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Hi all, I was invited to a friend’s house for a party Friday night. Alcohol was served and everyone was feeling good about themselves and conversing with each other. A litle later a deck of cards was brought out, and a few people decided to play poker with no money involved. By close to midnight everyone was pretty heavily intoxicated and someone suggested to play strip poker. There were a lot of volunteers from men and women alike. And to make it interesting I was staring at one of the female poker players let’s just say she was “well endowed” and was already topless. She got mad at me for staring at her jugs! I am like, what the heck? Ladies your opinions please? If you can’t handle it, then don’t play it. To the ladies out there, have you experienced playing strip poker? If not would you try anything once? And why would you get mad if the guys are checking you out. By the way I wasn’t staring, I was just “glancing.” Then her husband got mat at me too, I was like huh?

his life after about 2 years because i moved away and traveled for my job and we are starting to see him now and I’m trying to get joint custody of him but i owe the mother back child support would they still look at me as a bad father if i was trying to get him back into my life and had a stable home and job ..and the mother is living off the government and she got arrested for heroin and child neglect with injury and the child was sexually abused while he was in foster care and they wouldn’t like me take my child because he was in wv and i was in tx i would have had to quit my job and move back up here and never would have found a job here or a house in that amount of time so he stayed in foster care for 7 months while she was in rehab just getting a slap on the wrist..so what do you think my chances are of getting joint custody I’m trying to make everything rite
and for the record for those of you that think i left my x for a nother women because im just a dead beat your wrong because I didn’t she was abusive to me mentaly and physicly and what was i suppost to do when all she ever did was fight with me infront of my child and leave me when he was 6 months old and went with a drug addict that i didn’t know about untill she went to jail for narcotics so there for im not the bad one and i have had it ruff the past 2 years every job is dead end she went to court stating i made 2700 a month when i was in texas and i was only making 1200 a month and they exspected me to pay her 500 a month so i dont know how that works but yeah!

Hello! I have been with my husband for 5 years together and married 3 out of those five years. My husband has two children from a previous marriage ages 12 (girl), 7 (boy). I have a daughter from a previous relationship age 8 (girl). Well to make long story short my “step-daughter” told her mother first of something she “found” in my drawer and her mother called my husband and said you need to call your daughter so when he did she told him what she found in my drawer. Which then in turn caused a big war almost divorce. The something was of a grassy substance she said that she found and he believed her. We talked and I thought everything was worked out. But then last night he tells me that “He is losing interest in me” & “he does not love me.” He also was me to take a drug test every 30 days to make sure I am not doing drugs. And he treats his children better than my child and I understand those are his children and my daughter is the step daughter to him but I treat his children the same as if they were my own children. SO should I keep hanging on to this marriage or should I just walk away. Please help and any advice would be appreciated. Believe me I love my family and I have told him I am Deeply sorry for not being “the perfect wife.” and I am not doing “what I am told.” So please help.

I am really really hungry and really really worried about my weight. I have 3 choices to choose from. Which do you believe I should choose?

Choice #1 tells me:

I shouldn’t eat because I need to be in the best shape for when I meet my future wife Miley Cyrus (lol) in person which I don’t know when it’s going to happen and also after exercising hard and eating very little to lose weight while thinking about her.
Why should I give up my diet just for stupid food?

Choice #2 tells me:

Eat!!! Eat!! like a pig because binge eating once a week, and once that day won’t make me as fat as eating in this manner 7 days a week.
Why should I miss out on the good and delicious foods that are in front of my face?

Choice #3 tells me:

I have the choice to do both from the above which would require me to first binge and then purge which would resolve both my problems of not missing out on my favorite foods and also not gaining as much or no weight at all as I have felt it several times in the past.
What can go wrong anyway for binging and purging once a week?

What choice should I choose?