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Which set of policies and views are better for America and its people?

admin — Mon, 20 Jun 2011 09:02:12 +0000

*Push for stricter gun control, or ban.

*Push for the legalization of drugs like marijuana, MDMA, and psychedelics.

*Drug dealers should have more lenient penalties if they are arrested.

*It is unethical to force prisoners to work since most of them are not Caucasian it would be racial profiling and it is no better than slavery.

*The government should pay for the abortions of women making a low income.

*Open up our borders to our neighbors.

*Higher welfare checks and unemployment checks for the people who need it, the economy is still in recession.

*Make immigration easier for foreigners’ over-seas, we are all the sons and daughters of immigrants.

*Homosexuals should be given the right to marry each other and receive all the same treatment and benefits as people married to the opposite sex. People should respect the sanctity of homosexual marriage.

*The government should pay for the abortions of women receiving low income.

>Encourage gun ownership of mentally sound and law abiding citizens.

>Encourage the responsible use of drugs only if a licensed medical doctor states that you actually require them.

>Strict standards on how gang members and drug dealers should be punished by the judicial system.

>We should make room in the prisons by reestablishing “serving of the head” and public executions in combination with a quicker judicial procession.

>The guidelines for capital punishment (serving of the head in public) should be close to the following; anyone on death row, who has back to back life sentences, or who welcomes the death penalty and has life w/o the possibility of parole.

>Child molesters should also be given the chance to contribute something to society by offering themselves up for public execution.

>Respect the sacred bond of marriage between Husband and Wife. That is the man is the Husband and the woman is the wife.

>Better security on our borders and at our ports.

>The government should require men to have vasectomies if they father two illegitimate children while refusing to pay child support. Women on welfare should be forced to take a DEPO/or birth control of some kind after they give birth to a child for the second time in the welfare system, or file a religious complaint signed by the pastor/priest of their faith. The population of the world is estimated at 8 billion in 2013.

>Fight our enemies on their soil when possible, or when strategy calls for it (less US civilian casualties).

>Make ad nauseam and other methods of propaganda illegal in the media and try to correct some of our social dysfunctions to make the quality of life better for the family, and help individuals help themselves and be less dependent on the government, thus creating a stronger and more unified nation.

Do you really want to vote for McCain?

admin — Sun, 19 Jun 2011 11:01:45 +0000

First of all, I am not a supporter of the other two candidates either.
1. He is now claiming to be a Baptist instead of an Episcopalian. How conservative of him.
2. Founding member of the Keating Five.
3. He has a problem keeping his pants zipped. He acknowledges his infedelity broke up his first marriage.
4. His current wife Cindy was addicted to pain killers, and even stole hard drugs from a medical charity she worked for.
5. The man spent 5 years as a prisoner of war, comendable, but it had to have done something to his mind. He has a very short fuse and I would not want him answering the phone at anytime.

Is liberalism a social dysfunction of capitalism and consumerism in our society?

admin — Sat, 18 Jun 2011 13:02:07 +0000

I understand that capitalism is widely defended by conservatives more so than by liberals, but that is why I call it a social dysfunction and/or a latent function of the social patterns that capitalism encourages.

Can you tell which political view listed below makes more sense given the alternative?

1)
*Push for stricter gun control, or ban.

*Push for the legalization of drugs like marijuana, MDMA, and psychedelics. Glorify irresponsible drug use in every media outlet possible, just not drug abuse.

*Drug dealers should have more lenient penalties if they are arrested.

*It is unethical to force prisoners to work since most of them are not Caucasian it would be racial profiling and it is no better than slavery.

*The government should pay for the abortions of women making a low income.

*Open our borders to our neighbors.

*Higher welfare checks and unemployment checks for the people who need it, the economy is still in recession.

*Make immigration easier for foreigners’ over-seas, we are all the sons and daughters of immigrants.

*The government should pay for abortions to women of a lower income.

2)
>Encourage gun ownership of mentally sound and law abiding citizens.

>Encourage the responsible use of drugs only if a licensed medical doctor states that you actually require them.

>Strict standards on how gang members and drug dealers should be punished by the judicial system.

>We should make room in the prisons by reestablishing “serving of the head” and public executions in combination with a quicker judicial procession.

>Child molesters should also be given the chance to contribute something to society by offering themselves up for public execution.

>Respect the sacred bond of marriage between Husband and Wife. That is the man is the Husband and the woman is the wife.

>Better security on our borders and ports.

>The government should require men to have vasectomies if they father two illegitimate children and refuse or do not pay child support. Women on welfare should be forced to take a DEPO/or birth control of some kind after they give birth to a child for the second time in the welfare system, or file a religious complaint signed by the pastor/priest of their faith.

>Fight our enemies on their soil when possible, or when strategy calls for it (less US civilian casualties).

What about raising kids that harm others?

Which political paradigm makes more sense?

admin — Fri, 17 Jun 2011 15:04:51 +0000

*Push for stricter gun control laws to keep discouraging civilian/citizen gun ownership. A population that is well armed would make Marshall Law or dictatorship more difficult to initiate and keep. Also, it may conflict with organized crime and vigilantism is never called for, ever.

*Push for the legalization of drugs like marijuana, MDMA, and psychedelics. Glorify drug use in every media outlet possible, just not drug abuse.

*Drug dealers should have more lenient penalties if they are arrested.

*It is unethical to force prisoners to work since most of them are not Caucasian it would be racial profiling and it is no better than slavery.

*The government should pay for the abortions of women making a low income.

*Open our borders up to our neighbors.

*Higher welfare checks and unemployment checks for the people who need it, the economy is still in recession.

*Make immigration easier for foreigners’ over-seas, we are all the sons and daughters of immigrants.

*The government should pay for abortions to women of low income.

*A one world central global government should be our goal in the near future.

*Caucasian Christian Males should lose the privileges they have long since abused.

>Encourage gun ownership of mentally sound and law abiding citizens. Vigilantism is called for on occasion, and should even be required by citizens in certain situations.

>Encourage the responsible use of drugs only if a licensed medical doctor states that you actually require them.

>Strict standards on how gang members and drug dealers should be punished by the judicial system. Not leniently.

>We should make room in the prisons by reestablishing “serving of the head” in public executions in combination with a quicker judicial procession.

>Child molesters should also be given the chance to contribute something to society by offering themselves up for public execution.

>Respect the sacred bond of marriage between Husband and Wife. That is the man is the Husband and the woman is the wife.

