How Do I Get My Wife Off Drugs?

Archive for July 27th, 2010

Well my friend does 1 line of heroin every Saturday he isn’t an addict in fact he looks very healthy has a wife 2 kids and his a lawyer. So what i wanna know is that just him having a strong will power or can everyone do what he does and not maintain their habit. And i know its unhealthy has many health affects i just want yous to answer the question. Cheers

i just filled for divorce and i would like to know if you think the judge will put more emphasis on the fact that i am an atheist or the fact that my wife is addicted to prescription pain pills and has a history of abandoning her children?

They discourage thinking for oneself.
They discourage any skepticism or questioning of the program.
They insist that you find GOD.
They accept no questions or criticisms of the founder (who cheated on his wife his entire married life).
They refuse to update their “Big Book,” written in the 1930s, because they consider it sacred, much like the Bible.

Are these examples of a cult?

My wife takes drugs to replace the hormones her pituitary gland doesnt make. This gland is responsible for all the sex hormones. So basically she has no sex drive and when she tries to please me which is about once every 2-3 weeks she she initiates with a luke warm offer that is at best not sincere and at worst cold. We are married for two years and considering adopting a child but I am really struggling with the no sex thing. Is this normal for married couples in their thrities that are married only two years? I have a pretty healthy sex drive and although I am not considering ever cheating on her I dont see how I can last in this relationship without a healthy sex life and the feelings of love that come with it.

My wife has gained 20 pounds with each child (we have 3) and hasn’t lost any of the weight. She used to be 140 and now is over 200 pounds. On the other hand I was 240 when married and am now a healthy 185lbs.

I’ve tried to go on a diet with her (how I lost my weight) and offered to exercise with her but she insists she doesn’t have the will power I do. Or she tells me it’s just easier for men to lose weight. She will only stay on a diet for a week or less.Even worse she binges before going on a diet because she wants to get her last goodies in.

I never thought I would be so shallow, but how she looks bothers me. How can you stay with someone who refuses to change? How do you stay with someone who you aren’t attracted to anymore?

I have 3 young kids so divorce is not an option I want to consider.

Advice?

My wife is working on overcoming a sleeping pill addiction need advise. I told her that I wonted a divorce that I could no longer live with the lye and deception. She told me she would do anything to keep me. I told her I wonted her to go to a 30day rehab program she agreed. We set up a meeting with her therapist for later that day. The therapist did not think that she would qualify because she was not currently using and that her problem was not to that level. I said the I would like her to do an out patient program and make some big life changes and relay work on this addiction problem. She said she should start going to 12 steps AA meeting. So my wife stated this she has been going for two weeks 3 meeting a week I wonted her to do 90-90 but after the next therapy session with her therapist she said that in our rural are it is nearly imposable to go to that many meeting that 3 meeting a week would problem b
During this time she has been going to the same concaler, I have had regular conversation with this therapist about what has been going on. In December when she was abusing the pain killer I wonted to send her to a 30 day rehab program but she did not agree for 2 reasons because all the pills were gone, and because she didn’t feel that it was that big of a problem “just a little slip up”. In the process of this recovery my wife has made me a list of thing she would do to improve our life and get it back on track on of witch would be to finish her resume and apply for a few jobs (She is currently work as a privet preschool teacher but with no benefits so I would like her to get a public school job). Well she fished her resume and cover letter and sent it to my sister in-law to correct and it was all stolen off the net. This was the last straw for me I confronted her about it and she showed her who she had copied it from on the internet she still denned that she had copied it.

My wife want to do cleanse and she found something called the master cleanse….also called the lemonade diet. Anyone heard or tried it. You drink a drink with lemon, maple syrup, and cheyanne pepper. Supposped to clean out our body (detox) and lose weight.

He then indulges in Alcoholic Drinks

I am a Heavily pierced and a heavily tattooed person. One night at home where my wife’s friends were hanging out drinking, one of her friends asked me if I have any more piercings, I replied “yup down here.” She then asked permission from my wife if she could see it. Everyone was a little bit intoxicated and my wife replied it was up to me. Of course feeling a bit naughty and exhibitionistic that night, I decided to whip it out for a few seconds to satisfy the women’s curiousity. Of course everyone was shocked, giggling and curious, I was the talk of the night and so was my wife and they were asking her questions like how it feels during sex and things of that nature. I went to bed and let them be with their girls night out soire. My question is, this particular single friend of hers, that everytime she is intoxicated after this incident would ask me if she could take a “quick peek” at the said piercing. At first I was like “oh what the heck…” Now its like….okay get over it…….