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		<title>In a severe family crisis &amp; your the only 1 anybody can talk to calmly but they all say something different?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[My bro has 2 children w/ his wife. Both recovering drug addictics (oxycontin). They&#8217;re marriage is in severe trouble. I seem to be the only one that any of the parties (him, her, &#038; each family) can open up and talk calmly to about it. No1 else can talk to each other without screaming. I [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My bro has 2 children w/ his wife. Both recovering drug addictics (oxycontin). They&#8217;re marriage is in severe trouble. I seem to be the only one that any of the parties (him, her, &#038; each family) can open up and talk calmly to about it. No1 else can talk to each other without screaming. I heard my mom talk to my sister in-law today and say the most hateful things that I never thought she was capable of. I&#8217;ve heard my sister in-law (who has been a great friend for over 10 years) say hateful things to and about my bro &#038; family. I&#8217;ve had my bro tell me that he&#8217;s getting better, then his wife calls me 1hr later &#038; says he&#8217;s about to commit suicide. My bro (18.5 months older) is my best friend and few siblings in the world r as close as us or have been through as much together. Every1 inside the situation is losing it &#038; all think I&#8217;m the best 1 to talk to him, her, mom, or anyone. But every1 is telling me &#8220;the truth&#8221;, but all truths conflict with each other &#038; what I see 1sthand. What can I do?<br />
the children are young &#8211; 1.5 and 3. I went down there to watch them last summer while my bro was in rehab. My sis-in-law is going through treatments now getting pills called suboxin&#8230; they are both so unstable and my bro is so freaking manipulative of everyone, but everyone somehow thinks they are above his manipulation.<br />
He got committed to the hospital tonight, but I&#8217;m afraid she will make things worse for him while he&#8217;s there. I know she wants well for him&#8230; but I know that, if she&#8217;s not on OCs, she not far from them. I HATE OXYs WITH A PASSION!! SO MUCH!! John, your high school sounds like mine. I graduated in 02 (my bro in 00, sis-in-law in 01 &#8211; we were all in the same crowd), and I know that she&#8217;s so unstable and might be going around spreading her instability to other addicts, and then the oxy-addict grapevine gets started and worse and worse and worse&#8230; but for now, I just found out he&#8217;s in the hospital, so that&#8217;s a relief.<br />
Its so hard to tell someone the cold, harsh, truth when you think it will drive them to suicide, especially when the only other person they have is their drug-addicted wife (who is recovering but is INCREDIBLY UNSTABLE). And it&#8217;s like the two families are pitting themselves against each other. And her family and my family have been intertwined long before children were born or my brother got together with her in the first place. Her cousin was my brother and me&#8217;s best friend since middle school, and he&#8217;s a drug addict too (I&#8217;m not POSITIVE about that, but pretty sure &#8211; I do know that he&#8217;s an alcoholic). So each family is convinced that the other is crazy, and each one sees me as the only stable mediater. It&#8217;s too much pressure&#8230; everyone has a different version of the truth&#8230; everyone wants to know what someone else said to me because they know I went to talk and help someone else&#8230; I don&#8217;t know how I made it out of that circle w/o becoming an addict and still loving all those ppl</p>
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		<title>What Happened to Family Values and Conservatism?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Why is it that republican and religious and secular conservatives continue make family values an election issue. The issue of family values and morality was ONE of the hallmark reasons for the Republican take-over of congress and it was also used as a theme during Bush’s first run for office. Read the list of “hypocrites” [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why is it that republican and religious and secular conservatives continue make family values an election issue. The issue of family values and morality was ONE of the hallmark reasons for the Republican take-over of congress and it was also used as a theme during Bush’s first run for office. </p>
<p>Read the list of “hypocrites” below and respond whether or not you think that family values was/is a “SMOKE SCREEN” to win favor and votes</p>
<p>POPULAR SCANDALS</p>
<p>1.Senator Larry Craig, recently pleaded guilty to lued homosexual acts in an Airport. He still defiantly claims that he is not gay.</p>
<p>2.Mark Foley, had phone sex and indecent conversations with male pages.</p>
<p>3.George W. Bush, Republican president, accused in a criminal complaint and lawsuit of raping Margie Schoedinger, who later committed suicide. Accused by Tammy Phillips, a former stripper quoted in the National Enquirer in 2000 saying she had an affair with Bush that had ended in 1999</p>
<p>4.Senator David Vitter (R-La) who ran a hard-core platform on traditional family values, name was found on a Madams list. He told his constituents that it was a “private issue” and to leave him alone.</p>
<p>5.Arnold Schwarzenegger, Republican governor, had sex with a 16 year old when he was 28.</p>
<p>6.Joe Scarborough, former Republican Congressman, currently a conservative talk show host. Resigned his congressional seat abruptly to spend more time with his family, amidst allegations of an affair. His intern, Lori Klausutis, was soon after found dead in his office. The medical examiner, who had his license revoked in Missouri for falsifying information in an autopsy report, and suspended in Florida for six years, ruled the case an accident, after giving conflicting information about her injuries. He said he lied about them because &#8220;The last thing we wanted was 40 questions about a head injury.&#8221;</p>
<p>7.John E. Peterson, Congressman (R-Pa), accused of sexual harassment and creation of a hostile work environment by six women. Peterson has refused to admit a crime, saying only &#8220;I may have been an excessive hugger.&#8221; </p>
<p>8.Henry Hyde, Judge who oversaw Clinton&#8217;s impeachment proceedings, prominent opponent of reproductive rights, who had an extramarital affair with a woman who was married and had three children, during the course of which she and her husband were divorced.</p>
<p>9.Newt Gingrich, married three times. Gingrich campaign worker Anne Manning admitted that she gave Newt oral sex while he was still married to his first wife. Informed one wife he was filing for divorce while she was in the hospital recovering from cancer treatments</p>
<p>10.Richard A. Dasen Sr., Republican benefactor of conservative Christian groups, convicted of sexual abuse of children, promotion of prostitution and several counts of solicitation, enough to add up to a sentence of 126 years in prison</p>
<p>Conservative Personalities and Figure Scandals</p>
<p>1.Paul Crouch Televangelist, Former President of Trinity Broadcasting Network (TBN). Paid $425,000 in hush money in an attempt to cover up a gay affair.<br />
2.Ted Haggard, popular conservative pastor who advised Bush on Family Values issues was outed by a male prostitute who also alleged that he gave Haggard drugs.<br />
3.Rush Limbaugh, triple-divorcee<br />
4.Bill O&#8217;Reilly Right-wing conservative talk show host on Fox News, sued for sexual harassment by his producer.<br />
5.Dr. Laura Schlessinger, right wing conservative radio host. Promotes family values, estranged from her mother, opposes birth control, has had her tubes tied, espouses saving oneself for marriage, admits to having had sex before she was married, opposes adultery, has committed adultery while she was married, and has slept with a married man, opposes divorce, is divorced and remarried, has posed for nude photos which are available online.</p>
<p>There are many, many, many more. I know that I am going to be accused of being repub-coserv-basher. I am not, I know the democrats have just as many scandals if not more. However, I think that the whole PLATFORM OF CONSERVATIVE FAMILY VALUES IS A DISINGENIOUS strategy to rally votes and to swing elections. THIS LIST DEMONSTRATES THE FACT THAT NO ONE PRACTICES WHAT THEY PREACH!!!<br />
I also believe that we are all human and everyone makes mistakes, but it is VERY HYPOCRITICAL to impose ideas that these “cultural-icons” don’t keep!<br />
(((What are your thoughts???)))))))</p>
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		<title>Are FAMILY VALUES philosophy MAKING SUCKERS out of us?</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why is it that republican and religious and secular conservatives continue make family values an election issue. The issue of family values and morality was ONE of the hallmark reasons for the Republican take-over of congress and it was also used as a theme during Bush’s first run for office. </p>
<p>Read the list of “hypocrites” below and respond whether or not you think that family values was/is a “SMOKE SCREEN” to win favor and votes</p>
<p>POPULAR SCANDALS</p>
<p>1.Senator Larry Craig, recently pleaded guilty to lued homosexual acts in an Airport. He still defiantly claims that he is not gay.</p>
<p>2.Mark Foley, had phone sex and indecent conversations with male pages.</p>
<p>3.George W. Bush, Republican president, accused in a criminal complaint and lawsuit of raping Margie Schoedinger, who later committed suicide. Accused by Tammy Phillips, a former stripper quoted in the National Enquirer in 2000 saying she had an affair with Bush that had ended in 1999</p>
<p>4.Senator David Vitter (R-La) who ran a hard-core platform on traditional family values, name was found on a Madams list. He told his constituents that it was a “private issue” and to leave him alone.</p>
<p>5.Arnold Schwarzenegger, Republican governor, had sex with a 16 year old when he was 28.</p>
<p>6.Joe Scarborough, former Republican Congressman, currently a conservative talk show host. Resigned his congressional seat abruptly to spend more time with his family, amidst allegations of an affair. His intern, Lori Klausutis, was soon after found dead in his office. The medical examiner, who had his license revoked in Missouri for falsifying information in an autopsy report, and suspended in Florida for six years, ruled the case an accident, after giving conflicting information about her injuries. He said he lied about them because &#8220;The last thing we wanted was 40 questions about a head injury.&#8221;</p>
<p>7.John E. Peterson, Congressman (R-Pa), accused of sexual harassment and creation of a hostile work environment by six women. Peterson has refused to admit a crime, saying only &#8220;I may have been an excessive hugger.&#8221; </p>
<p>8.Henry Hyde, Judge who oversaw Clinton&#8217;s impeachment proceedings, prominent opponent of reproductive rights, who had an extramarital affair with a woman who was married and had three children, during the course of which she and her husband were divorced.</p>
<p>9.Newt Gingrich, married three times. Gingrich campaign worker Anne Manning admitted that she gave Newt oral sex while he was still married to his first wife. Informed one wife he was filing for divorce while she was in the hospital recovering from cancer treatments</p>
<p>10.Richard A. Dasen Sr., Republican benefactor of conservative Christian groups, convicted of sexual abuse of children, promotion of prostitution and several counts of solicitation, enough to add up to a sentence of 126 years in prison</p>
<p>Conservative Personalities and Figure Scandals</p>
<p>1.Paul Crouch Televangelist, Former President of Trinity Broadcasting Network (TBN). Paid $425,000 in hush money in an attempt to cover up a gay affair.<br />
2.Ted Haggard, popular conservative pastor who advised Bush on Family Values issues was outed by a male prostitute who also alleged that he gave Haggard drugs.<br />
3.Rush Limbaugh, triple-divorcee<br />
4.Bill O&#8217;Reilly Right-wing conservative talk show host on Fox News, sued for sexual harassment by his producer.<br />
5.Dr. Laura Schlessinger, right wing conservative radio host. Promotes family values, estranged from her mother, opposes birth control, has had her tubes tied, espouses saving oneself for marriage, admits to having had sex before she was married, opposes adultery, has committed adultery while she was married, and has slept with a married man, opposes divorce, is divorced and remarried, has posed for nude photos which are available online.</p>
<p>There are many, many, many more. I know that I am going to be accused of being repub-coserv-basher. I am not, I know the democrats have just as many scandals if not more. However, I think that the whole PLATFORM OF CONSERVATIVE FAMILY VALUES IS A DISINGENIOUS strategy to rally votes and to swing elections. THIS LIST DEMONSTRATES THE FACT THAT NO ONE PRACTICES WHAT THEY PREACH!!!<br />
I also believe that we are all human and everyone makes mistakes, but it is VERY HYPOCRITICAL to impose ideas that these “cultural-icons” don’t keep!<br />
(((What are your thoughts???)))))))</p>
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		<title>Is it Fair to say that REPUBS HAVE CORRUPTED FAMILY VALUES?</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why is it that republican and religious and secular conservatives continue make family values an election issue. The issue of family values and morality was ONE of the hallmark reasons for the Republican take-over of congress and it was also used as a theme during Bush’s first run for office. </p>
<p>Read the list of “hypocrites” below and respond whether or not you think that family values was/is a “SMOKE SCREEN” to win favor and votes</p>
<p>POPULAR SCANDALS</p>
<p>1.Senator Larry Craig, recently pleaded guilty to lued homosexual acts in an Airport. He still defiantly claims that he is not gay.</p>
<p>2.Mark Foley, had phone sex and indecent conversations with male pages.</p>
<p>3.George W. Bush, Republican president, accused in a criminal complaint and lawsuit of raping Margie Schoedinger, who later committed suicide. Accused by Tammy Phillips, a former stripper quoted in the National Enquirer in 2000 saying she had an affair with Bush that had ended in 1999</p>
<p>4.Senator David Vitter (R-La) who ran a hard-core platform on traditional family values, name was found on a Madams list. He told his constituents that it was a “private issue” and to leave him alone.</p>
<p>5.Arnold Schwarzenegger, Republican governor, had sex with a 16 year old when he was 28.</p>
<p>6.Joe Scarborough, former Republican Congressman, currently a conservative talk show host. Resigned his congressional seat abruptly to spend more time with his family, amidst allegations of an affair. His intern, Lori Klausutis, was soon after found dead in his office. The medical examiner, who had his license revoked in Missouri for falsifying information in an autopsy report, and suspended in Florida for six years, ruled the case an accident, after giving conflicting information about her injuries. He said he lied about them because &#8220;The last thing we wanted was 40 questions about a head injury.&#8221;</p>
<p>7.John E. Peterson, Congressman (R-Pa), accused of sexual harassment and creation of a hostile work environment by six women. Peterson has refused to admit a crime, saying only &#8220;I may have been an excessive hugger.&#8221; </p>
<p>8.Henry Hyde, Judge who oversaw Clinton&#8217;s impeachment proceedings, prominent opponent of reproductive rights, who had an extramarital affair with a woman who was married and had three children, during the course of which she and her husband were divorced.</p>
<p>9.Newt Gingrich, married three times. Gingrich campaign worker Anne Manning admitted that she gave Newt oral sex while he was still married to his first wife. Informed one wife he was filing for divorce while she was in the hospital recovering from cancer treatments</p>
<p>10.Richard A. Dasen Sr., Republican benefactor of conservative Christian groups, convicted of sexual abuse of children, promotion of prostitution and several counts of solicitation, enough to add up to a sentence of 126 years in prison</p>
<p>Conservative Personalities and Figure Scandals</p>
<p>1.Paul Crouch Televangelist, Former President of Trinity Broadcasting Network (TBN). Paid $425,000 in hush money in an attempt to cover up a gay affair.<br />
2.Ted Haggard, popular conservative pastor who advised Bush on Family Values issues was outed by a male prostitute who also alleged that he gave Haggard drugs.<br />
3.Rush Limbaugh, triple-divorcee<br />
4.Bill O&#8217;Reilly Right-wing conservative talk show host on Fox News, sued for sexual harassment by his producer.<br />
5.Dr. Laura Schlessinger, right wing conservative radio host. Promotes family values, estranged from her mother, opposes birth control, has had her tubes tied, espouses saving oneself for marriage, admits to having had sex before she was married, opposes adultery, has committed adultery while she was married, and has slept with a married man, opposes divorce, is divorced and remarried, has posed for nude photos which are available online.</p>
<p>There are many, many, many more. I know that I am going to be accused of being repub-coserv-basher. I am not, I know the democrats have just as many scandals if not more. However, I think that the whole PLATFORM OF CONSERVATIVE FAMILY VALUES IS A DISINGENIOUS strategy to rally votes and to swing elections. THIS LIST DEMONSTRATES THE FACT THAT NO ONE PRACTICES WHAT THEY PREACH!!!<br />
I also believe that we are all human and everyone makes mistakes, but it is VERY HYPOCRITICAL to impose ideas that these “cultural-icons” don’t keep!<br />
(((What are your thoughts???)))))))</p>
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		<title>What to do when the new wife&#8217;s family moves in and help or leave.?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Feb 2011 03:00:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A friend of mine got married and bought a house about a year ago. The Marriage in its first year hasnt gone well, the biggest strain being that as soon as the house was bought he was bombarded by his wives family. His now Step daughter, her husband, their daughter. Also his step son all [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A friend of mine got married and bought a house about a year ago. The Marriage in its first year hasnt gone well, the biggest strain being that as soon as the house was bought he was bombarded by his wives family.</p>
<p>His now Step daughter, her husband, their daughter. Also his step son all moved into the house. None of them have jobs and dont pay board, food or utilities. The deal was that they needed help and would stay there while they looked for work, unfortunately noone is doing that. My friend leaves for work shortly before 9am and noone is out of bed. He also suspects light drug use in the house from the step daughters husband.</p>
<p>He&#8217;s discussed the situation with his wife and got nowhere. Money is getting tight and he&#8217;s contemplating divorce.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not familiar with Georgia law. Does he have a legal foothold to stand on to either get the people out of his house or seperate from his wife or is he probably screwed?</p>
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		<title>Is there any way my wifes family can force my brother in law into herion rehab in massachusetts?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[My brother in law is battling a heroin addiction. He voluntarily spent 30 days in rehab but relapsed as soon as he came out. Is there any way my wife or her family can get him court ordered rehab in massachusetts even though he is 23? we have heard of a section 12 or 13 [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My brother in law is battling a heroin addiction.  He voluntarily spent 30 days in rehab but relapsed as soon as he came out.  Is there any way my wife or her family can get him court ordered rehab in massachusetts even though he is 23? we have heard of a section 12 or 13 order but cant seem to find info on it. please help as we don&#8217;t think at the rate he  is going he will reach 24. If no such thing exist in Massachusetts what about Florida as my wife and I live in Florida so we may be able to get him down here if such a law exist in Florida.</p>
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		<title>What do you think the Bush family code names were?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[We now know the code names that the Secret Service has given to the Obama and Biden families. As for the President-elect, his new code name is Renegade. Michelle Obama is Renaissance. Daughters Malia and Sasha are Radiance and Rosebud. Vice-President-elect Joe Biden was given the name Celtic and his wife Jill is Capri. My [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We now know the code names that the Secret Service has given to the Obama and Biden families. As for the President-elect, his new code name is Renegade. Michelle Obama is Renaissance. </p>
<p>Daughters Malia and Sasha are Radiance and Rosebud.    </p>
<p>Vice-President-elect Joe Biden was given the name Celtic and his wife Jill is Capri. </p>
<p>My guess:<br />
George:  Idiot<br />
Laura: I&#8217;m-with-stupid<br />
Barbara:  Inebriated<br />
Jenna:  Intoxicated</p>
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		<title>i&#8217;m a young mother getting stressed out from other family members&#8217; issues?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[My brtoher, my only brother and sibling (no sisters), got married at 23 going on 24. so for him, kinda youngish. also he had just got out of college, it wasn&#8217;t the right time really. well a year later he developed a bad habit of binge drinking, which got him 3 dui&#8217;s in the same [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My brtoher, my only brother and sibling (no sisters), got married at 23 going on 24. so for him, kinda youngish. also he had just got out of college, it wasn&#8217;t the right time really. well a year later he developed a bad habit of binge drinking, which got him 3 dui&#8217;s in the same year, 4 emergency hospitalizations bc he drank rubbing alcohol after running out of regular alcohol, and several times in rehab. his wife got pregannt about 2 months b4 i did, and about 5 months into her pregnancy, he stopped his binge drinking and seemed to have changed. well 2 months after their daughter was born, he was back to it again. his daughter, now 6 months, has wound up getting hrut from it. the day afetr ym baby who si now 3 months was born, his wife claims that he had tried to kill their daughter by trying to choke her&#8212;she told my father this and I found out through the grapevine&#8212;in a drunken rage when she was crying. then, just a week ago, in one of his drunken states, he held her and she fell, with him, and had bruises on her body so she had to be examined. that was when his wife made him go to our aprents&#8217; hosue and he stayed for an week. well hes back there again, and he got drunk again, with the baby with him alone. my sil went to work tonight, and she called my parents and said she was frantic that he was doing something to their daughter or neglecting her. I felt bad for her, but couldnt help but wonder why if she was worried about the very life of her daughter, she didn&#8217;t just leave work? she claims she would get fired bc she was the only one there 9it&#8217;s a store in the mall0 but is anything worth more than your daughter/ I told her this and got her to leave work. But I am still in a  state of shock over my brother whom Ive never known to be a &#8216;bad&#8217; or violent person. I am terribly worried about my niece and something happening to her, and also him, bc of his drinking. I also feel bad for his wife and my parents, bc his wife always calls them almost every time he &#8220;acts up&#8221; (b4 their daughter was born too), which in a  way is not fair to my parents bc they&#8217;re older and hes a grown man, 28 years old. anyhow, how can I help my brother?<br />
i have a 3-month-old myself and am afraid to even leave her in the same room alone with him for a min now. (when eh comes over and I&#8217;m there with her). I am also wondering if I should offer to watch their daughter for a few days/ (her parents already have their hands full with her siblings)?<br />
also, I know this is babys ection, but I posted this in family as well, but I wanted to psot here bc it does involve some aspects of aprenting. also bc I&#8217;m stressed otu for ym brother, and terrified of soemthing happenign to him or my niece, and feeling bad for his wife, and also my parents, bc he is their only son, how can I not let this affect my parenting/ bc also my parents were partly my support system, and now I have almost no support system, bc they are now trying to focus their energy on helping him, which I think si what is necessary, but its also scary for me<br />
