How Do I Get My Wife Off Drugs?

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I”m a recovering alcoholic and and have no social life anymore. I can’t seem to make any friends at all in AA, and I don’t think I will ever get over my ex-girlfriend unless I start dating someone else.

I’ve tried MATCH.COM and another site, but I always get the same answer, sometimes immediately. Either women:

1. Just don’t want to date anyone that’s a recovering addict/alcoholic.

2. Don’t want to date anyone that doesn’t drink.

I was just hoping someone could tell me why?

I’m 45, single, live alone and a pretty nice guy. Women in recovery generally don’t date men in recovery. I don’t think i’ll ever find a wife.

I”m a recovering alcoholic and and have no social life anymore. I can’t seem to make any friends at all in AA, and I don’t think I will ever get over my ex-girlfriend unless I start dating someone else.

I’ve tried MATCH.COM and another site, but I always get the same answer, sometimes immediately. Either women:

1. Just don’t want to date anyone that’s a recovering addict/alcoholic.

2. Don’t want to date anyone that doesn’t drink.

I was just hoping someone could tell me why?

I’m 45, single, live alone and a pretty nice guy. Women in recovery generally don’t date men in recovery. I don’t think i’ll ever find a wife.

It’s been a few years now, and I find myself so lonely that I think of suicide alot.

My boyfriend just left me a little over a week ago. 2 weekends before this he got a dui. That night He came back to my house after he got pulled over and said he deserved it. He needed something to force him to get help. He had been taking like 18 vicodins (with alcohol) a day because he needs major hip surgery and he had become an addict. He told me he was going to detox and rehab. I was all for it. The next day he started to stay with his parents. He talked with the rehab place a couple days later and had been sober for 3 days. The rehab place told him to wait until he got his surgery to do the rehab if he still needed it. They said it sounds as if he was doing great with the detox. We had a long talk and I was going to be there for him. We talked about how much we loved each other and he even said he wanted me to be his wife. 2 days later his ex gf goes to see him with their baby and now he wants to be with her. He did nothing but bad mouth her when I was with him. She hasn’t even worked for years. He said the reason he was going to be with her was because he could see his child. He said I was too busy for him now and he told me he didn’t want me to have to bother with his problems. He told me I had everything in life. he told me he didn’t love her and he loved me. I know there is no price tag on a child, but he is going to get burned again. He thinks she has changed. When we met He said he always went back to her each time thinking she changed and it never worked. His sister even told me she knew it wouldn’t work this time too. I am so miserable and sad. It has barely been a week. I told him I would be there through his surgery and detox and everything.I told him I would change my schedule to work around his and help him thru rehab for his leg and drugs. Now he says he loves his ex and they are going to keep their family together. I tried so many words of encouragement to get him back and sent a card too. I’m lost with out him. Any advice?

I am ready to live I have a wife and two girls and I am going to detox off of percoset 30 ..I have been snorting 4 a day I have gone to get help with a counselor for the mental part ,but will be detoxing at home…please help with any important info .my wife will be helping me …and please leave the un-needed opinions to yourself this is hard enough as it is…thank you

I drank alcoholically for along time. Did all the things your not supposed to do. but have never been unfaithful. We have two teenage boys at home in a 14yr. marriage and 19 yr. relationship.I’m 41, she’s 44. My repeated attempts to stop always ended me in rehab programs or detox, till this last time when she dropped me off at yet another detox clinic and said don’t come home. the only chance was to get with a sponser and work the twelve step program of AA. Now I live in a
sober house, work the program. am involved in the fellowship of AA, and get to see my family just not stay with them. Any chance she’ll let me come home any time soon?

Recently i got in a little trouble with the law, nothing real big. when i have time to gout i party hard, { dwi/ driving on a restricted license} i know i was wrong, 1 mile from home. anyway my wife left and said were done and i don’t want to deal.I also lost my job cause of this. i accept responsibility, and a bad judgment call.Our relationship has always been rocky. she left me when i needed her the most, now she back and i don’t think i want her back.what do i do?

Even Heather Mills’ spokesman can’t confirm the validity of her allegations against him, (she, of course, being known to be economical with the truth.)
Sorry…..I mean Paul McCartney and maybe I posted this wrongly. P’raps it should have been in celebrities. But now it’s here……….it’s not really an open question, as in ‘What do you think?’ and it should be.

Anyway… she’s declared war on a guy with an impeccable reputation. And her reputation is in the gutter, where it belongs. Yes, Linda wouldn’t have stayed with him if he was that much of a jerk. I hope his kids are standing by him now…….I’m sure they are. Stella has the highest profile of them and she really disliked HM.
HM is really showing how much of a prat she really is. If anybody saw her on tv with Paul, her disdain was obvious. But then , on a PETA show she did, she was saying to him, over the mobile, you can make me breakfast in bed……and she described how Paul used to ask which leg she wanted passing to her for a particular task. Does this sound like a battered wife?
I hope he leaves her penniless, and gets that young daughter out of her ugly way.

I have a concern. Yesterday someone knocked (loudly) on my door. I looked through the peephole and saw a well built man wearing a USMC t-shirt. He then proceeded to knock on neighbors doors. Initially I thought that he was looking for something or someone or possibly selling something. About an hour later, he came back. But beginning at my door. But this time after knock…he attempted to open my front door yet it was locked. He then knocked on some neighbors doors. I could hear someone speaking to him. I later knocked on the neighbor’s door yet they wouldn’t answer. While laying in bed it occurred to me that maybe my wife took her name off my bond and revoked it. This would explain why someone tried to enter and why my neighbor was unwilling to answer. I called the bondsman who said this isn’t the case. However, I can’t ask him about this instance as he is my bondsman on pending traffic violations. This morning got me thinking some more. I have been making payments (have receipts) for all of the outstanding warrants. These all stemmed back from a DWI though which is why my license was suspended in the first place. There was never a conclusion to the DWI which I was on bond for (with a different bondsman). I don’t recall the bondsman as it was in 2004. It was due to this that my license was suspended in the first place. I was to make payments to resolve this at that time. I’m unsure if these payments are a part of what I’m paying now. If this is the case, I’m fearful there is a bounty hunter looking for me. How can I verify this and/or take care of it? I’m doing my best to take care of everything and get my family back.

and the husband who is drunk can also say wrong thngs to the child that can disturb the child?
and the woman must endure…and feel bad and unable to concentrate to her life?