>Better security on our borders and ports.

>Fight our enemies on their soil when possible, or when strategy calls for it (less collateral damage less US civilian casualties).

>We should render aide to countries like Libya, Yemen, Saudi Arabia, Egypt and Iran gain freedom and individual liberties and throw out their tyrants like Gadhafi and Ahkmendenajad.

How Does a CA Judge Determine How Much Child Support Should be Paid?

admin — Thu, 16 Jun 2011 17:02:53 +0000

Here are the facts: Wife and I married seven years and have been separated for eight months. During those eight months, I’ve had my boys over 60% of the time. I make $60,000 per year; she makes $52,000. We have two boys, ages 6 & 5; she also has two other boys, ages 12 & 14 from another marriage living with her about 90% of the time. There are no issues regarding abuse or drugs.

Currently, I pay all of the monthly $1,200 child care bill, plus the $400 a month med. insurance. According to various child support calculators, I’m paying much more than I should.

She says that she can’t afford to pay anything, yet she’s paying $200 a month for a housekeeper.

Those of you who have been before a CA judge, how has the judge determined child support? Is it strictly a numbers game, or do they take into consideration other more subjective things? Do they overly favor the mother?

Anyone that has been through this kind of thing, please share your thoughts.

Thanks!
Also, does a judge take into account a person’s standard of living prior to the separation? I am currently living with my parents and I’m unable to move out until she starts paying at least something. Will the judge take that into consideration?

Should you divorce your husband if?

admin — Wed, 15 Jun 2011 19:04:01 +0000

If you were in a domestic violence marriage and both used drugs and then the victim decided to turn her life over to God. Would be Ok to leave the husband? The husband always went out and cheated on the wife every chance he got? Would it be ok to move on and marry a christian guy one day? He’s claiming he changed but really hasn’t he’s still using drugs and living the sinful life. Is it ok to leave him behind. You don’t want to be with a man that doesn’t love God you feel you shouldn’t have to go back to this marriage? Should you? Let me know your opinion please!

I need help re-calling celebrity facts of 2010?

admin — Tue, 14 Jun 2011 21:03:56 +0000

I do it at the end of every year in my journal. I didn’t have money to re-subscribe to ‘people magazine’ so I am in the dark this year as I don’t have a good memory.

Can you help? Maybe if you have a favorite celebrity in the news that had something come up like:
Births, deaths, marriage, divorces, sex scandals, drug use, pregnancys, hospitalization, ingagements, rehab….. Just anything.

Dates are awesome, but I can look them up myself.

Here is what I have so far:
Zac and Vanessa splits
Jeremy London abducted, forced to do drugs
Miley Cyrus Bong hit
Fishbourne Porn
John Travolta & Wife expecting (DID THEY HAVE THE BABY?)
Mariah Carey and Nick Cannon Expecting Twins
Ricky Martin announces he is gay (We ALL knew!)

Yeah, I NEED HELP!
I’ll right it down and research further if needed.

-For those that are confused, I have seasonal depression and need things to keep me busy this time of year. Plus I have done this the past 2-3 years. THANKS SO MUCH!

I’m married to this woman but her past really bothers me.I know we all have a past.?

admin — Mon, 13 Jun 2011 23:08:46 +0000

I’ve done a lot of things in my past that I’m ashamed of. well to get to the point the woman that I married all she ever dated was married men or drug dealers.She is 41 and I’m 37. The married men she dated was either 48 to 60 and she dated some about her age before.Me and her started off as friends we came best friends and then we became lovers. she was in a relationship with kids father for like 20 years and she had 3 kids by him he sold drugs and he constantly cheated on her so she left him alone and moved on her with her life and he moved on with his.I feel he really damaged her and after that she just went down the tubes. A lot of the men she was involved with either married or single drink liquor and that’s all she does before we got married and when I was just her friend I use to try to encourage her to find her own man and tell her she didn’t have to settle or drink all of the time. She use to party and hang out with her friends all of the time. These married men use to give her money take her shopping and take her out of town on trips.She use to lie to one of them and I can never understand it even till this day why did she have to lie to a married man about her seeing someone else when he was married.I remember 1 time we went to church on new years eve and she told me she was ready to stop dealing with her ex who is still married she wanted to get out of it but she didn’t know how to so I would listen and try to give her advice. she always wanted to get married and she know that she’s getting older.Like I said before she has 3 kids by the same guy and he is a drug dealer but they both moved on their kids are 24 19 17. The 24 year old is married and out on her own the 19 year old is out on his own so the 17 year old and the 5 year old are living with us but the 17 year old is pregnant.Her fourth child is 5 years old and by a older married man that passed away.Me and her use to live next door to each other but I never noticed her like that because I was married but me and my ex was separated I knew with all of my heart and soul that my marriage was over with my ex I was married to her for like 16 years and I was with her for like 2 or 3 years before we got married and I have 3 kids by her. But like I said my current wife noticed me when I was with my first wife she thought I was attractive and she liked the way I took my family to church and that I was young I own my home I worked and that I had my own car. like I said she never tried to approach me and I never did the same until my 1st wife left our home and later down the line we was strictly friends because I was hurt over my 1st wife and that was all I could think and talk about.I wanted and tried to save my marriage but my first wife told me that it was over.So that’s when I started talking to my my current wife who was my next door neighbor.Since me and current wife been involved she has slowed down with the drinking she don’t hang out or party with her friends anymore if she does we do it together and that’s every once in awhile. she goes to my church and I go to hers we are best friends we are always together.I love her and I know she loves me.She gave up her house because she was renting and I own my home I have my own car so does she and we both have good jobs we have her two daughters staying with me and I love them like my own and my kids gets along with her kids. I feel I’m a good guy like I said I’m not perfect I go to church I work have my own car I don’t run the streets I want us to be happy and I want this marriage to last till death due us part.But her past bothers me it’s like how do I know she won’t do to me what she did to those other guys.Her mother and her daughters feel that I’m good for her because they seen the type of men that she has been with and they feel that I’m what she needs but I’m scared to death because I don’t wanna get hurt.Does my wife see the difference between me and the other men that she dealt with? Has she been out there to long to realize what she has in me? Am I wrong for throwing her past in her face? It also bothers me I’m close with my parents so I told them some things about her past.They don’t like it or her especially my dad he says that she is a street woman and a alcoholic he doesn’t want me with her because he feels ever since I been with her that I started drinking more and that I’m not the same person any more since I’ve been with her and that bothers me because shes my wife and they are my parents but she comes 1st. They felt the same way about my 1st wife because of the things that I told them about her.So they stayed in my 1st marriage and now they are trying to do it again so I don’t talk to them as much now and don’t keep them in my business like I use to so I guess that’s the reason I guess they don’t like her.

