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My life story goes, since the age of 13, people have been bashing me for my religion. I was really strong in it my Sophomore year of High School, until some Freshman came up and said, “You believe in this, you believe in that, you this, you that, I heard this from our preacher that…” But they’ve never asked an LDS person what they believe, they’ve never actually done any searching. When it comes to me, I ask, I don’t bash.

But, ask any LDS (Mormon) what they believe. Why do people say, “no, you don’t” directly after, even from the SOURCE?

Ask if they are Christian. They will ALL say “yes.”

Do they believe in Jesus and God? They will ALL say “yes.”

What is the most thing that they can say that they believe that they are all seperate? Well, they all have individual names, don’t they? Your friend over there and you are not ‘one,’ you are seperate beings, and have seperate names. But besides the point, they act as one. Like a parental unit of husband and wife [an example.]; they work together.

Ask them about Joseph Smith. They do NOT see him as a god. they see him as the one who started our church back up, after seeking the many faiths within the town, after nealing down in a pasture he prayed and asked which one of the faiths were true. Then, with a pillar of light, God and Jesus appeared as seperate beings before him. I forgot who said what, But one of them said, “None of them are true.” Thus, they told Joseph Smith to restore the fullness of the gospel back to earth; because God took it away once because the world was so wicked.

Ask any LDS person about marriage. They believe in being married forever and for all eternity, while the rest of the world believes that it’s death-do-you part; tell me now. Who wants to depart their spouse when they die and be as angels in Heaven? Not me. And have your kids NOT be your kids in heaven if they were not sealed [like a bondance] to you? LDS believes that a family is forever. The sacred temple is the only place to do that; it’s very beautiful place, and each one is dedicated as his house. And yes, there are many. My favorite one is the Salt Lake Temple. Nothing bad happens in the temple. NOTHING. Everything is all about the work for God, just like a church. Whatever rumors you have heard, nothing bad happens here.

The Book of Mormon is another testiment of Jesus Christ. Who says that the profits have to stop by the end of the Bible? People continue to live onward, and the belief of Christ can be written for more generations to come.

LDS/Mormons have standards that stay true to themselves and others. No smoking, no drugs, no sex before marriage, (have all you want after marriage), all due because emotionally it can ruin a person, as well as smoking and drugs can ruin you physically, and your body is a gift from God, and if you insult your body, then you insult God. Makeup is fine to wear, just no tatoos (you might regret it all later…who wouldn’t regret your 5th ex boyfriend on your arm and 3 more later you get married to…not him?)

Any Christian is someone who is a believer and follows Christ.

Those missionaries that come to your door, are on a mission for two years serving the LORD, dedicating 2 years with no TV, nothing to distract them such as the everyday use of computers, and studying their scripture, ready to preach the fullness of the Gospel. With another book, why not hear the rest of the doctrine that has been revealed to us? Every missionary is sent from a different location. Some locally can be sent to Japan or Italy, and not even know the language but they have to learn once they get there. Those can be very hard times. Every one of them has a fullness in heart and are just doing their duty, and they are not trying to annoy you when they knock on their door. Think of them as a messenger from God. Look at their kind hearts, and one day, accept them into your house, and listen to their great message.

Many do not accept because they do not understand; nor want to understand. But the LDS faith is so much deeper than what is said above. Many do not accept the beliefs, but if anyone feels that they are missing out on something in their life, someone, please go look into it.

I’ve been torn down many times. It takes a whole entire person’s life to learn about the fullness of the gospel, even I don’t know everything. I’m just a graduate of High School, holding onto what I know is true, even if my testimony is smaller than what it was when I first entered High School.

Why believe me, you may ask?
Because I AM LDS. I am Mormon. Only the Mormons know about their faith more than any non member.

We are not a bad religion, although many people fall away and create lies because they want to go against it if they’ve failed the church.

We are simply referred as ‘Christians on Steryoids’ because we expou
…expound deeper into more knowledge that is given to us. Don’t believe me?

Go see for yourself…
I wanna find my man and know he is with me forever. (So tired of guys all cheating on me because I don’t give out.) I’m 18. Ready to seek the world. Holding onto that iron rod I am, even if I don’t know everything.

