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marriage is a contract between a man and a women where the man agrees to give up 1/2 of every thing he is worth in return for less sex.

a father and his son go into a drug store and the son sees a 3 pack of condoms and askes his father what are those for the father answers for high school 1 for fri night 1 for sat night 1 for sun night then the son asks what is the 6 pack for the father answers for college 2 fri 2 sat 2 sun. the son then asks what is the 12 pack for the father says oh the 12 pack thats for marriage 1 for jan 1 for feb 1 for march.

what do a 100 battered wifes all have in common ?
they don’t fing listin.

love is a disease only curable by marriage.

they are 3 rings in a relationship that ends in marriage.
the engagment ring the wedding ring and after the marriage the suffering.

honestly its all disneys fault from the time these girls are 2 disney fills there heads with the idea of meeting a prince
living in a castle happily ever after. Men just can’

My friend has never had much confidence with women. I’ve always tried to be supportive and was really pleased that he’d found someone he’d like to marry. I was proud to be his best man. I’ve never had a problem with any of his other girlfriends, but there was always something about this person that didn’t quite click with me. Until recently I felt guilty about this: thinking the problem was mine and that maybe subconsciously I was judging her for her troubled past – drugs, prison, prostitution etc. But after staying with them last weekend and seeing their marriage close-up I couldn’t help but feel that he’s made a mistake in marrying her. She gives him no warmth or support; she’s incredibly lazy in terms of rearing the children/sharing household chores; she’s a bully and says things that are designed to be vindictive. I’ve noticed a change in him for the worst.
Do I wait for him to approach the subject?I can’t even get him out on his own to talk over a drink.
Many thanks for your time

When Nicholas Gianquitti moved to Daisy Court in 2005, he entered a model of quiet suburbia, where all the split-levels came with backyard fences and neat yards and children played in the cul-de-sac.
One problem: Gianquitti seemed at odds with the neighborhood children.
Their balls were always bouncing across his lush lawn or hitting his polished car.
Gianquitti complained about this last year to a friend from his old neighborhood, Oakwind Terrace.
The kids’ balls “were always banging his cars,” recalled Ron Silvestri of his conversation with Gianquitti. “They were brand new cars and he didn’t like his cars being ruined.”
Gianquitti, a slight man who drew a disability pension from the few months in the early 1990s when he served as a Providence police officer, complained to his neighbors on Daisy Court as well. And parents there and on the adjacent cul-de-sac, Lily Drive, warned their children to keep clear of the man with the tuft of orange hair sprouting from his chin.
On Sunday, Gianquitti’s next-door neighbors, James and Adriana Pagano, hosted a birthday party for their young son. Some kids were playing in the street and, neighbors say, Gianquitti, who is 40, came out yelling and swearing at them when a ball struck his car.
Pagano, 44, a Cranston firefighter for 15 years who had been officially promoted to lieutenant just last week, rushed over to confront Gianquitti.
The confrontation led to punches and then, with children and others watching, the scene turned surreal.
Witnesses reported hearing several shots and seeing Pagano, lying in the street, mortally wounded. Many of his neighbors and relatives began calling 911. The time was around 3:15 p.m.
Yesterday, while a District Court judge ordered Gianquitti held without bail on a charge of murder, police investigators probed the dirt and leaves blown against the sidewalk outside Gianquitti’s home at 16 Daisy Court, searching for evidence and trying to piece together a neighborhood killing.
Law enforcement officials say Gianquittihad been licensed to carry a concealed weapon since 1993 when he left the Providence police force after six months after suffering a knee injury.
Police confiscated several rifles and pistols from his home following the shooting.
McGrath said some of the gunshots may have been fired from inside Gianquitti’s house and others from outside.
Pagano grew up in the Garden City section of Cranston and graduated from Providence College in 1989. After college, he served as an aide in former Cranston Mayor Michael A. Traficante’s office before joining the Fire Department in February 1991. He was promoted to lieutenant in January, taking part in a department-wide promotions ceremony just last week. Married to Adriana Pagano, a part-time hairdresser, he had a daughter and a son. He was an avid golfer and a big Red Sox fan, known for cooking veal and mushrooms at the fire station and laughing easily.
Sunday afternoon at Fire Station Three, where Pagano had worked for some 15 years before a recent promotion and transfer, Lt. Mike Procopio and Firefighter Ray Giguere heard the call of a man shot on Daisy Court and sped to the scene.
They did not know, yet, it was their friend. But they were concerned.
“We knew it was his street,” Procopio said, in an interview at the station yesterday.
Gianquitti, married with a teenage daughter, had retreated to inside his house by the time the police arrived. And with reports of an armed man inside, officers initially cordoned off the street, with even the paramedics restricted to the perimeter.
Police took Gianquitti from the scene without incident, the chief said, along with his wife and his daughter.
McGrath said the department has 15 officers from the detective division working on the case, including three from the Bureau of Criminal Investigation, which is examining forensic evidence from the crime scene.
In May 2006, Gianquitti filed a formal complaint with the Cranston police of kids in the neighborhood playing with hardballs.
He wanted to get it on record, the chief said, in case there was damage to his property at some point.
Sorry I shortened the article to post it on here. I think this guy should get sentenced to prision for life. It is just awful how he reacted and they haven’t stated but I don’t even think his car had any damage even if it did that is no reason to take someone’s life.