Get answers from millions of real people.?

admin — Mon, 13 Jun 2011 01:08:58 +0000

I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years we recently got married in Feb of this year. My husband has a 13 year old son from a previous marriage.In December of last year his ex wife got messed up on drugs and his son lived with us from December until September full time and she was still receiving child support during this time. We don’t have the money to hire a lawyer but she is spending the money on herself rather than my step-son.My step-son comes over daily since september and asks us for money to do stuff with. his mother lives with a man that pays all the bills and she recieves food stamps for 3 kids which two of them she doesn’t have custody of because their dad take over her rights when she was on drugs.$4 hundred dollars a month in food stamp which she sells.I don’t want to keep my step son from his mother its just i’m tired of having to support her.

I need some advice on child support?

admin — Sun, 12 Jun 2011 03:02:03 +0000

In raising your children, which are the battles you should fight?

admin — Sat, 11 Jun 2011 05:01:17 +0000

I have five sons, three of whom are stepsons from my wife’s previous marriage. My eldest is mine from a previous marriage. The oldest is 44, the youngest 24. All are now adults, but I experienced every phase from pre-adolescence to adulthood with them all. We made our share of mistakes raising them.

My first wife was a nonbeliever in religion and I did not begin regular church attendance until after the divorce. My current wife and I brought all five to church regularly and have encouraged them to be Christians. All have been baptized.

I feel all have turned out reasonably well. Some have been more successful than some others. One has a career in financial management, one is a career Army NCO, and one is an Air Force airman in tech school. Two have gone through a series of jobs but have generally managed to be steadily employed. All are Christian, but church attendance has not always been a top priority.

We have had issues with alcohol and drugs. Also with hair length and sexual conduct. We have fought many battles with our kids and won a few and lost a few, but I think we have generally been fairly successful parents. (One mistake was letting them outnumber us.)

My question is basically, where do you draw your lines? When should you back off and when should you fight for your kids? We make mistakes and so do they. I think a Christian upbringing helps them find a way to seek their best paths, but that is my opinion. It does seem to have worked. There were some issues with the four sons who experienced divorce of their natural parents. (Our youngest has not experienced that.)

None of our sons have been in prison, although at least one has spent at least one night in a lockup. Two are college graduates and two more are working on college. Some have been good financial managers and some have not.

What do you think is the most important thing you can give your children besides love? (And I hope we all agree on love.)

Serious Situation?

admin — Fri, 10 Jun 2011 07:01:46 +0000

All right, I’ve been a reader of Yahoo Questions & Answers for quite a few years now. Finally – it’s my turn to ask a serious question. It’s a long read, forewarning.

My husband and I have been married for going on five years. We have three beautiful children together. It’s been a bumpy road, not so much personal relationship problems, but just life in general. But overall, we’re generally a loving couple. He is wonderful with the kids. He counts himself lucky to have this life. For some reason he never thought he’d be blessed with a wife and children of his own.

Fast-forward. The last two years things seem to have gone downhill. For the first several years of our relationship, during an argument I’m the type of person that needs to take a walk and cool down. I get pretty heated, and deal with an anger problem. I am self aware, admit, and have sought help for this, just for the record. However, he would not allow me to leave. Not leave as in, leave him. Just take a walk to cool down, think, try not to be so angry.

Fast-forward again. After about two years of him begging, pleading, standing in front of the door and not letting me out…One day we’re in an argument and he decides he needs to take a walk. And leaves. He’s gone for hours. I go out driving looking around for him. Got a hold of the police department and they start looking around for him as well. Found him just wandering the streets and brought him home.

That was the start of it ALL it seems. Two years ago, the first time he walked out to “take a breather” it’s been habit forming and gotten extreme. From a few hours, to more hours, to days. An affair of course crossed my mind. However, we have since moved to multiple different cities and he always leaves on foot. There are many details to each story. I’ll give an example of one so you all can get the idea.

He was working a job (he’s been horrible at holding jobs since the beginning of our marriage). He was working third shift 10:00 PM – 6:00 AM. Well one day 9:00 AM rolled around and he still wasn’t home. I assumed he was working overtime. So I called his work to check on him and was told he left early, around 12:30 that night. After two days I found him wandering the streets. His story was (which was confirmed) that he was about to lose his job due to poor job performance (third shift sucks!) and was worried to come home to tell me that he had lost yet another job.

Fast-forwarding yet again. Not all of the times he’s “disappeared” have been for “bad” reasons. Sometimes he’s just running to the store for a few groceries and he’s gone for eight hours…

Most recent event. On May 13th we got up, I made him breakfast. He was playing games as usual (online MMORPG). We had a good morning. After breakfast he was going to run to the store. He left around 11:30 May 13th and never returned home. Of course I’ve filed a missing persons report (for about the third time in the last two years). Especially because every time he does this I am left with our three children to take care of alone. He had the money, their social security cards, insurances cards, etc, in his wallet. The police found him wandering the streets, got from him the things mentioned above that I needed and I requested that he not come back here for a while.

Note: We *just* moved about FIVE hours from the last city we lived in. We’ve only been here two weeks. One week in which he has disappeared. All he has is the clothes on his back, literally.

My question would be, what would cause such behavior? To up and leave a wife and children? No drugs are involved. Almost every job he’s had has tested for drugs, he’s clean. He’s also in the National Guards (NOT active duty). So I’m positive no drugs are involved. And unsure that an affair would fit this situation. Again, he is on foot, five hours from our previous city, and the police found him wandering the streets.