is there any1 at all who can give me some advice? also, any1 else who has similar issues with their family that is also a new parent?</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[I love my sister but she is a nightmare when she has drink taken. She didnt drink for 2 years but she fell off the wagon at the weekend. mainly what she did was text and phone my other brothers inlaws and accuse my my brother and his wife of being basicially unstable &#8211; she [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love my sister but she is  a nightmare when she has drink taken. She didnt drink for 2  years but she fell off the wagon at the weekend. mainly what she did was text and phone my other brothers inlaws and accuse my my brother and his wife of being  basicially unstable &#8211; she also told a good few family secrets to these people who no one gets on with. She is now very upset, crying all the time &#8211; hates herself and is in dispair about her drinking especially after doing so well for so long. she is back at her AA meeting today. what can i say to her honestly that will help   her. i hate her on one hand know she cant help it on the other and feel sorry for her. help please. ps when sober she is the nicest person  one could meet. thanks all<br />
is there anything i can say to put it all into perspective for her &#8211; she is so upset- and she hates herself so much. it was an embarressing stupid thing to do but she sure is suffering for it now thanks</p>
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		<title>Pro amnesty what would you tell Gardner family that being illegal had nothing to do with this tragic accident?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Scott Gardner was killed by a drunk driving illegal immigrant in 2005. His wife was left severely brain-damaged, unable to walk or speak. She is now being cared for in a nursing home for the rest of here life. Their two kids who were in the car at the time of the accident, are now [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Scott Gardner was killed by a drunk driving illegal immigrant in 2005. His wife was left severely brain-damaged, unable to walk or speak. She is now being cared for in a nursing home for the rest of here life. Their two kids who were in the car at the time of the accident, are now being raised by Scott’s parents. One moment in time, that has totally altered the lives of the Gardner family, forever.</p>
<p>The illegal alien drunk driver who caused all this had been arrested 5 times previous for DWI and was deported twice only to come back and cause this terrible tragedy of an American family. Why was this allowed to happen? </p>
<p>http://www.immigrationwatchdog.com/?p=5334</p>
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		<title>Do You Or A Family Member Need Help With Alcoholism Recovery?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Jul 2010 01:45:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If so: would an online series of free audio mp3&#8242;s and books/articles for download be of some help, or is there enough &#8220;stuff&#8221; on the web already? This is a &#8220;sore subject&#8221; with many family members and spouses, so please let me explain further: I am a recovering alcoholic (sober 5 years). Before that, I [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If so: would an online series of free audio mp3&#8242;s and books/articles for download be of some help, or is there enough &#8220;stuff&#8221; on the web already?</p>
<p>This is a &#8220;sore subject&#8221; with many family members and spouses, so please let me explain further:</p>
<p>I am a recovering alcoholic (sober 5 years). Before that, I put my family through &#8220;heck&#8221; (that&#8217;s not the word I want to use, but there&#8217;s this &#8220;community guidelines&#8221; thing Yahoo has&#8230;).</p>
<p>I am lucky to still have my family and life. Period.</p>
<p>I am a strong believer in the 12 step method and AA. </p>
<p>I was just wondering if there is anyone who would want something &#8220;positive&#8221; to help you or your family. </p>
<p>AA and counseling deal with the addiction.</p>
<p>What I can offer (ok: my wife has a lot to contribute as well&#8230;), is the same advice I&#8217;ve learned over the years about the other part: getting your life back.</p>
<p>A lot of &#8220;AA&#8217;ers&#8221; tell you: &#8220;Your life won&#8217;t be the same &#8211; get used to it.&#8221;</p>
<p>There&#8217;s some truth to that: there are marriage breakups AFTER the spouse gets sober: the person changes.</p>
<p>I am very thankful to MANY people who helped me change&#8230; for the better! Not &#8220;get used to it&#8221;, but &#8220;get over it.&#8221; Back into a better life than it was before. Links to their work, teachings and advice, all on one site, would have benefited me. Perhaps I can &#8220;give back&#8221; to just maybe help someone else.</p>
<p>Or, is there just so much &#8220;junk&#8221; out there on the web, no one would see or care?</p>
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		<title>Permanent residents petition for family member immigrate to states, how long does it take?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jul 2010 20:04:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My brother is a permanent residents to states. He has a wife and children back home, apply for citizenship but was deny because of criminal record. He recently apply for his wife and children to come to the states. Will he be deny that too? Which i hope he will! Can&#8217;t stand him! I heard [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My brother is a permanent residents to states. He has a wife and children back home, apply for citizenship but was deny because of criminal record. He recently apply for his wife and children to come to the states. Will he be deny that too? Which i hope he will! Can&#8217;t stand him! I heard that if you petition for certain family members to immigrate to the United States as permanent residents, you have to have high income , at least a driver license (which he doesn&#8217;t DWI) , car, exc. Which he doesn&#8217;t have ANYTHING. If he does get approve how long will it take?<br />
Not a citizen of the untied states travel home every November ! Winter hes back home summer hes in the state</p>
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		<title>Family member &#8220;lost-it&#8221; this w/e, 42 yr old male&#8230;Is it anxiety, depression, Asperger&#8217;s, something else?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi. I&#8217;m looking for pointers on what to research to get help. Over the holidays my older brother went quite a bit crazy. Really, we almost called 911. He was very drunk, and exhibited depression, aggression, anger. Oddly though, before it got really bad, he kept bringing up mundane subjects repetitively. (He questioned a phone [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi.  I&#8217;m looking for pointers on what to research to get help.  Over the holidays my older brother went quite a bit crazy.  Really, we almost called 911.  He was very drunk, and exhibited depression, aggression, anger.  Oddly though, before it got really bad, he kept bringing up mundane subjects repetitively.  (He questioned a phone call I made asking him what his kids would like for xmas, at least 6 times, and increasingly angry about it. It was very odd.  His wife said he does this often now. She accidentally gave him the wrong directions and he badgered her about it for hours &#8212; after she apologized.)</p>
<p>His son has an undiagnosed speech disability.  Could my bro be the carrier of Aspergers, or is this simply depression/anxiety or alcoholism?  </p>
<p>It&#8217;s bad, and I&#8217;m worried about his 2 young children.  He doesn&#8217;t think he has a problem.<br />
Thx.<br />
It&#8217;s new behavior. He was always socially immature, inappropriate jokes, overly loud talking, etc.  Things he should have matured out of.  His youngest child is high-needs, and this has added stress to their marriage.  Maybe it is alcoholism.  You have to practice to drink as much as he did on Thanksgiving &#8212; about 3+ bottles of wine.</p>
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		<title>Why do advocates for illegals say drinking &amp; driving is not a crime as long as you have kids &amp; a family?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[A lawyer for the third, Victor Arana, said his client, Angel Hernandez-Garcia, was arrested on Halloween on a charge of driving while intoxicated. Arana said his client, who has since pleaded guilty to the DWI charge, had been living in Austin with his wife and two children and working in construction. His client, he said, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A lawyer for the third, Victor Arana, said his client, Angel Hernandez-Garcia, was arrested on Halloween on a charge of driving while intoxicated. </p>
<p>Arana said his client, who has since pleaded guilty to the DWI charge, had been living in Austin with his wife and two children and working in construction. </p>
<p>His client, he said, is not a criminal. </p>
<p>&#8220;These are tough cases because there are families involved,&#8221; Arana said. </p>
<p>&#8220;The only difference is he was born on one side and we were born on the other side,&#8221; he said. </p>
<p>http://www.statesman.com/news/local/federal-judge-questions-immigration-prosecutions-216667.html</p>
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		<title>Top 11 known arrests?crimes by the family who would restore honor and dignity to the White House?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[11. Dick Cheny&#8217;s first DWI 10. George W. Bush&#8217;s DWI 9. Barbara Bush, minor in possesion of alcohol 8. Jenna Bush, minor in possesion of alcohol (3 times) 7. Dick Cheney&#8217;s second DWI 6. Laura Bush&#8217;s vehicular homicide, record expunged 5 George W. Bush&#8217;s arrest for larceny (stealing a Christmas tree, really!) 4. Jeb&#8217;s 24 [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>11. Dick Cheny&#8217;s first DWI<br />
10. George W. Bush&#8217;s DWI<br />
9. Barbara Bush, minor in possesion of alcohol<br />
8. Jenna Bush, minor in possesion of alcohol (3 times)<br />
7. Dick Cheney&#8217;s second DWI<br />
6. Laura Bush&#8217;s vehicular homicide, record expunged<br />
5 George W. Bush&#8217;s arrest for larceny (stealing a Christmas tree, really!)<br />
4. Jeb&#8217;s 24 year old daughter Noelle arrested for fraud at 1:15 am Walgreen&#8217;s drive-thru in attempt to obtain prescription drugs.<br />
3. Jeb&#8217;s son George arrested for breaking into girlfriend&#8217;s home and malicious destruction of property<br />
2. Jeb&#8217;s othe son John (Jebby) arrested for violating Florida sodomy law in a mall parking lot during days after 2000 election<br />
1. Jeb&#8217;s wife for smuggling undeclared purchases into the United States (fined thousands)</p>
<p>Bonus:</p>
<p>1. Dick Cheny&#8217;s third DWi<br />
2. Whatever earned George W. Bush a one year sentence of community service in Houston.<br />
3. Neil Bush fined for his &#8220;ethical disability&#8221; taxpayers cost 1 billion dollars, Cost to Bush $0.<br />
As a matter of fact, this info is from www.toostupidtobepresident.com Of course you Bush lovers would denounce anything that belittles your favorite moron.<br />
     Fisha; check out some of these sophmoric responses from the &#8220;Bushies&#8221;<br />
Also, Dick Cheney drinking alcohol, going hunting with his Republican pal, and shooting him in the face.<br />
  Squizzle Squerk, You just don&#8217;t want to see the truth, do you?</p>
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		<title>Will St Patrick&#8217;s Day be changed to &#8220;Kennedy Day&#8221;, a holiday to pay tribute to the Kennedy family?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ted Kennedy has done so many things to be lauded as the greatest liberal hero! 1) Ted helped raise money for the IRA, to make bombs and buy guns, to kill innocent English men, women and children. 2) Ted led a selfish life of adultery, alcoholism and hard drug usage- what a role model! 3) [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ted Kennedy has done so many things to be lauded as the greatest liberal hero! </p>
<p>1) Ted helped raise money for the IRA, to make bombs and buy guns, to kill innocent English men, women and children.<br />
2) Ted led a selfish life of adultery, alcoholism and hard drug usage- what a role model!<br />
3) Ted as a father- all his kids are rehab screw-ups, what a Dad!<br />
4) Ted was a great husband, drove his wife Joan into alcoholism, cheated on her to shame Bill Clinton.<br />
5) Ted&#8217;s legislation ensured high school students got higher wages, handicapping American business to compete with other countries.<br />
6) Ted has embraced every enemy of the USA and sided with terrorists and communists, to go down in history as the father of socialism in the USA.<br />
7) Classy guy, Teddy, let a woman drown and then bullied the local law and bullied the girl&#8217;s family, to never serve a day in jail for felony manslaughter, DUI and leaving the scene of a fatal accident.<br />
8) Scholar- was expelled twice for cheating in college. </p>
<p>One accomplishment, Teddy has stunned the world, both his supporters and his opponents can not dispute- Teddy has now gone over 6 months without a drink!  </p>
<p>Should we change St Patrick&#8217;s Day, to St Teddy&#8217;s Day?<br />
red solidarity- are you saying the IRA was justified murdering innocent men, women and children with bombs and shootings?  terrorism is OK?</p>
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		<title>I am on probation for DWI in Texas and few days ago, I was arrested for Class C family Violence.?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Jun 2010 14:04:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[What shuold I do? It was really my mistake and I haven&#8217;t contact my probation officer yet. If my wife drop my chrge, is everything cleared? I don&#8217;t know what should I do..please help me. What happenede was, My wife was kinda destroying the house, like throwing Tv, pencil,etc&#8230;I was trying to stop her and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What shuold I do? It was really my mistake and I haven&#8217;t contact my probation officer yet. If my wife drop my chrge, is everything cleared? I don&#8217;t know what should I do..please help me.<br />
What happenede was, My wife was kinda destroying the house, like throwing Tv, pencil,etc&#8230;I was trying to stop her and ahe started hitting me. She was drunk at that time. That is even what the officer told me, too. She after that, she wnet outside and call someone to help her. After about an hour, Two officer came to my house and asked me some questions&#8230;and arrested me.<br />
I got out of the jail about one hour later and the officer in the jail told me if I don&#8217;t show up on the court date, it will be automatically guilty, otherwise, I still have a chance to talk to the judge. That is all&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>What says family values more to you?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Jun 2010 14:03:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A cantidate who is married to his first wife, with well-adjusted children and a running-mate who was a widower, who later remarried. Or A cantidate who divorced his first wife and admits to chasing his second wife around on the night he met her, before his divorce was final and the running mate who has [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A cantidate who is married to his first wife, with well-adjusted children and a running-mate who was a widower, who later remarried.</p>
<p>Or</p>
<p>A cantidate who divorced his first wife and admits to chasing his second wife around on the night he met her, before his divorce was final and the running mate who has a pregnant high schooler and a husband with a DWI?</p>
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		<title>family and alcoholism?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Jun 2010 19:46:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[heres the quick and short&#8230;I am an alcoholic. I usually drink to much when I drink. My wife cheated on me and moved out last august. I tore it up over the summer trying to ignore the fact that I was upset. In December she asked to come back. She said I should quit drinking. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>heres the quick and short&#8230;I am an alcoholic.  I usually drink to much when I drink.  My wife cheated on me and moved out last august.  I tore it up over the summer trying to ignore the fact that I was upset.  In December she asked to come back.  She said I should quit drinking.  So I did.  That day.  Six months later still sober and really making an effort to grow in every way shape and form she continues to call me an alcoholic and tell me how much it affects our relationship.  But it doesnt.  I dont drink!  I gave it up to be with her.  I dont harass her for how much her anxiety and depression affects our family.  or her other various illnesses.  (vertigo, panic attacks).  I dont ever bring up the fact that shes a cheater and I welcomed her back with very few questions asked.  No one I know or deal with even agrees I have this problem with alcohol.  The deal is I know I have it.  So I chose to be a better husband and quit.      I just wonder when enough is enough.<br />
meaning how long should I let her blame her unhappiness on me.  How many afternoons do I have to spoil defending myself.  I never hit her, I never got in a fight with anyone, I never missed work.  The only reason I felt unsafe was because I drank to much and drove home too often.<br />
in all fairness to her I had the problem since before this summer.  I really turned it up to basically be spiteful since I knew she would be really angry about it.  But I didnt care I was devastated.</p>
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		<title>Family member drunk driving, rolled van &amp; family were inside. His wife took the blame at the seen and he left?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Jun 2010 13:37:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[He left the seen with the three children &#038; went home. The wife stayed behind &#038; took te blame. I recived a phone call &#038; went to the house &#038; found my nephew with cuts all over his face &#038; my niece had a gash in her head. The baby was still in the car [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>He left the seen with the three children &#038; went home. The wife stayed behind &#038; took te blame.<br />
I recived a phone call &#038; went to the house &#038; found my nephew with cuts all over his face &#038; my niece had a gash in her head. The baby was still in the car seat. I washed the children in the tub as they were coverd with muddy water from the rain water in the ditch.When I finished with the 2 &#038; 4 year old, I got the baby out of her seat. She is two months old &#038; only weighs 7.3 pounds, her little outfit was soaking wet. I washed &#038; fed her, as my family member sat &#038; drank beer. This is common with this family member to be so careless, &#038; I feel I need to step in some way. They have been warned by the local police twice before. How do they explain cuts all over these children? I am scared to turn them in &#038; tear the family apart. I know the right thing to do i to turn them in, but I don&#8217;t think I can.</p>
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		<title>I have a very close family member who me and my wife suspect may be using or considering using Meth&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;..</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Jan 2010 11:06:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We think she may be using Meth, but she isnt exibiting any of the signs. We did how ever find some little baggys that we think may be Meth. She isnt the type of person you would think would do this kinda thing, and she isnt exibiting any of the signs. We are thinking that [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We think she may be using Meth, but she isnt exibiting any of the signs. We did how ever find some little baggys that we think may be Meth. She isnt the type of person you would think would do this kinda thing, and she isnt exibiting any of the signs. We are thinking that maybe someone she knows tried to get her to try it and she just never did .She did have a brother that died from meth use, and we can not see her doing something like this. What do you all think we should do?</p>
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		<title>My BIL is a crack-head and his family pretends nothing is wrong. Should I meddle?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[My question is regarding if I should butt-in or not. My B.I.L. is married with 3 children. His wife works while he stays at home with the kids. The problem is, he is a crack addict. He didn&#8217;t start this until he was expecting baby #1&#8230;really strange if you ask me but, anyway. My husband [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My question is regarding if I should butt-in or not. My B.I.L. is married with 3 children. His wife works while he stays at home with the kids. The problem is, he is a crack addict. He didn&#8217;t start this until he was expecting baby #1&#8230;really strange if you ask me but, anyway. My husband (his younger brother), my MIL, FIL and myself busted him pawning stuff that he steals out of their home (including their wedding bands!!!) He has fallen asleep many, many times while the kids were both infants (they are 11 months apart) and the neighbor had to break-in to wake him up. He said they were crying for over 3 hours! His wife is aware of his addiction but, she won&#8217;t tell him to stop because last time she told him that, he left her while she was 6 months prego. My MIL refuses to acknowledge that he even has a problem. Recently, my SIL was telling me that they go to my in-laws and &#8220;shop&#8221;. They go over there and take what they want out of their house! My hubby won&#8217;t speak to them at all.</p>
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		<title>Family Guy (Season 3) DVD Review</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Having first aired after the 1999 Super Bowl, Family Guy really hit its stride via cable re-runs and DVD sales (prompting Fox to announce the launch of Season 4 in May 2005, following the show&#8217;s original cancellation following Season 3). An animated series building a similar cult following to The Simpsons and Futurama, Family Guy employs its own unique brand of humor distinct to its other animated peers&#8230;</p>
<p>Family Guy follows the life and exploits of Peter Griffin, an idiotic family man flanked by his intelligent and loving wife, Lois. The couple have two children &#8211; Chris (an overweight, mentally challenged teenage boy), Meg (a neurotic teenage girl with low self-esteem), and Stewie (a super-intelligent infant who believes his mother is his enemy). Together, the Griffins live with their human-like dog, Brian, in suburban Quahog, Rhode Island&#8230;</p>
<p>The Family Guy (Season 3) DVD features a number of hilarious episodes including the season premiere &#8220;The Thin White Line&#8221; in which Brian takes his therapist&#8217;s advice and decides not to be so self-centered and to help others. Brian&#8217;s new attitude leads to his employment as a drug-sniffing K-9 for the Quahog police force. But while on the job, Brian becomes addicted to cocaine, and while in rehab, he discovers that the Griffin family (and Peter in particular) are a bad influence on his life&#8230; Other notable episodes from Season 3 include &#8220;And the Wiener is&#8230;&#8221; in which Peter joins a gun club, and &#8220;Mr. Saturday Knight&#8221; in which Peter decides to follow his lifelong dream of becoming a knight with the traveling Renaissance Fair&#8230;</p>
<p>Below is a list of episodes included on the Family Guy (Season 3) DVD:</p>
<p>Episode 29 (The Thin White Line) Air Date: 07-11-2001<br />
<br />Episode 30 (Brian Does Hollywood) Air Date: 07-18-2001<br />
<br />Episode 31 (Mr. Griffin Goes to Washington) Air Date: 07-25-2001<br />
<br />Episode 32 (One If By Clam, Two If By Sea) Air Date: 08-01-2001<br />
<br />Episode 33 (And the Wiener is&#8230;) Air Date: 08-08-2001<br />
<br />Episode 34 (Death Lives) Air Date: 08-15-2001<br />
<br />Episode 35 (Lethal Weapons) Air Date: 08-22-2001<br />
<br />Episode 36 (The Kiss Seen Around the World) Air Date: 08-29-2001<br />
<br />Episode 37 (Mr. Saturday Knight) Air Date: 09-05-2001<br />
<br />Episode 38 (A Fish Out of Water) Air Date: 09-19-2001<br />
<br />Episode 39 (Emission Impossible) Air Date: 11-08-2001<br />
<br />Episode 40 (To Love and Die in Dixie) Air Date: 11-15-2001<br />
<br />Episode 41 (Screwed the Pooch) Air Date: 11-29-2001<br />
<br />Episode 42 (Peter Griffin: Husband, Father&#8230; Brother?) Air Date: 12-06-2001<br />
<br />Episode 43 (Ready, Willing, and Disabled) Air Date: 12-20-2001<br />
<br />Episode 44 (A Very Special Family Guy Freakin&#8217; Christmas) Air Date: 12-21-2001<br />
<br />Episode 45 (Brian Wallows and Peter&#8217;s Swallows) Air Date: 01-17-2002<br />
