August 15th, 2010 | 
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Ok, I posted about this a couple days ago but I am going to state all the truth from what I know..My wife and I were suppose to go to a tavern halloween party just a couple blocks from our home,I got sic the nite before and did not attend,she asked me if she could go with her brother who is staying with us for now,I told her go have fun and be careful,all was good until her son came over to watch tv with me that nite and told me he seen a biker halloween guest and a other women dressed up like a pirate (thats what she was)in the parking lot of the tavern kissing,I did not think to much about it at first but later I did, they both came home together around closing time they were there roughly 5 hrs.she was not heavily intoxicated and seemed happy.she did win best costume.I was upset that she did not bring her cellphone with her so if anything went wrong I could pick them up etc. We did talk about the couple in the parking lot me and her son,she said she did not go outside and said WHAT! you dont trust me! to be expected I know,but she did not talk about the party much at all either the nite she came home,or the next day. I feel there is things not mentioned that occurred by her or her brother. we have been married 7 yrs, I know i got insecurity issues but something here dont feel 100% ok. I guess will see how the next few days go.
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Yeah, just wait on it a bit.
Well, you weren’t there and you can’t go back in time and look at that specific night.
However, going forward, if something like this happens again, and it will if she’s having an affair, you’ll know that you don’t have a marriage. Good luck.
Just sit back and wait if anything did happen you will hear about it eventually.
What was her son doing at the Tavern parking lot – I thought he was watching TV with you? Perhaps he (the son) is playing a mean joke on you. Your wife may have stopped talking about it when you started accusing her. If I were you, I would question the son more closely. For example; how was your wife wearing her hair? The color(s) of her costume, etc.
from where i see, you guys are not having no communication habits.
She should tell you exactly what has happend in that party and what time she showed up.
Your not alone in this at where I work its the most essential thing to communicate or things will be disoriented. Get her in the habbit of communicating. She cheated or not, you did not see that so it may bother you, but if she is in the hidings, you’ll soon find out believe you me. You don’t need to be worried.
She is your wife and be man enough to say no to her sometimes when she goes parties.
I asked my girl to delete her pictures from her Facebook, she was acting weird, but later she did. Sometimes, you should have that impact. Otherwise, things can get out of hand. I’m not saying, you control someone at all, but if someone share your life hello dude.
Principles in actions.
I guess don’t tell her that she can go to a party without you next time.
your wife has a very lousy kid. i wonder who is to blame.
Don’t you think her son would know his mom. Even all dressed up and kissing a guy. Hell I know I would know my mom if I seen her doing that, in the dark or not. Hell it could be a different guy and girl that just happens to be in the same outfit as the both of them. You really don’t know. If she has been honest with you for the past 7 years then why should you not trust her now. She might not really be talking about it cuz it might have really sucked. Who knows, do what your heart tells you to do. That’s all you really can do.
too much suspicion will ruin u
unless u have first hand information, just forget it, do not go on heresay, until u have positively seen and confirmed, let go. relax, u will ruin your and her life, forever.
In such matters, do not listen to the boy or any one else, everyone has vested interest, and r only giving u some tips, which u r pointing at your wife. Even this attitude is bad and could give bad result.