INSIGHT anyone?
Edit: Of course I’ve had my nagging moments. I’m not going to sit here and pretend to be the perfect wife. I have my issues too, trust me. However, I do love him very, very, very much. And he knows this. I built my entire life around him. Right now is a very difficult time for me. I am handling three children while worrying constantly around my missing husband that has no money, no where to stay (to my knowledge) and only the clothes on his back that he left with seven days ago. I love him deeply, I’m just not sure I can live this life anymore. The walking out, the handling things alone, the stress, the worrying. I can’t stop thinking about him, he’s my HUSBAND. I haven’t slept in days wondering if he’s cold, if he’s hungry. Then at the same time I get extremely pissed off that he would *choose* to do this in the first place. As I said, this latest event, we were having a wonderful morning. Not a single thing wrong. I’m just not sure I can do it anymore, and it’s scary. Certainly.
It’s a back and forth situation. That is definite. One moment I am worried sick, and the next moment I am hurt and angry. I can not comprehend how he can just walk out on his children. I am *forced* to be the rock, the stone, the solid foundation to take care of my children while he does this. I agree – the majority of these responses are saying he needs professional help. I definitely agree. Whole-heartedly

Sobriety and Grief?

admin — Thu, 09 Jun 2011 09:01:15 +0000

Hello!
I am engaged to a wonderful 48-year-old widower, whose wife died 5 years ago. We will be married in April, 2008. He is the love of my life and my soulmate! He says the same things about me and I believe him. We are very much in love and extremely happy. He says he has never been this happy in his life. So, what is my problem? He was married for 20 years to his first wife. During that marriage, they both had addiction issues. She was a drug addict and he was an alcoholic. Since moving into his home, I have found evidence that the marriage was way less than perfect. In addition, his family and friends, as well as his deceased wife’s family all confirm that their’s was a bad marriage…that she was a mean, hateful drug addict who kept him broke and made his life miserable. However, he is reluctant to admit any of that. When he has mentioned her, he admits that she was a drug addict and that she spent too much money and that theyhad some difficulties BUT he goes on to say that he loved her, that she was his best-friend, that she saved his life, and that they had a happy marriage. He then goes further to tell me the WONDERFUL things about her…in essence, he has sanctified her! I have to admit that this is the one sore spot in our relationship. We now do NOT talk about her at all, but my mind and heart are full of the “tapes” of things that were said in the past. On special days such as holidays, her birthday, the anniversary of her death, I find myself depressed and irritable! I also find myself wondering if he is thinking of her, missing her…especially on those days or at times that he seems somewhat melancholy. He is no longer a practicing alcoholic…he’s in AA and has been sober for 2 years. One of the main tenets of AA is honesty. I do not feel he is honest with himself about his deceased wife or about their marriage. It is important to his “healing process” that he be honest in all aspects of his life. How do I approach this topic with him without causing an argument or appearing to be unsympathetic or , even worse, jealous? Please help me!
Mae

The Truth about Mormons (LDS) The REAL Truth?

admin — Wed, 08 Jun 2011 11:02:59 +0000

My life story goes, since the age of 13, people have been bashing me for my religion. I was really strong in it my Sophomore year of High School, until some Freshman came up and said, “You believe in this, you believe in that, you this, you that, I heard this from our preacher that…” But they’ve never asked an LDS person what they believe, they’ve never actually done any searching. When it comes to me, I ask, I don’t bash.

But, ask any LDS (Mormon) what they believe. Why do people say, “no, you don’t” directly after, even from the SOURCE?

Ask if they are Christian. They will ALL say “yes.”

Do they believe in Jesus and God? They will ALL say “yes.”

What is the most thing that they can say that they believe that they are all seperate? Well, they all have individual names, don’t they? Your friend over there and you are not ‘one,’ you are seperate beings, and have seperate names. But besides the point, they act as one. Like a parental unit of husband and wife [an example.]; they work together.

Ask them about Joseph Smith. They do NOT see him as a god. they see him as the one who started our church back up, after seeking the many faiths within the town, after nealing down in a pasture he prayed and asked which one of the faiths were true. Then, with a pillar of light, God and Jesus appeared as seperate beings before him. I forgot who said what, But one of them said, “None of them are true.” Thus, they told Joseph Smith to restore the fullness of the gospel back to earth; because God took it away once because the world was so wicked.

Ask any LDS person about marriage. They believe in being married forever and for all eternity, while the rest of the world believes that it’s death-do-you part; tell me now. Who wants to depart their spouse when they die and be as angels in Heaven? Not me. And have your kids NOT be your kids in heaven if they were not sealed [like a bondance] to you? LDS believes that a family is forever. The sacred temple is the only place to do that; it’s very beautiful place, and each one is dedicated as his house. And yes, there are many. My favorite one is the Salt Lake Temple. Nothing bad happens in the temple. NOTHING. Everything is all about the work for God, just like a church. Whatever rumors you have heard, nothing bad happens here.

The Book of Mormon is another testiment of Jesus Christ. Who says that the profits have to stop by the end of the Bible? People continue to live onward, and the belief of Christ can be written for more generations to come.

LDS/Mormons have standards that stay true to themselves and others. No smoking, no drugs, no sex before marriage, (have all you want after marriage), all due because emotionally it can ruin a person, as well as smoking and drugs can ruin you physically, and your body is a gift from God, and if you insult your body, then you insult God. Makeup is fine to wear, just no tatoos (you might regret it all later…who wouldn’t regret your 5th ex boyfriend on your arm and 3 more later you get married to…not him?)

Any Christian is someone who is a believer and follows Christ.

Those missionaries that come to your door, are on a mission for two years serving the LORD, dedicating 2 years with no TV, nothing to distract them such as the everyday use of computers, and studying their scripture, ready to preach the fullness of the Gospel. With another book, why not hear the rest of the doctrine that has been revealed to us? Every missionary is sent from a different location. Some locally can be sent to Japan or Italy, and not even know the language but they have to learn once they get there. Those can be very hard times. Every one of them has a fullness in heart and are just doing their duty, and they are not trying to annoy you when they knock on their door. Think of them as a messenger from God. Look at their kind hearts, and one day, accept them into your house, and listen to their great message.

Many do not accept because they do not understand; nor want to understand. But the LDS faith is so much deeper than what is said above. Many do not accept the beliefs, but if anyone feels that they are missing out on something in their life, someone, please go look into it.

I’ve been torn down many times. It takes a whole entire person’s life to learn about the fullness of the gospel, even I don’t know everything. I’m just a graduate of High School, holding onto what I know is true, even if my testimony is smaller than what it was when I first entered High School.

Why believe me, you may ask?
Because I AM LDS. I am Mormon. Only the Mormons know about their faith more than any non member.

We are not a bad religion, although many people fall away and create lies because they want to go against it if they’ve failed the church.

We are simply referred as ‘Christians on Steryoids’ because we expou
…expound deeper into more knowledge that is given to us. Don’t believe me?

Go see for yourself…
I wanna find my man and know he is with me forever. (So tired of guys all cheating on me because I don’t give out.) I’m 18. Ready to seek the world. Holding onto that iron rod I am, even if I don’t know everything.