A very nice meek depressed man left his not so nice wife after 15 years of marriage. He married her because he wanted to give her a better life because her “trailer white trash roots”. She lived with poor me syndrome, binges without health concerns, double-standards, no friends, no families, no hobbies who desperately became pregnant (without his knowledge) fear of being on her own. A child didn’t save their marriage. He feels guilty for leaving and promises her that no matter what she is member of the family, she is never pushed out in the cold. A year later he met a new woman, he hopes the new girl will accept his prior arrangement with the old girl still hangs around but in reality the new girl is not accepting. He has a hard times reversing his promises to his old girl because he feels sorry for her. He says the new girl is his love and priority but he feels bad pushing the old girl out.

What would you do if you were in my situation of a new girl? Help! I love him but…

I would like one that teaches Dr. Stanton Peele’s Life Process System.
cost is no object

I recently went on a drinking binge and really upset one of my best friends. I can piece together some of what I said and did, but not everything. He keeps telling me everything is OK, but can tell things are still not right. It’s not the first time I’ve said things I’ve regretted to this particular friend who other than my wife/family is the closest person in my life. My problem is that I want him to tell me what exactly happened, but don’t want to make things worse by rehashing it. I’ve decided to swear off alcohol so it won’t happen again, but this friendship is too important to risk and not sure if time really will heal all wounds. A “blanket” apology doesn’t seem sufficient.

My wife’s an attorney, and I read in today’s newspaper that she lost the big case she had been working on for months. This case added so much stress to herself: It led to her gaining weight, binge drinking, and, even perhaps, having an affair with a local loser (known appropriately as Timdawg). In fact, this case she had been working so hard on, it could be argued, changed her in a way that led to our separation. Her clients were convicted on all counts and should be seeing life in prison. Worse for my wife, the prosecutor on the case has accused her of witness tampering, as she had allegedly used Timdawg to try to intimidate a witness into not coming forward. Now, also, she doesn’t have my stabilizing influence or the kids. Geez, her life is falling apart.

Our divorce papers should be completed soon. I don’t want to send her a mixed message, but feel I should send her flowers or something. Is that silly? Have you ever felt sorry for a bad ex-spouse and wanted to cheer him/her up?
Timdawg’s in jail on different charges right now. Poor fella. :-)

Why do alcoholic think it dosn’t hurt anyone but them when so many people care about them? My ex became an alcoholic also and he lost respect from many friends and does nothing but stay home with his wife and drink, get loud and make a fool of himself….don’t they know what they are doing to those who love them?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about six months. He is 36 and I am 21. His “best friend” is someone he dated 3 years ago for about 2 months, they met in AA. He broke up with her because she relapsed, and he couldn’t be around her. They stopped talking for a little while and now they’re “just” really good friends.

She lives 2 hrs away and the last time he’s seen her was when he took her as his date to his cousin’s wedding, this was when we first started dating. I just found the pictures from the wedding and they look a little bit “over-friendly” if you get what I’m saying.
About a month ago he told me he was going up to see her and take her out to lunch, but I didn’t feel comfortable with it, especially never having met her. I asked if he would take me with him to meet her. He got SUPER deffensive and told me he didn’t want me to go and I’m “not invited”. He ended up not going.

He is CONSTANTLY texting her right in front of me, for long periods of time, every single day.. and won’t tell me what about! If I ask he says “you’re not my mother, and you’re not my wife, so it’s none of your business.” And then he deletes the texts just in case I decide to go through his phone!! WTF. And there’s several pictures of them together on his phone! Not to mention when he took me to meet his family his 13 year old nephew came up to me and said “you must be Justine!” (that’s her name). Are you kidding me????
And he goes up north (near where she lives) almost every weekend yet claims he’s not seeing her. Not like he’d tell me if he were… because he knows Id freak out.

Even though I honestly don’t think he’s sleeping with her, I just feel like there’s this closeness between them, maybe “unfinished business” from 3 years ago.. and it is definitely more than a friendship.

Opinions, please??!!

A man goes to a party and has too much to drink. His friends plead with him to let them take him home. He says no he only lives a mile away.

About five blocks from party, the police pull him over for weaving and ask him to get out of the car and walk the line. Just as he starts, the police radio blares out a notice of a robbery taking place in a house just a block away. The police tell the man to stay put, they will be right back and they hop a fence and run down the street to the robbery.

The guy waits and waits and finally decides to drive home. When he gets there, he tells his wife he is going to bed, and to tell anyone who might come looking for him that he has the flu and has been in bed all day.

A few hours later the police knock on the door. They ask if Mr. Joe is there and his wife says yes. They ask to see him and she replies that he is in bed with the flu and has been so all day.