<br />Episode 46 (From Method to Madness) Air Date: 01-24-2002<br />
<br />Episode 47 (Stuck Together, Torn Apart) Air Date: 01-31-2002<br />
<br />Episode 48 (Road to Europe) Air Date: 02-07-2002<br />
<br />Episode 49 (Family Guy Viewer Mail #1) Air Date: 02-14-2002<br />
<br />Episode 50 (When You Wish Upon a Weinstein) Air Date: 12-10-2004</p>
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		<title>Charles Manson and the Family</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[‘A criminal is not a criminal by birth but made by the world’. This holds true in the case of Charles Manson. Born on 12th November 1934 to an unwed teenage mother in Cincinnati, Charles never knew his biological father. His mother later married William Manson who gave Charles his last name. His mother was [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>‘A criminal is not a criminal by birth but made by the world’. This holds true in the case of Charles Manson. Born on 12th November 1934 to an unwed teenage mother in Cincinnati, Charles never knew his biological father. His mother later married William Manson who gave Charles his last name. His mother was a thief who sold him off for a pitcher of beer. When all other kids his age were in school with the security of loving parents, Charles was moving from one reform school to another. </p>
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<p>His mother put him in a foster home as her alcoholic ways and prostitution could not afford to provide for Charles. When Charles ran back to her from the home she rejected him and threw him out on the streets. This was a turning point in Charles’s life. He started to steal and at 19 years of age car thefts kept him in and out of jail for a while. He was very intelligent and sharp and psychiatrists judged that he possessed a high I.Q. Once out of jail he married 17-year-old Rosalie Jean Willis in 1955, and wished to move to California and start a new life. But it was not to be. He stole a car soon after marriage and was arrested. On giving birth to a son, Willis ran away with a truck driver.</p>
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<p>With personal life in shambles law enforcement agencies tried to rehabilitate him. Psychiatrists said Manson showed marked degree of rejection, instability and psychic trauma. He was unpredictable and showed signs of assaultive tendencies. In spite of his age he was criminally sophisticated. In 1960 he was arrested again for soliciting prostitution and got a jail term of 10 years. Here he met Alvin Karpis the famous bank robber from whom he learned music and to play the guitar. He wanted to become a famous musician like Beatles. Had that happened, crime rate in America could have been considerably reduced. While in prison or on probation, he had stolen cars, pimped inmates, raped another inmate and forged federal checks. By the age of 33 he had spent more than half his life in prison.</p>
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<p>Charles Manson had a ‘family’ of hippies made up of like minded people like him. He was bisexual and his women worshipped him. All these girls had sexual relations with him. He told them that &#8220;they belong to themselves and not to him&#8221;. One of the girls Susan Atkins said that she would do anything for Charles. She killed Actress Sharon Tate and said that ‘it was the most exciting sexual experience of her life’. The gruesome killings chilled and paralyzed America in 1969. The Manson Family was responsible for several murders, known collectively as the Tate-LaBianca murders. The motive behind the murders was that he was rejected by the music industry and wanted revenge. So he asked some members of his family to go to the house of record producer Terry Melcher and kill whoever was on the premises. They entered the compound of Roland Polanski, the famous Hollywood Director and his wife Sharon Tate who was eight months pregnant. Before entering the house they first shot dead Steve Parent, an 18 year old who was the friend of the gardener because he had seen the intruders while getting into his car. Frykowski and Folger, who were staying in the house until Polanski&#8217;s return from London, were able to escape from the living room but succumbed in the lawn. Frykowski was stabbed fifty-one times, shot twice, and pistol-whipped over a dozen times. This was allegedly inspired by the Beatles song &#8220;Piggies&#8221;. Folger was stabbed 28 times by Krenwinkel after being tackled on the lawn.</p>
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<p>Inside the house intruders asked if anyone had money, and, in replying that she did, Abigail Folger, heiress to the Folgers Coffee Company, was led to her bedroom to empty her purse. She was led back to the living room where the four occupants of the house were tied together. Jay Sebring, a noted hairstylist and friend of the Polańskis was visiting, and when he attempted to defend Tate, he was shot by Watson, who then kicked him several times in the face.Tate, eight months pregnant, begged for the life of her unborn child and was rebuffed by Atkins, who coldly replied, &#8220;Look bitch, I have no mercy for you&#8221; before stabbing the actress sixteen times.</p>
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<p>The killing of wealthy super market executive and his wife, the La Bianca couple, is another cold blooded murder by Charles Manson and his ‘family’. On this occasion Manson himself went along to show his accomplices how to perform the ‘act’. He tied the couples and then instructed Watson, Krenwinkel and Leslie Van Houten to stab them. Watson killed Mr. La Bianca while the girls stabbed his wife even after she died. They carved out the word ‘WAR’ upon her chest and left the fork embedded in her body. With her blood on a piece of paper the words ‘rise’ and ‘death to pigs’ were written. On the wall was ‘Healter Skelter’ misspelled from the Beatles song Helter Skelter. Manson also killed high school music teacher Gary Hinman because he apparently owed him some money.</p>
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<p>Manson is now languishing in jail in California and probably for the rest of his life. He is known to shock people especially when in media glare. He is eligible for parole in 2007.</p>
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<p>By Carlos Cabezas López</p>
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		<title>Conservative Poet Tom Zart’s 87 Poems of Love Family &amp; Faith</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Conservative Poet Tom Zartâs 87 Poems of Love Family &#38; Faith LIKE A LILY AMONG THE THORNS Like a lily among the thorns, So are you among the rest. Your love is my joy of life Which by Godâs grace is the best. When I sleep my heart is awake It is the vice of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Conservative Poet</strong></p>
<p><strong>Tom Zartâs 87 Poems of Love<br /> Family &amp; Faith</strong></p>
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<p><strong>LIKE A LILY AMONG THE THORNS</strong><strong></p>
<p> Like a lily among the thorns,<br /> So are you among the rest.<br /> Your love is my joy of life<br /> Which by Godâs grace is the best.</p>
<p> When I sleep my heart is awake<br /> It is the vice of love within.<br /> By day or night I seek your love<br /> My life mate, my partner, my friend.</p>
<p> You ravish my heart with just one look<br /> When Iâm less than you desire.<br /> Your eyes speak without words<br /> As displeasure kindles your fire.</p>
<p> Your beautiful and extraordinary<br /> Like a fragrant flower from the wild.<br /> I dream of the day you softly whisper<br /> âMy love, I carry your child.â</p>
<p> The vines put forth their tender grapes<br /> The fig tree her sweet fruit of life.<br /> My love for you is everlasting<br /> As you nourish my need for a wife.</p>
<p> God gave man a woman to adore<br /> And a woman a man to respect.<br /> God gave us children we love till death<br /> To provide for, cherish and protect.</p>
<p> Until itâs dawn and the shadows flee<br /> I will hold you close and ponder<br /> Our life together past and present</strong></p>
<p><strong>And may our future be blessed by wonder.</p>
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<p><strong>RELATIONSHIPS</strong></p>
<p>
<p><strong></strong></p>
<p><strong>One of the most rewarding things, each of us can do</strong></p>
<p><strong>Is the acknowledgment of others and their fears.</strong></p>
<p><strong>To promote their happiness and sense of worth</strong></p>
<p><strong>By our love, concern, laughter and tears.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Staying eager to display are willingness</strong></p>
<p><strong>To recognize our support from others.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Where would we be without the people we love</strong></p>
<p><strong>Friends, mom, dad, grandparents, sisters and brothers.</strong></p>
<p><strong>We treasure our relationships and pray to maintain them</strong></p>
<p><strong>As they give us our passion and purpose in life.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Cherishing our family, our faith, our country</strong></p>
<p><strong>Our honor, our husband or wife.</strong></p>
<p><strong>A SCORNFUL WOMAN &amp; A SELFISH MAN</strong></p>
<p>
<p><strong>A scornful woman can rip you apart</strong></p>
<p><strong>Destroy your libido and harden your heart.</strong></p>
<p><strong>They shout their list of your every flaw</strong></p>
<p><strong>Declaring youâre lucky you get it at all.</strong></p>
<p><strong>A selfish man can become even worse</strong></p>
<p><strong>When they lie, cheat, beat, steal and curse.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Always demanding to stay king of the castle</strong></p>
<p><strong>As they force their partner to suffer their hassle.</strong></p>
<p><strong>A happy woman thrives on love, faith, family and friends,</strong></p>
<p><strong>A worthy man provides, protects and defends.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Say âNoâ to Satan and cast him out</strong></p>
<p><strong>Say âYesâ to Jesus and become his scout.</strong></p>
<p> <strong>MY HOPE TO FIND LOVE<br /></strong></p>
<p> So here I am, like many times before<br /> All alone with my face to the moon.<br /> Down on knees praying God<br /> For someone who will love me and soon!</p>
<p> The smallest deed done is better than intention<br /> When you wish to receive wisdom from above.<br /> No matter what happens, I refuse to give up<br /> My hope to discover the magic of love.</p>
<p> The better the reason for my existence<br /> The better the life I will live.<br /> Searching for someone who will share their love<br /> By their joy when itâs their turn to give.</p>
<p> My hope to find love has somewhat diminished<br /> Though my need for romance still remains.<br /> Sometimes I feel like Sampson himself<br /> Broken hearted and shackled to chains.</p>
<p><strong>THE GREATEST LESSON ONE CAN LEARN<br /></strong></p>
<p> The greatest lesson one can learn<br /> Is how when loved, to love in return.</p>
<p> Joined together through night and day<br /> Equally yoked in work and play.</p>
<p> Remaining true both body and soul<br /> Never loosing our common goal.</p>
<p> Sharing each other the best we can<br /> Before we are but bits of sand.</p>
<p> Mutual love is beyond compare<br /> Serving one another in the life we share.</p>
<p> Without compassion humans lose<br /> Simply by the path they choose.</p>
<p> Love is a miracle from God to man<br /> How some deny it I canât understand.</p>
<p><strong>WINGS of HEAVEN<br /></strong></p>
<p> Itâs a wonderful situation<br /> To be in love with you.<br /> All my thoughts have changed<br /> Because of everything you do.</p>
<p> I lack the desire for others<br /> No yearning for their love or favor.<br /> All I wish is a life with you<br /> Till itâs time to greet our Savior.</p>
<p> I was afraid I would never find love<br /> Leaving no stone unturned.<br /> I had to suffer through stupidity<br /> To grow from all I learned.</p>
<p> Life is too short to remain a fool<br /> Who doesnât see blessings handed down.<br /> From now to judgment I will love you<br /> Till the wings of heaven whisper their sound.</p>
<p><strong>SO DEAR TO MY HEART<br /></strong></p>
<p> So dear to my heart are my loved ones at home<br /> As I toss and I turn in my bunk all alone.<br /> Everyday I see death, hate and corruption<br /> Combat is Godâs proof of manâs malfunction</p>
<p> For family, comrades and myself I pray<br /> To my love with this poem I wish to convey.<br /> I knew I loved you though never how much<br /> Till by war, Iâm forced beyond your touch.</p>
<p> Where violence thrives, thereâs the stench of death<br /> With the taste of fear on every breath.<br /> Who shall prevail, who shall die?<br /> As the sadistic kill beneath Godâs sky.</p>
<p> Baghdad has become manâs highway to hell<br /> Where the hearts of darkness are alive and well<br /> I count each day till itâs time to come home<br /> And be with my love and never alone.</p>
<p> Love You<br /> Your Marine</p>
<p><strong>MARRIAGE SEX AND ROMANCE<br /></strong></p>
<p> Some other time, Iâm not in the mood<br /> Why cant we just cuddle and watch TV?<br /> When couples drift into the celibate zone<br /> Itâs not long till someone will flee.</p>
<p> Sexual fulfillment helps preserve love,<br /> Parenthood, marriage and self-esteem.<br /> Those who maintain it avoid saying no<br /> To be blessed by its pleasure and gleam.</p>
<p> While dating we tend to be more romantic<br /> Putting forth the best of our charms.<br /> Sharing dinners, long walks and lustful weekends<br /> As we spend more time in each others arms.</p>
<p> How many times have you said ânot tonightâ<br /> Exposing your happy home to harm?<br /> Todayâs crushing deadlines leave little time for love<br /> Leaving partners with sorrow, sadness and alarm.</p>
<p> So share one another with red wine and time<br /> Dial your own number and leave the phone off the hook.<br /> Enjoy some romance, sex and laughter<br /> Improving your mood and the way you look.</p>
<p><strong>MOTHERS<br /></strong></p>
<p> Thereâs no greater power on earth<br /> Than the love we get from our mothers.<br /> They feel our fears within themselves<br /> Far more than sisters or brothers.</p>
<p> As seasons pass; in time we learn<br /> We canât always rely on others.<br /> No mater what our mistakes may be<br /> We know we can run to our mothers.</p>
<p> Mothers have great big aprons<br /> To hide from the world our flaws.<br /> They kiss and scold when we do wrong<br /> Teaching compliance of laws.</p>
<p> From birth to death mothers lead<br /> Our angels of kindness from above.<br /> They give us more than anyone else<br /> Preaching the importance of love.</p>
<p> Moms are certainly Godâs gift to earth<br /> So if you still have one, let it be known.<br /> You canât imagine your life without her<br /> While the seed of your future is sown.</p>
<p><strong>DONâTÂ  FORSAKEÂ  ME ?<br /></strong></p>
<p> Donât forsake our love my darling<br /> On this night before our wedding day.<br /> I know your ex is crying to get back<br /> But thatâs just the price heâll have to pay.</p>
<p> Good guys provide for their families<br /> Tell the truth, pay bills and remain true.<br /> Bad guys procrastinate, chase women and party<br /> Then blame their shortcomings, on âyouâ.</p>
<p> I will love you only and tend to your needs<br /> Never to lie, steal or cheat.<br /> Giving all I have to share and prosper<br /> And when wrong I will accept defeat.</p>
<p> Your happiness is my inspiration<br /> For when I please you, you please me.<br /> I wish to father our children and give them love<br /> And be the best husband a man can be.</p>
<p><strong>MY FAVORITE POET<br /></strong></p>
<p> My favorite poet is God above<br /> Who gives Earth its rhythm and rhyme.<br /> Not pied pipers of misguided souls<br /> Who promote distrust, hatred and crime.</p>
<p> Poetry is nature serenading in song<br /> The peaceful roar of the oceans waves.<br /> The wind through the trees and over the hills<br /> And the flowers in the fields by the graves.</p>
<p> The sound of rain as it waters the thirsty<br /> The songs of children at play in the park.<br /> The far off rumble of trains or thunder<br /> As they pass through the night in the dark.</p>
<p> The joy of our babies first words and steps<br /> The passion of life with its heroes and clowns.<br /> The on going struggle to survive our sins<br /> As we proliferate in hamlets and towns.</p>
<p> My favorite poet is our Father of love<br /> Who was first to know us before birth.<br /> His poetry prolongs every thing we love<br /> As His deliverance gives life its worth.</p>
<p><strong>I WHO HAVE NO ONE<br /></strong></p>
<p> I who have no one, no one at all<br /> Envy others as in love they fall.<br /> Sleepless nights, with inward burning<br /> Feeling hopeless, tossing and turning.</p>
<p> Lord please forgive the fool Iâve been<br /> Hiding from goodness in the shadows of sin.<br /> I humbly pray to heaven in space<br /> For one more chance to regain my grace.</p>
<p> Iâve lived my years indulging myself<br /> Leaving decency and principle on the shelf.<br /> Now that your light shines on my face<br /> I pray for forgiveness in shame and disgrace.</p>
<p> All I ask is your life mate for me<br /> And I pledge to become all I can be.<br /> A soul without love is empty and void<br /> No wonder so many become destroyed.</p>
<p> Outside my window thereâs the thunder of rain<br /> And the haunting sound of a far away train.<br /> I feel your presence as I silently cry<br /> For someone to love before I die.</p>
<p><strong>JESUS IS A FISHERMAN<br /></strong></p>
<p> Jesus is a fisherman<br /> Who saves the souls of man.<br /> Dead or alive He leads the faithful<br /> To the streams of promise land.</p>
<p> He sees us when weâre happy<br /> He hears us when weâre glad.<br /> He whispers words of hope to us<br /> When we face something sad.</p>
<p> As wicked thoughts control the mind<br /> Evil deeds control the heart.<br /> Jesus is who we turn to<br /> When from sins we must depart.</p>
<p> Jesus is a fisherman<br /> Who baits His hook with love.<br /> Casting His line in your direction<br /> From the banks of heaven above.</p>
<p><strong>LOVEÂ CONSUMES ALL<br /></strong></p>
<p> Love consumes all physical functions<br /> Hearing, taste, touch, thought and smell.<br /> It can heal, destroy, weaken or bond<br /> Those caught in its presence and spell.</p>
<p> May I be remembered by tears of love<br /> When my hands lay across my chest.<br /> Displayed for view to say goodbye<br /> To my family, friends and the rest.</p>
<p> Until itâs time for my final farewell<br /> I will serve whom I love even more.<br /> These words of passion inhabit my heart<br /> Conveying my need for all, I adore.</p>
<p><strong>PASSION AND LOVE<br /></strong></p>
<p> Samson so loved Delilah<br /> He ended up grinding grain.<br /> Anthony so loved Cleopatra<br /> He lost all and was slain.</p>
<p> David so loved Bathsheba<br /> He drifted from Godâs command.<br /> The way I feel makes it easy<br /> To imagine and understand.</p>
<p> Youâre the inspiration of my day<br /> And the delight of my night.<br /> The joy we share as we conceive<br /> Makes everything feel just right.</p>
<p> Thank heaven for passion and love<br /> Blessings from God to man.<br /> Without them weâre mere creatures<br /> Subsisting like ants in the sand.</p>
<p><strong>TO BE BLESSED BY LOVE<br /></strong></p>
<p> Darkness submits to the brightness of day<br /> For all rich, famous or peasant.<br /> God gives us love as a tool of endurance<br /> For what is glorious, painful or unpleasant.</p>
<p> He gives us friends that mean so much<br /> Though His greatest gift is fathers and mothers.<br /> From them we learn the guidance we need<br /> Or from grandparents, sisters and brothers.</p>
<p> How rewarding it is to share our concerns<br /> Of the burdens that trouble manâs soul.<br /> With words of love, passion and faith<br /> With happiness and purpose our goal.</p>
<p> To be blessed by love elevates life<br /> Projecting a radiance of grace to our face.<br /> Like the heavenly bodies that illuminate the night<br /> As we voyage through the vastness of space.</p>
<p><strong>THE JOY I FEEL<br /></strong></p>
<p> The joy I feel within my heart<br /> Has overcome my void.<br /> No more foolish, selfish acts<br /> Risking love to be destroyed.</p>
<p> Youâre the rainbow of my day<br /> And the tiger of my night.<br /> Your style of loving me<br /> Leaves no reason to fuss or fight.</p>
<p> Happiness shuns the selfish<br /> Who fail Godâs test of time.<br /> Contentment comes as a gift<br /> To hearts of the thoughtful and kind.</p>
<p> I obtain my daily need<br /> As I awake to find you near.<br /> The love we share celebrates life<br /> As we laugh or cry with tear.</p>
<p> Through out each day, there are moments,<br /> I find I need you even more.<br /> Youâre the radiance of my life<br /> Who I worship, serve and adore.</p>
<p><strong>I LOVE BEING LOVED BY YOU<br /></strong></p>
<p> My life overflows with happiness<br /> As my favorite dreams come true.<br /> My days and nights are magical<br /> Because of everything you do.</p>
<p> You stand by me as troubles occur<br /> And listen to my worries and fears.<br /> You share my burdens and my joys<br /> With faith, compassion and tears.</p>
<p> Godâs gift to man is someone to love<br /> Which can be both splendid and rare.<br /> Throughout life thereâs nothing better<br /> Then those who will love us and care.</p>
<p> Thereâs the past, present, future, and beyond<br /> Which will test our measure by what we say and do<br /> Too many overlook the thrill of now<br /> But not I, âfor I love being loved by you.â</p>
<p><strong>WEâLL ALL REUNITE IN TIME<br /></strong></p>
<p> Fame, wealth, prestige, and wild women<br /> For too long were my passions of life.<br /> One day I found sweet liberation<br /> When God gave my heart to my wife.</p>
<p> 33 years we loved one another<br /> Sharing all we possessed and more.<br /> Last year she passed in the middle of night<br /> Never to shadow our door.</p>
<p> Iâm sure in rapture, she awaits<br /> For me to arrive in heaven divine.<br /> Iâll miss our children and grandkids too<br /> But weâll all reunite in time.</p>
<p><strong>THE LAST GOODBYE<br /></strong></p>
<p> Iâm on my way to greet my Master<br /> And shake His hand when I die.<br /> Iâm on my way to john sweet Jesus<br /> In His mansion beyond on high.</p>
<p> Iâm on my way to escape manâs woes<br /> Where the faithful rise to tell their story.<br /> Following the path of love and compliance.<br /> Guided by Godâs magnificence and glory.</p>
<p> As I journey to and from all I love<br /> It hurts to say my absolute goodbye.<br /> Iâm on my way to divine fulfillment<br /> But for those left behind, âI cry.â</p>
<p> The Last Goodbye</p>
<p><strong>MOMS</strong></p>
<p> Millions of dewdrops greet the dawn<br /> As hungry of bees buzz the clover<br /> Dazzling butterflies flutter about<br /> As moms give love the world over.</p>
<p> Lessons learned at our motherâs knee<br /> Last a lifetime till we grow older.<br /> Popping up when troubles accrue<br /> Like a whispering angel on our shoulder.</p>
<p> Gods gives us friends that mean so much<br /> Children, fathers, sisters and brothers<br /> Though far, far above all the rest,<br /> No one loves us more than our mothers.</p>
<p> In and out of friendships, jobs and partners<br /> Our mothers always remain our evening star.<br /> Those who where born to a selfish mom<br /> Make the rest us realize how lucky we are.</p>
<p> How great life is to have a good mom<br /> Who reads what we feel but canât say.<br /> Nothing means as much, as her tender touch<br /> And for all who are without one, âwe pray.â</p>
<p><strong>SHOULD TOMORROW START WITHOUT ME ?<br /></strong></p>
<p> Should tomorrow start without me<br /> Remember I love you<br /> Looking down from up above<br /> Seeing everything you do.</p>
<p> If I become a casualty<br /> I pray you will love again<br /> Whom ever makes you happy<br /> Iâll consider my friend.</p>
<p> Should tomorrow start without me<br /> Remind our boys, God loves all who care<br /> And when life seems too harsh and cruel<br /> With âHimâ they must share their prayer.</p>
<p> I have proven Iâm not a coward<br /> Who breaks and runs to survive<br /> Always fearing death will kiss me<br /> As the streets of Baghdad I drive.</p>
<p> Should tomorrow start without me<br /> Be proud I choose to serve<br /> Our faith and our patriotism<br /> Earn the freedom we deserve.</p>
<p> I miss home more than ever<br /> It breaks my heart to stay away<br /> I canât help but want to hold you <br /> And whisper what I say.</p>
<p><strong>PASSION</strong></p>
<p> Passion is any strong feeling or thought<br /> Of love, hate, fear, anger and grief.<br /> The emotional joy of sexual desire<br /> Sometimes the suffering of saint or thief.</p>
<p> The cruelty of man nailing Christ to the cross<br /> His treatment subsequent to the last supper.<br /> Continuing conflict with endless war<br /> Make it seem weâre prone to suffer.</p>