Does any of this make more sense?
I say what we believe and yet other faiths trash it. If you don’t like it, DON’T POST! I don’t need to know your opinions, they are opinions. If you don’t like us, a person of God does not harden their hearts.
Wiki is the website which every school tries to avoid to add in your presentations and assignments. Only our books in our classes are what we learn from, not little webpages; our stuff has been long around since Wikipedia my friend.
***I am a standing member. You don’t need to have the perfect knowledge of things to go and follow Christ. It’s not brain wash if it is by choice.

Do you think it’s funny that after WWE trashed Ultimate Warrior in a DVD, they are now begging him for the HOF?

admin — Tue, 07 Jun 2011 13:09:58 +0000

The short version is they were mad at him over losing the lawsuit over the rights to his name and they wanted to show Bret Hart if he didn’t come back for the DVD, they would trash one of their best people so they did it. Most of that DVD was BS as fans who have followed wrestling closely know.

They are begging him to come do the HOF this year. They are under a microscope after the Benoit tragedy and even more Wrestler deaths since: Test, Umaga, etc. And Warrior has adjusted to life after wresting better than any other wrestler. He got out of the business at the right time and now he is financially comfortable with a beautiful family, is still married to his first and only wife, no drug problems, and he still is in great health and even still has a killer physique. Compare that to guys like Jake the Snake or Billy Jack Haynes who’s lives are a total mess, and they are lucky to be alive. Hell, look at all the marriage, family, and financial problems Hulk and Flair have had over the last 3 years!

Anyway, Warrior has a house in Arizona where the HOF is taking place and they still don’t have a headlining main eventer to go in this year. They’ve contacted him, they’ve put him in the WWE opening montage, HHH referred to him in a promo with Shemus, etc. Looks like they are really trying to put him in.

Do you think Greg Giraldo’s death may have been a suicide?

admin — Mon, 06 Jun 2011 15:03:05 +0000

OK, so the media says it was an accidental drug overdose. How does anyone ever really know if it was intentional or accidental? Not everyone leaves a note when they plan on taking their life. Plus, families do not want to bear the shame of suicide and mental illness. They do not always volunteer the truth even to the police. After all, what good will that do for them?

The man was a Harvard grad, and was an attorney for a very brief time. Switching suddenly from that to comedy and then not ever wanting to talk about his brief stint as a lawyer says to me that there had to be some major issues in his life. At 44, no mention of a wife, a marriage, divorce. kids or a current girl/boyfriend. Nothing.

Any thoughts on the issue?

Why is Jesus not fair?

admin — Sun, 05 Jun 2011 17:02:11 +0000

People who have sex before marriage, that are gay, that uses drugs, that break the law, that murders, that rapes, and recieves Christ before he dies gets salvation. Whereas, a man who never recieved Christ had sex with only his wife, is not gay, never used drugs, law abiding, humble, gentle, and goes to hell? This is not fair.
I will let you be the judge.

Group of teen boys hanging out with my six year old stepdaughter? Views?

admin — Sat, 04 Jun 2011 19:01:59 +0000

My 17 year old brother in law lives with me and my husband in our rented house during the school week because his parents moved into a different school district and he wanted to stay at his school. As a result I tend to have deal with teen boys all week. Well naturally I have no right to complain about this as he was already living here when me and my husband got married back in November and I am the newcomer. But my husband has a six year old daughter from a previous marriage (his first wife died in a house fire) and I wander about the negative influence teen boys can be on here.

The boys are all respectable for their age and don’t do things like drugs but you boys are boys and talk about things that I fear six year olds shouldn’t hear. My husband says its all reality and if she overhears she will just learn life lessons. He says she always occupied with her toys anyhow and isn’t interested. Tonight, since their is no school tomorrow (Good Friday) my bro in law has eight others staying over and they are staying in our attic. They have been hanging in the living room watching old movies and are loud. My stepdaughter has been in there with them, eating popcorn and soda too, and has since made comments on the film. The film has had women in swimsuits, blood scenes, and screams.

I told my husband I don’t think its a good film for her to see but he says if she didn’t like it she wouldn’t watch it. He said life is in there and we can only play mother hens for too long before she has to learn how life is and not suger coat.

Really my husbands point does make a little sense ot me but still I feel wrong about it in ways the whole thing? What do you all thing about this whole situation, teen boys hanging around with a little girl in the house, watching such a film with her in the room with them, and eating unhealthy snacks they do like pizza rolls and popcorn?
bada bing, me and my husband worked through all that. things still arent 100% back to normal but our marriage is surviving!

can topamax make you an emotional wreck?

admin — Fri, 03 Jun 2011 21:01:34 +0000

My wife has been taking Topamax for migraines. She has been on it now for about 3+ weeks. She suffered from the usual side effects of sleepiness, wooziness, and other minor efefects which seem to have subsided. However, I have noticed that she has a very short fuse emotionally. Normal conversations turn into her crying and telling me what a jerk I am. This is usually over small stuff. She gets really worked up over silly things and although I am understanding and try to talk things out she refuses to see the common sense of it all. It is really hurting our marriage. Can these drugs increase this behavior?

My 6 year stepdaughter is regularly hanging out with teen boys like my brother in law? I dont feel its right.?

admin — Thu, 02 Jun 2011 23:03:21 +0000

Really my husbands point does make a little sense ot me but still I feel wrong about it in ways the whole thing? What do you all thing about this whole situation, teen boys hanging around with a little girl in the house, watching such a film with her in the room with them, and eating unhealthy snacks they do like pizza rolls and popcorn?
Yes, i asked this yesterday but deleted accidently trying to pick a best answer.

3 assault charges since 2004 – what’s next?

admin — Thu, 02 Jun 2011 01:01:24 +0000

My buddy lives in Houston, TX, and he was charged w/ misdemeanor & convicted back in 2004 for assaulting his wife, (2′nd marriage.) In 12/2006 he was arrested & charged w/ 2′nd misdemeanor – assault/bodily injury f/ assaulting wife, (2′nd marriage.) Bond set @ $5K, he paid $500 & released from jail. He received a 3′rd charge (FELONY) – assault w/deadly weapon in 2/2007, (2′nd marriage.) Bond $$ for the 2′nd misdemeanor was enhanced to a FELONY @ $50K. He was charged – 3r’d time (FELONY) in 2/2007 – assault w/ deadly weapon, (2′nd marriage.) Bond set at $0 bond. He’s still in jail. Arraingment is set in a week or so in court.
NOTE: He’s been in jail & prison in the past, i.e. possession of drugs, selling drugs, traffic tickets, welfare fraud, bad checks, domestic violence/1′st marraiage. I think his fate will depend a lot on the prosecutor, judge & criminal history. So, what’s the likelihood he’ll get probation or end up in prison? If he goes 2 prison, what’s the min/max time?

