How Do I Get My Wife Off Drugs? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com We are here to provide assistance in getting your wife off of drugs! Fri, 03 Sep 2010 10:13:44 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 My wife want to go out drinking on her birthday.Advice please? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/03/my-wife-want-to-go-out-drinking-on-her-birthday-advice-please/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/03/my-wife-want-to-go-out-drinking-on-her-birthday-advice-please/#comments Fri, 03 Sep 2010 10:13:44 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/03/my-wife-want-to-go-out-drinking-on-her-birthday-advice-please/ She wants to go out drinking with her mother , and her mother is one of those people who think 1or 2 drinks and she can still drive. Last time i had to go pick her and her coworker they both swore they only had 2 drinks and the drinks might of been drugged. Honestly it was just they had way more then 2 drinks and where uber smashed. I would drive them both my self to and from but i can’t naturally leave my daughter at the house alone or take her to a bar. Would it be better to hire a personal drive for that night or drive them up there drop them off then come back and pick them both back up?
Should i just trust them to be smart about it if there to intoxicated to not drive.

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/03/my-wife-want-to-go-out-drinking-on-her-birthday-advice-please/feed/ 18 Can a recovering alcoholic date someone who drinks, and smokes pot occastionally (not with the Alcoholic)? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/03/can-a-recovering-alcoholic-date-someone-who-drinks-and-smokes-pot-occastionally-not-with-the-alcoholic/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/03/can-a-recovering-alcoholic-date-someone-who-drinks-and-smokes-pot-occastionally-not-with-the-alcoholic/#comments Fri, 03 Sep 2010 07:03:41 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/03/can-a-recovering-alcoholic-date-someone-who-drinks-and-smokes-pot-occastionally-not-with-the-alcoholic/ I’m a recovering alcoholic who has been going out with a guy for 2 and a half years. I’ve been in the program seriously for 1 and a half years. We are very much in love, and he doesn’t drink around me, but when he is not with me he will drink, and once in a great while smoke pot. We are not kids, I am 53 and he is 43. He also has been in an abusive (wife abused him)relationship for 22 years, and never has gotten help for the affects its had on him. What should I do? I really want our relationship to work, but he has had anger issues in the past with me, says he is willing to get help, but we can’t go any farther in our relationship until he gets help, or somehow quits smoking pot and drinking. What can I do? Please help me

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JERUSALEM—As an uneasy truce between Israel and Hezbollah continues, millions of average men and women in the Holy Land are turning to the one simple comfort that has always seen them through the darkest days of their troubled history: the steadfast guidance of their religious faith.

“I take solace in knowing that my faith is a sanctuary, an escape from the bloodshed and turmoil,” said Haifa resident Yigal Taheri, who last week lost his wife and newborn daughter
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am i missing something? is religion insanity i.e. doing the same thing over and over expecting different results?

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/02/a-heroin-addict-would-atleast-know-they-are-participating-in-a-dangerous-habit/feed/ 4 Help Hubby hit me? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/02/help-hubby-hit-me/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/02/help-hubby-hit-me/#comments Thu, 02 Sep 2010 19:04:11 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/02/help-hubby-hit-me/ My H has been an alcoholic for years. He has had past history of dv with ex wife and ex gf. This weekend we got in a fight in the car, we had both been drinking, I was driving. He faked like he was calling the cops and had a whole conversation while a police car w/ lights on came down the hill after he got off the phone. I swung open handed and hit his chin, he swung closed fist and hit me in my glasses which cut open the bridge of my nose. I took off and left that night, but I came back the next morning. He said he would give me a divorce and leave if I wanted. He said he deeply regreted everything that happened, but I shouldn’t have hit him, because then I was instigating the violence. I think he was wrong for pretending to call the police.

He has a tendancy to binge drink on the weekend and most of my friends don’t want to be around him. Which leaves his buddies that do drink constantly. We have a 2 yr old son and I have an 8 yr old dtr. I do love him.
But I am not sure if he really can change like he says he wants to. I told him next time we are done. But should I go to anger management or some sort of counseling? We have been together for 3 years, he is also bipolar and stopped taking his meds two months ago. He says he wants to change but then he does the same thing every weekend. I told him we both need to be accountable to each other to not drink and talk to each other better. What next?
I am not an alcoholic and am not making excuses for myself, I would not have even mentioned anything about me doing anything wrong if I was… My kids were taken care of at the babysitters, they didn’t see anything.
Hey teacherintheroom I had 2 beers he had 10 he was doing his typical emotional phsychological crap… Sorry that you have never been in that position before. I am 29 I do not drink all the time, if I have 3 drinks in a weekend thats a lot.

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/02/help-hubby-hit-me/feed/ 21 My wife left me and the pain is unbearable.? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/02/my-wife-left-me-and-the-pain-is-unbearable/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/02/my-wife-left-me-and-the-pain-is-unbearable/#comments Thu, 02 Sep 2010 15:13:05 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/02/my-wife-left-me-and-the-pain-is-unbearable/ I like to think I tried very very hard. However it wasn’t enough. I am not going to sit here and tell you I am perfect because I am not, the main reason she left me was because on average, once or twice a year I would get so intoxicated I didn’t know what I was doing and ended up pushing/shoving her around. I never slap her or beat her per say, however it is still just as bad. Why I would do something like this to someone I love so much, ?? I know I will never ever touch another bottle of Liquor as long as I live and God as my witness. She has only been gone two days now and the pain is killing me. I have custody of my children from a previous marriage and I feel like a Zombie around them. I just need someone to confide in, something to just make it by. I think there may still be hope for our marriage, however at this point I wonder if she deserves better and I should just grin and bare it for her sake. I know not what to do, Only that I have made the biggest mistake of my life and will never recover from it.
Thank you all for your kind words of wisdom. It does all sound easy. There are alot of other women in this world, yes, but she is my soulmate. She is the nicest person I have ever met in my life. She has never had a bad word to say about anyone. She is truly “one in a million”. Which is why I think she probably deserves better than I. Oh, I know very well what I did, and do realize what alcohol has cost me. No, I will never be influenced by that again. I don’t drink all the time, just socially, couple of times a month. She has been in and out of the hospital for months and months and I have always been right by her side, even though members of her own family never show up as promised. I worry more about her health than anything else. She does love me, I know, however I think the medication she is on is affecting her state of mind on a regular basis as her moods have grown more and more sporadic. Sorry for going on and on…Helps to let it out.. I miss her so. She won’t return my calls.
I just got back from taking my kids to the movies. I could not do anything but think about where she was, what she was doing, If she was thinking of me at all?
All the while smiling and nodding trying to hide my true feelings. Don’t know how much longer I can keep it together. I’ve got a constant knot in my stomach, Managed to force down a few handfuls of popcorn tonight…I’m self employed, and have not been to open my store in two days and I do not even have a care to check the voicemails….How on earth can anything hurt this bad…Please tell me there is a magic pill that can make this all go away….