<p> All must carry their own cross in life<br /> While they struggle to survive the day.<br /> Passion reveals how much we desire<br /> As we race toward our outcome and pray.</p>
<p><strong>WHO?<br /></strong></p>
<p> Who wrote the tune the songbird sings? <br /> Who made the diamonds we wear on rings?</p>
<p> Who caused the snow and rain to fall? <br /> Who made spring, winter, summer and fall?</p>
<p> Who gave man a woman to love? <br /> Who made the clouds and sky above?</p>
<p> Who lights the stars and moon in the night? <br /> Who makes heaven and beyond so bright?</p>
<p> Who gives us babies we follow till death? <br /> Who made us able to speak with our breath?</p>
<p> Who gives us heroes willing to die? <br /> Who made the tears we shed as we cry.</p>
<p> Who shows us hope and guides our way? <br /> The same one who loves us night and day.</p>
<p><strong>SATISFACTION<br /></strong></p>
<p> Too many people never know satisfaction<br /> For their goals for happiness are placed too high. <br /> Most of us complain about what we can&#8217;t have <br /> When we&#8217;re not bedfast or in the grave, we lie.</p>
<p> No one finds satisfaction from serving themselves <br /> Contentment takes place, by our unselfish concern.<br /> The more we repent and regret our wrongs<br /> The more we are able to retain what we learn.</p>
<p> So tally your blessings and be thankful for life<br /> And remember there are those who wish, they were you. <br /> Satisfaction and love are what mere mortal&#8217;s pray for<br /> Though the lucky among us, who feel both, are few.</p>
<p><strong>LOVE &amp; HATE</strong></p>
<p> Unselfish concerns are the footstones of love <br /> Though far too many still waste time on hate. <br /> Real happiness happens to the lucky in life <br /> Who&#8217;ve bonded to others with love as their fate.</p>
<p> Malice, disfavor and ill will complicate life <br /> To where our days resemble frustration&#8217;s hell. <br /> The warm rush of love can turn things around<br /> Enabling the sleepless to again rest well.</p>
<p> Tender love and affection generate fondness <br /> Where hatreds repugnance eats body and soul.<br /> Friendship, attachment, good will and charity <br /> Are the mother&#8217;s milk of life, when love&#8217;s our goal.</p>
<p> So recognize hate for what it truly is <br /> And reject it when it whispers in your ear.<br /> For the power of love is the only way <br /> To avoid corruption, resentment and fear.</p>
<p><strong>MY TRUE LOVE<br /></strong></p>
<p> Lord, have mercy on my soul<br /> For all the wrong I&#8217;ve done<br /> When I was young and foolish<br /> And searching for some fun.</p>
<p> My daddy told me, son <br /> You reap what you sow<br /> Everything Iâve learned the hard way <br /> Are the only things I know.</p>
<p> I searched all the honky tonks <br /> And every bar in town<br /> The right woman for me to love <br /> I had not yet found.</p>
<p> My mother always said <br /> Why not look at church <br /> Thereâs where youâll find<br /> The right one to end your search.</p>
<p> So, here I am singing a song<br /> To the music of a choir<br /> Next to me is my true love<br /> Who sets my heart on fire.</p>
<p> I can see her left hand<br /> And thereâs my wedding ring <br /> She catches me peeking at her<br /> With every line we sing.</p>
<p> A man and wife are equally yoked<br /> In everything they do;<br /> That&#8217;s why I celebrate<br /> God saving me for you!</p>
<p><strong>CHRISTMAS<br /></strong></p>
<p> Husbands with ladders hang lights on their home<br /> As all who have no one feel sad and alone.<br /> The churches are full of the faithful that sing<br /> For the birth of our Lord, is a spiritual thing.</p>
<p> The sound of Christmas sweetly fills the air<br /> While frantic shoppers hustle from here to there.<br /> The windows of storefronts at this time of year <br /> Reflect all their wonders as Christmas draws near.</p>
<p> Little ones stand looking with their nose pressed to glass <br /> As model trains on display come speeding past.<br /> The path to Santa is lined with girls and boys<br /> With a list in their heart of their favorite toys.</p>
<p> The stores shelves are crammed with dolls that crawl or walk<br /> Games, cars, trucks, planes and stuffed toys that sing or talk.<br /> The miracle of Christmas comes once a year<br /> When all that we love seems more precious and dear.</p>
<p><strong>THE SEED of LOVE<br /></strong></p>
<p> A kindly woman can make a sad man sing<br /> With her love and affection winter seems like spring.<br /> Of all the pleasures in life given to a man<br /> There&#8217;s nothing beats the touch of a woman&#8217;s soft hand.</p>
<p> God saw Adam alone on Eden&#8217;s floor <br /> Then decided to give him Eveâs love and much more. <br /> So take what you need from she chosen for you<br /> Then rid thyself of others and to her be true.</p>
<p> The Lord planted love within mankind&#8217;s heart <br /> Though things can grow sour when from Him we depart. <br /> Love and hate are but two sides of life&#8217;s golden coin<br /> So be ready for both no matter whom you join.</p>
<p><strong>DOUBLE TROUBLE<br /></strong></p>
<p> To tell you the truth, it still hurts to share;<br /> Even though with him your heart is not there.<br /> I&#8217;ve tried hard to think what brought this about<br /> For we&#8217;re not the type who enjoy sneaking out.</p>
<p> Your husband, my wife, were into themselves.<br /> Like old Christmas toys, they placed us on our shelves.<br /> Somehow we managed to take ourselves down<br /> And found one another while out on the town.</p>
<p> You gave me your number for reasons well known <br /> And now you weep as you drive home alone. <br /> It&#8217;s hard to make love when the romance is dead <br /> It causes confusion in your heart and your head.</p>
<p> There&#8217;s a battle inside as your mind and heart fight<br /> While you lie by the wrong one in the middle of the night.<br /> We now know the meaning to the words of that song<br /> That it hurts to love someone and to the wrong one belong.</p>
<p><strong>HOLLYWOOD WOMAN<br /></strong></p>
<p> Hollywood woman, I&#8217;m in love with you<br /> Though you&#8217;re always on your own stage. <br /> Some days you love me and some days you don&#8217;t<br /> No wonder I&#8217;m in such a rage.</p>
<p> You baited your hook <br /> Then threw me a line <br /> And like a big crayfish <br /> I thought you were mine.</p>
<p> But you have that fever <br /> To fish other streams <br /> And youâll be the cause <br /> Of many menâs dreams.</p>
<p> For other men have loved you <br /> And other men have cried.<br /> Every last one of them <br /> Has felt you inside.</p>
<p> Before long youâll grow old <br /> And your looks shall fade <br /> And all youâll have left <br /> Is your video parade.</p>
<p> Those who once loved you <br /> Will be dead or gone <br /> And youâll lie alone <br /> In silence till dawn.</p>
<p><strong>A MAN&#8217;S BEST FRIEND<br /></strong></p>
<p> A manâs best friend is still his faithful dog<br /> Who anxiously awaits his return home.<br /> Where would man be without his canine love <br /> When his human mates have left him alone.</p>
<p> If a man was as good as his dog thinks <br /> He&#8217;d be more famous than a football star.<br /> It&#8217;s too bad our wives don&#8217;t feel the same way<br /> I guess its because they know how we are.</p>
<p> Man has no fear of his dog&#8217;s love for life <br /> Though itâs usually man who buries his pet.<br /> It matters not be they large or small <br /> What animal has loved man more, as yet?</p>
<p><strong>GETTING OVER HER<br /></strong></p>
<p> I thought we&#8217;d raise our only child<br /> And feed him with a spoon<br /> But, his mother loves another<br /> And they&#8217;re on a honeymoon.</p>
<p> All my friends say I must stop <br /> Loving her, of course<br /> So I drove my Ford to a honky tonk <br /> Still lonely from divorce.</p>
<p> From out of my chair, I must get up <br /> And ask someone to dance <br /> For, if I plan to get over her <br /> I know I&#8217;ll need romance.</p>
<p> The dance floor is almost full <br /> Of country kings and queens.<br /> I feel a pair of eyes <br /> Just checking out my jeans.</p>
<p> I can see a smiling face <br /> I&#8217;m almost at a run <br /> For I know if I dance<br /> I&#8217;m going to have some fun.</p>
<p> She stands up from her table <br /> And reaches for my hand <br /> Then I lead the both of us <br /> Right up in front of the band.</p>
<p> Somebody turned the spotlight <br /> Toward the dance floor ball. <br /> She is so beautiful <br /> I&#8217;m afraid I might fall.</p>
<p> Here I go, a-gambling <br /> A gambling with my heart <br /> For when I love a woman <br /> It always hurts to part.</p>
<p><strong>BODY HEAT 1O5<br /></strong></p>
<p> We drank several glasses of champagne <br /> In the living room of her house.<br /> Around 9:30 that evening <br /> I found myself in her blouse.</p>
<p> I fondled and kissed her so gently <br /> Like the soft footsteps of a mouse. <br /> To my surprise, she opened her eyes<br /> And said, âlook, we&#8217;re not going to play house.â</p>
<p> I right away replaced her clothing <br /> And buttoned her blouse once more.<br /> There was no doubt of my defeat <br /> As I lay there upon the floor.</p>
<p> She said, âtell the truth, are you angry?â<br /> I answered, by far I was not<br /> &#8220;It&#8217;s more important what you think of me <br /> Than what I may not have got.&#8221;</p>
<p> She wiped away a tear from both eyes<br /> And said, &#8220;you&#8217;re my kind of man.&#8221;<br /> At that point, she did arise <br /> And to me she held out her hand</p>
<p> She led me away like a blind man<br /> Who had somehow lost his cane. <br /> When we reached her bedroom door <br /> I thought I&#8217;d gone insane.</p>
<p> Before long, we found ourselves naked <br /> As she held me in her palm.<br /> Can you dare imagine, my friend <br /> How hard it was for me to stay calm?</p>
<p> We touched all the forbidden places <br /> As our body heats reached 105<br /> If love&#8217;s relief had not been achieved <br /> I doubt if we&#8217;d still be alive.</p>
<p><strong>WITHOUT LOVE<br /></strong></p>
<p> Life is simply a circus <br /> With too many fools on the stage. <br /> There &#8216;s greed, fear and indifference <br /> As many hearts suffer from rage.</p>
<p> Divorce is like a bad book <br /> Where the heroes get killed off to soon. <br /> When we reach the point the light goes out <br /> Then weâll stand up and leave the room.</p>
<p> Without love we become such fools <br /> In a desert which has gone all dry.<br /> When the one we love ignores us<br /> Thereâs nothing to do but cry.</p>
<p> The worst curse that one can endure <br /> Are those who just wish to take. <br /> When all we give is our own love <br /> To find out we&#8217;ve made a mistake.</p>
<p> Of all the prizes life may bring <br /> To be loved is by far the best. <br /> That&#8217;s why so many search for it<br /> For without love, what good is the rest?</p>
<p><strong>THAT OLD COVERED BRIDGE</p>
<p></strong><br /> We returned to that old covered bridge <br /> Where as sweethearts we used to go.<br /> To kiss, hug, and squeeze in the shadows <br /> While beneath us the water would flow.</p>
<p> Up under its wood roof of shingles<br /> Is where we took refuge from the rains.<br /> Carved in some boards within that old bridge <br /> Side by side youâll still find our names.</p>
<p> Our memories of our past childhood <br /> Are a gift from God for us to keep.<br /> Like that picture you once gave me <br /> Which I peaked at before I could sleep.</p>
<p> We find ourselves back at that old bridge <br /> Only now, with our kids to catch fish.<br /> We pray someday that they&#8217;ll find love<br /> And come here with someone, just to wish.</p>
<p><strong>SOME MEN PRAY<br /></strong></p>
<p> Some men pry to marry the woman they love <br /> Where my prayers can&#8217;t help but somewhat vary<br /> As I humbly pray to heaven above<br /> That I am loved by the woman I marry.</p>
<p> The essence of love is its spiritual fire<br /> And thereâs nothing more sought after on earth. <br /> Man&#8217;s only escape is his own flight<br /> But what, without love would his life be worth.</p>
<p> Love can be manâs worst pain or best pleasure<br /> A dangerous gamble he must take in life.<br /> For he who falls in love with the wrong woman <br /> Shall find all he&#8217;s worked for belongs to his wife.</p>
<p><strong>THE COAL MINER<br /></strong></p>
<p> Coal mines in my daddy&#8217;s day<br /> Were dug with strong hands and back.<br /> They got larger and deeper <br /> As the lungs of the miners turned black.</p>
<p> Cave-ins, fires and explosions<br /> Were my fatherâs daily fear.<br /> But what choice has a man <br /> When the wolf of hunger is near.</p>
<p> With three small kids and a wife<br /> There were five stomachs to fill.<br /> As we lived in poverty<br /> In our shack below a hill.</p>
<p> I feel his blood within me<br /> As the years of my life pass by<br /> I&#8217;m proud that dad dug King Cole<br /> For a miner so am I.</p>
<p> Life to me is but a rose<br /> Though it&#8217;s thorns can make me cry. <br /> And like my dad before me <br /> To my Lord I will not lie.</p>
<p> In cold earth someday Iâll sleep <br /> With a shinny stone above.<br /> Carved in it, shall be the words<br /> I have known the joy of love.</p>
<p><strong>ADAM THE LONELY</p>
<p></strong><br /> Adam, the lonely was chased from God&#8217;s land <br /> When Eve picked that apple with her foolish hand.<br /> Delilah, the evil, cut a champion&#8217;s hair off <br /> When Samson; the strong man&#8217;s heart became soft.</p>
<p> David the shepherd, a king among men<br /> Was teased by Bathsheba and driven to sin.<br /> A man needs a woman to build up his pride <br /> To bolster his ego and to lay by his side.</p>
<p> Life mates are a treasure and difficult to find<br /> I feel like a blind man who&#8217;s lost in a mine. <br /> Lord, I&#8217;m a sad soul with no hand to hold<br /> Searching for someone who&#8217;ll love me when Iâm old.</p>
<p><strong>TO HAVE AND TO HOLD<br /></strong></p>
<p> Our house is big, though our family&#8217;s small <br /> The phone&#8217;s off the hook, cause we don &#8216;t want a call.<br /> I need you darling more than anything <br /> For your sweet kisses make a sad man sing.</p>
<p> I can feel life&#8217;s clock as it pounds away <br /> While the moon says hello to the dying day. <br /> I pray to partake every sight and sound <br /> While I still enjoy the right side of the ground.</p>
<p> Nothing beats the love of a willing mate.<br /> So little time for fun before it&#8217;s too late.<br /> The Lord made you for me and me alone <br /> And not for others that you might have known.</p>
<p><strong>LOVER&#8217;S TOAST<br /></strong></p>
<p> Come to me with just your love <br /> And I will pledge you mine.<br /> Feel my lips and share my glass <br /> And we shall sip red wine.</p>
<p> You&#8217;re the red rose of my day<br /> And the lily of my night.<br /> Nothing is so grand in life<br /> As when you seize me tight.</p>
<p> Love&#8217;s uncertain future is <br /> Where mankind&#8217;s torments dwell <br /> With both it&#8217;s pain and pleasure<br /> Our lust is alive and well.</p>
<p><strong>DADS AT WAR<br /></strong></p>
<p> Where would I be without you dad <br /> My hero of night and day?<br /> I&#8217;m so glad you love my mother <br /> And take time for us to pray.</p>
<p> The last time we played baseball<br /> You reached for me with your hand. <br /> I looked at you, then made a wish <br /> That I might be just half the man.</p>
<p> I love my father of earth,<br /> And I love my Father of heaven.<br /> It&#8217;s a lot for me to love, you know<br /> For Iâm only eleven.</p>
<p> Mom and I sure miss you<br /> Since you left to defend our flag. <br /> When others ask, where is your dad<br /> I can&#8217;t help but boast and brag.</p>
<p><strong>MOMMA<br /></strong></p>
<p> Oh, I love my momma<br /> Sheâs the reason Iâm alive.<br /> Her total love for me <br /> Has made her struggle and strive.</p>
<p> Jesus had a momma<br /> Who bore Him in a cave.<br /> She couldnât help but love Him<br /> From His birth to the grave.</p>
<p> Should I hang on the highest hill<br /> My momma would be there.<br /> I know her love would follow me<br /> My Angel of despair.</p>
<p> Her hair is now all silver<br /> As I hold her fingers, worn.<br /> Oh, God, bless this wrinkled brow<br /> From whose body I was born.</p>
<p><strong>LETTERS<br /></strong></p>
<p> We were just the best of friends <br /> I knew him all my life.<br /> I&#8217;m sure that he, towards the end <br /> Found out I love his wife.</p>
<p> He drove his car right off a cliff<br /> And crashed into the sea.<br /> I know it was no accident<br /> For a skillful driver was he.</p>
<p> He must have found our letters<br /> Of love that shouldnât be.<br /> He&#8217;s the type to harm himself <br /> Instead of killing me.</p>
<p> As I looked in his wife&#8217;s eyes<br /> She sadly said to me,<br /> Instead of us, he killed himself <br /> Because of lovers, such as we.</p>
<p> Lord, have mercy on our souls<br /> For her husband, my friend, has died!<br /> No one else may ever know<br /> But God how much we&#8217;ve lied.</p>
<p><strong>HONEYMOON CRUISE<br /></strong></p>
<p> The gulls have gone long ago <br /> As we sail a peaceful sea.<br /> The skies are blue, soft and kind<br /> Where else would we wish to be.</p>
<p> Late at night, as we embrace <br /> In front of a reggae band. <br /> You kiss me, and then you whisper <br /> I want to be alone with my man.</p>
<p> A little after midnight<br /> We both slip away.<br /> In such of some time <br /> For the games lovers play.</p>
<p> Alone in our cabin<br /> Your skin is so soft.<br /> Iâm just that angel<br /> Who fell from aloft.</p>
<p> After twenty-five years <br /> Of our love has gone <br /> It&#8217;s a honeymoon cruise <br /> We find ourselves on.</p>
<p> May the Lord show mercy <br /> On any of those<br /> Who have never been loved <br /> Or ever been chose.</p>
<p><strong>MY LOVE of LIFE<br /></strong></p>
<p> Wise men learn more from watching fools <br /> Than fools do from watching wise men.<br /> I should know for I&#8217;ve been both<br /> I can &#8216;t believe how lucky I&#8217;ve been.</p>
<p> Everyday as I speak out <br /> With verse I come alive.<br /> My lust for life shall be fulfilled<br /> As another day I survive.</p>
<p> I take the clay of every day<br /> And mold it to my fashion.<br /> All I need is my true love<br /> Whose heart flows free with passion.</p>
<p> I thank the Lord who watches us <br /> For blessings which are mine; <br /> That Iâm festive, fit and free<br /> To love my wife who&#8217;s sweeter than wine.</p>
<p><strong>LITTLE BABY<br /></strong></p>
<p> Little baby, I love you <br /> For you are a part of me<br /> Each and every inch youâll grow <br /> I want to be there to see.</p>
<p> Someday youâll chase fireflies <br /> Who ride the breath of the winds.<br /> Someday you&#8217;ll be all grown up <br /> And out on the town with friends.</p>
<p> You have your daddy &#8216;s freckles; <br /> You&#8217;ve got your mommy&#8217;s eyes.<br /> I pray to God every day <br /> Youâll survive all of life&#8217;s lies.</p>
<p> Little babies shoot up fast <br /> As they need to stretch and grow.<br /> They do such things as children do<br /> In a world theyâve yet to know.</p>
<p> Someday you will understand<br /> How your parents feel inside<br /> Someday youâll have your babies <br /> And raise them with great pride.</p>
<p> Of all the gifts that life may bring <br /> A sweet baby is still the best<br /> Your mom and I shall love you<br /> Till the day we&#8217;re laid to rest.</p>
<p><strong>ONE MAN&#8217;S PRAYER<br /></strong></p>
<p> Where are the women who need a good man?<br /> Where are the women with love in their hand?</p>
<p> Where are the children who played on the lawn?<br /> Where are the children when mom and dad are gone?</p>
<p> What about the marriage that began with smiles?<br /> What about the marriage that ended in trials?</p>
<p> What about the future of all involved?<br /> What about the problems that must be solved?</p>
<p> Answer these questions that tear at my heart.<br /> Answer these questions that keep us apart.</p>
<p><strong>WHAT LOVE MEANS TO ME<br /></strong></p>
<p> I know now for sure what love means to me<br /> Itâs a chance to be needed and to give happily.<br /> For Iâve felt what itâs like to be sad and alone <br /> And wish for that someone I could call my own.</p>
<p> Itâs just like young Adam when he lost his rib bone<br /> God gave him Eve, so he wouldn&#8217;t sleep alone.<br /> When a man loves a woman, thereâs many lessons heâll learn<br /> As she respects him, her favors heâll earn.</p>
<p> One thing for certain, when your thoughts are for real<br /> As you hug and you kiss, you love how you feel.<br /> Some live a lifetime just a step from love<br /> You are that person who gave me my shove.</p>
<p> The world has both givers and those on the take <br /> Life can be bad if your love&#8217;s a mistake.<br /> I can&#8217;t help realize how lucky I&#8217;ve been<br /> For you are my wife, but best of all, my friend.</p>
<p><strong>I WON&#8217;T BE THERE<br /></strong></p>
<p> Itâs true; I&#8217;ve been living with a looser <br /> And it&#8217;s been going on too long<br /> I&#8217;ve prayed for the courage and, now I have it <br /> To sing you your farewell song.</p>
<p> I won&#8217;t be there in the morning when you need me!<br /> I won&#8217;t be there when you call on the phone!<br /> I won&#8217;t be there in the bed beside you <br /> As you lay by yourself alone!</p>
<p> Too many times at night I&#8217;ve cried<br /> Wondering why you wonât just come home <br /> Staring at the clock on the wall<br /> As I lie half awake by the phone.</p>
<p> For so long it was enough that I loved you<br /> Though now my heart needs more.<br /> So, I&#8217;ve packed up my bags and my pictures <br /> And I&#8217;m on my way out the door.</p>
<p><strong>WHEN YOU LOVE A MEAN WOMAN<br /></strong></p>
<p> When you love a mean woman it hurts down deep <br /> In the middle of the night when you find you can&#8217;t sleep.<br /> I remember those times we kissed in the park <br /> Covered by moonbeams and stars in the dark.</p>
<p> You told me you loved me and would never run away<br /> Though now, there&#8217;s another with whom you play.<br /> Somebody tell me what Iâm doing wrong<br /> Somebody show me before I&#8217;ve waited too long.</p>
<p> Other women I&#8217;ve met, they remind me of you<br /> It makes me afraid of what they might do.<br /> But life without love isnât living at all<br /> Everyone needs someone who waits for their call.</p>
<p> I thirst for a woman who will love me again <br /> One who needs both a husband and friend.<br /> Dear Lord, I pray for my angel of love <br /> So I may fly high on the wings of a dove.</p>
<p><strong>SHE&#8217;S MY BUDDY <br /></strong></p>
<p> Adam and Eve lay beneath the stars.<br /> I wonder if their love was as strong as ours?<br /> Darling, I love you, Iâm not afraid to say <br /> Our love just grows with each passing day.</p>
<p> I was afraid our love would grow cold <br /> Thatâs what Iâve always by others been told.<br /> Iâm glad they were wrong, so I sing this song<br /> For you are the woman to whom I belong.</p>
<p> Without your concern I have nothing at all<br /> Thereâs no one to help me should I take a fall.<br /> I need your love it builds up my pride<br /> Bolsters my ego and stands by my side.</p>
<p> Many men still search for someone like you<br /> Case to find a good woman isnât easy to do<br /> Lord, I thank you for the love of my life<br /> For she is my buddy as well as my wife.</p>
<p><strong>OUR MOTHER&#8217;S LOVE<br /></strong></p>
<p> Our mother&#8217;s love like a candle <br /> Burns brightly upon the shelf.<br /> As she lights the way for all others <br /> Never thinking of herself.</p>
<p> Seven little kids in a farmhouse <br /> By my moms hard work survived.<br /> Through her love and faith in Jesus <br /> We learned how to struggle and strive.</p>
<p> The lilacs still bloom by the window <br /> Where our mom would quilt and sew.<br /> In the winter she&#8217;d sing by the fire <br /> To the tunes she thought we should know.</p>
<p> Our father labored at a quarry <br /> In the dust of the earth every day.<br /> He worked so hard for his money <br /> For the bills our family must pay.</p>
<p> Little sister came down with pneumonia <br /> And almost died in bed.<br /> Our momma lie sick beside her <br /> Putting cool rags on her head.</p>
<p> We were sure glad to see daddy&#8217;s face <br /> As he drove up our driveway<br /> He ran up and into the house <br /> Then knelt by their bed to pray.</p>
<p> Oh, Lord, please save my family<br /> From the fever that burns within<br /> For we have always loved Jesus<br /> And will serve Him till our end.</p>
<p> Our mother and sister survived<br /> But daddy, he died long ago.<br /> When it&#8217;s our time for heaven <br /> Weâll see many that we know.</p>
<p><strong>TILL THE END of TIME<br /></strong></p>
<p> I feel like Samson pushing the stone<br /> For I gave into love and now I&#8217;m alone.<br /> Betrayed by a woman, I gambled and lost <br /> And now I suffer what disloyalty cost.</p>
