Posts Tagged ‘find’

I”m a recovering alcoholic and and have no social life anymore. I can’t seem to make any friends at all in AA, and I don’t think I will ever get over my ex-girlfriend unless I start dating someone else.

I’ve tried MATCH.COM and another site, but I always get the same answer, sometimes immediately. Either women:

1. Just don’t want to date anyone that’s a recovering addict/alcoholic.

2. Don’t want to date anyone that doesn’t drink.

I was just hoping someone could tell me why?

I’m 45, single, live alone and a pretty nice guy. Women in recovery generally don’t date men in recovery. I don’t think i’ll ever find a wife.

It’s been a few years now, and I find myself so lonely that I think of suicide alot.

My question is, since I can’t seem to meet anyone by telling the truth, should I just lie about my alcoholism?

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He had a New York or similar accent, looked Italian, thin and in good shape. Made a lot of jokes about drinking, alcoholism and his relationship with his wife. Including a joke that went something like this… “I walked into my surprise birthday party and for a split second thought”, “oh crap, is this an intervention?”, “then when everyone yelled surprise thought”, “cool we’re drinking”… Also another joke about his wife not letting him eat ice cream past 10 o’clock.
He had a New York or similar accent, looked Italian, thin and in good shape. Made a lot of jokes about drinking, alcoholism and his relationship with his wife. Including a joke that went something like this… “I walked into my surprise birthday party and for a split second thought”, “oh crap, is this an intervention?”, “then when everyone yelled surprise thought”, “cool we’re drinking”… Also another joke about his wife not letting him eat ice cream past 10 o’clock.

Someone replied Rich Vos… Its not him but he kind of looks similar to him… a little younger though.

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is anybody there experiencing being an alcoholics wife ? two lovely children and loving relationship when things are ok,i feel i am juggling jellies keeping the truth or so i think from the children,at times i feel i am going crazy,my detective skills are really being put to the test and this week i am going to see a councellor regarding the alcoholism

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I made a wish this year – not a resolution, but just a wish. I asked god if he could find me a wife.

The problem is, I’m unsure what a wife or a potential wife would want from me. I’m 45, a little overweight, a recovering alcoholic and have had lots of girlfriends in my life. I wanted to marry the last one, but I screwed it all up by drinking and cheating on her. I never want to go back there again.

I’ve never been married before, and find alot of women are looking for a second or third husband and think that there is something wrong with me.

I did start a multi-million dollar software company, which failed in 2003, but I’m trying again. (I started it in 1987 when i got sober the first time)

What do you think is wrong with this picture. Do you think I’d never find a wife? That’s what I want most from life.

What can I do to make myself attractive enough so that some woman that I’m equally attracted to will marry me?

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One of my officemates needs to be treated for cocaine addiction. His job has been totally affected. I think he started using drugs when he and his wife got divorced.

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I made a wish this year – not a resolution, but just a wish. I asked god if he could find me a wife.

The problem is, I’m unsure what a wife or a potential wife would want from me. I’m 45, a little overweight, a recovering alcoholic and have had lots of girlfriends in my life. I wanted to marry the last one, but I screwed it all up by drinking and cheating on her. I never want to go back there again.

I’ve never been married before, and find alot of women are looking for a second or third husband and think that there is something wrong with me.

I did start a multi-million dollar software company, which failed in 2003, but I’m trying again. (I started it in 1987 when i got sober the first time)

What do you think is wrong with this picture. Do you think I’d never find a wife? That’s what I want most from life.

What can I do to make myself attractive enough so that some woman that I’m equally attracted to will marry me?

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He still operates but has no formal address or phone number listed. Tried background check but nothing updated for past 3 years.

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My ex wife has a court date on 6/4 for probation violation for a o v i .She has been drinking worse than when she was caught and has stayed with six different people since it happend she does not see the kids or call them .When she found out that she had a court date she went into rehab to dry up for court. This is her fourth time in rehab in twelve months ,every time she gets in trouble she goes in to look like she is trying to sober up but it is all a show . She recieved her o v i in Morrow county and lives in Cuyahoga. She has never been tested for alcohol the year that she has been on on probation and has a year left . Does anyone know what i can do to get the court to start testing her ? She has no fear of getting caught . When she was caught she had my daughter and niece in her van and blew a 3.1but got off on the child endangering charge. I would like to see her get help so my children can have a relationship with her again even if it means her going to jail to dry up.

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My future father in law has previously served prison time for attempting to have his ex wife MURDERED. I want to report that he is violating his parole or probation or whatever because he is consistently possessing and using methamphetamines….I live in CA can anyone help me?

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