Does any of this make more sense?
I say what we believe and yet other faiths trash it. If you don’t like it, DON’T POST! I don’t need to know your opinions, they are opinions. If you don’t like us, a person of God does not harden their hearts.
Wiki is the website which every school tries to avoid to add in your presentations and assignments. Only our books in our classes are what we learn from, not little webpages; our stuff has been long around since Wikipedia my friend.
***I am a standing member. You don’t need to have the perfect knowledge of things to go and follow Christ. It’s not brain wash if it is by choice.

My divorced sister-in-law started dating a guy who just happened to have dated my wife about 10 years ago. It was a pretty rough relationship he had with my wife. He got into drugs and my wife tried getting him out of his situation. They broke up and years later her sister wanted to date him. My wife, now disgusted with him, warned her about him but she didn’t listen and dated him anyway. They started and stopped about 3 times based on arguments, him cheating on her and finally him going to jail after beating her. She also claimed in her police report that he had nonconsensual sex with her but he was not charged for that. He served his time and low and behold less than a year later they got back together and are now engaged. She claims (as she did before) that he’s changed and is in counseling and took anger management classess…woopty doo. The family is against this relationship especially for the sake of her kids (from previous marriage…forgot to mention that). They are 8 and 9 years old. This gets more awkward every minute of the day. Her sisters, mom, dad and everyone have discussed their displeasure of the relationship with her but she just says “you guys don’t know him.” She says we have to forgive him and we say fine, whatever he is forgiven but needs to move on. I can’t believe he even would want to stay in this relationship with everyone hating him so much. Why not just move on himself? He thinks he is Romeo and can just buy things, remodel her kitchen, be a playmate/attempted father figure to her kids and everything will be alright (fyi…her ex-husband/kids father is still around and has the kids every other weekend or so. they didn’t get along but he never beat her). What else is left to do? It doesn’t seem like she will ever listen. We are becoming the “bad guys” when we all know who the real “bad guy” is.

Registered Sex Offender I have read his case. He was charged with statutory rape when he would NOT give up his parental rights. The victim of the age of 15 was his legal wife with her mothers consent. My children are not his children their fathers don’t do anything for them. this man has served 8 years in prison and no one can give that back to him. When people hear that he has to register the first thought is he is a molester. They print the charge but not the report of how the case was built. My daughter father has drug and gun charges but after he serves his time no one else has to know. What about Killers that kill kids they do not have to register if they do their time. The Law is now getting to be so confusing.

He’s not a bad person although he’s in jail for having drug’s in his car at a traffic stop, however he comes from a good loving family and he realized that he’s made past mistakes and while he’s been in jail he’s learned a trade to better himself. He’s really turned his life around. So should I trust him or not, should I take the chance in becoming his wife??

After 15 years of marriage, she has gone off the wall and seems to be not living in reality. She wants to move out away from me and our two sons and live on her own. She appears to be tormented by things she did in her past, but she does not want to discuss. She has had an online relationship with a divorced father of 4 who lives 3000 miles away, and she really likes him. Within the last two weeks she got a cell phone behind my back so she could talk to this guy whenever she wanted. She does not want counseling, doesn’t want to work on the marriage, yet doesn’t want a divorce. She has no intention to move closer to this man, nor he closer to her. She also listens to heavy grundge music, wants to get a tatoo, and wants nothing to do with her family and friends. She says she knows what she is doing is wrong, but it “feels too good to stop”. I believe Paxil is to blame. Anyone with experience with this drug with advice is welcome to respond!

