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I moved in with her 10 years ago because I loved her and she needed help financially. She had only food stamps at that time and she stopped her house payments through a mortgage program so she didn’t have to pay it until she got on here feet. I paid the electricity and other utilities for about 6 months and cut the grass and fixed thing around the house.She used her food stamps to feed us.She cooked , cleaned, packed my lunch and liked having sex a whole lot and she still does all these things but sometime she goes on drinking binges and starts nagging me to start paying her something to help out with the bills, I have a full time job and make okay money,not lots,but she is now paying all the bills, unless there is a shortage of hers because she bounces a check every once in a while so I give her whatever bill she needed help on. Now she says she is tired of being broke all the time and wants me to pitch in once in awhile. This makes me mad she wants money from me because I cut the grass, fix guy stuff around the house and take her to dinner once in awhile. She is on disability because she has a bad back and has gone through 3 surgeries in the last 2 years yet she can still do everything for me and pay all the house bills(The house is in her name so she should) Why does she say it makes her feel used by me. I don’t think I am using her. Do you and do you think she has the right to be angry when I don’t help out to live with her? I would love some answers tonight because she wants me to move out if I do not help her out. She wants $300 a month and it cost her $1,000 to run the place. She can do it so why is she wanting to kick me out?
In her defence Banana she worked all her life then had a horrible car accident and almost died. They put her spine back together with rods and bolts. It took her 2 years to be able to walk again. Now she is having trouble with the hardware in her back detereating. Don’t speak of her like she’s nothing as a matter of the fact do not speak about anything unless you ask about how she ended up that way
Snoot, good name. Your man seems to be used by you. You’re the kind of women that make other women look bad. So I guess you got a sucker to take care of you. I’m so happy for you. He should run from you!