No sex for 5 years, options?

admin — Wed, 01 Jun 2011 03:02:23 +0000

Wife and I have been married 7 years.
Son is 4 years old (4.5 like that matters)
Wife had condition which made sex difficult/ impossible for the last 2 – 3 years
Wife had a complete hysterectomy in April 2010
I had a right orchiectomy June 2007, this actually boosted my libido (I had a lot of pain due to nerve damage from previous surgeries)

Wife has offered divorce 3 times I turned her down.
Wife has said that I should buy sex (common thing in Japan with “delivery health”) not really my thing.
I offered to take drugs to lower libido (drugs have nasty side effects as well as not available in Japan)

Wife’s libido is 0 and has been for years, kissing etc even pretty much out.

I have polled my friends and the response was to ” hope/ pray that I can reconnect wife to sex”

Marriage counseling is not available in Japan (bilingual and in our area, it is only really Osaka, counseling is not even big in Tokyo)
Having wife’s hormone levels tested is out as she is happy with her system the way it is now and an endocrinologist is EXTREMELY difficult to find

Looking for other options that I might be overlooking.
Right thanks.

Ok. she works full time and I look after the house, child.

I do all the cleaning, laundry, cooking, shopping etc.

I also run her bath, buy her treats, massage her when there is time and buy her clothes.
Oh yeah grandparents are no where near here. One set live in Canada (16 hours by 3 planes) or near Tokyo (2.5 hours by plane)

What can I do about my ignorant sister-in-law dating her abuser?

admin — Tue, 31 May 2011 05:01:32 +0000

My divorced sister-in-law started dating a guy who just happened to have dated my wife about 10 years ago. It was a pretty rough relationship he had with my wife. He got into drugs and my wife tried getting him out of his situation. They broke up and years later her sister wanted to date him. My wife, now disgusted with him, warned her about him but she didn’t listen and dated him anyway. They started and stopped about 3 times based on arguments, him cheating on her and finally him going to jail after beating her. She also claimed in her police report that he had nonconsensual sex with her but he was not charged for that. He served his time and low and behold less than a year later they got back together and are now engaged. She claims (as she did before) that he’s changed and is in counseling and took anger management classess…woopty doo. The family is against this relationship especially for the sake of her kids (from previous marriage…forgot to mention that). They are 8 and 9 years old. This gets more awkward every minute of the day. Her sisters, mom, dad and everyone have discussed their displeasure of the relationship with her but she just says “you guys don’t know him.” She says we have to forgive him and we say fine, whatever he is forgiven but needs to move on. I can’t believe he even would want to stay in this relationship with everyone hating him so much. Why not just move on himself? He thinks he is Romeo and can just buy things, remodel her kitchen, be a playmate/attempted father figure to her kids and everything will be alright (fyi…her ex-husband/kids father is still around and has the kids every other weekend or so. they didn’t get along but he never beat her). What else is left to do? It doesn’t seem like she will ever listen. We are becoming the “bad guys” when we all know who the real “bad guy” is.

How do I get my patience back?

admin — Mon, 30 May 2011 07:04:29 +0000

I used to be the most patient man alive. Then, I had two children. Now, my patience is completely gone, GONE! I love my boys dearly, but the two of them have drained my soul of patience and it’s starting to effect my marriage. I blow up with just a simple question from my wife. She feels like I’m attacking her. I’ve just lost the slow, calm, detailed side of myself to this short fused and angry man inside of me. I exercise regularly, I eat healthy foods, I rarely drink alcohol, dont do drugs. I’ve seen a therapyst before and he handed me a worksheet, like I was in grade school – not for me. What do I do now? How can I get my patience back? Anyone have any suggestions?

do americans see anything wrong with their cultur or their society?

admin — Sun, 29 May 2011 09:02:28 +0000

instead of focuing on make other countries good focuse on their society i aint no hater but im just saying
in my personal opinion i think that their society is messed up
kids grow up without fathers or moms
divorced couples 70% and its increasing(im not judgin but its a fact)
gay people think they were born gays
hookers proud of what they do
porn is everywhere
they use the F everywhere to anybody even on tv even old people
morals decreasing slowly
sex before marriage
lack of religoin.fake media,lying presidents
ppl in office who defense kids rights when they chat with them online privately
ppl in office have gay sex in public bathrooms like teenages kids in high school
pregnant girls everywhere , drugs in schools,messed up marriage e.g. ” im his wife but i still sleep with others maybe girls maybe guys”
sex jokes on national TV
they have no respect to people religoins or holy books
grandpartens go to strip clubs
lack of education about other countries
its not only me
its not only me who thinks that
loook at this Q

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aiap_Bi8ndKAo2kZyOnNA3JIzKIX;_ylv=3?qid=20071115001201AAR9cAV

i swear i aint a hater but they took saddam coz hes bad how about a poltician sleeps with kids?
or president sleeps with another woman?
well just because u have freedom doesnt mean you have use it in a bad way. you dnt mean you have to use the F word on tv. dont you have mannors?ofcourse not cause ur society doesnt teach u that does it ?

Long story but i need advice i have no where else to turn?

admin — Sat, 28 May 2011 11:01:07 +0000

okay to make a long long story short as possible ..my hubby and i have 2 kids together and he has 2 from a previous marriage we have all 4 kids full time ..recently we were arrested on drug charges stemming from being framed by the man who molested our kids…well his ex wife is trying to get custody of the kids now and i wanted to know what u think our chances of keeping them are ..heres the facts of the case DCS is siding with us and the older 2 kids were NOT here when the drugs were found they were with their mother also the mother owes us 21,685 dollars in back pay child support the kids also told the counselors that she smacks them in the mouth (they have a busted lips) and lets them watch very scary movies with nudity (they are 8 and 11 yrs old) her husband drinks everyday and his parents have been convicted on drug charges .me & the hubby have no criminal background be4 this what do u guys think? she was already proven unfit by the court once back in 1999
MAYBE SOME OF YOU DONT UNDERSTAND THE STATEMENT INNOCENT UNTIL PROVENT GUILTY READ THE STORY I SAID THE DRUGS WERE PLANTED IN MY HOME MY THE MAN WHO MOLESTED MY CHILDREN ..YES MY KIDS WERE MOLESTED AND THE MAN WHO DID IT WAS IN MY HOME AND I DIDNT KNOW IT WHILE I HAD MY SON IN THE ER BUT SINCE POSSESSION IS 9/10TH OF THE LAW IM BEING PUNISHED BUT THATS A TOTALLY DIFFERENT SUBJECT AND NOT EVEN THE QUESION I ASKED ON HERE …BUT THANKS FOR BEING SO QUICK TO JUDGE PPL