I know it’s not that great but I tried.
Eddie Guerrero was born on October 3,1967 in El Paso, Texas. He was born into the Guerrero family which was Mexico’s first family of professional wrestlers. His father was Gory Guerrero, a Mexican wrestling legend. Because of that, at an early age many people thought that he was going to grow up a wrestler. Before Eddie turned twenty, he was wrestling in Mexico under small promotions. His true talent was clearly shown and better opportunities were soon to follow. Soon, a new promotion, World Championship Wrestling, (WCW) was looking for impressive talent and Eddie seemed to be exactly what they were looking for. Eddie never got to shine and let the world know what he was about because of backstage feuds and racism. Other things in personal life started to go downhill. He was really depressed about his life so he tried to wipe away all the trouble in his life with alcohol, drugs, and painkillers. It clearly didn’t work and he was on a downward spiral. Some of his friends like Chris Benoit were tired of the way they were being treated so they thought the best thing to do was to leave WCW. Eddie signed with World Wrestling Federation (WWF) which was the big leagues. In his debut match against “The New Age Outlaws” he tried to perform his signature move but injured his elbow in the process. When he came back he teamed with Chyna and because the “Latino Heat” character that really made him famous. He continued to “Wow” wrestling fans al over the world but on a personal level Guerrero was slowly hurting himself. Every night was another party, more alcohol, and more pills. His family really wanted to help him but he didn’t want to face the fact that he wasn’t okay. He even spent four months in rehab. That still couldn’t change his addictions. He even lost his job with the WWE because of a DUI arrest. Finally, after all the troubles in his family he thought there was only one way to solve this, and that was to end his life. He took more pills, drank more alcohol and got into his car. His plan was to make his wife feel bad for him by getting in a car accident. If he survived the night, that was fine. If he didn’t, oh well. That night he got into a really serious car accident. His wife thought it was a miracle that he didn’t get killed. While he was lying in his hospital bed his kids were brought into the room. When he saw his kids cry he knew he had to do something. He started going back to church with his wife, Vickie. Part of that was just a way to try and save his marriage. He realized that what he really needed in his life was God. He says that he used the bible to “Help him find peace and kick his addictions.” Because he got clean WWE offered him a second chance. He graciously took it and new that this is what he was meant to do. He teamed up with his nephew Chavo Guerrero and formed the tag team “Los Guerreros”. They became WWE tag team champions. In single wrestling he also won the WWE Championship. He said that that is one of the greatest moments of his career. Sadly Eddie Guerrero died in November 2005, due to heart complications caused by his former addictions and former steroid use.
Also what do you think would be a good title for a Chris Benoit book. My dad said Killing Children,Stealing Steriods:The Chris Benoit Story. It’s kinda funny but at the same time really messed up.

I can’t stop thinking aboutngetting married. Sometimes, when I’m alone in my room, I get lost in my thoughts, twirling the air in my arms screaming, “I’m so glad you’ll marry me!” or standing by the bed, acting as if my “wife” is giving birth and “supporting” “her.” then I pick up the air like a baby, twirl it, and I can’t stop smiling and laughing and feeling so good inside. I csnt sleep in the middle of the bed, I always move aside as if to leave someone else room. And I can allays imagine myself with 4-5 children. I am NOT crazy, I am completely sane (my lowest grade right now is a 97%, I’m perfectly smart and sane) and I don’t do this in public, only in private. But I don’t know why

I am a 17-year-old male, virgin, never had drugs, never drank, and I have a girlfriend who I dream of marrying in about 6-10 years, and yet when I imagine my “wife” it’s never her. Why do I do this? I can tell you I’m not crazy because no one knows about it and they don’t suspect anything.

First off, I have (unfortunally) lived in small, rural close-minded towns in the South, so I know what republicans do behind closed doors, as I have many relatives who are Republicans. (I now live in Austin Texas and have an openly gay man as my state rep, believe it or not)
Also, there is a huge difference in what those under 30 (like me) believe, and those older than 50 think. It is cool and hip for whites and blacks to intermarry, and men kissing each other all the time is something we do not even notice it is so prevalient here at UT. There is a huge support of gay marriage among my crowd, who voted over 7 in 10 for Obama, and we still would today if he were running, despite your narratives.
The all of a sudden embrace of MLK is the most laughable, considering just last year it was “MLK the commie wife beatin white wimmin lovin n—–”. What is even more laughable is Glenn Beck, who is a drug-addicted alcoholic Mormon, that organization DID NOT ALLOW BLACKS at all until like 30 years ago.
People, especially those in the South (yes that is where most of the lynchings and Jim Crow laws were) and over the age of 60 need to get over it, let their hate and prejudice go, and accept that things are changing in this nation, we are becoming much more minority, and that gay marriage will be legal very, very soon, as it is in 5 states plus DC.
In summary, I believe the old, white majority needs to stop romanticizing about how “wonderful” things were before the 1960′s, and get with it, regardless or not, if you hate gays, they will be allowed marriage, and you will be left out in the cold again, like you were when blacks were allowed to vote in the 1960′s without fear of being lynched.
Having listened to such bigotry makes me want to fight these people even harder than I would have otherwised, and I am so glad that most in my generation are different than the old guard.
Also, do not state the Bible in your answers, as it has been proven long ago there is no such thing as beliefs in fairy tales. Christianity I believe is the biggest fraud of the past several centuries.
I knew Right Wingers could not read, all they can do is reguritate Glenn Beck’s psychobabble.
CACTUS — ??? Don’t bore me with mentions of your damn bible. You Christians are the WORST people of the Earth!
Bitter old white men clinging onto their religion, Obama was right again.

