.COM and another site, but I always get the same answer, sometimes immediately. Either women:

1. Just don’t want to date anyone that’s a recovering addict/alcoholic.

2. Don’t want to date anyone that doesn’t drink.

I was just hoping someone could tell me why?

I’m 45, single, live alone and a pretty nice guy. Women in recovery generally don’t date men in recovery. I don’t think i’ll ever find a wife.

It’s been a few years now, and I find myself so lonely that I think of suicide alot.

My question is, since I can’t seem to meet anyone by telling the truth, should I just lie about my alcoholism?

I am trying to find the name of a Comedian who had an hour special on Comedy Central?

admin — Sat, 03 Jul 2010 18:42:40 +0000

He had a New York or similar accent, looked Italian, thin and in good shape. Made a lot of jokes about drinking, alcoholism and his relationship with his wife. Including a joke that went something like this… “I walked into my surprise birthday party and for a split second thought”, “oh crap, is this an intervention?”, “then when everyone yelled surprise thought”, “cool we’re drinking”… Also another joke about his wife not letting him eat ice cream past 10 o’clock.
He had a New York or similar accent, looked Italian, thin and in good shape. Made a lot of jokes about drinking, alcoholism and his relationship with his wife. Including a joke that went something like this… “I walked into my surprise birthday party and for a split second thought”, “oh crap, is this an intervention?”, “then when everyone yelled surprise thought”, “cool we’re drinking”… Also another joke about his wife not letting him eat ice cream past 10 o’clock.

Someone replied Rich Vos… Its not him but he kind of looks similar to him… a little younger though.

my husband is an alcoholic and has just started having blackouts this is new ground for me to find some info?

admin — Sat, 03 Jul 2010 03:42:28 +0000

is anybody there experiencing being an alcoholics wife ? two lovely children and loving relationship when things are ok,i feel i am juggling jellies keeping the truth or so i think from the children,at times i feel i am going crazy,my detective skills are really being put to the test and this week i am going to see a councellor regarding the alcoholism

Any sure way of getting my lover to leave his alcoholic wife, and find happiness with me?

admin — Fri, 02 Jul 2010 21:34:33 +0000

Can a 45 year old recovering alcoholic ever find a wife?

admin — Sat, 26 Jun 2010 22:32:17 +0000

I made a wish this year – not a resolution, but just a wish. I asked god if he could find me a wife.

The problem is, I’m unsure what a wife or a potential wife would want from me. I’m 45, a little overweight, a recovering alcoholic and have had lots of girlfriends in my life. I wanted to marry the last one, but I screwed it all up by drinking and cheating on her. I never want to go back there again.

I’ve never been married before, and find alot of women are looking for a second or third husband and think that there is something wrong with me.

I did start a multi-million dollar software company, which failed in 2003, but I’m trying again. (I started it in 1987 when i got sober the first time)

What do you think is wrong with this picture. Do you think I’d never find a wife? That’s what I want most from life.

What can I do to make myself attractive enough so that some woman that I’m equally attracted to will marry me?

How will I find a center that provides substance abuse treatment in Hemlock,New York?

admin — Thu, 17 Jun 2010 14:53:41 +0000

One of my officemates needs to be treated for cocaine addiction. His job has been totally affected. I think he started using drugs when he and his wife got divorced.

Can a 45 yo recovering alcoholic ever find a wife?

admin — Thu, 17 Jun 2010 08:00:35 +0000

I made a wish this year – not a resolution, but just a wish. I asked god if he could find me a wife.

I’ve never been married before, and find alot of women are looking for a second or third husband and think that there is something wrong with me.

I did start a multi-million dollar software company, which failed in 2003, but I’m trying again. (I started it in 1987 when i got sober the first time)

What do you think is wrong with this picture. Do you think I’d never find a wife? That’s what I want most from life.

What can I do to make myself attractive enough so that some woman that I’m equally attracted to will marry me?

How can you find out where meth cook lives who destroyed my marriage with my wife? He has no address or #.?

admin — Sat, 09 Jan 2010 01:06:07 +0000

He still operates but has no formal address or phone number listed. Tried background check but nothing updated for past 3 years.

Can I find out how someones court date went in Morrow county Oh, or if they are in jail?

admin — Fri, 08 Jan 2010 23:01:37 +0000

My ex wife has a court date on 6/4 for probation violation for a o v i .She has been drinking worse than when she was caught and has stayed with six different people since it happend she does not see the kids or call them .When she found out that she had a court date she went into rehab to dry up for court. This is her fourth time in rehab in twelve months ,every time she gets in trouble she goes in to look like she is trying to sober up but it is all a show . She recieved her o v i in Morrow county and lives in Cuyahoga. She has never been tested for alcohol the year that she has been on on probation and has a year left . Does anyone know what i can do to get the court to start testing her ? She has no fear of getting caught . When she was caught she had my daughter and niece in her van and blew a 3.1but got off on the child endangering charge. I would like to see her get help so my children can have a relationship with her again even if it means her going to jail to dry up.

How can I find out who someone’s parole officer is?Need to anonymously report that he is violating hs probatio

admin — Tue, 05 Jan 2010 11:19:22 +0000

My future father in law has previously served prison time for attempting to have his ex wife MURDERED. I want to report that he is violating his parole or probation or whatever because he is consistently possessing and using methamphetamines….I live in CA can anyone help me?