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/02/my-wife-left-me-and-the-pain-is-unbearable/feed/ 3 How should I handle my husbands ex-wife who oversteps her boundaries? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/02/how-should-i-handle-my-husbands-ex-wife-who-oversteps-her-boundaries/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/02/how-should-i-handle-my-husbands-ex-wife-who-oversteps-her-boundaries/#comments Thu, 02 Sep 2010 13:06:46 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/02/how-should-i-handle-my-husbands-ex-wife-who-oversteps-her-boundaries/ When I am not home she comes in with her son to snoop around(she once lived in the home)If I am not in the living room when she arrives she goes back to his bedroom following his father.I didn’t realize this was going on except I would come home at lunchtime and find our bedroom door locked on the days she was to come pickup him up. She finds excuses to come into the home.I had enough,so I called her and told her that when she comes inside my home she stays in the foyer. She got beligerent.This woman has tried suicide 4 x since I have known her and 8 x total. She admitted that she did it for attention,the last time she scratched her wrists. I have only been in her home twice and both times was to get the son out of the home because her 3rd husband and her were drinking and fighting.She is getting married again without divorcing the 3rd husband,she has an alcoholic and pill problem.I love the son as my own and he knows it. What should I do in the future?

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/02/how-should-i-handle-my-husbands-ex-wife-who-oversteps-her-boundaries/feed/ 6 Have you ever had one of those real life situations that cause you to pinch yourself……? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/02/have-you-ever-had-one-of-those-real-life-situations-that-cause-you-to-pinch-yourself/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/02/have-you-ever-had-one-of-those-real-life-situations-that-cause-you-to-pinch-yourself/#comments Thu, 02 Sep 2010 07:02:40 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/02/have-you-ever-had-one-of-those-real-life-situations-that-cause-you-to-pinch-yourself/ …cause you might be dreaming?
Here is one from my life… see if you can top it.

My bro-in-law has a bad Opiate addiction. Oxycodone. But also mixes in Morphine some times. He has lost everything good in his life… jobs, wives, kids, homes, cars, belongings, health, friendships, etc. We helped him into detox and rehab a few times… to no avail. He robs and steals and makes a living selling other people’s stuff. He keeps chasing the high and buying and selling drugs and working with corrupt doctors to sell prescriptions for them. He recently moved to another state to get away from his life here in Virginia. He moved in with his mother and looking for a job.

Here is where I pinch myself:

He calls me… he has applied for a job at ADT (the alarm system company). He wants me to give him a reference. I refuse.

He gets the job anyway and calls me back, “How long do I have to be off Opiates to pass a drug test?”

I said, “What kind of test?”

“The hair test.”

“Shave yourself bald.”

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/02/have-you-ever-had-one-of-those-real-life-situations-that-cause-you-to-pinch-yourself/feed/ 1 What would you name this person? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/01/what-would-you-name-this-person/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/01/what-would-you-name-this-person/#comments Wed, 01 Sep 2010 22:05:05 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/01/what-would-you-name-this-person/ Okay, well, there’s actually a few characters I’d like you to name (for a book in my story). First names are all that’s needed. Thanks!

1. Single mother, sort of irresponsible, always with a new boyfriend and occasionally binge drinks, though she isn’t an alcoholic. Not really a very good mother, but she does love all her children. Dark red hair, tall and slender.

2. 18-year-old boy, light, sandy hair, does drugs and used to do alcohol but hasn’t ever drunk since an incident a few years before. Intense and lonely, consumed by guilt but also selfish. (Son of person 1)

3. 20-year old girl, long, curly red hair and bright brown eyes, obsessed with making something of herself and studying to be a psychologist(daughter of person 1, sister of person 2)

4. A male prosecutor who has 3 kids, two boys and a girl, who he loves more than anything, except perhaps his wife. His other daughter was kidnapped and killed, which is why he’s a prosecutor. He loves his job and likes to think he’s making the world safer for his children. However, he has a brother who’s a criminal (theft, DUIs, and assault) but is now out of jail and living on a trailer on the prosecutor’s backyard. He finds out that his brother and wife are having an affair, and his wife wants a divorce and custody of the kids.

Thank you!!!

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/01/what-would-you-name-this-person/feed/ 13 heroin addict son, should i kick him out? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/01/heroin-addict-son-should-i-kick-him-out/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/01/heroin-addict-son-should-i-kick-him-out/#comments Wed, 01 Sep 2010 21:09:45 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/01/heroin-addict-son-should-i-kick-him-out/ he has not made my wife and i life very pleasant, overdosed 3 times, had to give him mouth to mouth once for 20 minutes till ambulance came, has been to rehab a couple times, goes to counseling on saturdays, stopped several times. said tonight he has no plans of quitting and doesn’t do as much now. i’ve had enough, what to do
he makes 46,000 last year, is 24, only gives me 100 bucks a week. he made more money than i did last year. i am getting older and apreciate his help with things, but he really doesn’t do much for me, an only child. he started when 18 and i had no idea, should have kicked him out then, i guess. i wasn’t the best example, bad alcoholic and pot smoker, never did heroin though. the alcohol almost killed me and i drink very little to none now for 10 years or more and never to exess
He has been on suboxone for at least 2 yrs. pays for it himself & counseling also. stops the suboxone when he wants to use. he spent 30 days in a good rehab, got out, went to a few meetings and quit going. He is in group counseling now and it’s not helping whatsoever. our life has been a nightmare for the past 5 yrs. Thanks for your answers.

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/01/heroin-addict-son-should-i-kick-him-out/feed/ 16 What are the limits between wife and ex-husband? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/01/what-are-the-limits-between-wife-and-ex-husband/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/01/what-are-the-limits-between-wife-and-ex-husband/#comments Wed, 01 Sep 2010 21:01:01 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/01/what-are-the-limits-between-wife-and-ex-husband/ My wife has two little boys by her previous husband.There father is good to them but he wishes to keep drugs in his life. My wife supported him throughout their marriage and she has for the most part since we have been together. She has participated in his rehab classes, she has given him cash to put gas in his car to come see the kids, even went and picked him up and allowed him to stay in the house to dry out for 3 days. I have objected to all of this and yet the response is that i need to do” whats best for the boys”. Where do I draw the line?

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/01/what-are-the-limits-between-wife-and-ex-husband/feed/ 14 I’m scared of being a house wife, I’m only 21 yrs old is this normal? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/01/im-scared-of-being-a-house-wife-im-only-21-yrs-old-is-this-normal/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/01/im-scared-of-being-a-house-wife-im-only-21-yrs-old-is-this-normal/#comments Wed, 01 Sep 2010 20:13:17 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/01/im-scared-of-being-a-house-wife-im-only-21-yrs-old-is-this-normal/ I’ve always been the weird child, the one that stops and thinks about feelings, poverty, injustice, and abandoned dogs. I remember when i was little i used to dream that i would buy a HUGE house and then i’d pick up every abandoned grandfather of the streets and i’d help them ..i wanted to save dogs too. Now Im a psychology student, vegetarian and i am a home health care provider for elder people. but in less than a year i’ll get married to my boyfriend and i’ll become another house wife struggling to make ends meet. My family is happy now because i’ll be conforming to the rules of society.. i’ll no longer be the weird child. Now they’ll start asking about kids..when will i have kids..b-day parties..toys.. while i’ll be miserable everyday. I want to join the peace corps so bad….so bad. I want to go to Africa and serve for 2yrs. I want to travel and do adventuorus things..help people! get out of this intoxicating cycle. School-wedding-kids-life gone … i want to do more! they ask me “why r u not excited abt ur wedding?” i do love my boyfriend i do i really do but i dont want to live a normal life!!! help!!!
what should i do???