Ok, so my wife’s husband is a complete scumbag. He has beat her and at one point put a cigarette out on her nose. However, she won’t leave him. He has her hooked with meth and drugs. I feel sorry for their 1 year old son most of all!!! However, I have learned that he may be in the country illegally. However, he is now married to her and she is a citizen. Also, it appears he is working under a false name. Its possible this is due to him having a warrant possibly?

Just wondering if there is a way me and my wife can make this guy dissapear so her sister can get the help and recovery she needs. Because it ain’t gonna happen with this guy around.
Ahh oops that is a typo. What I meant to say was my wife’s sisters husband. Not myself. Sorry, upset about this whole situation. We might have to try and get custody of the child is my wifes sister does not quit the meth and this guy doesn’t stop beating her.

I’m a 6’6″ white male. I’m actually sick to my stomach while reading all of the mean, one-sided, s****y comments regarding “the other side”, instead of being men, bridging the gap, and working things out.

Each and every one of you works with members of a different nationality or color or sex or religion, and you almost certainly have a mutual respect, probably friendship with those people. When you say you hate all the “whoever”, in your head you say “Except Dave, he’s a good guy, and Mike, he ain’t bad either, etc.”

Try to realize that when you look at a couple of black kids holding up your “busy” schedule by blocking you while they’re trying to get out of the street safely, your eyes say the n-word. When you do that, you look like someone that likes to kick babies. People everywhere make all kinds of jokes about you, but you don’t hear them bc you’re not one of the cool kids. I draw a blank when I try to imagine what it’s like to look at another person that way. I’ve never made eye contact with anyone with anything less than mutual respect, and I grew up in inner-city Baltimore. Grow up a little bit.

People tend to treat you the way you treat them. Putting anyone in a “box” makes them resentful and angry. I’m automatically put in the box you made for me with years of comments under your breath. It sucks. The burden is on me to prove myself racially unaware. Thankfully, God has made me a very fair person. (Yes, I was raised Catholic, but I don’t believe in shoving Him down others throats)

Pull your head out of your rear and take a look around you. We have two wars currently going on in places so far away we have two totally different fashion scenes. There is somewhere between 0 – 50% unemployment, depending on who you ask. Our advanced, “future” technology is focused on making walkmans that can talk to you, and maybe jerk you off. Our sky’s are nasty and there’s trash in every stream, river, lake or ocean you’ve ever been to. The future plans of the auto industry include selling us more trucks we can’t afford to get to jobs we don’t have. We’re still smoking cigarettes, still getting drunk, still lusting after women other than our wives. Most businesses are still trying to make a profit so they can “get theirs” before there’s none left, instead of dipping into profits a little and providing some much needed relief to all of us. You run all the little guys out of business, it’s ignorant.

I’m non-political, so I hope Obama does good for our country for the good of my children and the world they have to live in. My facts may be incorrect, but the gist is we all gotta get it together, and quick, and help each other get out of this mess or there won’t be much left to fight over. When you see someone hurt, you help ‘em up. We’re all hurtin’ right now, and we need to help each other up.

We can do such beautiful things when we want to. If you need proof as to what humans are capable of, we have r/c cars on another planet, and we kicked the man in the moon in face. We’ve seen an actual atom in a microscope. Unfortunately, we’ve also wiped thousands of species off the face of the Earth, become hooked on weed/cocaine/heroin/pills/alcohol/cigs/porn/money/power/fame, and treated our friends/family/neighbors so bad it’s a wonder we have any at all. We’ve turned humanity’s birthright into a seething cesspool chock full of sharks more fearsome than nature could’ve ever imagined.