<p> Samson was blinded by the blade of a knife <br /> After his capture by the love of his life.<br /> Imprisoned forever and forced to grind grain<br /> To spectator laughter, the whip and the chain.</p>
<p> The same so am I, a victim of chain<br /> For Iâve too many memories of you in my brain.<br /> Together my darling from a window we shall peer<br /> It will be from heaven both faraway and near.</p>
<p> The heirlooms of tomorrow the woman and the man <br /> Waiting for our ashes to sift through the sand.<br /> I willÂ  love you always, till the end of time<br /> Now and then dreaming of when you were mine. </p>
<p><strong>SAD DAD IN JAIL</p>
<p></strong><br /> They put me in prison for the deed I&#8217;ve done <br /> I killed the drunk driver who crippled you, son.<br /> Your mother, my wife, she died in the wreck<br /> That&#8217;s the reason I broke that man&#8217;s neck.</p>
<p> His dad was a rich man, who pulled lots of strings<br /> So well connected he could do many things.<br /> I live in this hellhole with all sorts of men; <br /> Iâm sure glad most like me and call me their friend.</p>
<p> The food here is so awful, I&#8217;ve lost many pounds<br /> I&#8217;d rather feast on the vittles the guards toss the hounds.<br /> At night we play cards and you don&#8217;t dare cheat <br /> For if you get caught, youâll be stomped on by feet.</p>
<p> Most inmates fashion some sort of knife <br /> To help out their odds in a fight for their life<br /> I took me a padlock and snapped it on a chain <br /> Then hid it in my pant-leg to keep from being slain.</p>
<p> I get to see you on our family day <br /> The worst part about it, is when you cry as you play.<br /> Many times you question, &#8220;Dad, when can you leave?&#8221;<br /> As the tears from your eyes drop to my sleeve.</p>
<p> Our visit is now over as they wheel you away<br /> I whisper, &#8220;I love you&#8221; and you see what I say.<br /> It&#8217;s time to go back to my one-room, shared cell<br /> And try to write a song about a sad dad in jail.</p>
<p><strong>SOLDIER IN THE RAIN<br /></strong></p>
<p> Iâm just a soldier who stands in the rain <br /> My memories of home are what keep me sane.<br /> Back home is a land of milk and honey <br /> Ruled by lust and love of money.</p>
<p> But, what can I say, when I serve her true <br /> For I volunteered to see this war through.<br /> Now, that Iâm here, it&#8217;s hard to believe<br /> We&#8217;re just the victims of those who deceive.</p>
<p> As darkness falls on the rice fields of Nam <br /> Scared men with rifles walk the shadows of the calm.<br /> It&#8217;s thousands of miles to the steps of my church <br /> With its stained glass, steeples and lost souls who search.</p>
<p> Off in the distance I see an arc light<br /> Bombs being dropped on children at night.<br /> I&#8217;ve seen that evil they call the &#8220;yellow rain&#8221;<br /> And how life withers when it&#8217;s sprayed by a plane.</p>
<p> All of my buddies have been taken away <br /> No more touch football will they ever play.<br /> Zipped in their body bags for the long trip home<br /> Are some of the bravest, I&#8217;ve ever known.</p>
<p> War is a hell, devised by man<br /> There&#8217;s death in the sea, the sky and the land.<br /> Lord, I canât help but wish I were home<br /> Back with my love, whom I hope is alone?</p>
<p><strong>WE WISH YOU WERE HOME</p>
<p></strong><br /> I remember that fair in September<br /> As we waited for a Ferris wheel ride <br /> Just as you reached for my fingers<br /> I felt how I loved you inside.</p>
<p> The next thing I knew we were airborne <br /> Above all the eyes of the crowd<br /> Surrounded by rainbows of neon<br /> As the moon popped from behind a cloud.</p>
<p> You asked, &#8220;daddy, do you love me&#8221;<br /> I answered I couldnât live without you.<br /> Then you reached up and tugged on my collar<br /> As we flew in that chair painted blue.</p>
<p> Now you are grown and gone<br /> And have marched away to war.<br /> As I&#8217;m writing this letter<br /> I yearn for your knock at our door.</p>
<p> I got out some rags and the wax<br /> And gave your old Ford a rubdown.<br /> I went for a ride of remembrance<br /> While its mufflers made your favorite sound</p>
<p> I drove by the park to ponder<br /> Those ball games we loved to play.<br /> I can &#8216;t help but worry and wonder<br /> If you&#8217;ll ever come home to stay.</p>
<p> Your girlfriend still teaches school<br /> We see her every seventh day.<br /> There&#8217;s no doubt who she thinks of<br /> When she folds her hands to pray.</p>
<p> Your mother still talks to your picture<br /> As she works at her sewing machine.<br /> I hope my son you realize<br /> How much to us you mean.</p>
<p><strong>PLEASURE SEEKERS<br /></strong></p>
<p> That road of pleasure seeking<br /> Has so many deep pitfalls<br /> And all the while we walk on it<br /> In the distance the devil calls.</p>
<p> Some folks drink those bubbly spirits<br /> Or smoke that tall green weed<br /> Anything to dull their conscience<br /> As they sow their wild oat seed.</p>
<p> I&#8217;ve been no angel in my life<br /> Though I fell from a righteous shelf<br /> When I took those risky chances<br /> And tried both, many times, myself.</p>
<p> Now I&#8217;m tired of being foolish.<br /> So I sing my songs at church<br /> With one eye on my hymnbook<br /> And the other free to search.</p>
<p> If you&#8217;re yearning to love someone <br /> Let&#8217;s get together and seek no more<br /> Kiss and fondle by the fire<br /> And push pillows across the floor.</p>
<p> For we need love, health and money <br /> And may we live to enjoy them all <br /> Before we &#8216;re old and in our autumn<br /> And our leaves begin to fall.</p>
<p><strong>THE FIRST ONE TO LOVE ME</strong></p>
<p> The first one to love me was you; Lord <br /> And nothing can take that away.<br /> My soul is refreshed by living water <br /> While my heart flows with love each day.</p>
<p> I thank you for the love of my family <br /> And I thank you for the love of my life.<br /> I thank you for all of the blessings <br /> You give to each husband and wife.</p>
<p> Your glory rides high on the sunsets<br /> Your voice is the thunder of rain.<br /> I thank you for all of the heavens<br /> And Jesus who came to be slain.</p>
<p> I feel when your eyes are upon me <br /> As you listen to my humble cry<br /> You&#8217;ve redeemed the soul of your servant <br /> To dwell in your mansion on high.</p>
<p> Iâll claim each and every promise <br /> From the Lord of the earth and sky.<br /> I&#8217;m so glad Iâm free from my bondage <br /> Of the grave where my body shall lie.</p>
<p> I thank you for parting the darkness<br /> And guiding my footsteps each day.<br /> I thank you for being my shepherd <br /> You&#8217;ve walked with me all the way.</p>
<p> I know your armor protects me <br /> From the devil in search of his feast.<br /> And all who are lost without you <br /> Shall dwell in hell with the beast!</p>
<p><strong>CHRISTMAS IS COMING<br /></strong></p>
<p> Christmas is coming and I&#8217;m all alone<br /> With no one to snuggle at night.<br /> My wineglass is empty to help dull the desire <br /> To kiss you by soft candlelight.</p>
<p> A rare pearl of value, you don &#8216;t leave alone <br /> Or someone will steal them from you.<br /> After they&#8217;ve gone and flown far away <br /> It&#8217;s hard to know just what to do.</p>
<p> I&#8217;m watching my neighbors hang lights on their tree <br /> With tinsel and striped candy cane.<br /> I took you for granted and didn&#8217;t hug enough <br /> And now I must suffer my pain.</p>
<p> Lord, I&#8217;m so lonely; I wish I could die<br /> Then be born to relive again.<br /> I realize the value of someone to love <br /> And the danger of my selfish sin.</p>
<p> There&#8217;s a ring on my phone and a knock at the door<br /> Which do I dare go for?<br /> If neither is you, I&#8217;ll break down and cry <br /> And again pound my fist on the floor.</p>
<p> I run down the hall and the doorknob turns<br /> As the swirling snow rides on the wind.<br /> There, in my doorway, it&#8217;s the face I love<br /> Such a beautiful present to send.</p>
<p> Now, I am happy and dancing around <br /> With a permanent smile on my face.<br /> As children are singing their Christmas love songs <br /> And the world is a wonderful place.</p>
<p><strong>PATHWAYS<br /></strong></p>
<p> Lord, I&#8217;m so lonely, I thirst everyday <br /> In search of the love I need<br /> like a man in prison with no warmth at night <br /> A slave who seeks to be freed.</p>
<p> For I need a woman who will heal my heart <br /> So my life won &#8216;t seem so wrong.<br /> Iâll lie down beside her and gamble again <br /> Then sing of our love in a song.</p>
<p> Remember, young Adam, your first favorite born<br /> Who slept in your garden alone.<br /> You took form his body and transformed some flesh <br /> Then gave him a woman unknown.</p>
<p> Whichever the pathway I should choose to take <br /> I realize that there will be brambles.<br /> For the man who has visions everyday of his life <br /> Will always be the same who gambles.</p>
<p> Now, to heaven I pray, for my treasure of life <br /> After searching the deserts in vain.<br /> Iâm tired of mirages from fool-hearted women <br /> Please give me someone whoâs sane.</p>
<p> May her eyes be turquoise with cheeks like peaches <br /> Ripe and ready to risk.<br /> Soon theyâll turn rosy when she sneaks a peek <br /> To the tingle of where I kiss.</p>
<p> Though I will love her, I shall never follow. <br /> Nor will I ever lead.<br /> I&#8217;ll walk beside her and share all I have <br /> For the children who spring from seed.</p>
<p> If we should argue about foolish things <br /> I &#8216;d rather be loved than right.<br /> Then when I lie down at the end of my day<br /> I&#8217;ll sleep with a smile at night.</p>
<p><strong>ENCHANTED</strong></p>
<p> Over any man who feels lost without love<br /> God gives women divine powers.<br /> They can break our hearts or deflate our ego<br /> And cause us to buy diamonds and flowers.</p>
<p> They have compelled kings and presidents to beg<br /> Wild singles to commit to change their way.<br /> Loving us with pleasures problematic to replace<br /> With flashbacks of their passion night and day.</p>
<p> Women mother our babies who we love till death<br /> For us to raise, protect and provide for.<br /> They contribute revenue, affection and direction<br /> With love, companionship and more.</p>
<p> They insist we never abuse or disgrace them<br /> Cheat, lie or take their love for granted.<br /> Which helps us to become more than we are<br /> In love and totally enchanted.</p>
<p><strong>WHISPERS <br /></strong></p>
<p> The one thing I&#8217;ve learned about happiness <br /> It will never last pretending you&#8217;re not you. <br /> Somehow, someway the truth will arise <br /> And all that you hide will show through. </p>
<p> Sooner or later, one way or another <br /> Something in your life seems wrong. <br /> You go to bed unhappy and awake the same <br /> Repeating life&#8217;s mistakes too long. </p>
<p> One day, to yourself, you begin to question <br /> Is this who I am and wish to be <br /> How will I choose to live the rest of my life <br /> Till the angel of death comes for me? </p>
<p> Most people wish to be at peace with God <br /> Oneself, and those we love. <br /> Frequently taking a look at our past <br /> Praying for guidance from above. </p>
<p> Thank heaven for the whispers from the heart <br /> Which remind us that evil has it&#8217;s voice too. <br /> It&#8217;s always a battle amid right and wrong <br /> As we ponder and perform what we do. </p>
<p><strong>LIFE <br /></strong></p>
<p> Life&#8217;s a book written through <br /> Where the pages are the years. <br /> There&#8217;s good, evil, false, and true <br /> With laughter, sweat, and tears. </p>
<p> Our days are songs composed by God <br /> As we set them to music with pleasure. <br /> His cup of life is for us to drink <br /> Though, He, decides the measure. </p>
<p> Hurried and worried, dawn till dusk <br /> There&#8217;s no time for a curtain call. <br /> We burn our candles from both ends <br /> And we&#8217;re lucky to be alive at all. </p>
<p> Cards are shuffled and hands are dealt<br /> For all to place their bets. <br /> Youthful blunders, adulthood struggles <br /> And old age, with its regrets. </p>
<p> It matters not, how long we live <br /> But more, how well we play our part. <br /> For the road to heaven is always near <br /> As long as there&#8217;s truth in our heart. </p>
<p><strong>EYES OF LOVE <br /></strong></p>
<p> A mind may see a thousand eyes <br /> Though the heart yearns for two<br /> When the eyes we love have up and gone <br /> To the arms of someone new. </p>
<p> Eyes that twinkle, I distrust<br /> For they are the distant stars. <br /> Eyes in love have a steady glow <br /> Like Venus, the Moon or Mars. </p>
<p> Eyes of love, like planets at night <br /> Use borrowed light to shine. <br /> Eyes are the living lenses <br /> To the camera of our mind. </p>
<p> Eyes tend to believe themselves <br /> Like the blind love of mothers. <br /> Eyes speak without words <br /> To the hearts and souls of others. </p>
<p><strong>LOVE <br /></strong></p>
<p> No rope or cable can hold so tight <br /> What love can do with twine. <br /> No kiss can taste so bittersweet <br /> As the one which captures our mind. </p>
<p> The first sign of love is the last of wisdom <br /> As eager hearts fulfill desire. <br /> Love is just a staple of life <br /> Though heaven sparks the fire. </p>
<p> Heaven knows no rage like love <br /> Once to hatred it has turned. <br /> How wise are we who are such fools <br /> Who forget the lessons we&#8217;ve learned. </p>
<p> Love, indeed, descends from heaven <br /> Like a shooting star across the sky. <br /> Love sometimes stirs the dust,<br /> Till tears fall free from the eye. </p>
<p> God must love people in love <br /> Or he wouldn&#8217;t make so many. <br /> Those who claim it&#8217;s a mental disease <br /> Have never been loved by any. </p>
<p> Love is stronger than life itself <br /> And jealousy more cruel than the grave. <br /> Men and women have loved one another <br /> Since they spent their nights in a cave. </p>
<p> When the hands of love <br /> Touch the strings of souls<br /> There&#8217;ll be babies on the way. <br /> That&#8217;s the basic rules of life <br /> No matter what games we play. </p>
<p> Like the flowers in the fields<br /> We shed our shields <br /> To be warmed by the sun. <br /> We live our lives the best we can <br /> Till death catches us on the run. </p>
<p><strong>MY WILD ROSE <br /></strong></p>
<p> You &#8216;re the full moon of my nights <br /> And the sunshine of my day. <br /> Like a queen upon her throne <br /> You rule what I do and say. </p>
<p> It&#8217;s God who makes us beautiful <br /> And the Devil who makes us mean. <br /> It all depends on whom we follow <br /> Which way our lives shall lean. </p>
<p> With one foot in the future <br /> And one foot in the past <br /> Let us try to live our days <br /> As though each was our last. </p>
<p> You&#8217;re the wild rose of my life <br /> My flower of desire. <br /> Made by God for me alone <br /> Out of earth, stars and fire. </p>
<p><strong>MY WIFE <br /></strong></p>
<p> You&#8217;re the bone of my bones <br /> Who I love for my wife. <br /> The flesh of my flesh <br /> And my partner in life. </p>
<p> For me to have and to hold <br /> For better or for worse. <br /> To love and to cherish <br /> Though we might fight and curse. </p>
<p> Be I richer or poorer <br /> Till death makes us part <br /> I will give you great portions <br /> Of my soul and my heart. </p>
<p> Heaven won&#8217;t be heaven <br /> If I don &#8216;t see you there <br /> May the first to go <br /> Be me, is my prayer. </p>
<p><strong>FAMILIES </strong></p>
<p> The first stage of a family group <br /> Begins with husband and wife. <br /> Shelters are rented, bought or built <br /> As they yearn for more from life. </p>
<p> Families are found throughout the world <br /> In bone clusters buried in caves <br /> Where ancient people lived and loved <br /> &#8216;Till death placed them in their graves. </p>
<p> Humans still have that need to group <br /> As a family to survive <br /> They love and care for each other <br /> In the world in which they strive. </p>
<p> Families are a nation&#8217;s crown jewels <br /> Far more than a golden coin. <br /> Members find love and sympathy <br /> From the groups they&#8217;ve chosen to join. </p>
<p><strong>TEARS <br /></strong></p>
<p> Tears are the raindrops of the soul <br /> And there&#8217;s one for all who die. <br /> They are the silent words of grief <br /> As they fall free from the eye. </p>
<p> The shortest verse in the Bible <br /> Is the one where Jesus wept<br /> So, if you hold back tears, &#8220;shed them&#8221; <br /> When your pains too harsh to accept. </p>
<p> Tears are lovelier than a smile <br /> When they come from those you love. <br /> As they seek relief from sadness<br /> When you&#8217;re summoned from above. </p>
<p> Tears are a love-mates humble gift <br /> When it&#8217;s time to say goodbye <br /> Though the eyes are wet and swollen <br /> With time and patience they dry. </p>
<p><strong>LOVE &amp; ELECTRICITY <br /></strong></p>
<p> Love and electricity are a lot alike <br /> For we never seem to miss them till their gone. <br /> We need both, every day of our life <br /> And even more so between twilight and dawn. </p>
<p> Love resembles a self-consuming amber <br /> A static current of both pain and pleasure. <br /> It can warm our bed and lighten the darkness <br /> And for most who don &#8216;t have it, it&#8217;s a treasure. </p>
<p> We can turn it on or we can turn it off <br /> Depending on whatever we&#8217;re forced to do. <br /> It may shock us, please us, thrill us, or hurt us <br /> Though once without it, we can&#8217;t wait to renew. </p>
<p><strong>THE SEED OF LOVE </strong></p>
<p> A kindly woman can make a sad man sing <br /> With her love and affection winter seems like spring. <br /> Of all the pleasures in life given to a man <br /> There&#8217;s nothing beats the touch of a woman&#8217;s soft hand. </p>
<p> God saw Adam alone on Eden&#8217;s floor <br /> Then decided to give him Eve&#8217;s love and much more. <br /> So take what you need from she chosen for you<br /> Then rid thyself of others and to her be true. </p>
<p> The Lord planted love within mankind&#8217;s heart <br /> Though things can grow sour when from Him we depart. <br /> Love and hate are but two sides of life&#8217;s golden coin <br /> So be ready for both no matter whom you join. </p>
<p><strong>FORGIVE ME </strong></p>
<p> Forgive me, forgive me <br /> And I&#8217;ll kiss your tears away. <br /> You&#8217;re the first thing and the last <br /> I think of every day </p>
<p> Let bygones be bygones <br /> And be willing to forgive. <br /> And I will love you only <br /> Every moment I live. </p>
<p> I love you and I need you <br /> It&#8217;s a fact and not a lie <br /> So if you plan to punish me <br /> Say anything, but good bye. </p>
<p><strong>PARTING </strong></p>
<p> The truest words, which portray my love <br /> I speak to you from within m</p>
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&#8220;Acne is one of the lowly diseases it never endangers but often ruins life&#8221;  <br />&#13;<br />
Stephen Rothman</p>
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Along with the old wife&#8217;s tales that everyone has heard there are some medically known causes of acne. The biggest culprit is the body&#8217;s production of hormones, resulting in production of oils. </p>
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Acne is most active in children when they reach the age of puberty. It seems to affect both sexes about equally. However, extreme cases are usually in males. There is an androgen-stimulated enlargement of the sebaceous glands. The skin becomes almost greasy with the increase production of sebaceous material. Basically the body just has not learned to regulate hormone production. With the increase in hormone production comes an increase in the body&#8217;s production of oil; this is especially noticeably on the face, and sometimes the back, neck, arms and chest. With the increase production of oil outpouring there is a good chance of the pores becoming blocked. This results in inflammation of the surrounding area, (swelling, redness, and pain.) When this happens there is a natural tendency for a bacterial build-up, usually this is Staphylococcus albus, and to a greater extent Corynebacterium acnes. These account for lipolysis of sebum which in turn frees fatty acids that cause inflammation. With the bacterial invasion the body&#8217;s natural defenses come into play. It sends in its fighters, the white blood cells to try and destroy the offending problem. The white blood cell expenditures will temporarily lower the body&#8217;s immune system, and causing your body to produce more waste, a lot of which is exuded through the pores of your skin. </p>
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Exact causes of acne are unknown; there are a lot of theories and some facts. Diet may or may not play a role. One item seems to stand out. Inheritance, if both parents have acne then it is ten times more likely that their children will have acne. </p>
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Some hormonal causes other than puberty can include: <br />&#13;<br />
Pregnancy <br />&#13;<br />
Birth control pills <br />&#13;<br />
Menstruation </p>
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Some Acne Treatments</p>
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Prescription Medications<br />&#13;<br />
Creams and Gels<br />&#13;<br />
Facial Masks<br />&#13;<br />
Topical Treatments<br />&#13;<br />
Over-the-Counter Treatments<br />&#13;<br />
Laser Treatment this is especially useful with cystic acne where there is a large amount of scaring<br />&#13;<br />
Soaps<br />&#13;<br />
Benzyl Peroxide<br />&#13;<br />
Accutane which is thought to shrink the pores of the skin<br />&#13;<br />
A well balanced diet will certainly help clear up or prevent acne<br />&#13;<br />
Good soaps (and medicated soaps) will help keep the skin clean<br />&#13;<br />
Home Remedies these include:<br />&#13;<br />
Althea<br />&#13;<br />
Balm mint <br />&#13;<br />
Coltsfoot<br />&#13;<br />
Horsetail<br />&#13;<br />
Sage<br />&#13;<br />
Wild thyme <br />&#13;<br />
Yarrow </p>
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There are a few things that almost all agree on in the treatment of acne. Use a good soap to help keep the skin clean, eat a balanced diet and get adequate rest. These will help in maintaining good health, which in turn will help control your body.</p>
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These blemishes can often cause people to avoid social situations and, in extreme cases, can lead to feelings of depression. Because of acne a teen may be pushed out of his/her social standing. Their grades may drop; they may start having problems in school. They become more self conscious. In many cases&#8217; depression and/or rebellion can set in. This can be a time when a great kid can become involved with gangs, because the gang will accept them without ridicule. Many teens have looked in the wrong places for acceptance. This can and sometimes does lead to drugs and or gang activity. A gang will accept almost anyone.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Conservative Poet Tom Zartâs 87 Poems of Love Family &#38; Faith LIKE A LILY AMONG THE THORNS Like a lily among the thorns, So are you among the rest. Your love is my joy of life Which by Godâs grace is the best. When I sleep my heart is awake It is the vice of [...]]]></description>
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<p><strong>Tom Zartâs 87 Poems of Love<br /> Family &amp; Faith</strong></p>
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<p><strong>LIKE A LILY AMONG THE THORNS</strong><strong></p>
<p> Like a lily among the thorns,<br /> So are you among the rest.<br /> Your love is my joy of life<br /> Which by Godâs grace is the best.</p>
<p> When I sleep my heart is awake<br /> It is the vice of love within.<br /> By day or night I seek your love<br /> My life mate, my partner, my friend.</p>
<p> You ravish my heart with just one look<br /> When Iâm less than you desire.<br /> Your eyes speak without words<br /> As displeasure kindles your fire.</p>
<p> Your beautiful and extraordinary<br /> Like a fragrant flower from the wild.<br /> I dream of the day you softly whisper<br /> âMy love, I carry your child.â</p>
<p> The vines put forth their tender grapes<br /> The fig tree her sweet fruit of life.<br /> My love for you is everlasting<br /> As you nourish my need for a wife.</p>
<p> God gave man a woman to adore<br /> And a woman a man to respect.<br /> God gave us children we love till death<br /> To provide for, cherish and protect.</p>
<p> Until itâs dawn and the shadows flee<br /> I will hold you close and ponder<br /> Our life together past and present</strong></p>
<p><strong>And may our future be blessed by wonder.</p>
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<p><strong>RELATIONSHIPS</strong></p>
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<p><strong>One of the most rewarding things, each of us can do</strong></p>
