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I like to drink whenever I can. My wife says that I probably have a drinking problem. It’s kind of depressing I must say. So in order to deal with this depression I have been trying to drink lots of booze. So far it is working alright. My wife is definitely a lot happier that’s for sure. But occasionally the alcohol wears off so I’m wondering exactly how much should I drink to get over this depression while still somewhat functioning?

He has some friends who are totally useless, they call him out to drink! there is nothingelse they call him for. I dont like them. they are not even to his standard.
I have tried telling 2 of his friends about what happens when he come home from drinking, they told me- dont worry we wont call him out anymore which lasted for 1 week only and after that they keep calling him out.
I just dont understand why he has to go out and drink with his friends. I have tried to stop him by blackmailing him to choose which he wants.. his wife or alcohol.. but still after few days he is back to drinking.
Can someone tell me some trick that i can use on him.

My friend is having a birthday party and inviting many guests. It is a surprise party being held by his wife. The birthday boy occasionally drinks alcohol. There will be 2 relatives attending the party that are anti-alcohol, so his wife is asking that it be a “dry” party. What do you think about this? Do you think the party should be “dry” because two people disagree with this behavior?

Typically I will have to drink a 6-pack or so for my voice to be deep the following morning. It usually remains deep at least until lunch time or so the following day. Although typically soft-spoken, some say I sound like Barry White. Anyway to keep that deep voice? My wife likes it!

If so, how much will he let you drink at one time?

I drink just a little bit. I am a social, light weight drinker. Not a heavy weight. Just enough to make it merrier.
What kinds of drinks???? Maragaritas, wines, beers, etc.
For right now, I drink bud light or Miller lite or Natural light in a glass with ice cubes. Thanks guys

Just curious. I know if I’m with my ‘wife’ and I’m 21 and she’s 19-20 she’d probably be offended if I refused to buy her alcohol or something.

I just want to know could you get charged / put in jail if you somehow got caught.
Pennsylvania

I’m originally from asia but currently live in the US and met the love of my life. I swear this girl and I were made for each other and have so much love for each other. We both want to get married but…I would like to raise my kids to be non drinkers (and she agreed to that but i expect her to not drink, at least at home or in front of them) and would like the possibility of either moving overseas or possibly even to another state, but she is completely refusing to even entertain the ideas. Will I ever move? I don’t really know, i just want to know that she would be ok with it.

All i really want to do is know that my future wife or wife when she is is willing to do whatever it takes and is willing to do anything for her husband and family, is that too much to ask? I must point that she is very close to her family, as i am close to mine but that is a big reason why she would not want to move, naturally.

Any and all thoughts are most welcome, thanks in advance.

its a coach bag, but i need to get it tomorrow afternoon cause thats when my discount expires, but we both have off and i dont want her to see it yet. should i make her drink camemol tea? or put something on her drink? help!

My wife and I are trying to get pregnant and I was wondering if having a few drinks one night before we conceived would hurt the baby?

If my wife drinks anything she falls asleep within an hour witch is not like her. She used to be able to drink me under the table.

My friend live near by our house and I called my friend. they went over to my house and my wife told them she have taken 12 percocet. I never went to the hospital because of depression. Should i take her to mental hospital or just local hospital ER. Will she be at risk?

I posted the question

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I am sorry i am keep asking about her depression problem. I really need someones advice.
and how long are they going to keep her in the hospital?

I mean she just took one and we continue to drink.

Afterall, we’re not talking about an abortion here, this is HIS child as well and he should restrict her from drinking alcohol…(i’m not talking about a small glass of wine once in a blue moon).
You opinions…should he or shouldn’t he be able to stop her. I would. For the sake of my child I definitely would…I would even have her hospitalized until she delivers the baby.
good answer sam..
good answers everyone..

If your loved one is suffering from alcoholism, you may feel like you are alone, like your loved one is a completely different person when they’re drinking, and your relationship has been strained so much it might break if they don’t seek help.  Getting help for your loved one may seem difficult, but you don’t have to do it alone.

One way to get your loved one to get help is to coordinate with your family and friends so they are aware of the problem if they aren’t already and so they can help you and your loved one.  Your friends and family can help you by providing someone to talk to when you don’t know what to do, or they can talk to your loved either one on one or by having an intervention.  While it may be difficult to talk about your loved one’s alcohol problem, having the support of friends and family can make a big difference.

While your friends and family will pay a roll in getting help for your loved one, your loved one is going to need professional help to deal with his or her alcoholism.  Your loved one is going to need counseling, behavioral therapy and other help they can only get through an Alcohol Rehabilitation center.  It may be scary to have your loved one enroll in an inpatient or residential program, but it is the best way to deal with alcoholism.  Inpatient and residential programs will take your loved one into a controlled environment where they can deal with their alcoholism head on without having to worry about the stress and triggers for their behavior life throws at them.  Another reason why inpatient and residential programs are so successful is that they remove alcoholics from places where they will have access to alcohol and give them the coping skills they need to avoid alcohol before it becomes a temptation to them.

Your loved one may fight you and resent that you want them to seek treatment, but it is important to remember that it is only their denial talking.  Once your loved one goes through treatment successfully, they will realize that you only want what is best for them and they will appreciate the new lease on life that you have helped them receive.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR :-

Nathan Humpherys lives in Arizona with his wife and is a strong advocate for Alcohol Rehabs and believes that an Alcohol Rehab Center is the best way for an alcoholic to kick destructive habits.

I’m not married yet, but when I get married my wife will not be 21 yet and I will be. My question is, will it be legal for her to drink alcohol at our house?

I have been happily married for years and I have no complaints with the exception of one;
My wife uses prescription drugs at a level which is beyond safe.

She uses them in the morning. She uses them in the evening.

I am very scared. Her Dr. told me that it is a safe level, but she has two doctors who do not know about each other and each prescribes the same medication.

I am at my wits end. I do not want her to get into trouble with the authorities but I do not want her problem to get worse.

WHAT SHOULD I DO???????