Finally, if for some reason you don’t agree with me, take some time, seriously, and think about what you want to leave your kids. It really is time to grow up as a species and take care of what we’ve got, because Honda isn’t making planets, yet.
So because you think the election was a sham, it’s better to sit on your a** and cry like a 2 year old? Well, I’ve got news for you. I’ve got kids to build a future for, Thozz, and if you’re not willing to put aside petty differences, get the eff outta my way!! I’m MUCH bigger than you are, lol!
BTW, I didn’t vote Obama :) (when you assume, it makes an “a**” out of “u” and “me”)

I used the 1st verse from one of my questions I asked early. Rate it and tell me what you think its about.
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Mentally unstable governments fall apart
Certainly not able stubborn politicians
Trying to sweet talk us into war like a girl
Trying to sweet talk me into her little world
Does the damn government remember the great man
The great freedom fighter who was left on a cross
Nails in his hands he died for our debaucheries
Why do we just keep sinning that’s all I damn see
Did he die just in vain? Did we enjoy his pain?
Did you ever think that rain is God sad crying
Cuz he reluctantly knows we’re going to hell
Kids going to jail for a bite they had to steal
For the bare necessities we sin to survive
Survive to sin today I get negative vibes
I will sin I know it today it’s part of life
It’s live or die and still suffer eternal strife

[Hook]
The world today is pretty fucked up
Everything to me is like Kryptonite
Cuz last night I got into combat
With my fist even though I live above that
I usually do lyrical combat on a mic’
I don’t care I say what I like
So let me say this now

Guns, drugs, death, disease the whole world is on it’s knees
The day we all die is here we’re gonna have peace
Judgment day is on the horizon do not run
I’m no prophet but these are the visions I get
I’m not religious but this is real shit today
Kids running away from parents that abuse them
Then they find pot, and heroin and start to use them
Needles break in there skin look at the world we’re in
STDs, disease, viruses are all in us
Spreading from one to thousands in every human
Underage pregnancies leading to abortions
Every damn women today can be a whore man
I don’t care what you say what you do it’s damn true
We are all animals with the basic instincts
To just damn feed, mate, kill and finally repeat
Humanity is gone since we lost our sanity

[Hook]
The world today is pretty fucked up
Everything to me is like Kryptonite
Cuz last night I got into combat
With my fist even though I live above that
I usually do lyrical combat on a mic’
I don’t care I say what I like
So let me say this now

I’ve seen things in front of me they’re hard to believe
Murders saying abra-cadaver when they stabbed her
Only questions no answers after they found her
Ashes to ashes bastard and bastards everywhere
How many wars will finally quench your thirst for blood?
Father like son that’s what they say maybe it’s true
I really don’t know but it is for you
He wanted a war then you made it more and more
You attention whore “Daddy Daddy look at me!
“I made this war you wanted no matter what the cost”
“Look at it now daddy I made it a holocaust”
You dictator your no leader we damn hate you
You’re just like Adolf Hitler, or a wife beater
I’m delighted your rain is almost over
I’m gonna have to go with Barack on this one
Because he will be way better when your gone
Thanx man I’m gonna record this in the next two months. And to me nothing is too lyrical. I want to be considered one of the best lyricist ever when I get older. So to me it’s not lyrical enough…..Lol
Hey dude I didn’t ask for your opinion on the subject. I just wanted to know if you got the meaning. And I say Bush is like Hitler cuz both attacked people that are different than them. Both started a war. Both were stupid leaders.

Before I met my wife,I had gotten someone else pregnant.she was a world of trouble come to find out.well my wife and i have been married over 3 yrs.we finaly got my daughter from her mother.she was bad on drugs and kept leavingmy daughter.well i haven’t gotten her before because my wife and i ,well i guess hate each others guts.i work and pay all the bills,and she constantly tell s me how worthless i am.she badgers me to her best friend all the time.I just cant take it anymore.But now I have this other daughter that is mine and don’t want her raising.We have had a son together, hes 2 yrs.hes my life.It kills me.I work out of town and when I get home I have to get a hotel to get rest.She has made me want to hurt her but i leave.She calls me a coward.I would rather leave than the kids hear or see bad things.I have never hurt her, verbaly maybe,but not physicaly.I just need help on what to do.Quit and change jobs might be my only answer.I have to raise my daughter.