<p><strong>Is the acknowledgment of others and their fears.</strong></p>
<p><strong>To promote their happiness and sense of worth</strong></p>
<p><strong>By our love, concern, laughter and tears.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Staying eager to display are willingness</strong></p>
<p><strong>To recognize our support from others.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Where would we be without the people we love</strong></p>
<p><strong>Friends, mom, dad, grandparents, sisters and brothers.</strong></p>
<p><strong>We treasure our relationships and pray to maintain them</strong></p>
<p><strong>As they give us our passion and purpose in life.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Cherishing our family, our faith, our country</strong></p>
<p><strong>Our honor, our husband or wife.</strong></p>
<p><strong>A SCORNFUL WOMAN &amp; A SELFISH MAN</strong></p>
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<p><strong>A scornful woman can rip you apart</strong></p>
<p><strong>Destroy your libido and harden your heart.</strong></p>
<p><strong>They shout their list of your every flaw</strong></p>
<p><strong>Declaring youâre lucky you get it at all.</strong></p>
<p><strong>A selfish man can become even worse</strong></p>
<p><strong>When they lie, cheat, beat, steal and curse.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Always demanding to stay king of the castle</strong></p>
<p><strong>As they force their partner to suffer their hassle.</strong></p>
<p><strong>A happy woman thrives on love, faith, family and friends,</strong></p>
<p><strong>A worthy man provides, protects and defends.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Say âNoâ to Satan and cast him out</strong></p>
<p><strong>Say âYesâ to Jesus and become his scout.</strong></p>
<p> <strong>MY HOPE TO FIND LOVE<br /></strong></p>
<p> So here I am, like many times before<br /> All alone with my face to the moon.<br /> Down on knees praying God<br /> For someone who will love me and soon!</p>
<p> The smallest deed done is better than intention<br /> When you wish to receive wisdom from above.<br /> No matter what happens, I refuse to give up<br /> My hope to discover the magic of love.</p>
<p> The better the reason for my existence<br /> The better the life I will live.<br /> Searching for someone who will share their love<br /> By their joy when itâs their turn to give.</p>
<p> My hope to find love has somewhat diminished<br /> Though my need for romance still remains.<br /> Sometimes I feel like Sampson himself<br /> Broken hearted and shackled to chains.</p>
<p><strong>THE GREATEST LESSON ONE CAN LEARN<br /></strong></p>
<p> The greatest lesson one can learn<br /> Is how when loved, to love in return.</p>
<p> Joined together through night and day<br /> Equally yoked in work and play.</p>
<p> Remaining true both body and soul<br /> Never loosing our common goal.</p>
<p> Sharing each other the best we can<br /> Before we are but bits of sand.</p>
<p> Mutual love is beyond compare<br /> Serving one another in the life we share.</p>
<p> Without compassion humans lose<br /> Simply by the path they choose.</p>
<p> Love is a miracle from God to man<br /> How some deny it I canât understand.</p>
<p><strong>WINGS of HEAVEN<br /></strong></p>
<p> Itâs a wonderful situation<br /> To be in love with you.<br /> All my thoughts have changed<br /> Because of everything you do.</p>
<p> I lack the desire for others<br /> No yearning for their love or favor.<br /> All I wish is a life with you<br /> Till itâs time to greet our Savior.</p>
<p> I was afraid I would never find love<br /> Leaving no stone unturned.<br /> I had to suffer through stupidity<br /> To grow from all I learned.</p>
<p> Life is too short to remain a fool<br /> Who doesnât see blessings handed down.<br /> From now to judgment I will love you<br /> Till the wings of heaven whisper their sound.</p>
<p><strong>SO DEAR TO MY HEART<br /></strong></p>
<p> So dear to my heart are my loved ones at home<br /> As I toss and I turn in my bunk all alone.<br /> Everyday I see death, hate and corruption<br /> Combat is Godâs proof of manâs malfunction</p>
<p> For family, comrades and myself I pray<br /> To my love with this poem I wish to convey.<br /> I knew I loved you though never how much<br /> Till by war, Iâm forced beyond your touch.</p>
<p> Where violence thrives, thereâs the stench of death<br /> With the taste of fear on every breath.<br /> Who shall prevail, who shall die?<br /> As the sadistic kill beneath Godâs sky.</p>
<p> Baghdad has become manâs highway to hell<br /> Where the hearts of darkness are alive and well<br /> I count each day till itâs time to come home<br /> And be with my love and never alone.</p>
<p> Love You<br /> Your Marine</p>
<p><strong>MARRIAGE SEX AND ROMANCE<br /></strong></p>
<p> Some other time, Iâm not in the mood<br /> Why cant we just cuddle and watch TV?<br /> When couples drift into the celibate zone<br /> Itâs not long till someone will flee.</p>
<p> Sexual fulfillment helps preserve love,<br /> Parenthood, marriage and self-esteem.<br /> Those who maintain it avoid saying no<br /> To be blessed by its pleasure and gleam.</p>
<p> While dating we tend to be more romantic<br /> Putting forth the best of our charms.<br /> Sharing dinners, long walks and lustful weekends<br /> As we spend more time in each others arms.</p>
<p> How many times have you said ânot tonightâ<br /> Exposing your happy home to harm?<br /> Todayâs crushing deadlines leave little time for love<br /> Leaving partners with sorrow, sadness and alarm.</p>
<p> So share one another with red wine and time<br /> Dial your own number and leave the phone off the hook.<br /> Enjoy some romance, sex and laughter<br /> Improving your mood and the way you look.</p>
<p><strong>MOTHERS<br /></strong></p>
<p> Thereâs no greater power on earth<br /> Than the love we get from our mothers.<br /> They feel our fears within themselves<br /> Far more than sisters or brothers.</p>
<p> As seasons pass; in time we learn<br /> We canât always rely on others.<br /> No mater what our mistakes may be<br /> We know we can run to our mothers.</p>
<p> Mothers have great big aprons<br /> To hide from the world our flaws.<br /> They kiss and scold when we do wrong<br /> Teaching compliance of laws.</p>
<p> From birth to death mothers lead<br /> Our angels of kindness from above.<br /> They give us more than anyone else<br /> Preaching the importance of love.</p>
<p> Moms are certainly Godâs gift to earth<br /> So if you still have one, let it be known.<br /> You canât imagine your life without her<br /> While the seed of your future is sown.</p>
<p><strong>DONâTÂ  FORSAKEÂ  ME ?<br /></strong></p>
<p> Donât forsake our love my darling<br /> On this night before our wedding day.<br /> I know your ex is crying to get back<br /> But thatâs just the price heâll have to pay.</p>
<p> Good guys provide for their families<br /> Tell the truth, pay bills and remain true.<br /> Bad guys procrastinate, chase women and party<br /> Then blame their shortcomings, on âyouâ.</p>
<p> I will love you only and tend to your needs<br /> Never to lie, steal or cheat.<br /> Giving all I have to share and prosper<br /> And when wrong I will accept defeat.</p>
<p> Your happiness is my inspiration<br /> For when I please you, you please me.<br /> I wish to father our children and give them love<br /> And be the best husband a man can be.</p>
<p><strong>MY FAVORITE POET<br /></strong></p>
<p> My favorite poet is God above<br /> Who gives Earth its rhythm and rhyme.<br /> Not pied pipers of misguided souls<br /> Who promote distrust, hatred and crime.</p>
<p> Poetry is nature serenading in song<br /> The peaceful roar of the oceans waves.<br /> The wind through the trees and over the hills<br /> And the flowers in the fields by the graves.</p>
<p> The sound of rain as it waters the thirsty<br /> The songs of children at play in the park.<br /> The far off rumble of trains or thunder<br /> As they pass through the night in the dark.</p>
<p> The joy of our babies first words and steps<br /> The passion of life with its heroes and clowns.<br /> The on going struggle to survive our sins<br /> As we proliferate in hamlets and towns.</p>
<p> My favorite poet is our Father of love<br /> Who was first to know us before birth.<br /> His poetry prolongs every thing we love<br /> As His deliverance gives life its worth.</p>
<p><strong>I WHO HAVE NO ONE<br /></strong></p>
<p> I who have no one, no one at all<br /> Envy others as in love they fall.<br /> Sleepless nights, with inward burning<br /> Feeling hopeless, tossing and turning.</p>
<p> Lord please forgive the fool Iâve been<br /> Hiding from goodness in the shadows of sin.<br /> I humbly pray to heaven in space<br /> For one more chance to regain my grace.</p>
<p> Iâve lived my years indulging myself<br /> Leaving decency and principle on the shelf.<br /> Now that your light shines on my face<br /> I pray for forgiveness in shame and disgrace.</p>
<p> All I ask is your life mate for me<br /> And I pledge to become all I can be.<br /> A soul without love is empty and void<br /> No wonder so many become destroyed.</p>
<p> Outside my window thereâs the thunder of rain<br /> And the haunting sound of a far away train.<br /> I feel your presence as I silently cry<br /> For someone to love before I die.</p>
<p><strong>JESUS IS A FISHERMAN<br /></strong></p>
<p> Jesus is a fisherman<br /> Who saves the souls of man.<br /> Dead or alive He leads the faithful<br /> To the streams of promise land.</p>
<p> He sees us when weâre happy<br /> He hears us when weâre glad.<br /> He whispers words of hope to us<br /> When we face something sad.</p>
<p> As wicked thoughts control the mind<br /> Evil deeds control the heart.<br /> Jesus is who we turn to<br /> When from sins we must depart.</p>
<p> Jesus is a fisherman<br /> Who baits His hook with love.<br /> Casting His line in your direction<br /> From the banks of heaven above.</p>
<p><strong>LOVEÂ CONSUMES ALL<br /></strong></p>
<p> Love consumes all physical functions<br /> Hearing, taste, touch, thought and smell.<br /> It can heal, destroy, weaken or bond<br /> Those caught in its presence and spell.</p>
<p> May I be remembered by tears of love<br /> When my hands lay across my chest.<br /> Displayed for view to say goodbye<br /> To my family, friends and the rest.</p>
<p> Until itâs time for my final farewell<br /> I will serve whom I love even more.<br /> These words of passion inhabit my heart<br /> Conveying my need for all, I adore.</p>
<p><strong>PASSION AND LOVE<br /></strong></p>
<p> Samson so loved Delilah<br /> He ended up grinding grain.<br /> Anthony so loved Cleopatra<br /> He lost all and was slain.</p>
<p> David so loved Bathsheba<br /> He drifted from Godâs command.<br /> The way I feel makes it easy<br /> To imagine and understand.</p>
<p> Youâre the inspiration of my day<br /> And the delight of my night.<br /> The joy we share as we conceive<br /> Makes everything feel just right.</p>
<p> Thank heaven for passion and love<br /> Blessings from God to man.<br /> Without them weâre mere creatures<br /> Subsisting like ants in the sand.</p>
<p><strong>TO BE BLESSED BY LOVE<br /></strong></p>
<p> Darkness submits to the brightness of day<br /> For all rich, famous or peasant.<br /> God gives us love as a tool of endurance<br /> For what is glorious, painful or unpleasant.</p>
<p> He gives us friends that mean so much<br /> Though His greatest gift is fathers and mothers.<br /> From them we learn the guidance we need<br /> Or from grandparents, sisters and brothers.</p>
<p> How rewarding it is to share our concerns<br /> Of the burdens that trouble manâs soul.<br /> With words of love, passion and faith<br /> With happiness and purpose our goal.</p>
<p> To be blessed by love elevates life<br /> Projecting a radiance of grace to our face.<br /> Like the heavenly bodies that illuminate the night<br /> As we voyage through the vastness of space.</p>
<p><strong>THE JOY I FEEL<br /></strong></p>
<p> The joy I feel within my heart<br /> Has overcome my void.<br /> No more foolish, selfish acts<br /> Risking love to be destroyed.</p>
<p> Youâre the rainbow of my day<br /> And the tiger of my night.<br /> Your style of loving me<br /> Leaves no reason to fuss or fight.</p>
<p> Happiness shuns the selfish<br /> Who fail Godâs test of time.<br /> Contentment comes as a gift<br /> To hearts of the thoughtful and kind.</p>
<p> I obtain my daily need<br /> As I awake to find you near.<br /> The love we share celebrates life<br /> As we laugh or cry with tear.</p>
<p> Through out each day, there are moments,<br /> I find I need you even more.<br /> Youâre the radiance of my life<br /> Who I worship, serve and adore.</p>
<p><strong>I LOVE BEING LOVED BY YOU<br /></strong></p>
<p> My life overflows with happiness<br /> As my favorite dreams come true.<br /> My days and nights are magical<br /> Because of everything you do.</p>
<p> You stand by me as troubles occur<br /> And listen to my worries and fears.<br /> You share my burdens and my joys<br /> With faith, compassion and tears.</p>
<p> Godâs gift to man is someone to love<br /> Which can be both splendid and rare.<br /> Throughout life thereâs nothing better<br /> Then those who will love us and care.</p>
<p> Thereâs the past, present, future, and beyond<br /> Which will test our measure by what we say and do<br /> Too many overlook the thrill of now<br /> But not I, âfor I love being loved by you.â</p>
<p><strong>WEâLL ALL REUNITE IN TIME<br /></strong></p>
<p> Fame, wealth, prestige, and wild women<br /> For too long were my passions of life.<br /> One day I found sweet liberation<br /> When God gave my heart to my wife.</p>
<p> 33 years we loved one another<br /> Sharing all we possessed and more.<br /> Last year she passed in the middle of night<br /> Never to shadow our door.</p>
<p> Iâm sure in rapture, she awaits<br /> For me to arrive in heaven divine.<br /> Iâll miss our children and grandkids too<br /> But weâll all reunite in time.</p>
<p><strong>THE LAST GOODBYE<br /></strong></p>
<p> Iâm on my way to greet my Master<br /> And shake His hand when I die.<br /> Iâm on my way to john sweet Jesus<br /> In His mansion beyond on high.</p>
<p> Iâm on my way to escape manâs woes<br /> Where the faithful rise to tell their story.<br /> Following the path of love and compliance.<br /> Guided by Godâs magnificence and glory.</p>
<p> As I journey to and from all I love<br /> It hurts to say my absolute goodbye.<br /> Iâm on my way to divine fulfillment<br /> But for those left behind, âI cry.â</p>
<p> The Last Goodbye</p>
<p><strong>MOMS</strong></p>
<p> Millions of dewdrops greet the dawn<br /> As hungry of bees buzz the clover<br /> Dazzling butterflies flutter about<br /> As moms give love the world over.</p>
<p> Lessons learned at our motherâs knee<br /> Last a lifetime till we grow older.<br /> Popping up when troubles accrue<br /> Like a whispering angel on our shoulder.</p>
<p> Gods gives us friends that mean so much<br /> Children, fathers, sisters and brothers<br /> Though far, far above all the rest,<br /> No one loves us more than our mothers.</p>
<p> In and out of friendships, jobs and partners<br /> Our mothers always remain our evening star.<br /> Those who where born to a selfish mom<br /> Make the rest us realize how lucky we are.</p>
<p> How great life is to have a good mom<br /> Who reads what we feel but canât say.<br /> Nothing means as much, as her tender touch<br /> And for all who are without one, âwe pray.â</p>
<p><strong>SHOULD TOMORROW START WITHOUT ME ?<br /></strong></p>
<p> Should tomorrow start without me<br /> Remember I love you<br /> Looking down from up above<br /> Seeing everything you do.</p>
<p> If I become a casualty<br /> I pray you will love again<br /> Whom ever makes you happy<br /> Iâll consider my friend.</p>
<p> Should tomorrow start without me<br /> Remind our boys, God loves all who care<br /> And when life seems too harsh and cruel<br /> With âHimâ they must share their prayer.</p>
<p> I have proven Iâm not a coward<br /> Who breaks and runs to survive<br /> Always fearing death will kiss me<br /> As the streets of Baghdad I drive.</p>
<p> Should tomorrow start without me<br /> Be proud I choose to serve<br /> Our faith and our patriotism<br /> Earn the freedom we deserve.</p>
<p> I miss home more than ever<br /> It breaks my heart to stay away<br /> I canât help but want to hold you <br /> And whisper what I say.</p>
<p><strong>PASSION</strong></p>
<p> Passion is any strong feeling or thought<br /> Of love, hate, fear, anger and grief.<br /> The emotional joy of sexual desire<br /> Sometimes the suffering of saint or thief.</p>
<p> The cruelty of man nailing Christ to the cross<br /> His treatment subsequent to the last supper.<br /> Continuing conflict with endless war<br /> Make it seem weâre prone to suffer.</p>
<p> All must carry their own cross in life<br /> While they struggle to survive the day.<br /> Passion reveals how much we desire<br /> As we race toward our outcome and pray.</p>
<p><strong>WHO?<br /></strong></p>
<p> Who wrote the tune the songbird sings? <br /> Who made the diamonds we wear on rings?</p>
<p> Who caused the snow and rain to fall? <br /> Who made spring, winter, summer and fall?</p>
<p> Who gave man a woman to love? <br /> Who made the clouds and sky above?</p>
<p> Who lights the stars and moon in the night? <br /> Who makes heaven and beyond so bright?</p>
<p> Who gives us babies we follow till death? <br /> Who made us able to speak with our breath?</p>
<p> Who gives us heroes willing to die? <br /> Who made the tears we shed as we cry.</p>
<p> Who shows us hope and guides our way? <br /> The same one who loves us night and day.</p>
<p><strong>SATISFACTION<br /></strong></p>
<p> Too many people never know satisfaction<br /> For their goals for happiness are placed too high. <br /> Most of us complain about what we can&#8217;t have <br /> When we&#8217;re not bedfast or in the grave, we lie.</p>
<p> No one finds satisfaction from serving themselves <br /> Contentment takes place, by our unselfish concern.<br /> The more we repent and regret our wrongs<br /> The more we are able to retain what we learn.</p>
<p> So tally your blessings and be thankful for life<br /> And remember there are those who wish, they were you. <br /> Satisfaction and love are what mere mortal&#8217;s pray for<br /> Though the lucky among us, who feel both, are few.</p>
<p><strong>LOVE &amp; HATE</strong></p>
<p> Unselfish concerns are the footstones of love <br /> Though far too many still waste time on hate. <br /> Real happiness happens to the lucky in life <br /> Who&#8217;ve bonded to others with love as their fate.</p>
<p> Malice, disfavor and ill will complicate life <br /> To where our days resemble frustration&#8217;s hell. <br /> The warm rush of love can turn things around<br /> Enabling the sleepless to again rest well.</p>
<p> Tender love and affection generate fondness <br /> Where hatreds repugnance eats body and soul.<br /> Friendship, attachment, good will and charity <br /> Are the mother&#8217;s milk of life, when love&#8217;s our goal.</p>
<p> So recognize hate for what it truly is <br /> And reject it when it whispers in your ear.<br /> For the power of love is the only way <br /> To avoid corruption, resentment and fear.</p>
<p><strong>MY TRUE LOVE<br /></strong></p>
<p> Lord, have mercy on my soul<br /> For all the wrong I&#8217;ve done<br /> When I was young and foolish<br /> And searching for some fun.</p>
<p> My daddy told me, son <br /> You reap what you sow<br /> Everything Iâve learned the hard way <br /> Are the only things I know.</p>
<p> I searched all the honky tonks <br /> And every bar in town<br /> The right woman for me to love <br /> I had not yet found.</p>
<p> My mother always said <br /> Why not look at church <br /> Thereâs where youâll find<br /> The right one to end your search.</p>
<p> So, here I am singing a song<br /> To the music of a choir<br /> Next to me is my true love<br /> Who sets my heart on fire.</p>
<p> I can see her left hand<br /> And thereâs my wedding ring <br /> She catches me peeking at her<br /> With every line we sing.</p>
<p> A man and wife are equally yoked<br /> In everything they do;<br /> That&#8217;s why I celebrate<br /> God saving me for you!</p>
<p><strong>CHRISTMAS<br /></strong></p>
<p> Husbands with ladders hang lights on their home<br /> As all who have no one feel sad and alone.<br /> The churches are full of the faithful that sing<br /> For the birth of our Lord, is a spiritual thing.</p>
<p> The sound of Christmas sweetly fills the air<br /> While frantic shoppers hustle from here to there.<br /> The windows of storefronts at this time of year <br /> Reflect all their wonders as Christmas draws near.</p>
<p> Little ones stand looking with their nose pressed to glass <br /> As model trains on display come speeding past.<br /> The path to Santa is lined with girls and boys<br /> With a list in their heart of their favorite toys.</p>
<p> The stores shelves are crammed with dolls that crawl or walk<br /> Games, cars, trucks, planes and stuffed toys that sing or talk.<br /> The miracle of Christmas comes once a year<br /> When all that we love seems more precious and dear.</p>
<p><strong>THE SEED of LOVE<br /></strong></p>
<p> A kindly woman can make a sad man sing<br /> With her love and affection winter seems like spring.<br /> Of all the pleasures in life given to a man<br /> There&#8217;s nothing beats the touch of a woman&#8217;s soft hand.</p>
<p> God saw Adam alone on Eden&#8217;s floor <br /> Then decided to give him Eveâs love and much more. <br /> So take what you need from she chosen for you<br /> Then rid thyself of others and to her be true.</p>
<p> The Lord planted love within mankind&#8217;s heart <br /> Though things can grow sour when from Him we depart. <br /> Love and hate are but two sides of life&#8217;s golden coin<br /> So be ready for both no matter whom you join.</p>
<p><strong>DOUBLE TROUBLE<br /></strong></p>
<p> To tell you the truth, it still hurts to share;<br /> Even though with him your heart is not there.<br /> I&#8217;ve tried hard to think what brought this about<br /> For we&#8217;re not the type who enjoy sneaking out.</p>
<p> Your husband, my wife, were into themselves.<br /> Like old Christmas toys, they placed us on our shelves.<br /> Somehow we managed to take ourselves down<br /> And found one another while out on the town.</p>
<p> You gave me your number for reasons well known <br /> And now you weep as you drive home alone. <br /> It&#8217;s hard to make love when the romance is dead <br /> It causes confusion in your heart and your head.</p>
<p> There&#8217;s a battle inside as your mind and heart fight<br /> While you lie by the wrong one in the middle of the night.<br /> We now know the meaning to the words of that song<br /> That it hurts to love someone and to the wrong one belong.</p>
<p><strong>HOLLYWOOD WOMAN<br /></strong></p>
<p> Hollywood woman, I&#8217;m in love with you<br /> Though you&#8217;re always on your own stage. <br /> Some days you love me and some days you don&#8217;t<br /> No wonder I&#8217;m in such a rage.</p>
<p> You baited your hook <br /> Then threw me a line <br /> And like a big crayfish <br /> I thought you were mine.</p>
<p> But you have that fever <br /> To fish other streams <br /> And youâll be the cause <br /> Of many menâs dreams.</p>
<p> For other men have loved you <br /> And other men have cried.<br /> Every last one of them <br /> Has felt you inside.</p>
<p> Before long youâll grow old <br /> And your looks shall fade <br /> And all youâll have left <br /> Is your video parade.</p>
<p> Those who once loved you <br /> Will be dead or gone <br /> And youâll lie alone <br /> In silence till dawn.</p>
<p><strong>A MAN&#8217;S BEST FRIEND<br /></strong></p>
<p> A manâs best friend is still his faithful dog<br /> Who anxiously awaits his return home.<br /> Where would man be without his canine love <br /> When his human mates have left him alone.</p>
<p> If a man was as good as his dog thinks <br /> He&#8217;d be more famous than a football star.<br /> It&#8217;s too bad our wives don&#8217;t feel the same way<br /> I guess its because they know how we are.</p>
<p> Man has no fear of his dog&#8217;s love for life <br /> Though itâs usually man who buries his pet.<br /> It matters not be they large or small <br /> What animal has loved man more, as yet?</p>
<p><strong>GETTING OVER HER<br /></strong></p>
<p> I thought we&#8217;d raise our only child<br /> And feed him with a spoon<br /> But, his mother loves another<br /> And they&#8217;re on a honeymoon.</p>
<p> All my friends say I must stop <br /> Loving her, of course<br /> So I drove my Ford to a honky tonk <br /> Still lonely from divorce.</p>
<p> From out of my chair, I must get up <br /> And ask someone to dance <br /> For, if I plan to get over her <br /> I know I&#8217;ll need romance.</p>
<p> The dance floor is almost full <br /> Of country kings and queens.<br /> I feel a pair of eyes <br /> Just checking out my jeans.</p>
<p> I can see a smiling face <br /> I&#8217;m almost at a run <br /> For I know if I dance<br /> I&#8217;m going to have some fun.</p>
<p> She stands up from her table <br /> And reaches for my hand <br /> Then I lead the both of us <br /> Right up in front of the band.</p>
