I am ready to live I have a wife and two girls and I am going to detox off of percoset 30 ..I have been snorting 4 a day I have gone to get help with a counselor for the mental part ,but will be detoxing at home…please help with any important info .my wife will be helping me …and please leave the un-needed opinions to yourself this is hard enough as it is…thank you
Be tough. Do it for yourself and your family. I’m sure your son would not want you living your life the way you are. Know that things will get better. You will be able to think more clearly and realize how much your family needs you and loves you. Drugs may seem like I temporary fix (I know) but once you’re past it, especially, you will be able to see that they really only compound the problem. I know I haven’t really answered your question as to what, specifically, you should do. I have been there though and please know that it gets better and while it may be rough going for a while, it will be worth it.
well i am proud of you for wanting to live life again after a horrific loss… addiction isnt easy to handle…keep your wife and daughters close…especially when urge to use arises…you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers
I’m not sure I would attempt that alone if I were you. You need to get some expert help.
getting over snorting is pretty hard .. tell me about it .. some of my friends are still battling it daily .. but it is not something a father should be doing.. your girls need you to look up to ..and to teach them things to do .. and to be their father.. parents arent even supposed to encourage pot or drinkin .. it seems like you are the immature one doing these bad drugs .. i know you have gone through terrible moarnin and probably still battle that everyday .. i am not trying to put you down ,.. but just tell you somehow and make you realize.. that you can get better and why you should! .. you are lucky to have a wife who loves you and is stickin with you .. your family can still work out to be a happy family with two lil girls and you can watch them grow.. your family can still turn out to be happy.. and better then those even who have never had snorting.. or drug abuse problems.. good luck ! .. try to really do this for yourself..and the ones you love.. its either.. drugs and depression, or breakin your addictions and moving on for a whole life full of things.. <3
Sorry for your loss.
It doesn’t seem to be natural for parents to deal with the death of a child.
At this point in time, please give some thought to how tough it is for your family as well.
Pray for strength….you will get through this.
I am a recovering addict with 4 kids it is a tough row to ho but I did it with no outside help those little faces in the morning will do wonders I am so sorry for the loss of your son I woulldnt know any other way to handle it either You are very lucky to have the support of your wife All I can say is it will be a tough road the best personal experience advice I can give you is………… when you don’t think you can make it one more day——–make it one more day best of luck my friend
Sorry to hear about the lose of your son. That is a terrible experience to live through. I am glad to hear that you are seeking help from a counselor. The counselor should be able to give you some helpful tips. My recommendations would be for your wife to have lots of patience, make sure there are no drugs available, keep you active (mind and body). Seek help from family and friends when the going gets tuff (it will be tuff at times). Don’t be ashamed to seek medical help for your addiction if it is needed. Keep a positive attitude, anything can be achieved if you put your heart and soul into it. Good luck. I hope you are successful.