Edinburgh, Feb 3, 2009 / 06:36 am (CNA).- Two British grandparents aged 59 and 46 have been told that they are too old and unfit to care for their grandchildren, who are to be placed with an adoptive homosexual couple.

The children had been in their grandparents’ care during their mother’s struggles with heroin. After their mother failed to bring them home from a visit, social workers became involved and the police were called in.

The children, a five-year-old boy called “Josh” and his four-year-old sister “Chloe,” were placed in foster care, an arrangement the grandparents believed to be temporary.

The local adoption and foster council went to court four times to have the children permanently removed and adopted, but each time the court ruled in favor of the grandparents.

According to The People, the council threatened to hire expensive lawyers, causing the grandparents to abandon their legal fight because of the potential legal fees and because of their fear the court hearings would prevent the grandchildren from having a settled home.

The unnamed 59-year-old grandfather, speaking in an interview with The People, said the day the social workers came to take away his and his 46-year-old wife’s grandchildren was “the worst day of my life.”

“Chloe was still little and although we were saying goodbye and reassuring her we’d see her soon, I don’t think she fully understood we wouldn’t be putting her to bed that night and we wouldn’t be there when she woke up. But Josh knew and he was howling. He was holding on to me and saying ‘Please, Granddad, don’t send me away. I want to stay with you and Grandma’.”

Two weeks ago they learned the children were to be adopted by a homosexual couple.

“”If we had known how it would turn out, that social workers would choose a home without a mother for them and we’d have to like it or not see them again, we’d never have given up the fight,” their grandmother said.

“The thing is they were so happy here. They knew they were loved and they were safe.

“They had all this countryside to play in. They loved going on the farm with their granddad. They’d see deer and badgers and all sorts out there.”

The children are now with a foster mother while they are gradually introduced to the homosexual couple.

The grandparents claim that social workers told them their access to the children would be restricted if they opposed the homosexual adoption, according to The People. Last week the grandparents were told they would never see their grandchildren again because they had made public the fact that the children were taken from them and to be adopted by two homosexual men.

According to the Telegraph, the case is believed to be the second time that a homosexual couple has been chosen to adopt in Edinburgh.

Peter Kearney, a spokesman for the Roman Catholic Church in Scotland, criticized the adoption, saying:

“This is a devastating decision which will have a serious impact on the welfare of the children involved.

“There is an overwhelming body of evidence showing that same-sex relationships are inherently unstable and reduce the life expectancy of those involved.

“With this in mind, the social work department has deliberately ignored evidence which undermines their decision and opted for politically correct posturing rather than providing stability and protection.

“It is impossible to see how this decision is in the best interests of the children,” Kearney remarked, according to The Scotsman.

The court that ruled this way is unfit to be called a “court”

Do you feel that when your spouse hurt you very bad, that karma willl strike them sooner or later? If so, please give details!
This is a true life story. There was this interracial couple. The husband was caucasion and the wife is filipino. The husband was extremely handsome and was highly educated and had a great job. The wife is a nurse. They have two kids. The wife worked hard to support her family and she was faithful, loving and caring wife. The husband made good money but she never saw any of it so she didn’t know where the money was going. For years, he had been hiding the money to buy drugs. He even had an affair with his wife’s friend who was also a nurse. After they divorced, the man led a miserable life of doing drugs and sleeping around. The woman had to support her 2 kids by begging for money from her relatives because her salary wasn’t enough because she had lot of expenses to pay because her ex husband wasn’t giving any child support or spouse alimony. Years later, the husband got cancer and was hospitalized he became severely emaciated- his good looks were gone. None of his relatives took care of him, they only visited. The ex-wife found out he was in the hospital where she worked and she visited him. He broke down and begged for her forgiveness for hurting her all those years. This woman with the heart of gold, took her ex-husband in and let her stay in her house and took care of him until he died.

My wife and I have been separated for 3 months and about a couple of weeks ago we started going to marriage counseling. So far the counseling has been useful, but how much longer should we go until we decide to work things with our marriage or to go on with the divorce. We have been together for 8yrs and married for 1 year. No infidelity ,physical abuse, or drug use. Just BAD communication between us.

My wife was the one that wants the divorce because she was “fed up”. Even though she thinks that divorce is the best out, she starting to see that going to MC might not be too bad. Again nothing is guaranteed, it seems like she is giving a shot to work on our marriage.