<p> Somebody turned the spotlight <br /> Toward the dance floor ball. <br /> She is so beautiful <br /> I&#8217;m afraid I might fall.</p>
<p> Here I go, a-gambling <br /> A gambling with my heart <br /> For when I love a woman <br /> It always hurts to part.</p>
<p><strong>BODY HEAT 1O5<br /></strong></p>
<p> We drank several glasses of champagne <br /> In the living room of her house.<br /> Around 9:30 that evening <br /> I found myself in her blouse.</p>
<p> I fondled and kissed her so gently <br /> Like the soft footsteps of a mouse. <br /> To my surprise, she opened her eyes<br /> And said, âlook, we&#8217;re not going to play house.â</p>
<p> I right away replaced her clothing <br /> And buttoned her blouse once more.<br /> There was no doubt of my defeat <br /> As I lay there upon the floor.</p>
<p> She said, âtell the truth, are you angry?â<br /> I answered, by far I was not<br /> &#8220;It&#8217;s more important what you think of me <br /> Than what I may not have got.&#8221;</p>
<p> She wiped away a tear from both eyes<br /> And said, &#8220;you&#8217;re my kind of man.&#8221;<br /> At that point, she did arise <br /> And to me she held out her hand</p>
<p> She led me away like a blind man<br /> Who had somehow lost his cane. <br /> When we reached her bedroom door <br /> I thought I&#8217;d gone insane.</p>
<p> Before long, we found ourselves naked <br /> As she held me in her palm.<br /> Can you dare imagine, my friend <br /> How hard it was for me to stay calm?</p>
<p> We touched all the forbidden places <br /> As our body heats reached 105<br /> If love&#8217;s relief had not been achieved <br /> I doubt if we&#8217;d still be alive.</p>
<p><strong>WITHOUT LOVE<br /></strong></p>
<p> Life is simply a circus <br /> With too many fools on the stage. <br /> There &#8216;s greed, fear and indifference <br /> As many hearts suffer from rage.</p>
<p> Divorce is like a bad book <br /> Where the heroes get killed off to soon. <br /> When we reach the point the light goes out <br /> Then weâll stand up and leave the room.</p>
<p> Without love we become such fools <br /> In a desert which has gone all dry.<br /> When the one we love ignores us<br /> Thereâs nothing to do but cry.</p>
<p> The worst curse that one can endure <br /> Are those who just wish to take. <br /> When all we give is our own love <br /> To find out we&#8217;ve made a mistake.</p>
<p> Of all the prizes life may bring <br /> To be loved is by far the best. <br /> That&#8217;s why so many search for it<br /> For without love, what good is the rest?</p>
<p><strong>THAT OLD COVERED BRIDGE</p>
<p></strong><br /> We returned to that old covered bridge <br /> Where as sweethearts we used to go.<br /> To kiss, hug, and squeeze in the shadows <br /> While beneath us the water would flow.</p>
<p> Up under its wood roof of shingles<br /> Is where we took refuge from the rains.<br /> Carved in some boards within that old bridge <br /> Side by side youâll still find our names.</p>
<p> Our memories of our past childhood <br /> Are a gift from God for us to keep.<br /> Like that picture you once gave me <br /> Which I peaked at before I could sleep.</p>
<p> We find ourselves back at that old bridge <br /> Only now, with our kids to catch fish.<br /> We pray someday that they&#8217;ll find love<br /> And come here with someone, just to wish.</p>
<p><strong>SOME MEN PRAY<br /></strong></p>
<p> Some men pry to marry the woman they love <br /> Where my prayers can&#8217;t help but somewhat vary<br /> As I humbly pray to heaven above<br /> That I am loved by the woman I marry.</p>
<p> The essence of love is its spiritual fire<br /> And thereâs nothing more sought after on earth. <br /> Man&#8217;s only escape is his own flight<br /> But what, without love would his life be worth.</p>
<p> Love can be manâs worst pain or best pleasure<br /> A dangerous gamble he must take in life.<br /> For he who falls in love with the wrong woman <br /> Shall find all he&#8217;s worked for belongs to his wife.</p>
<p><strong>THE COAL MINER<br /></strong></p>
<p> Coal mines in my daddy&#8217;s day<br /> Were dug with strong hands and back.<br /> They got larger and deeper <br /> As the lungs of the miners turned black.</p>
<p> Cave-ins, fires and explosions<br /> Were my fatherâs daily fear.<br /> But what choice has a man <br /> When the wolf of hunger is near.</p>
<p> With three small kids and a wife<br /> There were five stomachs to fill.<br /> As we lived in poverty<br /> In our shack below a hill.</p>
<p> I feel his blood within me<br /> As the years of my life pass by<br /> I&#8217;m proud that dad dug King Cole<br /> For a miner so am I.</p>
<p> Life to me is but a rose<br /> Though it&#8217;s thorns can make me cry. <br /> And like my dad before me <br /> To my Lord I will not lie.</p>
<p> In cold earth someday Iâll sleep <br /> With a shinny stone above.<br /> Carved in it, shall be the words<br /> I have known the joy of love.</p>
<p><strong>ADAM THE LONELY</p>
<p></strong><br /> Adam, the lonely was chased from God&#8217;s land <br /> When Eve picked that apple with her foolish hand.<br /> Delilah, the evil, cut a champion&#8217;s hair off <br /> When Samson; the strong man&#8217;s heart became soft.</p>
<p> David the shepherd, a king among men<br /> Was teased by Bathsheba and driven to sin.<br /> A man needs a woman to build up his pride <br /> To bolster his ego and to lay by his side.</p>
<p> Life mates are a treasure and difficult to find<br /> I feel like a blind man who&#8217;s lost in a mine. <br /> Lord, I&#8217;m a sad soul with no hand to hold<br /> Searching for someone who&#8217;ll love me when Iâm old.</p>
<p><strong>TO HAVE AND TO HOLD<br /></strong></p>
<p> Our house is big, though our family&#8217;s small <br /> The phone&#8217;s off the hook, cause we don &#8216;t want a call.<br /> I need you darling more than anything <br /> For your sweet kisses make a sad man sing.</p>
<p> I can feel life&#8217;s clock as it pounds away <br /> While the moon says hello to the dying day. <br /> I pray to partake every sight and sound <br /> While I still enjoy the right side of the ground.</p>
<p> Nothing beats the love of a willing mate.<br /> So little time for fun before it&#8217;s too late.<br /> The Lord made you for me and me alone <br /> And not for others that you might have known.</p>
<p><strong>LOVER&#8217;S TOAST<br /></strong></p>
<p> Come to me with just your love <br /> And I will pledge you mine.<br /> Feel my lips and share my glass <br /> And we shall sip red wine.</p>
<p> You&#8217;re the red rose of my day<br /> And the lily of my night.<br /> Nothing is so grand in life<br /> As when you seize me tight.</p>
<p> Love&#8217;s uncertain future is <br /> Where mankind&#8217;s torments dwell <br /> With both it&#8217;s pain and pleasure<br /> Our lust is alive and well.</p>
<p><strong>DADS AT WAR<br /></strong></p>
<p> Where would I be without you dad <br /> My hero of night and day?<br /> I&#8217;m so glad you love my mother <br /> And take time for us to pray.</p>
<p> The last time we played baseball<br /> You reached for me with your hand. <br /> I looked at you, then made a wish <br /> That I might be just half the man.</p>
<p> I love my father of earth,<br /> And I love my Father of heaven.<br /> It&#8217;s a lot for me to love, you know<br /> For Iâm only eleven.</p>
<p> Mom and I sure miss you<br /> Since you left to defend our flag. <br /> When others ask, where is your dad<br /> I can&#8217;t help but boast and brag.</p>
<p><strong>MOMMA<br /></strong></p>
<p> Oh, I love my momma<br /> Sheâs the reason Iâm alive.<br /> Her total love for me <br /> Has made her struggle and strive.</p>
<p> Jesus had a momma<br /> Who bore Him in a cave.<br /> She couldnât help but love Him<br /> From His birth to the grave.</p>
<p> Should I hang on the highest hill<br /> My momma would be there.<br /> I know her love would follow me<br /> My Angel of despair.</p>
<p> Her hair is now all silver<br /> As I hold her fingers, worn.<br /> Oh, God, bless this wrinkled brow<br /> From whose body I was born.</p>
<p><strong>LETTERS<br /></strong></p>
<p> We were just the best of friends <br /> I knew him all my life.<br /> I&#8217;m sure that he, towards the end <br /> Found out I love his wife.</p>
<p> He drove his car right off a cliff<br /> And crashed into the sea.<br /> I know it was no accident<br /> For a skillful driver was he.</p>
<p> He must have found our letters<br /> Of love that shouldnât be.<br /> He&#8217;s the type to harm himself <br /> Instead of killing me.</p>
<p> As I looked in his wife&#8217;s eyes<br /> She sadly said to me,<br /> Instead of us, he killed himself <br /> Because of lovers, such as we.</p>
<p> Lord, have mercy on our souls<br /> For her husband, my friend, has died!<br /> No one else may ever know<br /> But God how much we&#8217;ve lied.</p>
<p><strong>HONEYMOON CRUISE<br /></strong></p>
<p> The gulls have gone long ago <br /> As we sail a peaceful sea.<br /> The skies are blue, soft and kind<br /> Where else would we wish to be.</p>
<p> Late at night, as we embrace <br /> In front of a reggae band. <br /> You kiss me, and then you whisper <br /> I want to be alone with my man.</p>
<p> A little after midnight<br /> We both slip away.<br /> In such of some time <br /> For the games lovers play.</p>
<p> Alone in our cabin<br /> Your skin is so soft.<br /> Iâm just that angel<br /> Who fell from aloft.</p>
<p> After twenty-five years <br /> Of our love has gone <br /> It&#8217;s a honeymoon cruise <br /> We find ourselves on.</p>
<p> May the Lord show mercy <br /> On any of those<br /> Who have never been loved <br /> Or ever been chose.</p>
<p><strong>MY LOVE of LIFE<br /></strong></p>
<p> Wise men learn more from watching fools <br /> Than fools do from watching wise men.<br /> I should know for I&#8217;ve been both<br /> I can &#8216;t believe how lucky I&#8217;ve been.</p>
<p> Everyday as I speak out <br /> With verse I come alive.<br /> My lust for life shall be fulfilled<br /> As another day I survive.</p>
<p> I take the clay of every day<br /> And mold it to my fashion.<br /> All I need is my true love<br /> Whose heart flows free with passion.</p>
<p> I thank the Lord who watches us <br /> For blessings which are mine; <br /> That Iâm festive, fit and free<br /> To love my wife who&#8217;s sweeter than wine.</p>
<p><strong>LITTLE BABY<br /></strong></p>
<p> Little baby, I love you <br /> For you are a part of me<br /> Each and every inch youâll grow <br /> I want to be there to see.</p>
<p> Someday youâll chase fireflies <br /> Who ride the breath of the winds.<br /> Someday you&#8217;ll be all grown up <br /> And out on the town with friends.</p>
<p> You have your daddy &#8216;s freckles; <br /> You&#8217;ve got your mommy&#8217;s eyes.<br /> I pray to God every day <br /> Youâll survive all of life&#8217;s lies.</p>
<p> Little babies shoot up fast <br /> As they need to stretch and grow.<br /> They do such things as children do<br /> In a world theyâve yet to know.</p>
<p> Someday you will understand<br /> How your parents feel inside<br /> Someday youâll have your babies <br /> And raise them with great pride.</p>
<p> Of all the gifts that life may bring <br /> A sweet baby is still the best<br /> Your mom and I shall love you<br /> Till the day we&#8217;re laid to rest.</p>
<p><strong>ONE MAN&#8217;S PRAYER<br /></strong></p>
<p> Where are the women who need a good man?<br /> Where are the women with love in their hand?</p>
<p> Where are the children who played on the lawn?<br /> Where are the children when mom and dad are gone?</p>
<p> What about the marriage that began with smiles?<br /> What about the marriage that ended in trials?</p>
<p> What about the future of all involved?<br /> What about the problems that must be solved?</p>
<p> Answer these questions that tear at my heart.<br /> Answer these questions that keep us apart.</p>
<p><strong>WHAT LOVE MEANS TO ME<br /></strong></p>
<p> I know now for sure what love means to me<br /> Itâs a chance to be needed and to give happily.<br /> For Iâve felt what itâs like to be sad and alone <br /> And wish for that someone I could call my own.</p>
<p> Itâs just like young Adam when he lost his rib bone<br /> God gave him Eve, so he wouldn&#8217;t sleep alone.<br /> When a man loves a woman, thereâs many lessons heâll learn<br /> As she respects him, her favors heâll earn.</p>
<p> One thing for certain, when your thoughts are for real<br /> As you hug and you kiss, you love how you feel.<br /> Some live a lifetime just a step from love<br /> You are that person who gave me my shove.</p>
<p> The world has both givers and those on the take <br /> Life can be bad if your love&#8217;s a mistake.<br /> I can&#8217;t help realize how lucky I&#8217;ve been<br /> For you are my wife, but best of all, my friend.</p>
<p><strong>I WON&#8217;T BE THERE<br /></strong></p>
<p> Itâs true; I&#8217;ve been living with a looser <br /> And it&#8217;s been going on too long<br /> I&#8217;ve prayed for the courage and, now I have it <br /> To sing you your farewell song.</p>
<p> I won&#8217;t be there in the morning when you need me!<br /> I won&#8217;t be there when you call on the phone!<br /> I won&#8217;t be there in the bed beside you <br /> As you lay by yourself alone!</p>
<p> Too many times at night I&#8217;ve cried<br /> Wondering why you wonât just come home <br /> Staring at the clock on the wall<br /> As I lie half awake by the phone.</p>
<p> For so long it was enough that I loved you<br /> Though now my heart needs more.<br /> So, I&#8217;ve packed up my bags and my pictures <br /> And I&#8217;m on my way out the door.</p>
<p><strong>WHEN YOU LOVE A MEAN WOMAN<br /></strong></p>
<p> When you love a mean woman it hurts down deep <br /> In the middle of the night when you find you can&#8217;t sleep.<br /> I remember those times we kissed in the park <br /> Covered by moonbeams and stars in the dark.</p>
<p> You told me you loved me and would never run away<br /> Though now, there&#8217;s another with whom you play.<br /> Somebody tell me what Iâm doing wrong<br /> Somebody show me before I&#8217;ve waited too long.</p>
<p> Other women I&#8217;ve met, they remind me of you<br /> It makes me afraid of what they might do.<br /> But life without love isnât living at all<br /> Everyone needs someone who waits for their call.</p>
<p> I thirst for a woman who will love me again <br /> One who needs both a husband and friend.<br /> Dear Lord, I pray for my angel of love <br /> So I may fly high on the wings of a dove.</p>
<p><strong>SHE&#8217;S MY BUDDY <br /></strong></p>
<p> Adam and Eve lay beneath the stars.<br /> I wonder if their love was as strong as ours?<br /> Darling, I love you, Iâm not afraid to say <br /> Our love just grows with each passing day.</p>
<p> I was afraid our love would grow cold <br /> Thatâs what Iâve always by others been told.<br /> Iâm glad they were wrong, so I sing this song<br /> For you are the woman to whom I belong.</p>
<p> Without your concern I have nothing at all<br /> Thereâs no one to help me should I take a fall.<br /> I need your love it builds up my pride<br /> Bolsters my ego and stands by my side.</p>
<p> Many men still search for someone like you<br /> Case to find a good woman isnât easy to do<br /> Lord, I thank you for the love of my life<br /> For she is my buddy as well as my wife.</p>
<p><strong>OUR MOTHER&#8217;S LOVE<br /></strong></p>
<p> Our mother&#8217;s love like a candle <br /> Burns brightly upon the shelf.<br /> As she lights the way for all others <br /> Never thinking of herself.</p>
<p> Seven little kids in a farmhouse <br /> By my moms hard work survived.<br /> Through her love and faith in Jesus <br /> We learned how to struggle and strive.</p>
<p> The lilacs still bloom by the window <br /> Where our mom would quilt and sew.<br /> In the winter she&#8217;d sing by the fire <br /> To the tunes she thought we should know.</p>
<p> Our father labored at a quarry <br /> In the dust of the earth every day.<br /> He worked so hard for his money <br /> For the bills our family must pay.</p>
<p> Little sister came down with pneumonia <br /> And almost died in bed.<br /> Our momma lie sick beside her <br /> Putting cool rags on her head.</p>
<p> We were sure glad to see daddy&#8217;s face <br /> As he drove up our driveway<br /> He ran up and into the house <br /> Then knelt by their bed to pray.</p>
<p> Oh, Lord, please save my family<br /> From the fever that burns within<br /> For we have always loved Jesus<br /> And will serve Him till our end.</p>
<p> Our mother and sister survived<br /> But daddy, he died long ago.<br /> When it&#8217;s our time for heaven <br /> Weâll see many that we know.</p>
<p><strong>TILL THE END of TIME<br /></strong></p>
<p> I feel like Samson pushing the stone<br /> For I gave into love and now I&#8217;m alone.<br /> Betrayed by a woman, I gambled and lost <br /> And now I suffer what disloyalty cost.</p>
<p> Samson was blinded by the blade of a knife <br /> After his capture by the love of his life.<br /> Imprisoned forever and forced to grind grain<br /> To spectator laughter, the whip and the chain.</p>
<p> The same so am I, a victim of chain<br /> For Iâve too many memories of you in my brain.<br /> Together my darling from a window we shall peer<br /> It will be from heaven both faraway and near.</p>
<p> The heirlooms of tomorrow the woman and the man <br /> Waiting for our ashes to sift through the sand.<br /> I willÂ  love you always, till the end of time<br /> Now and then dreaming of when you were mine. </p>
<p><strong>SAD DAD IN JAIL</p>
<p></strong><br /> They put me in prison for the deed I&#8217;ve done <br /> I killed the drunk driver who crippled you, son.<br /> Your mother, my wife, she died in the wreck<br /> That&#8217;s the reason I broke that man&#8217;s neck.</p>
<p> His dad was a rich man, who pulled lots of strings<br /> So well connected he could do many things.<br /> I live in this hellhole with all sorts of men; <br /> Iâm sure glad most like me and call me their friend.</p>
<p> The food here is so awful, I&#8217;ve lost many pounds<br /> I&#8217;d rather feast on the vittles the guards toss the hounds.<br /> At night we play cards and you don&#8217;t dare cheat <br /> For if you get caught, youâll be stomped on by feet.</p>
<p> Most inmates fashion some sort of knife <br /> To help out their odds in a fight for their life<br /> I took me a padlock and snapped it on a chain <br /> Then hid it in my pant-leg to keep from being slain.</p>
<p> I get to see you on our family day <br /> The worst part about it, is when you cry as you play.<br /> Many times you question, &#8220;Dad, when can you leave?&#8221;<br /> As the tears from your eyes drop to my sleeve.</p>
<p> Our visit is now over as they wheel you away<br /> I whisper, &#8220;I love you&#8221; and you see what I say.<br /> It&#8217;s time to go back to my one-room, shared cell<br /> And try to write a song about a sad dad in jail.</p>
<p><strong>SOLDIER IN THE RAIN<br /></strong></p>
<p> Iâm just a soldier who stands in the rain <br /> My memories of home are what keep me sane.<br /> Back home is a land of milk and honey <br /> Ruled by lust and love of money.</p>
<p> But, what can I say, when I serve her true <br /> For I volunteered to see this war through.<br /> Now, that Iâm here, it&#8217;s hard to believe<br /> We&#8217;re just the victims of those who deceive.</p>
<p> As darkness falls on the rice fields of Nam <br /> Scared men with rifles walk the shadows of the calm.<br /> It&#8217;s thousands of miles to the steps of my church <br /> With its stained glass, steeples and lost souls who search.</p>
<p> Off in the distance I see an arc light<br /> Bombs being dropped on children at night.<br /> I&#8217;ve seen that evil they call the &#8220;yellow rain&#8221;<br /> And how life withers when it&#8217;s sprayed by a plane.</p>
<p> All of my buddies have been taken away <br /> No more touch football will they ever play.<br /> Zipped in their body bags for the long trip home<br /> Are some of the bravest, I&#8217;ve ever known.</p>
<p> War is a hell, devised by man<br /> There&#8217;s death in the sea, the sky and the land.<br /> Lord, I canât help but wish I were home<br /> Back with my love, whom I hope is alone?</p>
<p><strong>WE WISH YOU WERE HOME</p>
<p></strong><br /> I remember that fair in September<br /> As we waited for a Ferris wheel ride <br /> Just as you reached for my fingers<br /> I felt how I loved you inside.</p>
<p> The next thing I knew we were airborne <br /> Above all the eyes of the crowd<br /> Surrounded by rainbows of neon<br /> As the moon popped from behind a cloud.</p>
<p> You asked, &#8220;daddy, do you love me&#8221;<br /> I answered I couldnât live without you.<br /> Then you reached up and tugged on my collar<br /> As we flew in that chair painted blue.</p>
<p> Now you are grown and gone<br /> And have marched away to war.<br /> As I&#8217;m writing this letter<br /> I yearn for your knock at our door.</p>
<p> I got out some rags and the wax<br /> And gave your old Ford a rubdown.<br /> I went for a ride of remembrance<br /> While its mufflers made your favorite sound</p>
<p> I drove by the park to ponder<br /> Those ball games we loved to play.<br /> I can &#8216;t help but worry and wonder<br /> If you&#8217;ll ever come home to stay.</p>
<p> Your girlfriend still teaches school<br /> We see her every seventh day.<br /> There&#8217;s no doubt who she thinks of<br /> When she folds her hands to pray.</p>
<p> Your mother still talks to your picture<br /> As she works at her sewing machine.<br /> I hope my son you realize<br /> How much to us you mean.</p>
<p><strong>PLEASURE SEEKERS<br /></strong></p>
<p> That road of pleasure seeking<br /> Has so many deep pitfalls<br /> And all the while we walk on it<br /> In the distance the devil calls.</p>
<p> Some folks drink those bubbly spirits<br /> Or smoke that tall green weed<br /> Anything to dull their conscience<br /> As they sow their wild oat seed.</p>
<p> I&#8217;ve been no angel in my life<br /> Though I fell from a righteous shelf<br /> When I took those risky chances<br /> And tried both, many times, myself.</p>
<p> Now I&#8217;m tired of being foolish.<br /> So I sing my songs at church<br /> With one eye on my hymnbook<br /> And the other free to search.</p>
<p> If you&#8217;re yearning to love someone <br /> Let&#8217;s get together and seek no more<br /> Kiss and fondle by the fire<br /> And push pillows across the floor.</p>
<p> For we need love, health and money <br /> And may we live to enjoy them all <br /> Before we &#8216;re old and in our autumn<br /> And our leaves begin to fall.</p>
<p><strong>THE FIRST ONE TO LOVE ME</strong></p>
<p> The first one to love me was you; Lord <br /> And nothing can take that away.<br /> My soul is refreshed by living water <br /> While my heart flows with love each day.</p>
<p> I thank you for the love of my family <br /> And I thank you for the love of my life.<br /> I thank you for all of the blessings <br /> You give to each husband and wife.</p>
<p> Your glory rides high on the sunsets<br /> Your voice is the thunder of rain.<br /> I thank you for all of the heavens<br /> And Jesus who came to be slain.</p>
<p> I feel when your eyes are upon me <br /> As you listen to my humble cry<br /> You&#8217;ve redeemed the soul of your servant <br /> To dwell in your mansion on high.</p>
<p> Iâll claim each and every promise <br /> From the Lord of the earth and sky.<br /> I&#8217;m so glad Iâm free from my bondage <br /> Of the grave where my body shall lie.</p>
<p> I thank you for parting the darkness<br /> And guiding my footsteps each day.<br /> I thank you for being my shepherd <br /> You&#8217;ve walked with me all the way.</p>
<p> I know your armor protects me <br /> From the devil in search of his feast.<br /> And all who are lost without you <br /> Shall dwell in hell with the beast!</p>
<p><strong>CHRISTMAS IS COMING<br /></strong></p>
<p> Christmas is coming and I&#8217;m all alone<br /> With no one to snuggle at night.<br /> My wineglass is empty to help dull the desire <br /> To kiss you by soft candlelight.</p>
<p> A rare pearl of value, you don &#8216;t leave alone <br /> Or someone will steal them from you.<br /> After they&#8217;ve gone and flown far away <br /> It&#8217;s hard to know just what to do.</p>
<p> I&#8217;m watching my neighbors hang lights on their tree <br /> With tinsel and striped candy cane.<br /> I took you for granted and didn&#8217;t hug enough <br /> And now I must suffer my pain.</p>
<p> Lord, I&#8217;m so lonely; I wish I could die<br /> Then be born to relive again.<br /> I realize the value of someone to love <br /> And the danger of my selfish sin.</p>
<p> There&#8217;s a ring on my phone and a knock at the door<br /> Which do I dare go for?<br /> If neither is you, I&#8217;ll break down and cry <br /> And again pound my fist on the floor.</p>
<p> I run down the hall and the doorknob turns<br /> As the swirling snow rides on the wind.<br /> There, in my doorway, it&#8217;s the face I love<br /> Such a beautiful present to send.</p>
<p> Now, I am happy and dancing around <br /> With a permanent smile on my face.<br /> As children are singing their Christmas love songs <br /> And the world is a wonderful place.</p>
<p><strong>PATHWAYS<br /></strong></p>
<p> Lord, I&#8217;m so lonely, I thirst everyday <br /> In search of the love I need<br /> like a man in prison with no warmth at night <br /> A slave who seeks to be freed.</p>