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/01/im-scared-of-being-a-house-wife-im-only-21-yrs-old-is-this-normal/feed/ 23 alcoholic or problem drinker? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/01/alcoholic-or-problem-drinker/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/01/alcoholic-or-problem-drinker/#comments Wed, 01 Sep 2010 19:01:46 +0000 admin i know someone that has gradually developed a drinking problem over the past years. this past year it has gotten so bad that the wife has banned alcohol from the house and begged him repeatedly to stop drinking. each time he basically says no problem, then purchases alcohol and hides it all over the house. when no one’s home it’s obvious he drinks because when the wife and kids get back he’s completely drunk. they don’t know where he hides the alcohol so they can’t get rid of it. he has even engaged in dangerous activities as weedwacking while drinking a bottle of rum. when anyone confronts him about being drunk he completely denies that he drank anything. the next day he will admit he drank and promise not to do it again. finally his wife told him she thought he was an alcoholic and needed serious help. he said he was a problem drinker, not an alcoholic, and didn’t need help, just a little more self-control. his reasoning: he still holds a good job (drinking doesn’t interfere with work) and he has been able to abstain from drinking for about two weeks before without experiencing withdrawal symptoms such as shaky hands. the wife still insists he’s an alcoholic…who is right? is he an alcoholic or a problem drinker?

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/01/alcoholic-or-problem-drinker/feed/ 0 How long are the lasting effects of pain killers and then suboxone? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/01/how-long-are-the-lasting-effects-of-pain-killers-and-then-suboxone/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/01/how-long-are-the-lasting-effects-of-pain-killers-and-then-suboxone/#comments Wed, 01 Sep 2010 12:02:20 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/01/how-long-are-the-lasting-effects-of-pain-killers-and-then-suboxone/ Got hooked on percs and lortab around November of 2007 and in March of 2008 came clean to my wife and parents about the pain killer addiction. Instead of just going through the withdrawl, I looked for an easy way out and started on Suboxone. So I was on Suboxone for over a year and finally on June 30th I had enough and checked myself in to a detox so I could get off everything once and for all. After a month, I finally feel good mentally again, better than I have in 2 years. Problem is the BACK PAIN. As soon as I started feeling good in every way my back started killing me. This has been going on for 2 weeks now. Could this be a lingering effect of the pain killers and suboxone?? Anyone have a similar situation??

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/09/01/how-long-are-the-lasting-effects-of-pain-killers-and-then-suboxone/feed/ 2 Why does my wife complain about too much foreplay? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/31/why-does-my-wife-complain-about-too-much-foreplay/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/31/why-does-my-wife-complain-about-too-much-foreplay/#comments Wed, 01 Sep 2010 01:13:18 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/31/why-does-my-wife-complain-about-too-much-foreplay/ When my wife and I do get to make love (see other questions), she says I spend too much time with foreplay. That I should just get to it. I’m so confused about that because just about everything on this board says I’m supposed to slow things down and focus on getting her in the mood.

I love foreplay. It is so fun and intoxicating. What can I do?
Thanks everyone. My wife is 33. She’s a stay at home mom. Read my other questions for the things I do for her.

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/31/why-does-my-wife-complain-about-too-much-foreplay/feed/ 24 “divorce”! i am a pretty smart cookie until now…..HELP? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/31/divorce-i-am-a-pretty-smart-cookie-until-now-help/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/31/divorce-i-am-a-pretty-smart-cookie-until-now-help/#comments Wed, 01 Sep 2010 01:04:16 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/31/divorce-i-am-a-pretty-smart-cookie-until-now-help/ ok lets try to give it to you in a nut shell.married my sweetheart 22 years ago we were living the dream until about 6 years ago i hurt my back and got hooked on pain meds and over time crushed all that we had ..she asked me to go back to ny and get help i did ..but my addiction got worse… her and my daughter were in florida and i was alone with mom in ny i did not get help i got put in jail for presciption fraud ….i still thru the help of family managed to support her ,,,,and remained loyal ,,as did she ,it is now 1 year and my whole life is turned around i have been clean 13 months and i am on a drug called suboxone go to therapy ,meetings and am commited to myself to get help for the rest of my life ,and one day at a time i have earned alot of respect back from my family ,wife and co workers …….and i am finally forgiven by my wife.and it looks like in a few months we will be a family under the same roof,part of us moving foward is she wants me to sign divorce papers in case i go on a binge again so she got a lawyer and i dont know what to expect,or what to sign or not sign i make 87k a year and have no assets ,we have beenspeaking to a counsler and we do love each other but for her there is still the fear of me going off on a binge,and the way i feel now at 45yrs old it wont happen ,but nobody can predict the future…again i am in ny she is in tampa what shoul i do about these papers she filed with the courts in tampa what should i expect

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/31/divorce-i-am-a-pretty-smart-cookie-until-now-help/feed/ 10 Help My Wife Doesn’t understand? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/31/help-my-wife-doesnt-understand/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/31/help-my-wife-doesnt-understand/#comments Wed, 01 Sep 2010 01:02:31 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/31/help-my-wife-doesnt-understand/ Why my wife doesn’t understand that I don’t want deal with my ex. My ex wife is crazy and she is alcoholic does crazy things like throw things call me names infront of our daughter. Therefore, the last 3yrs I decided not to deal with her and not visit my daughter and let my daughter makeup her mind about the past when she is 18yrs. “cause of the nature of my job I don’t want fight custody with my ex ’cause I travel a lot and I don’t want my current wife to have to take care of my past mistakes. My wife still insist for me to try visit or take custody fo my daughter, help how to explain to her to let me make my own decisions. Married 4yr and have 3yr. I have been so great to our child so I’m a good dad.

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/31/help-my-wife-doesnt-understand/feed/ 25 I am a Finance student, taking legal studies. Please help with the following question.? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/31/i-am-a-finance-student-taking-legal-studies-please-help-with-the-following-question/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/31/i-am-a-finance-student-taking-legal-studies-please-help-with-the-following-question/#comments Tue, 31 Aug 2010 23:07:01 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/31/i-am-a-finance-student-taking-legal-studies-please-help-with-the-following-question/ Kmart sold a rifle to William, who was a heavy drug user and was under indictment for a felony. Federal law prohibits the sale of firearms to such persons. Kmart was supposed to question potential customers about drug use or felony indictments but failed to do so. William’s brother, a heroin addict, took the rifle while using drugs and attacked his wife and a police officer. Can the police officer sue Kmart? For what and why?