I dont want us to go to counseling for the next 3 -6 months and at the end, we still going to divorce.

She is 18 years old and we just found out she has been addicted to heroin for 4 years!!! My mom and dad are not doing anything to help her. my sis says she is clean, but my mom says she is lying. if i agree with my sis then my mom wont talk to me and if i agree with my mom my sis wont talk to me. shes been to rehab 2x and shes still not better. she also got her boyfriend addicted and now feels sorry for him so she wont break up with him. i dont know what to do. im a mother and a wife with an extremely busy life and cant devote myself to getting her better. she is a really good person and i fear the worst. she listens when i talk to her but then nothing changes. my mom has just cut her off completely and i dont think that she is handeling it good at all. anyone have any serious advice please answer.
she lives 2 hrs away from me with her heroin addicted boyfriend! i have no control over her. i cant afford to drive back and forth to see her.

me and my wife been together for about 5 years and we have a one year old son well we haven’t really gotten along well for a long time ..we have our moments like usual but my wife has lied to me about doing drugs in the past,lying about guy friends on the phone,she hits me and not affectionate,lazy, i have to work all the time bc she cant work full time shes to lazy to find a real job..I really want to get out of this relationship bc I want to finish school and find someone better well couple days ago this girl emailed me on face book we have been talk in and text in and i told her that i was single and had a baby and tryin to go through a divorce but I dont know what I should do is like i need a fresh start but then again what about my son i dont want another guy rasing him or something..
but my question is should i tell this new girl that wants to hang out and see if we click to date tell her that I am married and i am goin through a divorce or what should I do please help ?

Now let me tell you first off I am NOT a scientologist, I am a Neo-Pagan and a consumer/psychiatric survivor who would really like to share her story and the abuses psychiatry has preformed on men and women throughout the years. It is a means of social control, and the death of many who look to it for help and healing.

Did you know that being gay was a mental illness up until 1973 when psychiatrists “voted” to have it taken out of the DSM-V?

Did you know that many people are being forcibly drugged and electro-shocked against their wills for their beliefs?

Did you know that being african american and a slave who ran away from inhumane conditions was coined as a psychiatric disease called drapetomania. Meaning runaway (slave) madness. This was coined by Samuel A. Cartwright in 1851.

All of you could be labeled as metally ill if you went into a psychiartist’s office today, there are so many illnesses every person who steps into a psychiatists office can be pinned down with a label within 10 minutes of conversation.

My story is pretty much I am a Neo-Pagan ad I believe my rights were heavily ignored when I made a visit to the hospital for issues of abuse. ( my father had sexually abused me and I wanted to deal with it ) well, the psychiatrist pretty much told me outright that I was had a thought disorder and it never happened. Isn’t this outrageous?

They went through the standard questions, and asked if I believe in psychic powers, I replied with no, but I do believe everyone has a certain intuition or sixth sense.

They asked me if I believe I can display telepathy, again my answer was no, but I did explain I believe when two people get close enough to eachother they can pick up on eachothers thoughts, such as twins do.

So naturally they wrote down that I believe I am psychic and that I believe I can send telepathic thoughts.

I was committed, and still am to this day, and am being forced to take anti-psychotics.

There are many a book out there on how to increase your psychic development.
And there are plenty of studies on the possibility of telepathy.

I told them I was interested in parapsychology and ghost hunting as well.

And they wrote down the patient believes she has a “ghost recorder”, yes, I was trying to capture EVP’s and had caught some really good ones. These people do not watch ghost adventures I’m geussing.

What do you think? Do you think I’m nuts, or do you think my rights and beliefs have been violated?

I really think it’s messed up because there was a guy who overdosed on heroin and threw himself down a flight of stairs, was in a full body cast, and they didn’t commit him, just sent him home.
There was another guy who slit his own neck over his ex wife, they sent him home too.

But I have alternative beliefs, so I’m the one who needs anti-psychotics?