<p> For I need a woman who will heal my heart <br /> So my life won &#8216;t seem so wrong.<br /> Iâll lie down beside her and gamble again <br /> Then sing of our love in a song.</p>
<p> Remember, young Adam, your first favorite born<br /> Who slept in your garden alone.<br /> You took form his body and transformed some flesh <br /> Then gave him a woman unknown.</p>
<p> Whichever the pathway I should choose to take <br /> I realize that there will be brambles.<br /> For the man who has visions everyday of his life <br /> Will always be the same who gambles.</p>
<p> Now, to heaven I pray, for my treasure of life <br /> After searching the deserts in vain.<br /> Iâm tired of mirages from fool-hearted women <br /> Please give me someone whoâs sane.</p>
<p> May her eyes be turquoise with cheeks like peaches <br /> Ripe and ready to risk.<br /> Soon theyâll turn rosy when she sneaks a peek <br /> To the tingle of where I kiss.</p>
<p> Though I will love her, I shall never follow. <br /> Nor will I ever lead.<br /> I&#8217;ll walk beside her and share all I have <br /> For the children who spring from seed.</p>
<p> If we should argue about foolish things <br /> I &#8216;d rather be loved than right.<br /> Then when I lie down at the end of my day<br /> I&#8217;ll sleep with a smile at night.</p>
<p><strong>ENCHANTED</strong></p>
<p> Over any man who feels lost without love<br /> God gives women divine powers.<br /> They can break our hearts or deflate our ego<br /> And cause us to buy diamonds and flowers.</p>
<p> They have compelled kings and presidents to beg<br /> Wild singles to commit to change their way.<br /> Loving us with pleasures problematic to replace<br /> With flashbacks of their passion night and day.</p>
<p> Women mother our babies who we love till death<br /> For us to raise, protect and provide for.<br /> They contribute revenue, affection and direction<br /> With love, companionship and more.</p>
<p> They insist we never abuse or disgrace them<br /> Cheat, lie or take their love for granted.<br /> Which helps us to become more than we are<br /> In love and totally enchanted.</p>
<p><strong>WHISPERS <br /></strong></p>
<p> The one thing I&#8217;ve learned about happiness <br /> It will never last pretending you&#8217;re not you. <br /> Somehow, someway the truth will arise <br /> And all that you hide will show through. </p>
<p> Sooner or later, one way or another <br /> Something in your life seems wrong. <br /> You go to bed unhappy and awake the same <br /> Repeating life&#8217;s mistakes too long. </p>
<p> One day, to yourself, you begin to question <br /> Is this who I am and wish to be <br /> How will I choose to live the rest of my life <br /> Till the angel of death comes for me? </p>
<p> Most people wish to be at peace with God <br /> Oneself, and those we love. <br /> Frequently taking a look at our past <br /> Praying for guidance from above. </p>
<p> Thank heaven for the whispers from the heart <br /> Which remind us that evil has it&#8217;s voice too. <br /> It&#8217;s always a battle amid right and wrong <br /> As we ponder and perform what we do. </p>
<p><strong>LIFE <br /></strong></p>
<p> Life&#8217;s a book written through <br /> Where the pages are the years. <br /> There&#8217;s good, evil, false, and true <br /> With laughter, sweat, and tears. </p>
<p> Our days are songs composed by God <br /> As we set them to music with pleasure. <br /> His cup of life is for us to drink <br /> Though, He, decides the measure. </p>
<p> Hurried and worried, dawn till dusk <br /> There&#8217;s no time for a curtain call. <br /> We burn our candles from both ends <br /> And we&#8217;re lucky to be alive at all. </p>
<p> Cards are shuffled and hands are dealt<br /> For all to place their bets. <br /> Youthful blunders, adulthood struggles <br /> And old age, with its regrets. </p>
<p> It matters not, how long we live <br /> But more, how well we play our part. <br /> For the road to heaven is always near <br /> As long as there&#8217;s truth in our heart. </p>
<p><strong>EYES OF LOVE <br /></strong></p>
<p> A mind may see a thousand eyes <br /> Though the heart yearns for two<br /> When the eyes we love have up and gone <br /> To the arms of someone new. </p>
<p> Eyes that twinkle, I distrust<br /> For they are the distant stars. <br /> Eyes in love have a steady glow <br /> Like Venus, the Moon or Mars. </p>
<p> Eyes of love, like planets at night <br /> Use borrowed light to shine. <br /> Eyes are the living lenses <br /> To the camera of our mind. </p>
<p> Eyes tend to believe themselves <br /> Like the blind love of mothers. <br /> Eyes speak without words <br /> To the hearts and souls of others. </p>
<p><strong>LOVE <br /></strong></p>
<p> No rope or cable can hold so tight <br /> What love can do with twine. <br /> No kiss can taste so bittersweet <br /> As the one which captures our mind. </p>
<p> The first sign of love is the last of wisdom <br /> As eager hearts fulfill desire. <br /> Love is just a staple of life <br /> Though heaven sparks the fire. </p>
<p> Heaven knows no rage like love <br /> Once to hatred it has turned. <br /> How wise are we who are such fools <br /> Who forget the lessons we&#8217;ve learned. </p>
<p> Love, indeed, descends from heaven <br /> Like a shooting star across the sky. <br /> Love sometimes stirs the dust,<br /> Till tears fall free from the eye. </p>
<p> God must love people in love <br /> Or he wouldn&#8217;t make so many. <br /> Those who claim it&#8217;s a mental disease <br /> Have never been loved by any. </p>
<p> Love is stronger than life itself <br /> And jealousy more cruel than the grave. <br /> Men and women have loved one another <br /> Since they spent their nights in a cave. </p>
<p> When the hands of love <br /> Touch the strings of souls<br /> There&#8217;ll be babies on the way. <br /> That&#8217;s the basic rules of life <br /> No matter what games we play. </p>
<p> Like the flowers in the fields<br /> We shed our shields <br /> To be warmed by the sun. <br /> We live our lives the best we can <br /> Till death catches us on the run. </p>
<p><strong>MY WILD ROSE <br /></strong></p>
<p> You &#8216;re the full moon of my nights <br /> And the sunshine of my day. <br /> Like a queen upon her throne <br /> You rule what I do and say. </p>
<p> It&#8217;s God who makes us beautiful <br /> And the Devil who makes us mean. <br /> It all depends on whom we follow <br /> Which way our lives shall lean. </p>
<p> With one foot in the future <br /> And one foot in the past <br /> Let us try to live our days <br /> As though each was our last. </p>
<p> You&#8217;re the wild rose of my life <br /> My flower of desire. <br /> Made by God for me alone <br /> Out of earth, stars and fire. </p>
<p><strong>MY WIFE <br /></strong></p>
<p> You&#8217;re the bone of my bones <br /> Who I love for my wife. <br /> The flesh of my flesh <br /> And my partner in life. </p>
<p> For me to have and to hold <br /> For better or for worse. <br /> To love and to cherish <br /> Though we might fight and curse. </p>
<p> Be I richer or poorer <br /> Till death makes us part <br /> I will give you great portions <br /> Of my soul and my heart. </p>
<p> Heaven won&#8217;t be heaven <br /> If I don &#8216;t see you there <br /> May the first to go <br /> Be me, is my prayer. </p>
<p><strong>FAMILIES </strong></p>
<p> The first stage of a family group <br /> Begins with husband and wife. <br /> Shelters are rented, bought or built <br /> As they yearn for more from life. </p>
<p> Families are found throughout the world <br /> In bone clusters buried in caves <br /> Where ancient people lived and loved <br /> &#8216;Till death placed them in their graves. </p>
<p> Humans still have that need to group <br /> As a family to survive <br /> They love and care for each other <br /> In the world in which they strive. </p>
<p> Families are a nation&#8217;s crown jewels <br /> Far more than a golden coin. <br /> Members find love and sympathy <br /> From the groups they&#8217;ve chosen to join. </p>
<p><strong>TEARS <br /></strong></p>
<p> Tears are the raindrops of the soul <br /> And there&#8217;s one for all who die. <br /> They are the silent words of grief <br /> As they fall free from the eye. </p>
<p> The shortest verse in the Bible <br /> Is the one where Jesus wept<br /> So, if you hold back tears, &#8220;shed them&#8221; <br /> When your pains too harsh to accept. </p>
<p> Tears are lovelier than a smile <br /> When they come from those you love. <br /> As they seek relief from sadness<br /> When you&#8217;re summoned from above. </p>
<p> Tears are a love-mates humble gift <br /> When it&#8217;s time to say goodbye <br /> Though the eyes are wet and swollen <br /> With time and patience they dry. </p>
<p><strong>LOVE &amp; ELECTRICITY <br /></strong></p>
<p> Love and electricity are a lot alike <br /> For we never seem to miss them till their gone. <br /> We need both, every day of our life <br /> And even more so between twilight and dawn. </p>
<p> Love resembles a self-consuming amber <br /> A static current of both pain and pleasure. <br /> It can warm our bed and lighten the darkness <br /> And for most who don &#8216;t have it, it&#8217;s a treasure. </p>
<p> We can turn it on or we can turn it off <br /> Depending on whatever we&#8217;re forced to do. <br /> It may shock us, please us, thrill us, or hurt us <br /> Though once without it, we can&#8217;t wait to renew. </p>
<p><strong>THE SEED OF LOVE </strong></p>
<p> A kindly woman can make a sad man sing <br /> With her love and affection winter seems like spring. <br /> Of all the pleasures in life given to a man <br /> There&#8217;s nothing beats the touch of a woman&#8217;s soft hand. </p>
<p> God saw Adam alone on Eden&#8217;s floor <br /> Then decided to give him Eve&#8217;s love and much more. <br /> So take what you need from she chosen for you<br /> Then rid thyself of others and to her be true. </p>
<p> The Lord planted love within mankind&#8217;s heart <br /> Though things can grow sour when from Him we depart. <br /> Love and hate are but two sides of life&#8217;s golden coin <br /> So be ready for both no matter whom you join. </p>
<p><strong>FORGIVE ME </strong></p>
<p> Forgive me, forgive me <br /> And I&#8217;ll kiss your tears away. <br /> You&#8217;re the first thing and the last <br /> I think of every day </p>
<p> Let bygones be bygones <br /> And be willing to forgive. <br /> And I will love you only <br /> Every moment I live. </p>
<p> I love you and I need you <br /> It&#8217;s a fact and not a lie <br /> So if you plan to punish me <br /> Say anything, but good bye. </p>
<p><strong>PARTING </strong></p>
<p> The truest words, which portray my love <br /> I speak to you from within m</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Alimony is payments that one spouse may be ordered to pay another spouse for support as a result of a divorce. In Rhode Island Divorce, some spouses qualify for  alimony from the other spouse. Alimony is also known as Spousal Support or Spousal Maintenance. R.I.G.L 15-5-16 delineates the factors that the Rhode Island Family Court [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Alimony is payments that one spouse may be ordered to pay another spouse for support as a result of a divorce. In Rhode Island Divorce, some spouses qualify for  alimony from the other spouse. Alimony is also known as Spousal Support or Spousal Maintenance.</p>
<p>R.I.G.L 15-5-16 delineates the factors that the Rhode Island Family Court Judge should use in determining whether a Husband or Wife Qualifies for Alimony payment from the other spouse.</p>
<p>The Rhode Island Supreme Court Stated &#8220;Alimony is a rehabilitative tool intended to provide temporary support until a spouse is self-sufficient, and is based purely on need.&#8221; Berard v. Berard  The Rhode Island Alimony statute is set forth below. You should contact David Slepkow to get legal advice concerning your case.</p>
<p>Rhode Island Lawyer David Slepkow  401-437-1100 has also written over 50 Rhode Island Law Articles about Divorce, Child Support, Child Custody, Child Visitation, Post Divorce, Common Law marriage etc.</p>
<p>Generally, Alimony is awarded for a specific period of time, in increments which are usually weekly or monthly. Alimony could be awarded as a result of a Divorce settlement. If a party requests alimony or is unwilling to waive alimony and the parties cannot agree to an alimony award, then alimony may be awarded at the divorce trial.</p>
<p>Temporary Alimony may be awarded by the Rhode Island Family Court  towards the beginning of the RI divorce. This temporary Alimony award will stay in effect until the final decision by the Rhode Island Family Court Judge at the RI Divorce Trial.</p>
<p>The intent of alimony is rehabilitative in nature. &#8220;alimony should be &#8216;payable for a short, but specific and terminable period of time, which will cease when the recipient is, in the exerciseof reasonable efforts, in a position of self-support.&#8217;&#8221; Thompson v. Thompson</p>
<p>Alimony is usually awarded on a temporary basis but can be awarded on an indefinite and (perhaps what turns out to be permanent) basis if the facts justify indefinite alimony. The Rhode Island Supreme Court ruled that &#8220;Alimony may be awarded even for an indefinite period as long as the trial justice considers all the statutory factors.&#8221;</p>
<p>Indefinite alimony may be ordered in a case where a party is seriously disabled or as a result of old age is unable to work. Indefinite alimony could also be awarded in a plethora of different factual circumstances.</p>
<p>The Court must look at &#8220;The health, age, station, occupation, amount and source of income, vocational skills, and employability of the parties&#8221; in making an alimony determination.</p>
<p>Ability to pay is a crucial factor in determining the amount of alimony and whether or not alimony should be awarded. There are many cases in which a spouse is in desperate need of alimony but the other spouse does not have the ability to pay sufficient alimony. In some cases, the spouse does not have an ability to pay because of a child support obligation to the other spouse or child support owed for other children.</p>
<p>Furthermore, according to The Rhode Island Supreme Court, &#8220;Section 15-5-16 does not explicitly prohibit one lump-sum award.&#8221; However,  lump sum award alimony appears to be disfavored under RI Law.</p>
<p>The best candidate for alimony is a spouse who put aside his or her career ambitions for many years to be a homemaker and care for the children. As a result of the role of nurturing the children and establishing and maintaining a home, the other spouse was able to advance his or her career in order to be able to afford to pay alimony.</p>
<p>In some cases, the family made a decision that one parent would put aside his or her career aspirations to raise a child or minor children. As a result, the homemaker&#8217;s skill set is so outmoded that he or she is unable to obtain suitable employment. This is usually because the homemaker&#8217;s job skills, employment history, licenses, training, skills, experience or degrees became outmoded or irrelevant. Perhaps the person does not have enough of an employment history to be able to be self supporting and self sufficient without receiving alimony. In some cases the spouse is unable to work because the spouse currently has a physical custody and placement of a young child.</p>
<p>For this type of person, the intent of an award of Rehabilitative Alimony would be to allow a person to build a work history, advance his or her education, employment training, licenses etc. so that the person can be self supporting and self sufficient in the future.</p>
<p>Another type of person who is an excellent candidate for alimony is a person who is temporarily disabled or permanently disabled especially if the marriage has been a long marriage. Another good candidate for alimony is a spouse who has severely disabled children which renders it difficult  or impossible for the person to seek employment.</p>
<p>&#8220;The assignment of property must precede any determination of alimony because the needs ofeach party will be affected by the equitable distribution of the marital estate.Section 15-5-16.1(c). In determining the amount of alimony, the court must consider: &#8220;(i) [t]helength of the marriage; (ii) [t]he conduct of the parties during the marriage; (iii) [t]he health, age,station, occupation, amount and source of income, vocational skills, and employability of theparties; and (iv) [t]he state and the liabilities and needs of each of the parties.&#8221; Section15-5-16(b)(1).6</p>
<p>Rhode Island Child Custody and Placement plays a role in an alimony determination. If the parties have children, the Court must also make an award of Rhode Island Child Support before the Court determines an alimony award.  The Child Support award plays a large role in determining the resources of the parent with physical custody of the minor child. A child support  http://www.slepkowlaw.com order also may severely affect  a n individuals ability to afford alimony in the future.</p>
<p>The needs and expenses of both parties is crucial in determining alimony. Needs and expenses are intertwined with the standard of living of the parties. The Court may look at the following types of expenses and needs: rent, mortgage, taxes, insurance, food, health insurance, uninsured medical expenses, prescription expenses, dental expenses, cable, internet, utilities, heat, gas , vehicle expenses etc.</p>
<p>Although conduct is a factor in alimony determinations per the RI Alimony Statute, it is not a significant factor since alimony is basically need based. Conduct such as an affair, drug or alcohol addiction, gambling problem, domestic violence plays more of a role in equitable division of assets then in an Alimony determination.</p>
<p>An award of alimony has Federal Income Tax consequences. Alimony is taxable to the spouse who receives the alimony and is deductible by the spouse who pays alimony. In order to qualify as alimony,</p>
<p>Alimony must terminate on the death of the payee spouse and upon the remarriage of the payee spouse. Payment of alimony is a taxable event to the payee spouse.</p>
<p>This is very different from payment of child support. Payment of child support is a non taxable event. The parent who pays child support is not entitled to a deduction for payment and the receiving spouse does not include the payment as income. Therefore it is tax free money to the parent who receives the child support.26 U.S.C.A. 71.</p>
<p>The IRS has rules and regulations concerning what types of payments constitute alimony. The IRS has rules and regulations concerning when a parent tries to mask child support payments as alimony. Please consult with a Rhode Island Divorce and Family Law Attorney concerning the tax implications and rules concerning Alimony. A detailed explanation of tax rules, laws and regulations as they pertain to Alimony is beyond the scope of this article.</p>
<p>The designation of payments as alimony rather than property distribution has consequences in Bankruptcy Proceedings. An alimony award is generally not dischargeable in Bankruptcy. The interrelation between Family Law, Alimony and Bankruptcy is also beyond the scope of this article. Please consult with a Rhode Island Bankruptcy Lawyer/ Attorney.</p>
<p>Another important issue, perhaps crucial issue, is whether or not the parties enter into a property settlement agreement in the divorce.  In order for the alimony to be completely non modifiable, the alimony must be agreed to in a Property settlement agreement. The Court has no power to modify a property settlement agreement. A Court can only enforce or interpret a property settlement agreement. In the event of impossibility of payment, the Court could award equitable relief, equitably reforming the contract between the parties.  Please contact a Rhode Island Divorce Attorney concerning whether or not it is advisable to draft a Property Settlement agreement in your case.</p>
<p>Proper drafting of a Property Settlement Agreement and Alimony provisions in a Property Settlement Agreement is beyond the scope of this article.</p>
<p>The length of the marriage is a very important factor that the RI Family Court Judge looks at in determining Alimony. The Court also needs to hear testimony concerning the party requesting alimony plan to become self supporting and self sufficient.</p>
<p>The Court can also look at the relative ability of both spouses to earn income and or acquire assets and property in the future.</p>
<p>If a person is ordered to pay alimony and does not pay alimony, the other person can file a contempt motion. If a person is found in willful contempt of a Court order they could be jailed until they purge themselves of the contempt. Rhode Island Family Court judges take failure to comply with their alimony orders very seriously. If the Alimony award is modifiable, either party could file a motion to modify the alimony based on a substantial change in circumstances.</p>
<p>§ 15-5-16 Alimony and counsel fees &#8211; Custody of children.</p>
<p>(a) In granting any petition for divorce, divorce from bed and board, or relief without the commencement of divorce proceedings, the family court may order either of the parties to pay alimony or counsel fees, or both, to the other.</p>
<p>(b) In determining the amount of alimony or counsel fees, if any, to be paid, the court, after hearing the witnesses, if any, of each party, shall consider:</p>
<p>(i) The length of the marriage;</p>
<p>(ii) The conduct of the parties during the marriage;</p>
<p>(iii) The health, age, station, occupation, amount and source of income, vocational skills, and employability of the parties; and</p>
<p>(iv) The state and the liabilities and needs of each of the parties.</p>
<p>(2) In addition, the court shall consider:</p>
<p>(i) The extent to which either party is unable to support herself or himself adequately because that party is the primary physical custodian of a child whose age, condition, or circumstances make it appropriate that the parent not seek employment outside the home, or seek only part-time or flexible-hour employment outside the home;</p>
<p>(ii) The extent to which either party is unable to support herself or himself adequately with consideration given to:</p>
<p>(A) The extent to which a party was absent from employment while fulfilling homemaking responsibilities, and the extent to which any education, skills, or experience of that party have become outmoded and his or her earning capacity diminished;</p>
<p>(B) The time and expense required for the supported spouse to acquire the appropriate education or training to develop marketable skills and find appropriate employment;</p>
<p>(C) The probability, given a party&#8217;s age and skills, of completing education or training and becoming self-supporting;</p>
<p>(D) The standard of living during the marriage;</p>
<p>(E) The opportunity of either party for future acquisition of capital assets and income;</p>
<p>(F) The ability to pay of the supporting spouse, taking into account the supporting spouse&#8217;s earning capacity, earned and unearned income, assets, debts, and standard of living;</p>
<p>(G) Any other factor which the court expressly finds to be just and proper.</p>
<p>(c) For the purposes of this section, &#8220;alimony&#8221; is construed as payments for the support or maintenance of either the husband or the wife.</p>
<p>(2) Alimony is designed to provide support for a spouse for a reasonable length of time to enable the recipient to become financially independent and self-sufficient. However, the court may award alimony for an indefinite period of time when it is appropriate in the discretion of the court based upon the factors set forth in subdivision (b)(2)(ii)(B). After a decree for alimony has been entered, the court may from time to time upon the petition of either party review and alter its decree relative to the amount and payment of the alimony, and may make any decree relative to it which it might have made in the original suit. The decree may be made retroactive in the court&#8217;s discretion to the date that the court finds that a substantial change in circumstances has occurred; provided, the court shall set forth in its decision the specific findings of fact which show a substantial change in circumstances and upon which findings of facts the court has decided to make the decree retroactive. Nothing provided in this section shall affect the power of the court as subsequently provided by law to alter, amend, or annul any order of alimony previously entered. Upon the remarriage of the spouse who is receiving alimony, the obligation to pay alimony shall automatically terminate at once.&#8221;</p>
<p>Rhode island (RI) Attorney David Slepkow Represents clients in all Rhode Island (RI) Counties including: Providence County Family Court (Providence, East Providence, Cranston, Barrington, Bristol, Warren, Pawtucket etc.), Kent County Family Court (Warwick, Coventry Etc.,) Newport County Family Court (Tiverton, Newport, Portsmouth, Middletown), Washington County Family Court ( South Kingstown, Wakefield etc.)</p>
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