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/31/i-am-a-finance-student-taking-legal-studies-please-help-with-the-following-question/feed/ 3 I need help breaking my vicodin addiction.? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/31/i-need-help-breaking-my-vicodin-addiction/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/31/i-need-help-breaking-my-vicodin-addiction/#comments Tue, 31 Aug 2010 23:06:58 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/31/i-need-help-breaking-my-vicodin-addiction/ I injured my back 2+ yrs ago and have been addicted to Vicodin since. It slowly got worse and I would always say to myself, “It’s because I’m in pain” or “I have it under control and I can stop anytime,” in reality I knew I had a problem I just couldn’t admit it. So now I’m up to 7-10 7.5/750mg pills a day. I wish my doctor would have never given me these damn things all they did was ruin my life. My marriage is in shambles, I went from making $60k a year to making $35k a year, I sold my sport bike to buy more vicodin, I almost lost my house, I see three different doctors to get multiple prescriptions, I subscribe to 5 online pharmacies websites spending $1200/month on pills. I told my wife I quit taking them but I hide them in the garage, when I walk the dog, I sneak in to pop a few pills. I would like advice on the withdrawl symptoms I’m soon facing and how to kick the aweful craving. I just want to cry out because this drug has ruined my life. I’ve even asked God for help.

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/31/i-need-help-breaking-my-vicodin-addiction/feed/ 2 How do I sue the hospital? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/31/how-do-i-sue-the-hospital/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/31/how-do-i-sue-the-hospital/#comments Tue, 31 Aug 2010 23:01:20 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/31/how-do-i-sue-the-hospital/ A hospital said that my wife was using drugs based on a preliminary drug screen later after the confirming test it showed that she was negative for all drugs with the exception of a drug the hospital itself administered. This kind of mistake almost cost my wife and I are two little girls, our marriage, her college funds, and eligibility for state aid. I would like to sue them but don’t know on what grounds that would be or for how much.
A hospital said that my wife was using drugs based on a preliminary drug screen later after the confirming test it showed that she was negative for all drugs with the exception of a drug the hospital itself administered. This kind of mistake almost cost my wife and I are two little girls, our marriage, her college funds, and eligibility for state aid. I would like to sue them but don’t know on what grounds that would be or for how much.
Don’t know what kind of lawyer handles this and is there a way to deal with this without an attorney.
I don’t understand how this is a crazy lawsuit and the emotional distress is plenty enough. Plus my wife is not allowed unsupervised care of her children. So it is not an almost she lost her children and I have temporary full custody of them. I’m not trying to get a huge sum of money I just believe that the hospital should not be allowed to do something like this and expect us to suffer for their stupidity

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/31/how-do-i-sue-the-hospital/feed/ 10 How can I get past the hurt my husband’s past mistakes have caused me? And how do I trust him again? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/31/how-can-i-get-past-the-hurt-my-husbands-past-mistakes-have-caused-me-and-how-do-i-trust-him-again/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/31/how-can-i-get-past-the-hurt-my-husbands-past-mistakes-have-caused-me-and-how-do-i-trust-him-again/#comments Tue, 31 Aug 2010 17:02:34 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/31/how-can-i-get-past-the-hurt-my-husbands-past-mistakes-have-caused-me-and-how-do-i-trust-him-again/ A year and a half ago my husband disappeared. Said he had to go out to the garage one night around 9 p.m. and he didn’t come back for 2 months. I searched every place I could think of. Of course the wife is always the last to know everything. We had only been married a year and a half. To shorten this somewhat, my husband had a cocaine addiction that I wasn’t aware of. I worried about him. Not knowing if he was dead or alive. I found out he was staying with another woman. One of his “connections”. Life was hell for me. When I realized exactly how bad he was, I had many people telling me do this or that. Forget about him. Move on. Divorce him. I had been married before for 20 years. When I met my husband I truly felt I had found heaven. He was perfect. Or at least perfect for me! He was the kindest, most loving man I had ever met in my life. He was good to anyone and everyone. Always helping someone. Great with my two daughters. Each day and night I would search for him. I would get text messages from time to time saying things like, “Help me, I’m lost.” Or “Thank you for being the person you are.” I realized something. Addictions are an illness. For whatever reason people decide to turn to drugs, once they become addicted, they cannot help it. In my vows I said, “In sickness and in health”. This was a sickness. I wouldn’t have divorced him if he had cancer. So I couldn’t give up. Finally I turned to his family, parents and brother. I told them what was going on. I begged them to help. I even told them that if he didn’t want me, that was fine, but I didn’t want to see him dead! I loved him and wanted him to get better. His family told me they wouldn’t get involved. They never attempted to help in any way. Each day I would go to the bank to close our checking account because he was dipping into the overdraft and leaving me negative $300 every day. I couldn’t close the account until it was positive. The stress was so much for me, I went on stress leave at work in order to not lose my job. My parents ended up giving me $2000 to get the account straight. I had no food, nothing. No way to buy food for my 15 year old daughter. My ex mother in law stepped in and sent more food than 5 families could have ate. My in laws didn’t care because she wasn’t their grandaughter. On a Sunday night my husband had used so much drugs that he started seizing. This “woman” and all the friends there, stuck him in a room and left him! He finally came out of it and woke up on Tuesday. On Tuesday night, he came home. He begged me for help. He said he realized then who truly loved him and that he wanted to live. It was a rough road. I sat with him, tied him to the bed, and didn’t leave his side while he was going through detox. It wasn’t long, weeks, he started getting back into it. This time it wasn’t as bad. He would only stay gone for a day or so. Finally this past July, he begged me to put him in rehab. He has now been clean for 7 months and 9 days. I still love my husband with all of my heart. But there are so many problems and I’m not sure we will ever get through them. I feel that my insecurities and my constant worrying is going to push him away or back to the life he was living. I forgave him. I realized it wasn’t his fault. Yes, he did chose to use the drugs, however, this was the life his parents had lived. I wasn’t aware of that. He ended up telling me things that still makes me cry when I think about them. How his only memories as a child was his parents always strung out. People at there house laying around on the floors doing coke and having sex. And he remembers being taken away from his parents. Now, here is a major problem. His parents told him so many lies. Told him I was calling them with all kinds of lies. I only told them the truth. They claim I never asked them for help. And that all I did was call to tell them how much trouble he was in with the FBI. He never got caught. I never told them such things. They were horrible to me. After he came back, I was so far in debt, I was evicted from my home. His parents didn’t care. My parents took us in. They gave us a home. My mother and I had argued when he was gone and she told me she never wanted him around her again. I told her that I would respect that, however, he was my husband and I would not turn my back on him. I told her that I had never loved someone so much in my life and I would be there when he finally wanted help. She accepted that. He didn’t talk to his family for a year. Now that he is talking to them again, and going to visit them, it’s like nothing ever happened. His mother still makes the comments to him that she doesn’t believe him when he tells her what he was doing. She says he is lying to cover my lies. They also expect me to call and apologize to them. I did nothing to them. I told him the only apology they would get from me is, “I’m sorry I loved your s
feel like I’m losing my mind! I want my marriage to last forever. He tells me every day how sorry he is and how he would take it all back if he could. Yet, he let’s them get by without apologizing to me! Please, don’t tell me how stupid I am. I don’t need to hear the negative things. I know people say if my spouse did this or that to me, it would be over. I said the same things, and ate those words. Until you go through a situation yourself, you really don’t know how you would handle it. Please, only helpful answers?
I loved your son enough to go to any lengths to save his life! And I’m sorry you guys didn’t love him enough to help.” I feel that I was the only one there for him. The only one who fought for him. And now they are treated like they did nothing wrong. I feel they did me wrong and they owe me an apology and a thank you! Also, I question everything. I’m constantly looking for something. Searching his vehicle, his pockets, everything. I do this to see if he is doing these things again. How do I get past this? How do I accept the fact that they are back in his life regardless of how they raised him and how the treated me?