Does Glen Beck have the right to call Obama a racist?

admin — Fri, 27 May 2011 13:01:04 +0000

Fox News loose millions after dozens of advertisers pull there adds after Glen Beck called President Obama a racist.
Does Glen Beck have the right to call President Obama a racist?
Take a look at Becks history first!
Glen Beck born in Settle, Wa. 10 Feb 1964 to a Christian family. Raised in Mount Vernon, Washington a small town about six miles north of Seattle. His family were long time members of the Ku Klux Klan Bellingham, Wa. chapter in the 9th district.
He started his first job in radio while attending Sehome High school in Bellinghan, Wa. but was fired when his responsibility’s with the Ku Klux Klan interfered with his job responsibility this causing attendance problems.
After going off to Yale he became dependent on drugs and alcohol before dropping out of college. Drug used were cocaine, marijuana and crack. He doe’s claim to be free of drugs and alcohol at this time.
After two girls and a very violent marriage, his first wife divorced him.
In 2000 he denounced the Catholic Church and converted to Mormonism, around the same time he claimed to no longer be involved with the klan but refused to denounce them. With his second wife he took on two step children one adopted child and had another child of his own 30 April 2006.
After years with CNN he started with Fox News in 2009 where some say he is free to openly attack minorities.
Does Beck with his history as a racist and former or possibly present member of the Ku Klux Klan have the right to call President Obama a racist?

In a severe family crisis & your the only 1 anybody can talk to calmly but they all say something different?

admin — Thu, 26 May 2011 15:01:45 +0000

My bro has 2 children w/ his wife. Both recovering drug addictics (oxycontin). They’re marriage is in severe trouble. I seem to be the only one that any of the parties (him, her, & each family) can open up and talk calmly to about it. No1 else can talk to each other without screaming. I heard my mom talk to my sister in-law today and say the most hateful things that I never thought she was capable of. I’ve heard my sister in-law (who has been a great friend for over 10 years) say hateful things to and about my bro & family. I’ve had my bro tell me that he’s getting better, then his wife calls me 1hr later & says he’s about to commit suicide. My bro (18.5 months older) is my best friend and few siblings in the world r as close as us or have been through as much together. Every1 inside the situation is losing it & all think I’m the best 1 to talk to him, her, mom, or anyone. But every1 is telling me “the truth”, but all truths conflict with each other & what I see 1sthand. What can I do?
the children are young – 1.5 and 3. I went down there to watch them last summer while my bro was in rehab. My sis-in-law is going through treatments now getting pills called suboxin… they are both so unstable and my bro is so freaking manipulative of everyone, but everyone somehow thinks they are above his manipulation.
He got committed to the hospital tonight, but I’m afraid she will make things worse for him while he’s there. I know she wants well for him… but I know that, if she’s not on OCs, she not far from them. I HATE OXYs WITH A PASSION!! SO MUCH!! John, your high school sounds like mine. I graduated in 02 (my bro in 00, sis-in-law in 01 – we were all in the same crowd), and I know that she’s so unstable and might be going around spreading her instability to other addicts, and then the oxy-addict grapevine gets started and worse and worse and worse… but for now, I just found out he’s in the hospital, so that’s a relief.
Its so hard to tell someone the cold, harsh, truth when you think it will drive them to suicide, especially when the only other person they have is their drug-addicted wife (who is recovering but is INCREDIBLY UNSTABLE). And it’s like the two families are pitting themselves against each other. And her family and my family have been intertwined long before children were born or my brother got together with her in the first place. Her cousin was my brother and me’s best friend since middle school, and he’s a drug addict too (I’m not POSITIVE about that, but pretty sure – I do know that he’s an alcoholic). So each family is convinced that the other is crazy, and each one sees me as the only stable mediater. It’s too much pressure… everyone has a different version of the truth… everyone wants to know what someone else said to me because they know I went to talk and help someone else… I don’t know how I made it out of that circle w/o becoming an addict and still loving all those ppl

My parents r getting a divorce…maybe…can u help me?

admin — Wed, 25 May 2011 17:00:44 +0000

So my parents r getting a divorce, my mom doesn’t want to, but my dad says he has never really loved my mom like a wife, and the marriage just won’t work out. I at first was really upset, but then I thought about it and realized that my dad could move closer to my friends, and I could see them more, so the divorce isn’t as bad for me. Its still bad though. But I’m worried that my parents will start drinking or doing drugs, or will be suicidal and depressed, especially my mom because she really loves my dad. Can u help me somehow?
my dad still loves my mom, just not as a wife… so maybe they can stay friends…

Should I wear the typical white wedding dress if…………?

admin — Tue, 24 May 2011 19:00:45 +0000

I’m 36 yrs. old, have 3 kids, was married before for 20 yrs but it was a real rough marriage and I was never truly happy from the day I said, “I do”! My fiance is 30 yrs. old, has full custody of his 3 kids, was married before for 5 yrs and got a divorce because he found his wife was using drugs and cheating on him. Anyways, my parents and my g-ma keep telling me I should wear any dress at my wedding the second time around or people will stare at me like I’m crazy. Are my family members being old fashion or are they right?

3 assault charges within 2 years – what to expect next?

admin — Mon, 23 May 2011 21:01:55 +0000

Are anti-depressants really the answer?

admin — Mon, 23 May 2011 21:01:51 +0000

I have been going through some really difficult times with my marriage, my family and myself for some time.
My wife and I have been seeing different psychologists plus we go to two different marriage counselors.
One doctor is strongly convinced that I should be on anti-depressants and so is my wife.

My problem is that my problems are situational, that I dont need drugs – I just need to improve my life. I worry that my Dr. wants me on anti-depressants because it’s an easy answer for him; and that my wife wants me on them for selfish reasons.

The last thing I want to do is change who I am, o get myself to a point where I cant live without them.

