September 4th, 2010 | 
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We have (had?) a perfect marriage. There are normal stress issues (life, house, money), but not major & before some get off base, in the 6+ years I never even thought about cheating myself much less done it. An old friend of hers recently came back into her life w/ text messages and long phone calls. I came home from a 5 day trip out of town, there were flowers on the table,(from a customer). She went out with some friends from work the next night till 3am (never does that). He came over that Sunday while I was home and again Mon. while I was at work. Mon., I find a female contraceptive device in the trash, (i was looking for a receipt), she says it was for me when I came home from my trip and she was too intoxicated on Sat to use it so she threw it away. I LOVE her and BELIEVE her. She was doing something nice for me and I screwed it all up. I dont think she will leave me or take our daughter, but but 24 hours, 3 dozen roses, and 100 sorry’s isnt mending it. So, now what?
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Tags: affair, asked, circumstantial, evidence, having, reasonable, wife, wrong
I’m sorry but it all sounds fishy to me.
Well, that’s overkill. It was actually a simple mistake of an imaginitive mind. (All of the info was there to come to that conclusion, with her unusual change in patterns…why not think that was the case?) One sincere apology should have taken care of it. It’s the overkill that’s sending her the message that you STRONGLY believed her infidelity. Let it sit for awhile, and quite being so apologetic.
Sit back and wait, if she isn’t going to accept your apology, she just isn’t. The ball is in her court now.
I guess your right your an idiot. How are you going to believe she not cheating on your when all the signs are in front of you. Why would a guy go visit her at her house, if not so he can check out the house so he will know where to go in case your home early. Why will she take your daughter when you can prove she’s an unfit mother haveing other men in your house even when your not home. You are an idiot. I bet she hasn’t forgave you yet has she? Well she won’t knowing she has you wrapped on her little finger and I bet he’s still coming over to your house and she’s staying out late. Well guess to each his own because your eyes are shut.
I think she is playing you!! She is making you work to hard for something that just doesnt sound right. Keep your eyes open and be careful
I think you need to sit back, keep your eye on her, and wait her out.
I think she may have been up to something and since you accused her she is now playing the victim act, and quite well apparently.
If she is true to your marriage, the real truth will come out in the end, but in the meantime you need to gather more evidence.
She’s having an affair. WAKE UP..
are you serious? how do you think she would be acting if you had a person come back in your life, you stayed out until 3am, and she found a condom in the trash? she is cheating on you. plain and simple. there is no reason for an “old friend” to come back into her life now that she is married.
I think she’s stepping out on you. If I were you I would just relax and keep a closer eye on her. Plus I would NOT accuse her again until I had PROOF undeniable PROOF