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/31/how-can-i-get-past-the-hurt-my-husbands-past-mistakes-have-caused-me-and-how-do-i-trust-him-again/feed/ 19 my 33 yr old alcoholic brother recently passed away.. i had discovered his body and i have questions on exact? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/31/my-33-yr-old-alcoholic-brother-recently-passed-away-i-had-discovered-his-body-and-i-have-questions-on-exact/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/31/my-33-yr-old-alcoholic-brother-recently-passed-away-i-had-discovered-his-body-and-i-have-questions-on-exact/#comments Tue, 31 Aug 2010 07:04:43 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/31/my-33-yr-old-alcoholic-brother-recently-passed-away-i-had-discovered-his-body-and-i-have-questions-on-exact/ casue of death listed. he was seperated at time of death but still legally married- how can i obtain the autopsy report without going thru wife. we are not on speaking terms. very bad situation… would love any help thanks in advance

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/31/my-33-yr-old-alcoholic-brother-recently-passed-away-i-had-discovered-his-body-and-i-have-questions-on-exact/feed/ 0 My wife has a problem with me drinking, what can I do? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/30/my-wife-has-a-problem-with-me-drinking-what-can-i-do/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/30/my-wife-has-a-problem-with-me-drinking-what-can-i-do/#comments Tue, 31 Aug 2010 06:15:13 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/30/my-wife-has-a-problem-with-me-drinking-what-can-i-do/ Of course the obvious answer is to quit, and maybe I’ll have too… I’ll explain.

I don’t drink a lot, in fact it is extremely rare that I get even slightly intoxicated. But I do like to have a few beers on the weekend. I never go out drinking with “the guys” at bars like I did when I was single, because now that I am married I believe that can be trouble, and I dont want her to worry. So like now, I’m just watchin TV and having a beer like I usually do on Friday night (fun, huh?).

She denies it when I confront her with it, but there is always such disaproval in the way she acts when I drink. Which is strange, because when we met she drank a lot but rarely does now. I still like to though, and I am responsible about it. I never drive if I’ve had even one drink, I don’t get stupid and i have never ONCE said or done anything negative to her while drinking. Am I right to stand my ground and be myself, or should I stop drinking to appease her?
yeah it wouldn’t be that big of a deal to stop, I guess I just feel like I’m being molded or something haha. I’m a engineering student, and after a particularly mentally exhausting week it is nice to have a few to unwind.

Yes, I do take her out, try to include her. Tonight I took her out to dinner, and she did have a beer.

Definately not a religious thing, she’s not religious at all… alcohol is a touchy subject in this country, I’d rather stop drinking than to cause serious problems in our marriage; but at the same time I don’t think it’s healthy for our marriage if I just give in to her whims all the time.
Awesome advice everyone, thanks. BT, yes she used to drink heavily when she was a teenager/early 20′s and it got her into a lot of trouble. That is a big part of why it bothers her. I was raised by parrents who always drank responsibly, so I guess that’s why i dont see the problem with it…. again, thanks everyone.

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/30/my-wife-has-a-problem-with-me-drinking-what-can-i-do/feed/ 8 Any suggestions on how to handle this situation? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/30/any-suggestions-on-how-to-handle-this-situation/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/30/any-suggestions-on-how-to-handle-this-situation/#comments Tue, 31 Aug 2010 04:03:59 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/30/any-suggestions-on-how-to-handle-this-situation/ My wife of 12 years started working in a bar last year. She has become friends with a young, party crowd, and we’ve had some rough times over the course of the year. (See only other post).
One of her friends from the bar is getting a bunch of people to go to Key West next month for her birthday. I’ve become good friends with this girl too. Initially I was invited, along with this girl’s boyfriend. I just found out 2 weeks ago that I am no longer invited, and neither is her boyfriend. Apparently, only girls and gay guys are invited now. Initially, I was hurt because she’s been talking with us about how to celebrate her birthday for months now, and in fact she’s even asked me several times for ideas. First I was invited; now suddenly I’m “uninvited”.
I’m really not comfortable with my wife going on this trip. I’m not a contolling guy, but considering what we’ve been through, I think this is a really bad idea. This job has definitely put a strain on our marriage. For a while it was like she was trying to relive her youth. She would go to bars with her friends after work and not come home til 6am. A couple times I had to go into work late because I had to take our child to school when she was too drunk. I also caught her lying to me many times about where she is and who she is wife. Call me old fashioned but I think a husband has a right to know where his wife is a 4am.
She is very flirty and fun when we go out. One time several months ago, when we were out with some friends at a bar, I saw her making out with a total stranger. I freaked out. She said she was drunk and trying to get the guy to hook up with her friend. She said he asked to kiss her, and she let him. When I looked over, they were making out. I was devastated.
I finally put my foot down and threatened a divorce if things didn’t change. She has been honest with me recently (from what I can tell), and we are finally starting to get over our issues. Now she expects me to be fine with her going on a drinking binge in Key West for 3 days.
Initally, I was going to do something even more fabulous that weekend, but the financial reality set in. It would be too expensive and not worth it. Also, we have a son so I would have to find someone to take care of him.
Any suggestions on how to handle this situation? Should I just turn my head and hope everything is ok when she goes on this trip?

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/30/any-suggestions-on-how-to-handle-this-situation/feed/ 9 In the book I heard the Owl call my name is keetahs husband the man that takes the mask away from the village? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/30/in-the-book-i-heard-the-owl-call-my-name-is-keetahs-husband-the-man-that-takes-the-mask-away-from-the-village/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/30/in-the-book-i-heard-the-owl-call-my-name-is-keetahs-husband-the-man-that-takes-the-mask-away-from-the-village/#comments Tue, 31 Aug 2010 01:06:35 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/30/in-the-book-i-heard-the-owl-call-my-name-is-keetahs-husband-the-man-that-takes-the-mask-away-from-the-village/ In the book it says that Keetah comes back to the village, but when i was doing a little more research it says that a man and his soon to be wife leave the village and go to vancouver. It also says that she becomes a prostitute and dies of a heroin overdose. HELP I’M CONFUSED!!!!!!!

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/30/in-the-book-i-heard-the-owl-call-my-name-is-keetahs-husband-the-man-that-takes-the-mask-away-from-the-village/feed/ 1 My husband blabs his mouth about certain things…..please give me some advice!? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/30/my-husband-blabs-his-mouth-about-certain-things-please-give-me-some-advice/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/30/my-husband-blabs-his-mouth-about-certain-things-please-give-me-some-advice/#comments Tue, 31 Aug 2010 01:05:33 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/30/my-husband-blabs-his-mouth-about-certain-things-please-give-me-some-advice/ I’ve always told my husband everything and I never had the need to hide anything from him until recently when two events happened and he ended up telling his friends about it.