The police have his driver’s license. They ask to see his car and she asks why. They insist on seeing his car, so she takes them to the garage. She opens the door. There sitting in the garage is the police car, with all its lights still flashing.

True story: Told by the driver at his first AA meeting.

My wife is Active Duty and she has about 3 years left on her Contract. She intends on going through AMEDD to become an officer in the Nurse Corpse. I am her father’s caregiver at home, and with no college background, I plan on taking courses online to obtain an AA in General Education. Would this meet requirements to enlist in ROTC? Are there other options after having an AA? Any educated responses would help. Thank you.

Are there any products, like at Trader Joes or Whole Foods Market that offer a good healthy way to cleanse your intestinal tract and detox your system? There is a lot of “products” out there, like on infomercials that cost hundreds of dollars. Im sure there is a better way then what they offer (and probably less expensive). Any tips or recommendations would be appreciated! Im not looking for drug detox system either. My wife came across some late night commercial and it looks like a gimmick, Im hoping to find something better, more reliable, from a reputable place too. Thanks for anything!

My wife and I had a small party at our house the other night. I went to bed early and My wife and best friend stayed up . My wife came to bed in the wee hours of the morning completely trashed. I took care of her and got her into bed. After waking up she had a horrible feeling that something bad had happened. We drove to my “friends” house and confronted him. He confirmed that something had happened. I am completely disgusted and disappointed. My wife and I have an awesome relationship and no problems. I just dont understand how this could have happened? And now I dont know what to do.

Since the time our mother died (11-2006) I have helped my brother with bills,school supplies for his 2 kids. Then his wife dies so he sends them to me to live with (“till he gets himself together”) they were seperated for 7 yrs. So I get them on death benefits then he decides he wants them back (3 months later I get them again this time I go to S.S. office and get checks sent to me.) I have 3 of my own 1 with ADHD and 1 nephew from husbands brother. Now my brother’s son also has ADHD but is more aggressive. So my nerves couln’t take all 7 kids so they went to different Aunts on thier mothers side well my brother was still getting checks but has not had kids for 5 months now the kids are getting them and brother is having fits.Now he was in jail 1 month ago for PI, I usually get him out (happens alot,PI or DWI) but this time I said no!Then he messed with our dad (used him for money) He is under investigation with SS. I have no brother anymore. Its all about him. Am I right or wrong?

I’m in a marriage I definitely want to end. We have one son and he is 18 yrs. old. I know that a divorce can be a bit pricey and if you knew my wife she wants everything especially the house. One of the main raesons we’re splitting is because of her (bitching and ) alcoholism. Right now I’m not in a financial position to pay a lawyer but I still don’t want to be around her either. I have thought of getting my own little place until I get it all together. What course should I take and is separation a good idea? Thanks guys.

Don’t get me wrong. I don’t hate my soon to be ex. wife. i realized she was a narcissist. she was wounded as a child by her mother. however her mother still has control over her. she’s a child in an adult body. we married and blended familes. she had a daughter and i had two kids. i knew the pain for the kids and us about not working out. she obviously didn’t. she was engaged twice before me and her daughter went through multiple fathers. she told me you’re the only father she will ever know. then she left. she’s a narcissist. i stood up to her crap. she wasn’t strong enough to move away from her narcissistic mother. now her daughter is paying the price as well as my 2 kids. she’s been doing this for 10 years and everybody cleans up her messes so she just moves on. her mother is so narcissistic she wanted the marriage to fail. they say the best way to make a narcissist realize and grow is to expose them. outside she projected the perfect woman. she had DWI’s, abortions, and broken relationships that nobody questioned. It was oh you pick the wrong guys. Wrong! I finally exposed her to her parents. The ones she was afraid of. All the stuff they didn’t know only the poison she told everybody to get sympathy. Now she’s stalking me every morning. I’m the parent she never had and she’s mad as hel@. They say punish the little kid in them then love them for it because they never had that when they were a kid. I’ve had no contact with her for 3 weeks though after she left. What should I do considering she’s a narcissist? If you don’t know about narcissists, don’t answer. You wouldn’t understand what they need or what you need to do so they can experience true love. They never had it and it’s foreign to them. I don’t want to destroy her but just her false self so she can love. How to do that? I really need answers from the therapists trained in this.

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I have relasped and have been using heroin for a few months and hiding it from my family. i am what they call a functional addict.(not 4 long)i am a house wife who takes care of two boys.i was in a methadone treatment for two years and dont wish to go that route again cant go to rehab or go cold turkey must take care of my children and have no help i know it will not be easy but i would like to overcome my addiction. For the sake of myself and my two children before i fall any further down the dark hole. I know i should have thought about this before i started but we are way past the shoulda woulda couldas. My life my marriage, and my boys are at stake and i’m fully commited to sobrety. I just dont no were to begin.
thanks for any advice

My wife has overdosed and abused prescription medication multiple times. Our 14 month old baby boy isn’t safe at home with her. How do I protect him legally from her???