What do you guys think of psychiatry?

http://www.mindfreedom.org/

http://www.stopshrinks.org/

http://www.antipsychiatry.org/

http://www.cchr.org/#/home

The World Today
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Mentally unstable governments fall apart
Certainly not able stubborn politicians
Trying to sweet talk us into war like a girl
Trying to sweet talk me into her little world
Does the damn government remember the great man
The great freedom fighter who was left on a cross
Nails in his hands he died for our debaucheries
Why do we just keep sinning that’s all I damn see
Did he die just in vain? Did we enjoy his pain?
Did you ever think that rain is God sad crying
Cuz he reluctantly knows we’re going to hell
Kids going to jail for a bite they had to steal
For the bare necessities we sin to survive
Survive to sin today I get negative vibes
I will sin I know it today it’s part of life
It’s live or die and still suffer eternal strife

[Hook]
The world today is pretty fucked up
Everything to me is like Kryptonite
Cuz last night I got into combat
With my fist even though I live above that
I usually do lyrical combat on a mic’
I don’t care I say what I like
So let me say this now

Guns, drugs, death, disease the whole world is on it’s knees
The day we all die is here we’re gonna have peace
Judgment day is on the horizon do not run
I’m no prophet but these are the visions I get
I’m not religious but this is real shit today
Kids running away from parents that abuse them
Then they find pot, and heroin and start to use them
Needles break in there skin look at the world we’re in
STDs, disease, viruses are all in us
Spreading from one to thousands in every human
Underage pregnancies leading to abortions
Every damn women today can be a whore man
I don’t care what you say what you do it’s damn true
We are all animals with the basic instincts
To just damn feed, mate, kill and finally repeat
Humanity is gone since we lost our sanity

[Hook]
The world today is pretty fucked up
Everything to me is like Kryptonite
Cuz last night I got into combat
With my fist even though I live above that
I usually do lyrical combat on a mic’
I don’t care I say what I like
So let me say this now

I’ve seen things in front of me they’re hard to believe
Murders saying abra-cadaver when they stabbed her
Only questions no answers after they found her
Ashes to ashes bastard and bastards everywhere
How many wars will finally quench your thirst for blood?
Father like son that’s what they say maybe it’s true
I really don’t know but it is for you
He wanted a war then you made it more and more
You attention whore “Daddy Daddy look at me!
“I made this war you wanted no matter what the cost”
“Look at it now daddy I made it a holocaust”
You dictator your no leader we damn hate you
You’re just like Adolf Hitler, or a wife beater
I’m delighted your rain is almost over
I’m gonna have to go with Barack on this one
Because he will be way better when your gone
You may not want to steal these I’ve copyright them before I posted them on my copyright site. So if you do I can bring you to court and sue.
Ok man sorry I went crazy. I just don’t like people saying that stuff. Kidding or not that a subject I will go crazy about.

I’m a 48 year old black woman and for 10 years, I’ve been happily married to the greatest man I’ve ever met. My husband happens to be white. I did not go out looking for a white man. He and I met through mutual friends and I tried to resist him at first. I couldn’t imagine being with a white man, but the love bug bit me hard. And I’m happy we’re together. We also have a beautiful 8-year old biracial daughter together.

Now, my younger brother, who I love dearly, is in a relationship with a white woman. They are serious and discussing the possibility of marriage. I like the woman; it’s nothing personal but I have mixed feelings about her marrying my brother. When I married my husband, it was not a way of saying “white is right”, I married my husband because I love him. But I raised my brother, he’s 16 years younger than me. I raised him when our mother got into drugs and neglected him. Then I had a relationship with a black man and gave birth to two sons(now ages 26 and 23). My sons’ father eventually walked out on me and left me a single, struggling mother. Black women are so devalued even though we are the backbone of the black community, supporting our black men through thick and thin. I was fiercely loyal to black men for a long time; I refused to date outside my race. All of that, while I was working and finishing my education to support my sons and my brother. When my white husband came along, we married because of love, not race.

However, when it comes to white women and black men. I’m a little uneasy. My brother is successful and educated. When I think of all the beautiful black women in the world that would kill to have him, I think of myself. I’m grateful for my husband but I never planned on him being white. Like I said, my marriage was not intended to encourage my brother to marry outside his race. He doesn’t need a trophy wife. Look at our president and First Lady. BOTH of them are black. Obama didn’t need a white woman in order to “look good”. and that’s how I want my brother to think. How can I get that message across without sounding like a hypocrite? Because I do believe I make a valid point.