My mom overdosed on prescription drugs and she was admitted to the hospital. She is not a drug addict, she’s an old lady who doesn’t read labels. Anyways. I told my husband to keep this under wraps because people might interpret it the wrong way, and guess what? One of his friends comes up to me and asks me how my mom is doing. I was furious with my husband. After I specifically told him not to tell anyone about this, he went and told people I barely knew.
I don’t care that he talks, what got to me is that he would talk about something I really wanted to keep between us.

Another scenario happened which I wont go into details, and I told him not to say anything only because I want family affairs to remain private. Guess what? Another one of his friends comes up to me and tells me he is sorry that event happened. It was nothing shameful, nothing to hide. Its something I didn’t want anyone knowing because family affairs are meant to stay within the family.

I am sick and tired of him running his mouth after I specifically told him not to say anything.
I would hate to start hiding stuff from him because he can’t keep his mouth shut.

What bugs me the most is that his brother divorced his wife because she cheated on him. He told me to keep that under wraps and not say anything. I haven’t said a single word to anyone because I want him to know he can tell me anything.

How is it fair that he wants things to remain private when it comes to his own family, yet has no respect for me or my family when it comes to keep family affairs private.
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Please help me. What do you think I should do

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/30/my-husband-blabs-his-mouth-about-certain-things-please-give-me-some-advice/feed/ 8 What do i do about our kid that is on drugs? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/30/what-do-i-do-about-our-kid-that-is-on-drugs/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/30/what-do-i-do-about-our-kid-that-is-on-drugs/#comments Tue, 31 Aug 2010 01:00:50 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/30/what-do-i-do-about-our-kid-that-is-on-drugs/ our daughter is 14 now and in the 8th grade…10 months ago we found out that she had been smoking pot since the age of 12 (at least that is as far back as she will admit to)…she has step sisters that are 20 and 21 from my wife’s prior marriage…those girls didn’t live with us, but with her ex husband since we have been together…those sisters are in and out of jail…they are the ones that were giving our preteen pot…i told them to stay away from our daughter and if i heard they were giving drugs to our daughter again i would have them locked up!…well, our daughter a few months ago had used my home office computer for a school project…she left a pile of papers on my desk…one of the papers had drawings that she did of pot leaves “4:20 for life” get high, etc…it also had pictures of mushrooms she drew all psychedelic in style…i was very shocked, and worried…i brought it to the attention to my wife…we sat down with our daughter who of course denied that she was doing any drugs and that she just draws those things because, “i don’t know!”…i wanted to do a drug test on her, but the girl threw a tantrum, screaming and crying and the mom would not let me go get her drug tested…(i know, why don’t i grow a pair and be the man of the house right, but there is no harmony in this house if i do…?)…well, our daughters cell phone has been acting up, so i tried to fix it this morning…i got it to be able to turn back on…i looked at her pictures on the phone and i found 2 recent pics of her smoking a joint!…this just makes me sick to think she is doing this stuff at such a young age (well at all!)…are daughter does have school problems and definite behavior problems…how can i get her to stop doing drugs?…how can i get my wife to stop putting her head in the sand when it comes to our kid?…i tried before to get our daughter into counseling and get drug tested, but the kid throws tantrums and denies everything and the mom falls for it…what do i do?…i have to add that our kid has von willebrands disease which is a blood disorder…she is on medication for this…i am very worried that her doing drugs will harm her more because of this…plus, i really think the girls is prone to depression and is very moody, and defiant…how can i think that the drugs can’t be causing these things?…

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/30/what-do-i-do-about-our-kid-that-is-on-drugs/feed/ 6 Lortab abuse and kidney troubles? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/30/lortab-abuse-and-kidney-troubles/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/30/lortab-abuse-and-kidney-troubles/#comments Mon, 30 Aug 2010 22:01:05 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/30/lortab-abuse-and-kidney-troubles/ I took my wife to the emergency room last night. She’s having difficulty breathing, fatigues easily, and her BP has been all over the place. The nephrologist told her that she is in the beginning stages of acute renal failure. I suspect that she has been abusing Lortab for several months, and I wonder if that might have anything to do with her kidney problems. In the past year, I’ve hospitalized her for opioid detox three times, but she has legitimate pain issues resulting for major surgery complications, making it easy for her to convince several doctors to prescribe Lortab. Any professional insight would be greatly appreciated.

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/30/lortab-abuse-and-kidney-troubles/feed/ 4 does a person lose real property in a divorce if he is an alcoholic??? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/30/does-a-person-lose-real-property-in-a-divorce-if-he-is-an-alcoholic/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/30/does-a-person-lose-real-property-in-a-divorce-if-he-is-an-alcoholic/#comments Mon, 30 Aug 2010 13:02:28 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/30/does-a-person-lose-real-property-in-a-divorce-if-he-is-an-alcoholic/ my son was told by his wife’s attorney that she will get the house because she can prove he is an alcoholic

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/30/does-a-person-lose-real-property-in-a-divorce-if-he-is-an-alcoholic/feed/ 1 I am a married man of 4 years and don’t deprive my wife of attention. Is porn ok for me to look at? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/30/i-am-a-married-man-of-4-years-and-dont-deprive-my-wife-of-attention-is-porn-ok-for-me-to-look-at/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/30/i-am-a-married-man-of-4-years-and-dont-deprive-my-wife-of-attention-is-porn-ok-for-me-to-look-at/#comments Mon, 30 Aug 2010 11:15:04 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/30/i-am-a-married-man-of-4-years-and-dont-deprive-my-wife-of-attention-is-porn-ok-for-me-to-look-at/ I get mixed signals. She’ll watch it with me if she’s a little intoxicated, but hates it when she’s in her normal mind. (She’s not an alcoholic) I do show her I’m interested in all ways. I hug, kiss her, compliment her, but I also like to look at porn, and sometimes like to draw nude women from photos only. Am I just a normal guy?

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/30/i-am-a-married-man-of-4-years-and-dont-deprive-my-wife-of-attention-is-porn-ok-for-me-to-look-at/feed/ 27 Why is the President Drinking Again? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/30/why-is-the-president-drinking-again/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/30/why-is-the-president-drinking-again/#comments Mon, 30 Aug 2010 07:10:55 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/30/why-is-the-president-drinking-again/ March 13, 2007 –Our White House Press Corps sources report further disturbing news about President George W. Bush. Our sources have witnessed a clearly inebriated Bush approaching members of the press corps and making rude comments, including one particularly crude remark about First Lady Laura Bush. In that case, Bush, nodding toward Laura, called her a “c**t.” While Bush’s drinking is no secret to the White House press contingent, that particular comment was reportedly the worst they have heard uttered by Bush. Our sources also report that Laura Bush’s stays at the White House are less frequent and that her overnight trips to the Mayflower Hotel often coincide with the president’s drunken binges.