Any thoughts?

Can I win her back now.?

admin — Sun, 22 May 2011 23:22:56 +0000

My wife and I have been through a bad marriage, I did drugs and have had problems in my past that still affect me. She left to go stay at her moms house, She filed a legal separation, but said she doesnt want a divorce yet she wants to see how things go, and she wants me to get my shit together. She says that if I do there is a chance that we can talk about the relationship again. She still says I love you. On the flip side she doesnt want to spend any time with me right now, she says she needs time…She wants to be able to trust me again before we talk about anything. I know what I have to do. She still wears her ring and seems to be home all the time except at work. Im not sure what to think..She wont even give me a time limit.

1.From the sound of it does it sound like I have a good shot at winning her back?

2.Can she still love me and not want to be by me or even talk to me right now?

3. Does it sound like I should just give up hope on her, even though I love her?

Can someone truly overcome drug addiction and lead clean life?

admin — Sun, 22 May 2011 01:02:23 +0000

The last couple years have been a mess for my marriage and my wife. We have been married 8 years and have a almost 6 year old. A few years ago my wife was in car accident and had some back problems. She took pain pills for a while then I thought she had stopped since no longer saw the bottle around. But she had become addict to pain pills and was still taking them but buying them illegally. Things seemed ok but about 6 months ago. I came home from work and she was not home. She disappeared for about 4 months tell I got a call one late night from police that she was in jail. Come to find out that was arrested for prostitution and they believed she was strung out on drugs as well. When she was released we spoke and I got her into a inpatient drug rehab which she should be out of in a couple more weeks. I have been so confused and thus not contacted her much at the center but understand she is doing very well.

I still love her and both daughter and I miss her very much. But do not know where to go from here. Am confused, angry, upset you name it my emotions run the gambit.

i am not married yet ,should i lose my section 8 if i am thinking about marriage to someone that has to regist?

admin — Sat, 21 May 2011 03:00:59 +0000

Registered Sex Offender I have read his case. He was charged with statutory rape when he would NOT give up his parental rights. The victim of the age of 15 was his legal wife with her mothers consent. My children are not his children their fathers don’t do anything for them. this man has served 8 years in prison and no one can give that back to him. When people hear that he has to register the first thought is he is a molester. They print the charge but not the report of how the case was built. My daughter father has drug and gun charges but after he serves his time no one else has to know. What about Killers that kill kids they do not have to register if they do their time. The Law is now getting to be so confusing.

Is it too late for me to get married? Where can I find a wife?

admin — Fri, 20 May 2011 05:02:19 +0000

Basically, Ive always been average at everything, and rather ugly and shy around women, Ive been rejected all my life and ave neevr had a date or kissed girl. I turned 40 in january, 5 years ago approxmatley i got sick of not knowing and had sex with a hooker. I feel even worse, I mean I have to pay a woman to sleep with me….how can anyone be so undesirable that the only way they can get female contact is by funding some poor womans drug habit? I visited my mum yesterday, and I dont mean this in a sexual way, but t as the closest thing to marriage I have ever felt, a cooked meal, a woman who cared about me, leaving was the hardest thing I ever had to do and I nearly downed a bottle of pill when I got back to my empty cold flat. Im a doctor btw, I make a lo of money but what good are material possesions. My mum always thought I didnt get married because I was too busy wih my job, but thats not true, I try so hardt find love. i broke down in front of her and crie and blabbed about how lonely I was.
What can I do? Is it worth me spending my money on stuff like eharmony and match? Or should I just pay for some female company and acceptits the closest thing I’ll ever have

When do you call DHS?

admin — Thu, 19 May 2011 07:02:48 +0000

my ex wife has a known history with drugs and has six kids. She is working over nights and leave her kids with her second ex husband (not me) who also has a known history (and possible current problem) with drugs. Two of the kids are his, and two of the kids are mine, and two are from another marriage. The house is decrepit and the children are being left there for 5 days out of the week. I’d like to look into this farther but can’t due to protective orders. Would leaving the kids with this person for weeks at a time be considered neglect? And would I be justified in calling DHS to do an investigation?

Is there any grounds for legal action?

admin — Wed, 18 May 2011 09:01:49 +0000

I know this may seem a little childish but my ex-wife has been sending my present wife of less than 2 years, e-mails. These emails are filled with lies and accusations of me cheating, drug use, and physical abuse.. These emails have brought some strain on my marriage now…Is there any legal action i can take???

What to do when the cops and CPS fail you???

admin — Tue, 17 May 2011 11:03:03 +0000

My sister is going through a divorce (has been for over a year now) and I have to stress that this is not a crazy ex-wife thing. Her ex beat her throughout the marriage and abused drugs, since they have been apart shes called the cops a few times when my niece would come home reeking of marijuana and they said they dont get involved in divorce cases, he had the cops called on him for haveing a party (a few times) and there were minors there doing everything from drinking to huffing stuff the cops took the drugs and left no record nothing he was in a home when a drug raid went down and still no arrest. On top of that everyone from doctors to my sister has called CPS for reasons i will not talk about, together hes been under investigation 7 times not only for my niece but for other girls too… the kicker is that my sister is haveing to defend HER parenting skills to the courts and we cannot figure why, how do i help my sister help herself? What do we do when the cops dont care??

I need some serious help! I really want out of my marriage but cant seem to get up the nerve to leave.!?

admin — Mon, 16 May 2011 13:02:23 +0000

Without giving some long story about all the things that have lead up to this, I really need advice on how to stand up for myself and get out of this relationship. I am 40 and my wife is 38. We have been married for 1.5 years. She had four kids and I had two. She is a recovering alcoholic and drug user. I knew this in the beginning and she was ok. When we got married she totally started to change into the meanest, self centered person I have ever meet. It is always a two way street I know. I have helped with all responsibilities so I do not want to hear that I need to do that. She is irrational and everybody that looks at her the wrong way or says something the wrong way is an a-hole or a B**** and she does it to me also. All the kids in the house, including hers, avoid her at all cost. I have started to worry about my kids coming to our house because I do not want them around that. To add to this she has been taking Vicodin and Xanex and Ambian for the past 3 months but, I am not allowed to judge her on this actions.

I need some advice on how to grow some man berries and tell her that it is over, and take my lumps since it will be all my fault in her eyes anyway. The children that are in this house do not deserve this and I feel like I am letting them down but, I need to be comfortable in my own house and that is not possible with her.