Note: Some of our female readers were shocked to see the “C” word in the above news item. This editor wants to make it clear that word was used by George W. Bush to denigrate his wife.
Wayne Madsen Report
Ask the White House Press Corp. The news is spreading like wildfire around the country.
The press is the least of the President’s problems. He’s in over his head and is given anything he wants to fail again and again. Relish in news no one has because Reporter Girl is abusing the free speech system. Report her!

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/30/why-is-the-president-drinking-again/feed/ 23 Is there any way my wifes family can force my brother in law into herion rehab in massachusetts? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/29/is-there-any-way-my-wifes-family-can-force-my-brother-in-law-into-herion-rehab-in-massachusetts/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/29/is-there-any-way-my-wifes-family-can-force-my-brother-in-law-into-herion-rehab-in-massachusetts/#comments Mon, 30 Aug 2010 03:08:28 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/29/is-there-any-way-my-wifes-family-can-force-my-brother-in-law-into-herion-rehab-in-massachusetts/ My brother in law is battling a heroin addiction. He voluntarily spent 30 days in rehab but relapsed as soon as he came out. Is there any way my wife or her family can get him court ordered rehab in massachusetts even though he is 23? we have heard of a section 12 or 13 order but cant seem to find info on it. please help as we don’t think at the rate he is going he will reach 24. If no such thing exist in Massachusetts what about Florida as my wife and I live in Florida so we may be able to get him down here if such a law exist in Florida.

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/29/is-there-any-way-my-wifes-family-can-force-my-brother-in-law-into-herion-rehab-in-massachusetts/feed/ 3 Is really Obama tied to Radical? Fact or Fiction.? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/29/is-really-obama-tied-to-radical-fact-or-fiction/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/29/is-really-obama-tied-to-radical-fact-or-fiction/#comments Mon, 30 Aug 2010 03:05:16 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/29/is-really-obama-tied-to-radical-fact-or-fiction/ Im about to put this lie to rest because im sick of hearing it. Ayers was born in 1944. In the 1960′s he was into the wild and radical activities. In the 1970s he was a fugitive running from the FBI. Obama is only 47. So you do the math. When Ayers was actually into these radical activities Obama was only a child and early teenager. Obama didnt even know this man back then. Today Ayers is a professor of education and a Senior University Scholar at the University of Illinois. He is a graduate of the University of Michigan, the Bank Street College of Education, and Teachers College, Columbia University. Bill Ayers, the university professor and brilliant author is no longer a bomber or radical. That was decades ago. Like I said Obama was a child. Ayers has articles that have appeared in Harvard Educational Review and many more. Please see the links for details. Now In the mid-1990s, Ayers and his wife held meetings at their Chicago home to introduce Barack Obama to their neighbors during his first run for the Illinois Senate. So Obama is actually connected to a brilliant man. The 1990′s is when Ayers wrote all those brilliant articles and books.

Ayers used to be a radical 40 years ago. Cindy McCain used to be a drug addict addicted to pain pills. She was investigated federally for stealing pain pills from a medical charity she headed and for having prescriptions filled in the names of the charity’s employees. She admitted it. But is she now? No she is not. She is a women with a family and the wife of a senator. Some people have a negative history that change for the better.

Mc Cain and Palin need to tell truth. Obama didnt even know that man during his radical times. That Maveric and Joe-6 pack Palin need to come up with something else. They have 4 weeks to do it.

http://billayers.org/page.php?cat_id=4

http://www.discoverthenetworks.org/individualProfile.asp?indid=2169

http://www.talkleft.com/story/2008/3/7/2303/06115

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/29/is-really-obama-tied-to-radical-fact-or-fiction/feed/ 7 I am in the process of divorcing. My wife, who has temporary custody of baby leaves her in a bad environment? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/29/i-am-in-the-process-of-divorcing-my-wife-who-has-temporary-custody-of-baby-leaves-her-in-a-bad-environment/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/29/i-am-in-the-process-of-divorcing-my-wife-who-has-temporary-custody-of-baby-leaves-her-in-a-bad-environment/#comments Mon, 30 Aug 2010 03:02:48 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/29/i-am-in-the-process-of-divorcing-my-wife-who-has-temporary-custody-of-baby-leaves-her-in-a-bad-environment/ Wife has been in rehab twice in past 3 years and has attempted suicide 2 other times. She was awarded temporary custody. I am seeking full custody due to wife’s addiction. She leaves baby with her mother who has also had drug problems. Wife’s mother also abused her severely her as a child. Consequently,she was in a number of foster homes. Wife is defending mother, stating that abuse occurred 25 years ago. Yet wife never allowed her 2 other children by a previous marriage, now 14 and 16, to stay with her mother. My attorney tells me that nothing can be done until our court date in March. I am desperate. Please help with any suggestions. Thank you.

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/29/i-am-in-the-process-of-divorcing-my-wife-who-has-temporary-custody-of-baby-leaves-her-in-a-bad-environment/feed/ 13 did i handle this situation in the right way? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/29/did-i-handle-this-situation-in-the-right-way/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/29/did-i-handle-this-situation-in-the-right-way/#comments Mon, 30 Aug 2010 03:01:20 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/29/did-i-handle-this-situation-in-the-right-way/ my wife and i have been together for about a year and a half. she told me she cheated on me a while back while i was out of town. i’ve always told her that cheating on me was the one thing i wouldnt stand for but, i forgave her. she’s an alcoholic which lead to her cheating, basically she got drunk and well, you can figure it out. i told her she needed some kind of therapy/detox.rehab whatever, but she never tried to make an effort to get help. recently she’s been hanging around drinking with friends of hers from work which i told her if she wants to do that i’m cool with it as long as she calls and tells me what she’s doing and where. i’m not a prison warden and i dont want to have to make her check in with me but i figured if she’s gonna go out drinking with a bunch of people i dont know i’m entitled to know whats up. the other night i got mad at her because she’s been hanging around this guy from work an awful lot. i’ve met him and he seems ok but c’mon, i dont know this guy and what he’s like. so we fought and she left. when i got home last night all her stuff was gone. was i wrong to confront her about it? i forgave her for cheating but was still pretty upset about it. and resentful. thanks!

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/29/did-i-handle-this-situation-in-the-right-way/feed/ 0 how can you tell if someone is a alcoholic? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/29/how-can-you-tell-if-someone-is-a-alcoholic/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/29/how-can-you-tell-if-someone-is-a-alcoholic/#comments Sun, 29 Aug 2010 19:01:49 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/29/how-can-you-tell-if-someone-is-a-alcoholic/ Here is the issue. My soon to be ex husband lives a 1000 miles away and communicates with the kids though phone and skype (webcam). Lately he has not been setting up times to do this on the scheduled days. Then he text me saying Him and I need to work on our communication for the sake of the kids. ( seriously how do I need to help him, I use to text him to set up times but my counselor told me I need to stop doing that and that he needs to take the responsibility) He says a lot of things that do not make any since and is just all over the board. One week things will be fine for contact with the kids then the next week it is not. His behavior just really weird. I asked my counselor if he is just stupid or if he is crazy.
side notes
-his dad became an alcoholic after he left his wife
-he has totally screwed up his life by everything he has done in the last 7months
So, my question is how can I tell if I never see him or I am never around him. Obviously the only reason I care is because of our kids one is 3yrs and other is 6months. They have no way of telling me something is wrong with daddy.
it is in the court order that he skype and or talk to them twice a week. My parents keep telling me I need to cut him off and tell him no. Oh, and he did not move away he is in the military and we lived there and he told me to move out and go live with my parents. (man what an ass, looks horrible when I type it!)
I do not want my kids to hate me because I cut their father out but it seems like he is causing more harm then good.

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/29/how-can-you-tell-if-someone-is-a-alcoholic/feed/ 5 What do you think the Bush family code names were? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/29/what-do-you-think-the-bush-family-code-names-were/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/29/what-do-you-think-the-bush-family-code-names-were/#comments Sun, 29 Aug 2010 16:18:12 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/29/what-do-you-think-the-bush-family-code-names-were/ We now know the code names that the Secret Service has given to the Obama and Biden families. As for the President-elect, his new code name is Renegade. Michelle Obama is Renaissance.

Daughters Malia and Sasha are Radiance and Rosebud.

Vice-President-elect Joe Biden was given the name Celtic and his wife Jill is Capri.

My guess:
George: Idiot
Laura: I’m-with-stupid
Barbara: Inebriated
Jenna: Intoxicated

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/29/what-do-you-think-the-bush-family-code-names-were/feed/ 6 Yet another cheating question….Please…? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/29/yet-another-cheating-question-please/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/29/yet-another-cheating-question-please/#comments Sun, 29 Aug 2010 10:04:33 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/29/yet-another-cheating-question-please/ My wife and I have been together for 4yrs (married 2) and I made the big mistake a few days ago. She does not know about the incident and will MOST likely never know unless I come clean. The down and DIRTY of it all is that we (my wife and I) were at a party at some friends place, she left early and I stayed behind when it all happened a few hours later. During the heat of the moment I had the reality check and I said the classic “I cant do this line,” and drove home (another poor decision being extremely drunk.) I realize it was my fault for even being in the situation. I have never had a one-night stand or come close to cheating on any of my 3 prior partners. I am 26 and like to binge drink on occasion (not after this though.)

I considered myself a Christian up to now and have been reading the good book to find my solution. I feel like it is my sin to bear and that if I tell her it will only relieve me of my guilt and put an unnecessary burden on her. Any advice?

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/29/yet-another-cheating-question-please/feed/ 10 what are the chances of my son’s father being made to have SUPERVISED visitation.? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/29/what-are-the-chances-of-my-sons-father-being-made-to-have-supervised-visitation/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/29/what-are-the-chances-of-my-sons-father-being-made-to-have-supervised-visitation/#comments Sun, 29 Aug 2010 08:02:53 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/29/what-are-the-chances-of-my-sons-father-being-made-to-have-supervised-visitation/ my son’s father is a pathalogical liar and uses his children as pawns in his chess game of…getting attention from women, lying, cheating, etc. he’s has a serious selfish problem. he and i were together for six years and in those six years he subjected his children to at least 2 other women and their kids. Now he’s attempting to subject my son to his “new” girlfriend who he met in AA. she’s a pediatric nurse mother of three and a Narcotics Addict. the last girl he cheated on me with thought he lived alone and had this little old dog, for a year he lied to her and continuously took his three kids (one of them, my 3 yr old son) over to her house. While in wal-mart one day, his oldest son, Jamesy asked him, “Daddy, why do you lie to lizzy about where we are going? Daddy why do you live with lizzy when you are seeing Dawn” he told jamesy, “i promise james, i’ll quit cheating on lizzy” at the same time he was buying flowers and asked jamesy to give them to dawn so it looked less romantic and cuter. she bought it. she and i met when he finally checked into detox. Alcohol is just one outlet of his manic ways. he’s up right now and living in vegas “acting” like he’s a changed man. But he’s left two voicemails in the last week and i can tell he has been drinking again. he’s now got his new girlfriend harassing me over texts. i want him to have “supervised” visitation if any at all. right now his eldest son is in counseling at school. he’s 9. he has panic attacks over his dad. he loves his daddy but his daddy has asked him to lie and keep quiet about where they go etc. he’s tells a good lie. i’m afraid the mediator will give him unsupervised visitation when he comes to visit from vegas. we’re in illinois. what are the chances that i can prove he subjects his children to immoral situations. what do i have to do to get my ducks in a row to prove his judgement is impaired. do i need statements from past women, his ex-wife, his eldest son’s school counselor? right now it just looks like we’re all angry women. but i’m trying to protect my child from being hurt like his eldest brother is hurting. HELP.

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/29/what-are-the-chances-of-my-sons-father-being-made-to-have-supervised-visitation/feed/ 1 how do i tell my children their mother is a liar? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/28/how-do-i-tell-my-children-their-mother-is-a-liar/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/28/how-do-i-tell-my-children-their-mother-is-a-liar/#comments Sun, 29 Aug 2010 05:07:08 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/28/how-do-i-tell-my-children-their-mother-is-a-liar/ My ex-wife Penelope is a sturdy, thick-set, no nonsense woman who left me due to a gambling and heroin addiction, both of which i have mostly recovered from.

I have now become aware that she may be polluting the minds of our two children, telling them both that i am no good, i’m a womaniser and racist, and an abuser of women and children, (all of which is mostly untrue).

How do i convince them their mother is lying to them? Both my children are 43 years old.

Share/Bookmark]]> http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/28/how-do-i-tell-my-children-their-mother-is-a-liar/feed/ 3 Would you wait for your wife to get out of jail for 3 years if she had lied to you pre-marriage? http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/28/would-you-wait-for-your-wife-to-get-out-of-jail-for-3-years-if-she-had-lied-to-you-pre-marriage/ http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/28/would-you-wait-for-your-wife-to-get-out-of-jail-for-3-years-if-she-had-lied-to-you-pre-marriage/#comments Sun, 29 Aug 2010 05:00:45 +0000 admin http://www.howdoigetmywifeoffdrugs.com/08/28/would-you-wait-for-your-wife-to-get-out-of-jail-for-3-years-if-she-had-lied-to-you-pre-marriage/ A friend of mine is trying to decide what to do. In early 2008 he married a lady with a history of drug abuse. He knew she’d been in trouble with the law but thought everything was taken care of BEFORE he married her. And when he married her she was clean and even doing lectures against drug abuse in schools, etc. He is a very nice and decent man….doesn’t even drink.

Anyway, AFTER he married the lady he finds out she has more charges against her and she gets put into jail. Long story short, she will be doing a solid three year stretch.

I have been seeing this guy as friends only. Going to movies or out to eat, etc. He told me that he doesn’t know how he is going to handle this and doesn’t want either of us to be hurt. So we haven’t done “the deed.”

However, he acts like he is really crazy about me and he knows that I am a decent woman. Also, he has went so far as to kiss me. Now, I’m starting to get very uncomfortable. I mean, I like him. I liked the kiss. But he is still married. And I don’t date married guys.

Do you guys think he will divorce his wife or wait the three full years? What would you guys do if you were him?

I’m treading very lightly in this situation and not letting myself get emotionally attached.

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